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Ive never loved anyone who hasnt loved me but my ex boyfriend fell in love with me and i didnt him. We where together 18 months and i flipalintly ended it on an arguement. It was only after we split up i found out how much he did lovd me. He never got over it and still loved me till he died. Quite sad |
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"Ive never loved anyone who hasnt loved me but my ex boyfriend fell in love with me and i didnt him. We where together 18 months and i flipalintly ended it on an arguement. It was only after we split up i found out how much he did lovd me. He never got over it and still loved me till he died. Quite sad"
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"Ive never loved anyone who hasnt loved me but my ex boyfriend fell in love with me and i didnt him. We where together 18 months and i flipalintly ended it on an arguement. It was only after we split up i found out how much he did lovd me. He never got over it and still loved me till he died. Quite sad
Do you think it would've made a difference if you'd known at the time? "
I wish id never gone out with him. I had no idea really how he felt i saw the relationship completly different to him. I should of ended it soon as he told me he loved me so he didnt fall any deeper. |
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Both, I fell for someone who wasn't interested, but we became friends she knew how I felt about her and she took advantage. I haven't spoken to her in a while now, I don't hate her but at times I wish I had never met her. As for the other way around I had a FB who fell for me. I just wasn't interested in her in that way. In all fairness I told her from the beginning that it wasn't going anywhere. She has a nice boyfriend now and we stay in touch but don't fuck anymore (obviously). |
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Someone fell for me a bit.. I freaked out.. then realised I loved her too. It was too late apparently.. which really fucked with my tiny mind. I still miss her now. |
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I have... I was absolutely crazy about him.. In fact I fell in love with him.. He was always honest about not wanting more.. I should have stopped seeing him but we used to have such a great time when out and the sex was amazing.. I guess I just used to hope things would change... He'd tell me how amazing I was and that if things were different... Which was probably BS..anyway I stopped seeing him in the end.. Lesson learned.  |
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I've had it happen to me.
Telling someone you'll never love them is one of the hardest things to do.
One was my eldest sons dad, and still one of my best friends 26yrs later.
The other, it didn't end well |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
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I've only ever had someone love me once I think. I ended our relationship though as we weren't right for each other and not fair on him. Most of the time I'm the one getting heartbroken unfortunately... |
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"I have... I was absolutely crazy about him.. In fact I fell in love with him.. He was always honest about not wanting more.. I should have stopped seeing him but we used to have such a great time when out and the sex was amazing.. I guess I just used to hope things would change... He'd tell me how amazing I was and that if things were different... Which was probably BS..anyway I stopped seeing him in the end.. Lesson learned. "
I could have written this!
We were inseparable for 9 months, I worshipped him. My heart was broken.
I look at him now and don’t know what I was thinking, he’s a minger! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This threads very sad man
Life isn't all sweetness and light bus man! well when i grow up im gonna be king and make you all happy again now bow and love your king  "
You're not king yet! I ain't bowing to you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This threads very sad man
Life isn't all sweetness and light bus man! well when i grow up im gonna be king and make you all happy again now bow and love your king
You're not king yet! I ain't bowing to you! "
grrrrr |
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"I have... I was absolutely crazy about him.. In fact I fell in love with him.. He was always honest about not wanting more.. I should have stopped seeing him but we used to have such a great time when out and the sex was amazing.. I guess I just used to hope things would change... He'd tell me how amazing I was and that if things were different... Which was probably BS..anyway I stopped seeing him in the end.. Lesson learned.
I could have written this!
We were inseparable for 9 months, I worshipped him. My heart was broken.
I look at him now and don’t know what I was thinking, he’s a minger! "
Hehehe aww that made me smile.. Sadly I still think he's gorgeous.. He was a Fwb... So that's not an area I would go into unless I absolutely did not have "those" type feelings for the other person.. Glad you got over him xx |
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I think being in love can be confused for other things sometimes. Does love have to build between two people mutually. One sided love couldn't be love could it? I dont know. (I do love this cheese on toast Im eating, but it is definitely a one sided love)
Anyway it's a shit state of affairs either way, Ive had both, erring more to be the one falling. Seems I dont learn either as I keep doing it. The sweet blessed pain of what the heart wants.  |
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"I think being in love can be confused for other things sometimes. Does love have to build between two people mutually. One sided love couldn't be love could it? I dont know. (I do love this cheese on toast Im eating, but it is definitely a one sided love)
Anyway it's a shit state of affairs either way, Ive had both, erring more to be the one falling. Seems I dont learn either as I keep doing it. The sweet blessed pain of what the heart wants. "
You talk pretty. |
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Yes. The first moment I saw her I was completely lost. That had never happened before either.
She didnt feel the same. Not sure she ever felt anything, really.
Still love her, maybe always will....
Can't change the past though, and thinking about what might have been, its pointless, even though I still do....
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"Yes. The first moment I saw her I was completely lost. That had never happened before either.
She didnt feel the same. Not sure she ever felt anything, really.
Still love her, maybe always will....
Can't change the past though, and thinking about what might have been, its pointless, even though I still do....
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How long ago ? |
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"Yes. The first moment I saw her I was completely lost. That had never happened before either.
She didnt feel the same. Not sure she ever felt anything, really.
Still love her, maybe always will....
Can't change the past though, and thinking about what might have been, its pointless, even though I still do....
How long ago ?"
Almost 2 years. Still think of her every day..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes. The first moment I saw her I was completely lost. That had never happened before either.
She didnt feel the same. Not sure she ever felt anything, really.
Still love her, maybe always will....
Can't change the past though, and thinking about what might have been, its pointless, even though I still do....
How long ago ?
Almost 2 years. Still think of her every day....."
Oh, still close. Your chest aches ? |
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"I think being in love can be confused for other things sometimes. Does love have to build between two people mutually. One sided love couldn't be love could it? I dont know. (I do love this cheese on toast Im eating, but it is definitely a one sided love)
Anyway it's a shit state of affairs either way, Ive had both, erring more to be the one falling. Seems I dont learn either as I keep doing it. The sweet blessed pain of what the heart wants.
You talk pretty."
Code word for crap |
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"The most cowardly thing someone can do is awaken the love of another without the intention or ability to love them back.
cruel too"
Yes it absolutely is |
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"The most cowardly thing someone can do is awaken the love of another without the intention or ability to love them back.
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but how do you know they are going to fall in love with you. How can you stop it happening? |
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"The most cowardly thing someone can do is awaken the love of another without the intention or ability to love them back.
cruel too
Yes it absolutely is "
I double this... I should have stopped it but some of the things he would say to me... Anyone would have thought there was hope...doesnt help with my fab cynasism these days... |
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"The most cowardly thing someone can do is awaken the love of another without the intention or ability to love them back.
but how do you know they are going to fall in love with you. How can you stop it happening?"
You don't but when you actively try to get them to it is wrong |
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"The most cowardly thing someone can do is awaken the love of another without the intention or ability to love them back.
but how do you know they are going to fall in love with you. How can you stop it happening?
You don't but when you actively try to get them to it is wrong "
oh yes i agree. |
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"I think being in love can be confused for other things sometimes. Does love have to build between two people mutually. One sided love couldn't be love could it? I dont know. (I do love this cheese on toast Im eating, but it is definitely a one sided love)
Anyway it's a shit state of affairs either way, Ive had both, erring more to be the one falling. Seems I dont learn either as I keep doing it. The sweet blessed pain of what the heart wants.
You talk pretty.
Code word for crap "
No.. that would be me. |
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"The most cowardly thing someone can do is awaken the love of another without the intention or ability to love them back.
but how do you know they are going to fall in love with you. How can you stop it happening?
You don't but when you actively try to get them to it is wrong "
ego sickness that is |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have never loved someone who hasn’t loved me back.
But I’m friends with someone who has had feelings for me since I was 14. At school he was a fuck around, he slept with loads of girls (he’s older than me by 3 years) and when he first told me he liked me I thought he was just trying it on. He was so popular and I wasn’t at all.
Nope, turns out it was genuine feelings. Which he still has now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The most cowardly thing someone can do is awaken the love of another without the intention or ability to love them back.
cruel too
Yes it absolutely is
I double this... I should have stopped it but some of the things he would say to me... Anyone would have thought there was hope...doesnt help with my fab cynasism these days... "
I have definitely been there |
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By *ocbigMan
over a year ago
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"I think being in love can be confused for other things sometimes. Does love have to build between two people mutually. One sided love couldn't be love could it? I dont know. (I do love this cheese on toast Im eating, but it is definitely a one sided love)
Anyway it's a shit state of affairs either way, Ive had both, erring more to be the one falling. Seems I dont learn either as I keep doing it. The sweet blessed pain of what the heart wants. "
are we still talking about cheese on toast...? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've been on both sides in the past.
I was besotted with a guy I was good friends with in sixth form, I had literally been pining over him for almost 2 years! We slept together one night after a few beers and I got all excited, only for him to tell me the following week that he'd met the girl of his dreams (like a knife to the chest that was!). We stayed friends for a while but eventually grew apart after he got married and I moved in with my ex, still occasionally message on bookface and still think he's a cool guy.
There was an ex who loved me but I just didn't feel the same. I've always felt guilty about that one, he never quite moved on and unfortunately turned into a bit of a stalker and I had to cut all ties. I'll never forget the look in his eyes when I had to tell him I just didn't love him 
Hopefully, now I've found someone mental enough to put up with me and love me back in won't have to experience either again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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unrequited love is really an unrequited longing. when you think you found your soulmate that is stood 6 feet away but they may as well be the other side of the planet ..it's a worse feeling than continuous toothache |
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