So it would appear these are almost defunct nowadays .. I think it was a handy nudge to let someone know you like them but it's become more meaningless as time passes. I always thought was a quick handy way to highlight your interest in someone but it's lost all meaning.
But what would you replace the function with?
My suggestion would be a tindr style match.
You click who you like the look off they will never know until you both match and then you get a notification you've matched ?
Or do you limit the amount of winks that can be sent by a user each month so they have to be more selective rather than scatter gun?
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I wouldn't change a thing. The people who know how to approach others and interact on an individual basis are the ones I want to talk to, I mostly ignore winks anyway and will continue to do so thus not interacting with those who use that approach. |
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"I had a wink from a 20 Yr old just now, I'm not sure how I feel about that..... 
Wink him back? "
Fuck you lol it was female and fit (or a dude on a fake fit 20yr old babe profile) |
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"I dont understand why people are so anti winks.. it's exactly what it says..a wink..a gentle ice breaker.."
If you've got too many messages to answer, why would you engage with someone putting in less effort? |
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"I had a wink from a 20 Yr old just now, I'm not sure how I feel about that.....
Wink him back? "
If you want to let him know that you may be interested.... why not..
If not interested in taking things further with said Winker then either ignore or send a polite thanks but no thanks message..
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"I dont understand why people are so anti winks.. it's exactly what it says..a wink..a gentle ice breaker..
If you've got too many messages to answer, why would you engage with someone putting in less effort? "
I'm certain some people will put less effort into a message which takes effort from you to read.. |
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"I had a wink from a 20 Yr old just now, I'm not sure how I feel about that.....
Wink him back?
Fuck you lol it was female and fit (or a dude on a fake fit 20yr old babe profile) "
Did she read your mail yet? |
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"I had a wink from a 20 Yr old just now, I'm not sure how I feel about that.....
Wink him back?
Fuck you lol it was female and fit (or a dude on a fake fit 20yr old babe profile)
Did she read your mail yet? "
Ain't nobody got time fo checkin back through emails from weeks ago..... I reckon she needs to message now innit.... |
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