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What do you need to do to stand out?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey guys
I’ve just recently rewrote my profile and added some new photos to hopefully get better chances to grab people’s attention, But to be honest I think I ruin my chances before I even start.. I’m just so rubbish at starting a conversation for some reason and I’m just not getting any luck 
What I’m trying to ask is, is my profile okay? Do I need to change anything? And what kind of message would you like to receive first?
Thanks in advance 
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"Hey guys
I’ve just recently rewrote my profile and added some new photos to hopefully get better chances to grab people’s attention, But to be honest I think I ruin my chances before I even start.. I’m just so rubbish at starting a conversation for some reason and I’m just not getting any luck
What I’m trying to ask is, is my profile okay? Do I need to change anything? And what kind of message would you like to receive first?
Thanks in advance
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Profile looks good - when messaging someone just take the time to read thier profile, chances are that there will be something in there to relate back to them
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I dont have many words of wisdom left. But there is a really great link for new guys which is really informative clever and I found funny. Hopefully a fellow forumite will post it for you. Good luck. |
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I think your profile is really good, we’d meet you! As someone above said, really study what people say in their profiles and make reference to it in your messages. Also, one line messages won’t pique people’s interest, make it personalised and quirky. All the best. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Hey guys
I’ve just recently rewrote my profile and added some new photos to hopefully get better chances to grab people’s attention, But to be honest I think I ruin my chances before I even start.. I’m just so rubbish at starting a conversation for some reason and I’m just not getting any luck
What I’m trying to ask is, is my profile okay? Do I need to change anything? And what kind of message would you like to receive first?
Thanks in advance
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I think it's fine, your photos are nice, you look friendly and you're rather hot!
I'd have given you a wink if you were closer  |
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"Hey guys
I’ve just recently rewrote my profile and added some new photos to hopefully get better chances to grab people’s attention, But to be honest I think I ruin my chances before I even start.. I’m just so rubbish at starting a conversation for some reason and I’m just not getting any luck
What I’m trying to ask is, is my profile okay? Do I need to change anything? And what kind of message would you like to receive first?
Thanks in advance
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Get on the forum's and act like a tw#t that usually works....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Be you. Express YOURSELF. Dont be what you think people want you to be. Madonna. New Order more like. Express yourself. It's one on one. 
Primadonna who?"
Me! I'd not call someone else that  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks everyone it’s very much appreciated
I really don’t no why I’ve never had much luck on here, I really think it must be my first messages, I’ll just keep trying harder and see where it takes me... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well if you’re struggling I really don’t know what people are looking for on here! Unless your profile text was really crap before. "
I don’t think it was that bad to be fair.. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Be you. Express YOURSELF. Dont be what you think people want you to be. Madonna. New Order more like. Express yourself. It's one on one.
Primadonna who?
Me! I'd not call someone else that "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you could have the best well written profile ever, written by the worlds best wordsmith but if your first message doesn’t grab me then you will have lost me, it’s all about the first message for me.
When doing so make sure you have read the profile (for me as I have some funny bits and what not) I like it when someone mentions something that made them laugh in my profile text etc, I’m not one of these ‘please say the word bread in your message’ but showing me that your message is individual to me goes a very long way.
Hope this helps x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well if you’re struggling I really don’t know what people are looking for on here! Unless your profile text was really crap before.
I don’t think it was that bad to be fair.."
You should definitely get involved in the forums though. People can get to know you better that way. I’ve met a few people socially and only one wasn’t from the forums. Good luck  |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Well if you’re struggling I really don’t know what people are looking for on here! Unless your profile text was really crap before.
I don’t think it was that bad to be fair.."
Its beautiful x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're skewed on here by having so many supposedly 'suitable' people lined up before us that all look like we should get on. Consider all the people we mix and meet every day, not all of them would we want to spend time with. Ìt's just a matter of patience for the right ones to come along I guess.
Profile and pictures look fine to me. Messages it's impossible to say what might catch my eye in one. Sometimes they just do, it would never be from a 'Hi how are you' one though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think you could have the best well written profile ever, written by the worlds best wordsmith but if your first message doesn’t grab me then you will have lost me, it’s all about the first message for me.
When doing so make sure you have read the profile (for me as I have some funny bits and what not) I like it when someone mentions something that made them laugh in my profile text etc, I’m not one of these ‘please say the word bread in your message’ but showing me that your message is individual to me goes a very long way.
Hope this helps x"
This helps a lot thank you very much..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We're skewed on here by having so many supposedly 'suitable' people lined up before us that all look like we should get on. Consider all the people we mix and meet every day, not all of them would we want to spend time with. Ìt's just a matter of patience for the right ones to come along I guess.
Profile and pictures look fine to me. Messages it's impossible to say what might catch my eye in one. Sometimes they just do, it would never be from a 'Hi how are you' one though. "
So what was your last message to you that you replied back to? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well if you’re struggling I really don’t know what people are looking for on here! Unless your profile text was really crap before.
I don’t think it was that bad to be fair..
You should definitely get involved in the forums though. People can get to know you better that way. I’ve met a few people socially and only one wasn’t from the forums. Good luck "
Thanks babe, I’ll be hanging around the forums abit more then if that’s what helps,, hopefully find someone as nice as you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Change the way you think about yourself OP but just to please you not others.
Don't try to stand out just stand content in your own skin and ignore the crowd. They are often just background noise.
Its not a circus don't put on a performance, but remember that others often do....
And dont stress about what you cant change...
And OP dont forget to enjoy it's meant to be fun....
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well if you’re struggling I really don’t know what people are looking for on here! Unless your profile text was really crap before.
I don’t think it was that bad to be fair..
You should definitely get involved in the forums though. People can get to know you better that way. I’ve met a few people socially and only one wasn’t from the forums. Good luck
Thanks babe, I’ll be hanging around the forums abit more then if that’s what helps,, hopefully find someone as nice as you x"
Well that’s definitely not going to happen! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Change the way you think about yourself OP but just to please you not others.
Don't try to stand out just stand content in your own skin and ignore the crowd. They are often just background noise.
Its not a circus don't put on a performance, but remember that others often do....
And dont stress about what you cant change...
And OP dont forget to enjoy it's meant to be fun....
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Thanks mate, made me feel nice that, think I need abit of your wisdom |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well if you’re struggling I really don’t know what people are looking for on here! Unless your profile text was really crap before.
I don’t think it was that bad to be fair..
You should definitely get involved in the forums though. People can get to know you better that way. I’ve met a few people socially and only one wasn’t from the forums. Good luck
Thanks babe, I’ll be hanging around the forums abit more then if that’s what helps,, hopefully find someone as nice as you x
Well that’s definitely not going to happen! "
Haha well maybe it will have to be you then |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We're skewed on here by having so many supposedly 'suitable' people lined up before us that all look like we should get on. Consider all the people we mix and meet every day, not all of them would we want to spend time with. Ìt's just a matter of patience for the right ones to come along I guess.
Profile and pictures look fine to me. Messages it's impossible to say what might catch my eye in one. Sometimes they just do, it would never be from a 'Hi how are you' one though.
So what was your last message to you that you replied back to? "
It would have been forum related I reckon, so do more foruming |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We're skewed on here by having so many supposedly 'suitable' people lined up before us that all look like we should get on. Consider all the people we mix and meet every day, not all of them would we want to spend time with. Ìt's just a matter of patience for the right ones to come along I guess.
Profile and pictures look fine to me. Messages it's impossible to say what might catch my eye in one. Sometimes they just do, it would never be from a 'Hi how are you' one though.
So what was your last message to you that you replied back to?
It would have been forum related I reckon, so do more foruming "
I sure will.
Thanks babe |
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"Hey guys
I’ve just recently rewrote my profile and added some new photos to hopefully get better chances to grab people’s attention, But to be honest I think I ruin my chances before I even start.. I’m just so rubbish at starting a conversation for some reason and I’m just not getting any luck
What I’m trying to ask is, is my profile okay? Do I need to change anything? And what kind of message would you like to receive first?
Thanks in advance
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It's a decent profile, avoids many of the usually mistakes guy's make, you should do ok.
Our standard advice for guy's is...get yourself along to organised socials and clubs, do some networking, make friends and don't be too pushy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's a good profile - I just Fabbed your pic in the sea
Stay on the forums and talk bollocks with us and I'm sure you'll get plenty of opportunities. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well if you’re struggling I really don’t know what people are looking for on here! Unless your profile text was really crap before.
I don’t think it was that bad to be fair..
You should definitely get involved in the forums though. People can get to know you better that way. I’ve met a few people socially and only one wasn’t from the forums. Good luck
Thanks babe, I’ll be hanging around the forums abit more then if that’s what helps,, hopefully find someone as nice as you x
Well that’s definitely not going to happen!
Haha well maybe it will have to be you then"
If only you were 20 years older and 200 miles nearer! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well if you’re struggling I really don’t know what people are looking for on here! Unless your profile text was really crap before.
I don’t think it was that bad to be fair..
You should definitely get involved in the forums though. People can get to know you better that way. I’ve met a few people socially and only one wasn’t from the forums. Good luck
Thanks babe, I’ll be hanging around the forums abit more then if that’s what helps,, hopefully find someone as nice as you x
Well that’s definitely not going to happen!
Haha well maybe it will have to be you then
If only you were 20 years older and 200 miles nearer! "
Aw what a shame toy boy not your thing I’m guessing! But I do travel a lot I could be closer than you think aswell, one of my kids live in kingsbridge Devon x |
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"what kind of message would you like to receive first?"
Hellop OP.
There is no magic formula for what to put in a message. Your profile says you like to make people laugh, so put some personality into your messages.
Your profile itself looks good, but you've been here over a year and have no verifications which will go against you with many people. You need to get your self on cam to get verified, or even better get to a social and meet people. There is one in two weeks that you can sign up for. You don't need to go searching, I've done the work for you:
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/867083
Don't rely on your profile alone. It may be the best written profile in the world, but if no one is attracted to look at it then it won't do it's job.
Please don't take this the wrong way, but you appear to have been quite a wallflower for over a year, and now you are wondering why you have got nowhere. You have recently rewritten your profile (I'm going to assume it was quite bland before hand?), You have only begun to join in the forums five weeks ago, you are not cam verified so I'll make an assumption that you are not an active participant in the chatroom either. One of the first things people will do on reading a good forum post, or being engaged in the chatroom, is to look at the persons profile and this is where your profile will make all the difference. If you have never used the chatroom it can be a little confusing at first, but it is a great way to socialise with people and start to make connections. Particularly in the geographic rooms where you will find people from a certain area.
So to answer your question 'What do you need to do to stand out?' You need to join in, allow your personality to show through and let your natural charm show through.
Good luck
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well if you’re struggling I really don’t know what people are looking for on here! Unless your profile text was really crap before.
I don’t think it was that bad to be fair..
You should definitely get involved in the forums though. People can get to know you better that way. I’ve met a few people socially and only one wasn’t from the forums. Good luck
Thanks babe, I’ll be hanging around the forums abit more then if that’s what helps,, hopefully find someone as nice as you x
Well that’s definitely not going to happen!
Haha well maybe it will have to be you then
If only you were 20 years older and 200 miles nearer!
Aw what a shame toy boy not your thing I’m guessing! But I do travel a lot I could be closer than you think aswell, one of my kids live in kingsbridge Devon x"
Wait. Just saw you’re a United fan! Could be a game changer. I have a season ticket. .
PS. Devon is even further away from me lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well if you’re struggling I really don’t know what people are looking for on here! Unless your profile text was really crap before.
I don’t think it was that bad to be fair..
You should definitely get involved in the forums though. People can get to know you better that way. I’ve met a few people socially and only one wasn’t from the forums. Good luck
Thanks babe, I’ll be hanging around the forums abit more then if that’s what helps,, hopefully find someone as nice as you x
Well that’s definitely not going to happen!
Haha well maybe it will have to be you then
If only you were 20 years older and 200 miles nearer!
Aw what a shame toy boy not your thing I’m guessing! But I do travel a lot I could be closer than you think aswell, one of my kids live in kingsbridge Devon x
Wait. Just saw you’re a United fan! Could be a game changer. I have a season ticket. .
PS. Devon is even further away from me lol "
Seriously you have a untied season ticket? I was there on Sunday gutted we drew! I go most home games and going the Sunday we play Cardiff last game of the season.. are you going?
Ino tell me about it, I have to drive there and back 4/5 times a year x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think your profile is good, for me personally the best way to meet people is to go to clubs as you are there face-to-face and can chat see how you get along.
Good luck and have a great time."
Thanks babe
I’m hopping to get to a club soon, it’s just very scary going for a first time especially on my own.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"what kind of message would you like to receive first?
Hellop OP.
There is no magic formula for what to put in a message. Your profile says you like to make people laugh, so put some personality into your messages.
Your profile itself looks good, but you've been here over a year and have no verifications which will go against you with many people. You need to get your self on cam to get verified, or even better get to a social and meet people. There is one in two weeks that you can sign up for. You don't need to go searching, I've done the work for you:
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/867083
Don't rely on your profile alone. It may be the best written profile in the world, but if no one is attracted to look at it then it won't do it's job.
Please don't take this the wrong way, but you appear to have been quite a wallflower for over a year, and now you are wondering why you have got nowhere. You have recently rewritten your profile (I'm going to assume it was quite bland before hand?), You have only begun to join in the forums five weeks ago, you are not cam verified so I'll make an assumption that you are not an active participant in the chatroom either. One of the first things people will do on reading a good forum post, or being engaged in the chatroom, is to look at the persons profile and this is where your profile will make all the difference. If you have never used the chatroom it can be a little confusing at first, but it is a great way to socialise with people and start to make connections. Particularly in the geographic rooms where you will find people from a certain area.
So to answer your question 'What do you need to do to stand out?' You need to join in, allow your personality to show through and let your natural charm show through.
Good luck
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Thanks a lot for the advice, I will take it on board try get involved in others things in here.. I did look at the meet but again I need to be verified, which I’m not yet but I’m trying really hard to change.. |
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"Hey guys
I’ve just recently rewrote my profile and added some new photos to hopefully get better chances to grab people’s attention, But to be honest I think I ruin my chances before I even start.. I’m just so rubbish at starting a conversation for some reason and I’m just not getting any luck
What I’m trying to ask is, is my profile okay? Do I need to change anything? And what kind of message would you like to receive first?
Thanks in advance
It's a decent profile, avoids many of the usually mistakes guy's make, you should do ok.
Our standard advice for guy's is...get yourself along to organised socials and clubs, do some networking, make friends and don't be too pushy."
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This, organised socials are a great way to meet people and as many have said,get involved in the forums.
Try and engage with the people you message and reference something on their profile that genuinely interests you. (possibly not "nice tits luv")
Good profile, nice pics. Out of 10, I would definitely give you one! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey guys
I’ve just recently rewrote my profile and added some new photos to hopefully get better chances to grab people’s attention, But to be honest I think I ruin my chances before I even start.. I’m just so rubbish at starting a conversation for some reason and I’m just not getting any luck
What I’m trying to ask is, is my profile okay? Do I need to change anything? And what kind of message would you like to receive first?
Thanks in advance
It's a decent profile, avoids many of the usually mistakes guy's make, you should do ok.
Our standard advice for guy's is...get yourself along to organised socials and clubs, do some networking, make friends and don't be too pushy.
^
This, organised socials are a great way to meet people and as many have said,get involved in the forums.
Try and engage with the people you message and reference something on their profile that genuinely interests you. (possibly not "nice tits luv")
Good profile, nice pics. Out of 10, I would definitely give you one! "
I will definitely be on the forums more so hopefully I have some more luck..
Thank you very much x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile isn’t too bad at all.
You could probably benefit from more body pictures though! I’m sure a public face photo goes down well with most women, a few body shots would too I think. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your profile isn’t too bad at all.
You could probably benefit from more body pictures though! I’m sure a public face photo goes down well with most women, a few body shots would too I think. "
Thank you, I’m just working on the body haha just getting rid of my dad bod |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your profile isn’t too bad at all.
You could probably benefit from more body pictures though! I’m sure a public face photo goes down well with most women, a few body shots would too I think.
Thank you, I’m just working on the body haha just getting rid of my dad bod "
Women like dad bods!
Not all of us dribble at the sight of a six pack you know! |
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Hey OP.
You've been given some great advice on here, and unlike most of these type of threads, you replied and been nice!
Honestly, that's quite refreshing.
I don't think I can add anything to what's already been advised, but you do have several good clubs in your area, get your arse to one & meet people.
Club SX is brilliant... Might see you there sometime
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"I think your profile is good, for me personally the best way to meet people is to go to clubs as you are there face-to-face and can chat see how you get along.
Good luck and have a great time.
Thanks babe
I’m hopping to get to a club soon, it’s just very scary going for a first time especially on my own.."
once you're through the door you're fine, that's just the uncomfortable bit for me.
People are very friendly and if you think of it just like a sexy nightclub or pub, and be open to chatting with people and respectful of their space you are likely to do just fine.
When you arrive, or even before you go, if you let the hosts know that you are a little bit nervous, they are likely to give you a tour and introduce you to a few people who they feel you might get along with. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Your profile isn’t too bad at all.
You could probably benefit from more body pictures though! I’m sure a public face photo goes down well with most women, a few body shots would too I think.
Thank you, I’m just working on the body haha just getting rid of my dad bod
Women like dad bods!
Not all of us dribble at the sight of a six pack you know! "
I guess it’s just my own confidence with my body, maybe I’ll have to upload a picture of my dad bod and hopefully get a few fabs and then I could feel better about it haha
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"I think your profile is good, for me personally the best way to meet people is to go to clubs as you are there face-to-face and can chat see how you get along.
Good luck and have a great time.
Thanks babe
I’m hopping to get to a club soon, it’s just very scary going for a first time especially on my own..
once you're through the door you're fine, that's just the uncomfortable bit for me.
People are very friendly and if you think of it just like a sexy nightclub or pub, and be open to chatting with people and respectful of their space you are likely to do just fine.
When you arrive, or even before you go, if you let the hosts know that you are a little bit nervous, they are likely to give you a tour and introduce you to a few people who they feel you might get along with."
Just remember your experience will be a 180 degree flip on the hot girls experience here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"57 cock pics 1 dangling over a poo for sizing purposes helps too
That can’t be right lol
Got me lots of sex  "
Ignore him! ^^. Don’t put cocks on your public pics! Put them in friends if you put them on there. Then add me as a friend  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your profile isn’t too bad at all.
You could probably benefit from more body pictures though! I’m sure a public face photo goes down well with most women, a few body shots would too I think.
Thank you, I’m just working on the body haha just getting rid of my dad bod
Women like dad bods!
Not all of us dribble at the sight of a six pack you know!
I guess it’s just my own confidence with my body, maybe I’ll have to upload a picture of my dad bod and hopefully get a few fabs and then I could feel better about it haha
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"57 cock pics 1 dangling over a poo for sizing purposes helps too
That can’t be right lol
Got me lots of sex
Ignore him! ^^. Don’t put cocks on your public pics! Put them in friends if you put them on there. Then add me as a friend "
ignore me im trying to get the boy some sex |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hey OP.
You've been given some great advice on here, and unlike most of these type of threads, you replied and been nice!
Honestly, that's quite refreshing.
I don't think I can add anything to what's already been advised, but you do have several good clubs in your area, get your arse to one & meet people.
Club SX is brilliant... Might see you there sometime
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Thank you so much for your kind words, yes all the advice has been great and I will use it as much as I can...
Club Sx is on the list of must go to clubs!! It would be a pleasure to meet you and to have a chat hopefully see you one time |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"57 cock pics 1 dangling over a poo for sizing purposes helps too
That can’t be right lol
Got me lots of sex
Ignore him! ^^. Don’t put cocks on your public pics! Put them in friends if you put them on there. Then add me as a friend "
There could already be some on there you never know |
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"Lower your standards waaaaaaaaaaay down, that will give you a few more verifications AND make the decent women think that you're one of those "beauty is only skin deep" kinda guys... winner Shhhhh"
Does it show I have High standards? Because I haven’t really put any specific thing of for it to show that, I’ll talk and meet anybody if we click |
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"Lower your standards waaaaaaaaaaay down, that will give you a few more verifications AND make the decent women think that you're one of those "beauty is only skin deep" kinda guys... winner Shhhhh
Does it show I have High standards? Because I haven’t really put any specific thing of for it to show that, I’ll talk and meet anybody if we click"
Yeah, don't worry about the whole 'clicking' thing, just find the local bike, and ride it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"57 cock pics 1 dangling over a poo for sizing purposes helps too
That can’t be right lol
Got me lots of sex
Ignore him! ^^. Don’t put cocks on your public pics! Put them in friends if you put them on there. Then add me as a friend "
I’ve tried to invite you but says I’m not what your looking for lol x
We could be company for each other and united games that would be amazing xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lots of good advice here, if you were closer to us we'd definitely be chatting to you
A"
Thank you very much, that would of been lovely..
Shame I’m so far away x |
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"Hey OP.
You've been given some great advice on here, and unlike most of these type of threads, you replied and been nice!
Honestly, that's quite refreshing.
I don't think I can add anything to what's already been advised, but you do have several good clubs in your area, get your arse to one & meet people.
Club SX is brilliant... Might see you there sometime
Thank you so much for your kind words, yes all the advice has been great and I will use it as much as I can...
Club Sx is on the list of must go to clubs!! It would be a pleasure to meet you and to have a chat hopefully see you one time "
I'm definitely there in August.
You can't miss me |
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One other thing I would add...you are getting advice on getting noticed in the forums, which isn't a bad thing, but only about 1% (Fabs own statistics) of members use the forums regularly, so getting out there and actually meeting ( socials and clubs etc) is a better way of networking, and you have a couple of clubs right on your doorstep. |
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"One other thing I would add...you are getting advice on getting noticed in the forums, which isn't a bad thing, but only about 1% (Fabs own statistics) of members use the forums regularly, so getting out there and actually meeting ( socials and clubs etc) is a better way of networking, and you have a couple of clubs right on your doorstep."
I gave advice to get his dick wet only. |
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over a year ago
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"Your profile is actually really good. Great pictures and your profile text is friendly and approchable. I like it "
We second this. It's a good profile. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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All you need is to read a profile and send a half decent message. My inbox gets less than 1% quality messages.
One first message tonight couldn't even be bothered to spell hi (I got just the "h") for the subject and the content was a question mark.
Not hard to show a little effort. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Your profile is great, pics are hot and from reading this thread a decent guy.
Maybe work on the first message, having said that, don't over think it and be yourself.
As others have said the forums, socials and clubs are great, well it worked for me. I love the forums and we are not a bad bunch (mostly). |
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You have asked a common enough question well and received a bucket load of positive responses. You have acknowledge those responses with grace.
YOU STAND OUT!!!
Good luck,get active in the forums and get yourself to a social.
Falling that, get yourself down to JD's Saturday night and bring some massage oil |
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"Hey guys
I’ve just recently rewrote my profile and added some new photos to hopefully get better chances to grab people’s attention, But to be honest I think I ruin my chances before I even start.. I’m just so rubbish at starting a conversation for some reason and I’m just not getting any luck
What I’m trying to ask is, is my profile okay? Do I need to change anything? And what kind of message would you like to receive first?
Thanks in advance
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Ejaculate diamonds and chocolate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a good profile and you're pretty, I'm sure you'll do just fine
I'll just reiterate what I'm sure everyone else above has said, be yourself, if people don't like your sense of humour or personality then don't worry about it...you wouldn't want to play naked twister with those kind of people anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just had a look and I like your profile and some nice pics.
I would say regarding pics variation is key... I always try to make sure that mine are different.
Worded nicely too, sure you will do fine |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you all so much...
The response has been much more positive than I thought it would have been.
I’m going to take everything all you amazing people gave me on board and hopefully get the best from fab
Thank you again... |
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