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2nd time on fab, but still very new. I'm on here as a couple as my man and I of course want a threesome. Which I feel could be impossible!
Everyone we talk to is either wanting cock first and I'll do extra or they want there oh from nowhere to jump in and fuck me. Frustrating!!!
This isn't the average man wants 3some girl will enjoy. I seriously want girl on girl and then my man to join but I'm the main dish. And I dont actually think there is any,does anyone have tips, help, critic anything u can thing of or maybe they take one look at face pics and do a runner which for my ego is not making the best impression lol..come on u beautiful lot let's hear the wisdom  |
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"2nd time on fab, but still very new. I'm on here as a couple as my man and I of course want a threesome. Which I feel could be impossible!
Everyone we talk to is either wanting cock first and I'll do extra or they want there oh from nowhere to jump in and fuck me. Frustrating!!!
This isn't the average man wants 3some girl will enjoy. I seriously want girl on girl and then my man to join but I'm the main dish. And I dont actually think there is any,does anyone have tips, help, critic anything u can thing of or maybe they take one look at face pics and do a runner which for my ego is not making the best impression lol..come on u beautiful lot let's hear the wisdom "
Have you tried going to a club? Other than that, be yourself and be patient
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"Can we comment on your profile?"
I was just about to ask the same.
Your forum post is kinda along the same lines though, you seem very focused on what you want and how you want things to be which is fair enough but the ladies also have their own minds and desires and part of the fun is finding a compromise.
The way things come across is all about you and the woman is more of a toy than an equal partner. |
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"Can we comment on your profile?
I was just about to ask the same.
Your forum post is kinda along the same lines though, you seem very focused on what you want and how you want things to be which is fair enough but the ladies also have their own minds and desires and part of the fun is finding a compromise.
The way things come across is all about you and the woman is more of a toy than an equal partner. "
Thank you
Sometimes not easy finding the right words .
Think the club idea is gaining ground
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"Can we comment on your profile?
Course you can comment x"
The only thing that stands out to me is that it seems Mrs started writing the profile and Mr finished it off which is ok but in my opinion this could be specified to avoid any confusion
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"I see what you mean
Rewrite time me thinks
Thank you again
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Good call. The part about the mr only being able to touch, when Mrs allows it, was a huge no no. It read like the single female was just a commodity with no say when i read it. Remember to make sure that the fem understands she is valued and not just a plaything for you and the Mr... when he's given permission to join in. Some will enjoy spending time with you first, but i wouldnt meet someone who saw themselves as being the main dish. Because im there for myself too. Good luck in your search OP  |
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"Can we comment on your profile?
Course you can comment x
The only thing that stands out to me is that it seems Mrs started writing the profile and Mr finished it off which is ok but in my opinion this could be specified to avoid any confusion
D."
It was actually other way round .he started a d I finished it whoops .so can't blame him this time |
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"I see what you mean
Rewrite time me thinks
Thank you again
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Good call. The part about the mr only being able to touch, when Mrs allows it, was a huge no no. It read like the single female was just a commodity with no say when i read it. Remember to make sure that the fem understands she is valued and not just a plaything for you and the Mr... when he's given permission to join in. Some will enjoy spending time with you first, but i wouldnt meet someone who saw themselves as being the main dish. Because im there for myself too. Good luck in your search OP "
Thank you
All the comments are helping .we didn't realize it came across that way .but it does .alot  |
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Also, where couples are concerned, it seems you are suggesting the male of the couple can only play with his partner and watch while your Mr can touch both?
I’m not saying there isn’t people out there who are game for that but it seems a bit one sided
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"Also, where couples are concerned, it seems you are suggesting the male of the couple can only play with his partner and watch while your Mr can touch both?
I’m not saying there isn’t people out there who are game for that but it seems a bit one sided
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It's took these comments for us to realise how wrong it reads
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Sorry about the wording I didn’t mean main dish as in just me I didn’t know how to put it. I just want ppl to know it’s not just a man wanting it all.
Club does sound the way to go
I’m not the bitch I sound on profile
Thank you for feedback and tips it’s appreciated xxxx
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"Sorry about the wording I didn’t mean main dish as in just me I didn’t know how to put it. I just want ppl to know it’s not just a man wanting it all.
Club does sound the way to go
I’m not the bitch I sound on profile
Thank you for feedback and tips it’s appreciated xxxx
Linz"
You don't sound like a bitch.
Other people already pointed out the things that I would have said and you've taken them out anyway.
The disclaimer at the bottom is worthless, up to you if you keep it.
The bit where you said you decide if he can touch- why is it up to you? Just wondering why you used that wording. |
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"Sorry about the wording I didn’t mean main dish as in just me I didn’t know how to put it. I just want ppl to know it’s not just a man wanting it all.
Club does sound the way to go
I’m not the bitch I sound on profile
Thank you for feedback and tips it’s appreciated xxxx
Linz
You don't sound like a bitch.
Other people already pointed out the things that I would have said and you've taken them out anyway.
The disclaimer at the bottom is worthless, up to you if you keep it.
The bit where you said you decide if he can touch- why is it up to you? Just wondering why you used that wording. "
Some ppl we have talked to seem to think it’s all him that wants it or they think he’s up for one on one. I just wanted people to know it’s us and we both want not one more than other. My wording has been frekin awful  |
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Most cpls want a mff so you are competing with lots . If your main driver is ff fun suggest like others have said clubs.
We have had a fair few mff sessions in clubs
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"If I had to wait for the woman to give the go ahead for the man to join in I wouldn't bother.
I like my 3 somes to be equal time spent on every one.
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When I read it now I realise how it sounded but not what I meant.
I want it to be equal. I was over thinking it I think |
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"Most cpls want a mff so you are competing with lots . If your main driver is ff fun suggest like others have said clubs.
We have had a fair few mff sessions in clubs
Hope this helps"
Thank you, yes it does it seems to be he way forward. Think it's something we are gonna try x |
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"If I had to wait for the woman to give the go ahead for the man to join in I wouldn't bother.
I like my 3 somes to be equal time spent on every one.
When I read it now I realise how it sounded but not what I meant.
I want it to be equal. I was over thinking it I think"
Hope you're not beating yourself up about over thinking. You both need to be happy. If you're unsure about anything it's best to wait until you're happier. Can't turn back time once it's done.
Profile looks friendly. |
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"If I had to wait for the woman to give the go ahead for the man to join in I wouldn't bother.
I like my 3 somes to be equal time spent on every one.
When I read it now I realise how it sounded but not what I meant.
I want it to be equal. I was over thinking it I think
Hope you're not beating yourself up about over thinking. You both need to be happy. If you're unsure about anything it's best to wait until you're happier. Can't turn back time once it's done.
Profile looks friendly. "
Thank you.
I was earlier but ok now think the profile is more us now friendly.
We waited a while before making a profile until it felt right. 100% sure
Thank you for the advice x |
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"If I had to wait for the woman to give the go ahead for the man to join in I wouldn't bother.
I like my 3 somes to be equal time spent on every one.
When I read it now I realise how it sounded but not what I meant.
I want it to be equal. I was over thinking it I think
Hope you're not beating yourself up about over thinking. You both need to be happy. If you're unsure about anything it's best to wait until you're happier. Can't turn back time once it's done.
Profile looks friendly.
Thank you.
I was earlier but ok now think the profile is more us now friendly.
We waited a while before making a profile until it felt right. 100% sure
Thank you for the advice x"
It does read so much better now
And as already said, don’t beat yourself up over it
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So much better OP! I'm so glad you took you took the criticism as constructive and not a as personal attack, as it was not meant that way at all. It reads so much better now and hopefully you will have a lot of fun, going forward |
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"So much better OP! I'm so glad you took you took the criticism as constructive and not a as personal attack, as it was not meant that way at all. It reads so much better now and hopefully you will have a lot of fun, going forward "
Thank you everyone was really helpful.
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indeed!
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