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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lot of people including ex bosses told me I was abrupt. I just say things as they are. Many people don't like to hear the truth. But that's not my problem. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Behind your keyboard you're anonymous and safe and can say your bit then delete, block or whatever without being challenged.
In the street I think lots of people would not behave the same |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Behind your keyboard you're anonymous and safe and can say your bit then delete, block or whatever without being challenged.
In the street I think lots of people would not behave the same"
For some maybe - but I stand by what I said up there - I wouldn't say anything here I wouldn't be prepared to say to someone's face personally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would never deliberately offend anyone online or off. I'm very opinionated and not afraid to call out bad behaviour. This gets me into trouble from to time but I probably hold back more on line than in do in everyday life. |
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I'm generally responsible and sympathetic to other peoples feelings etc and that's online and in person. I can see how it may also be different if someone is just amongst an anonymous global internet forum, where people don't know each other socially. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In this time of social media I wonder how many people here would be as abrupt or offensive face to face...
This thread mat get controversial "
Brave enough to meet total strangers to fuck me. Or is that stupid?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would never deliberately offend anyone online or off. I'm very opinionated and not afraid to call out bad behaviour. This gets me into trouble from to time but I probably hold back more on line than in do in everyday life. "
Same. If I see someone being bullied or if someone is being a dick for no apparent reason, I will call them out on it. But I've often found it just brings unwanted trouble, so I tend to keep quiet these days because I really can't be doing with the aggro. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would never deliberately offend anyone online or off. I'm very opinionated and not afraid to call out bad behaviour. This gets me into trouble from to time but I probably hold back more on line than in do in everyday life.
Same. If I see someone being bullied or if someone is being a dick for no apparent reason, I will call them out on it. But I've often found it just brings unwanted trouble, so I tend to keep quiet these days because I really can't be doing with the aggro."
Yes and also I think its easier to misunderstand or misinterpret someone's comments or intenten on the internet. I call out bad attitudes or if I see something distasteful but iv got it wrong a couple times and I will and have apologise when that happens. Decency cost nothing online or off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The problem with online stuff is . like the other day I made a joke an earthquake 99% of the people thought it was funny. One person didn't saying that why would I joke about something where people could have died. And that I would not make jokes if it had been me etc. Then when I defended myself.
By saying that I had been in an earthquake year's ago. He thought it was funny to make jokes about my family members killing each other etc. And it was them having sex that started the earthquake.
And he could not see how dum and sick he sounded.
I just moved away from the forum chat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If i have something I want to say, I say it, online or in person.
I try not to be negative and never aggressive, but if i disagree with something or some one needs to be told they're being a cock womble, I will pipe up no problem! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bravery has nothing to do with it..We all have opinions..but diplomacy and discretion is the key..If we all spoke our minds all the time in public there would be street battles and mayhem unless of course you are promoting that...I like to wrap my 'insults ' in humour to make my point. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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What you see is what you get with me. I’m no different in person. I am respectful, pleasant and polite. I can get a point across without being rude, personal or nasty. Some are able to be that way online and in person, some are not.
I often feel that folk are almost boastful when they claim ‘I don’t care, I will tell people what I think’. |
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I don't filter what I say it just come right out, it can sometimes come across as bitchy or sarcastic but hey ho that's text messages for you....people who know me know I don't have time for bull shit, and I don't sugar coat it either
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've come across some pretty nasty people in real life too who will make a fight and look for trouble over nothing. The difference is it's easier to avoid them in real life than on a forum. |
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
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What I say I mean it doesn’t matter what world I live in lol.
But I am not a particularly aggressive or nasty person as I don’t believe in that behaviour so to be offended by myself is almost impossible. |
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