As a bloke who is a very big fan of MMF .... MFM ... whatever you want to call it, it's a tricky one to answer definitively - but there's a definite difference between meeting a couple and arranging a meet with a single woman and some other bloke I know little or nothing about for a threesome - it's hard to put my finger on but I'll try to express it as best I can.

With a couple I've had a chance to get to know both parties, get a feel for what they are BOTH looking for and what they both want from the encounter so I can work with them to give them what they want, plus usually have a bit of friendly male support to point me in the right direction as things progress and as things move in directions we might not have anticipated or talked about.

But if its just some other random bloke - great as he might be from the woman's perspective - there might not have been any thought put into whether there would be any real chemistry or connection between the two guys ( in a non gay way of course lol!), so the kind of male to male collaboration you'd get in a mfm meet with a couple (that I really like ..... again in a non-gay way) just doesn't exist unless you strike it lucky and get guys with the right kind of attitude - which doesn't happen every day.

So even for someone who has been around the block a bit and isn't easily phased by some of the situations and suggestions that this whole swinging malarkey might throw at me, I might still have some misgivings about an MFM with a single woman and one of her FBs.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple over a year ago

hexham

That is probably one of the best insights into straight mmf i have ever read...there is always a wonderful connection between kev and the other guy, a sense of what to do next, how to make me come, its one of the things we love about mmf.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a bloke who is a very big fan of MMF .... MFM ... whatever you want to call it, it's a tricky one to answer definitively.."

Actually, what you've just written does make perfect sense, I think I made the mistake of assuming most guys wouldn't feel like that.

but yeah, fair do's.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer mfm with two bi guys, for some reason they are less inhibited around each other.

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By *aceytopWoman over a year ago

from a town near you

yes i totally get where your coming from on this,see i wouldnt ask two of my regular fbs to do it because i just know it wouldnt be right for them,i have asked one of them to arrange something with a guy he is comfortable with though,but i need to meet him first as well to see if im ok with him,so it is difficult

does that make sense?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

perfect sense

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By *ebzStar OP Woman over a year ago

Notting

"That is probably one of the best insights into straight mmf i have ever read...there is always a wonderful connection between kev and the other guy, a sense of what to do next, how to make me come, its one of the things we love about mmf."

I suppose i thought cos guys are easily pleased with 2 women,that they would do the same,

what yu say makes total sense, and my fb's are nothing alike so iwill never get them together!!! shame

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple over a year ago

hexham

I suppose i thought cos guys are easily pleased with 2 women,that they would do the same,

what yu say makes total sense, and my fb's are nothing alike so iwill never get them together!!! shame

i have never had a meet where a guy was easily pleased with 2 women...perhaps its a swinigng/nilla thing...i only meet swingers, however being alike isnt a requirement, we meet ppl we have nothing in common with out there, but have a sexual spark with.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple over a year ago

hexham

"I prefer mfm with two bi guys, for some reason they are less inhibited around each other. "

and you get to watch them suck each others cocks

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