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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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At bedtime my boys and I snuggle up in the big bed and chat about our day. We talk about things that perhaps weren't so great and things we may have found difficult or stressful. Afterwards we all list our three good things before I put them to bed, so we've ended the day on a positive note. This is especially good if you've had a shitty time recently.
What are your three good things for today?
Mine are:
Being productive. Making a list of chores and ticking them off.
Talking to friends and loved ones who always make me smile.
Seeing all the trees in blossom near my house. They look and smell amazing.
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My dogs almost behaved themselves on the long Sunday walk.
I had the nicest uninterrupted soak in the bathtub.
My daughter did the washing up without me asking.
It’s the little things that make a truly perfect day  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Currently having the pooch snuggling in my lap
Having an amazing weekend with the man of my nightmares, I mean dreams 
A general sense of the world being right again.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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What a lovely op.
My three good things -
The books that my dear friend recommended to me have arrived.
My hanging baskets are looking absolutely beautiful - walking up to the front door and seeing them makes me smile.
I had a really positive phone call earlier and have had lovely messages today from friends. I feel like I've been wrapped in loving soft hugs and it's wonderful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What a lovely op.
My three good things -
The books that my dear friend recommended to me have arrived.
My hanging baskets are looking absolutely beautiful - walking up to the front door and seeing them makes me smile.
I had a really positive phone call earlier and have had lovely messages today from friends. I feel like I've been wrapped in loving soft hugs and it's wonderful."
#4 thing, reading this made me smile a hugely comforting smile.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really need to start doing this, when life runs at 100mph it's too easy to see quiet days as "down days" or "bad days" but there are still positives to be drawn from them even if you can't see what's been achieved.
I'm going to have a good think about my three things. |
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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago
Masked and Distant |
3 good things.
1. Helped celebrate St George's day. (Twice).
2. Encouraged young people to be the best version of themselves they can be.
3. Hat quality chats with my mum via text (deaf so only way to remote communicate). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"ummm.. I'm alive, my kids are happy (though I've not seen them), trying to think of a 3rd"
It can be as tiny and mundane as you like. For example, the sparrows that live in my garden were squabbling and it makes me grin stupidly. I love watching them, it's better than Eastenders  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I really need to start doing this, when life runs at 100mph it's too easy to see quiet days as "down days" or "bad days" but there are still positives to be drawn from them even if you can't see what's been achieved.
I'm going to have a good think about my three things."
Do it! I've had what I thought was a really hard week and doing this has made me realise that I'm actually doing much better than I thought I was. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having an amazing weekend with the man of my nightmares, I mean dreams
A general sense of the world being right again.
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Aww P! This is beautiful to read you giant softie. "
Shhhhhhh, don't tell anyone 
I may be a slush monster but I'm still a rebellious fucknugget who won't turn down a rumble
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What a lovely op.
My three good things -
The books that my dear friend recommended to me have arrived.
My hanging baskets are looking absolutely beautiful - walking up to the front door and seeing them makes me smile.
I had a really positive phone call earlier and have had lovely messages today from friends. I feel like I've been wrapped in loving soft hugs and it's wonderful.
#4 thing, reading this made me smile a hugely comforting smile.
P"
My 8 year old like to get as many Good Things in there as he possibly can. Last time it was 11, so keep on adding if you want to  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ummm.. I'm alive, my kids are happy (though I've not seen them), trying to think of a 3rd
It can be as tiny and mundane as you like. For example, the sparrows that live in my garden were squabbling and it makes me grin stupidly. I love watching them, it's better than Eastenders "
I get that.. But stick by my answer sadly enough. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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I love this thread
Spending time with two very special people.
Getting a photo and message which was full of happiness from someone close to me.
Messages from wonderful people who make me smile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ummm.. I'm alive, my kids are happy (though I've not seen them), trying to think of a 3rd
It can be as tiny and mundane as you like. For example, the sparrows that live in my garden were squabbling and it makes me grin stupidly. I love watching them, it's better than Eastenders "
I won't cut my front hedge down because I can watch the sparrows squabbling on the branches from my sofa. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"ummm.. I'm alive, my kids are happy (though I've not seen them), trying to think of a 3rd
It can be as tiny and mundane as you like. For example, the sparrows that live in my garden were squabbling and it makes me grin stupidly. I love watching them, it's better than Eastenders
I get that.. But stick by my answer sadly enough."
Did you eat anything nice today? Did you have a cuppa that really hit the spot? A really good wank? C'mon Genghis, a third Good Thing is in there somewhere.... |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"ummm.. I'm alive, my kids are happy (though I've not seen them), trying to think of a 3rd
It can be as tiny and mundane as you like. For example, the sparrows that live in my garden were squabbling and it makes me grin stupidly. I love watching them, it's better than Eastenders
I get that.. But stick by my answer sadly enough."
What about all the people who are friends today because of a thread you started. That's got to be a good thing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"ummm.. I'm alive, my kids are happy (though I've not seen them), trying to think of a 3rd
It can be as tiny and mundane as you like. For example, the sparrows that live in my garden were squabbling and it makes me grin stupidly. I love watching them, it's better than Eastenders
I won't cut my front hedge down because I can watch the sparrows squabbling on the branches from my sofa."
It's lovely isn't it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ummm.. I'm alive, my kids are happy (though I've not seen them), trying to think of a 3rd
It can be as tiny and mundane as you like. For example, the sparrows that live in my garden were squabbling and it makes me grin stupidly. I love watching them, it's better than Eastenders
I get that.. But stick by my answer sadly enough."
You have friends who care about you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ummm.. I'm alive, my kids are happy (though I've not seen them), trying to think of a 3rd
It can be as tiny and mundane as you like. For example, the sparrows that live in my garden were squabbling and it makes me grin stupidly. I love watching them, it's better than Eastenders
I get that.. But stick by my answer sadly enough.
You have friends who care about you
P"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ummm.. I'm alive, my kids are happy (though I've not seen them), trying to think of a 3rd
It can be as tiny and mundane as you like. For example, the sparrows that live in my garden were squabbling and it makes me grin stupidly. I love watching them, it's better than Eastenders
I get that.. But stick by my answer sadly enough.
Did you eat anything nice today? Did you have a cuppa that really hit the spot? A really good wank? C'mon Genghis, a third Good Thing is in there somewhere.... "
Someone was very honest with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1) I played barefoot in the garden with my tiny ferals today.
2) my kitchen is now clean.
3) I bought a piece of furniture I've been been jonesing for even though I've got nowhere to put it yet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"1) I played barefoot in the garden with my tiny ferals today.
2) my kitchen is now clean.
3) I bought a piece of furniture I've been been jonesing for even though I've got nowhere to put it yet."
Feeling the grass with bare feet is amazing. I hardly ever wear shoes in summer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1. The garden is starting to fill out with flowers and all feels 'neat' and in its place out there.
2. The youngest dog wanting to join me with the gardening. He just sits and watches with one ear cocked
3. I drank a lot of tea. ! |
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By *sgigglersCouple
over a year ago
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Love this thread! What a great idea to bring positivity to every day
1. The community Easter egg hunt I organised today went so well & we raised some money for our local park
2. Having my hubby home after a spell in hospital. I missed him SO much & home wasn't home without him. Plus my girl is home happy from 2 days seeing show in London.
3. WE'RE GOING TO SEE END GAME TOMORROW!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Love this thread! What a great idea to bring positivity to every day
1. The community Easter egg hunt I organised today went so well & we raised some money for our local park
2. Having my hubby home after a spell in hospital. I missed him SO much & home wasn't home without him. Plus my girl is home happy from 2 days seeing show in London.
3. WE'RE GOING TO SEE END GAME TOMORROW!!! "
I'm so excited for you! I need to see it again |
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By *sgigglersCouple
over a year ago
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"Love this thread! What a great idea to bring positivity to every day
1. The community Easter egg hunt I organised today went so well & we raised some money for our local park
2. Having my hubby home after a spell in hospital. I missed him SO much & home wasn't home without him. Plus my girl is home happy from 2 days seeing show in London.
3. WE'RE GOING TO SEE END GAME TOMORROW!!!
I'm so excited for you! I need to see it again "
We were meant to see it Friday but had to postpone with D's hospital stay. I've been avoiding spoilers all weekend  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1) really enjoyable brunch out
2) watching and celebrating Leicester beating Arsenal
3) finally catching up on Line Of Duty!"
Excellent City result. Ha! |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
That's a really good way to end the day. I'm going to do that with my children.
I've been working today but....
I didn't oversleep.
I get on with my 2 new manager's.
Dinner was a success |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's a really good way to end the day. I'm going to do that with my children.
I've been working today but....
I didn't oversleep.
I get on with my 2 new manager's.
Dinner was a success "
It really helps my eldest settle for sleep. He has anxiety and it forces him to shift his focus onto positive things. Plus it's a lovely bonding thing to do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A day out with friends where we've laughed and laughed.
The best snuggly cuddles with my kids before their bedtime.
Sitting with Mr Jazzy, just watching t.v. and chilling- feeling content!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ate some Easter Egg
Ate some different Easter Egg
Had a nice nap
Easter eggs only count as 1! Try again.....
Who made you in charge of the thread ?"
I am SO the boss of the thread. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ate some Easter Egg
Ate some different Easter Egg
Had a nice nap
Easter eggs only count as 1! Try again.....
 Tame isn't this bossy on his threads, I'll stick to them in future."
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
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"Ate some Easter Egg
Ate some different Easter Egg
Had a nice nap
Easter eggs only count as 1! Try again.....
Tame isn't this bossy on his threads, I'll stick to them in future.
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Ok
Ate some Easter Eggs
Spaffed over Hepatica's pictures
Had a nice nap
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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago
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"Ate some Easter Egg
Ate some different Easter Egg
Had a nice nap
Easter eggs only count as 1! Try again.....
Tame isn't this bossy on his threads, I'll stick to them in future.
Ok
Ate some Easter Eggs
Spaffed over Hepatica's pictures
Had a nice nap
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Spoke to me |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
The Land that time forgot (Norfolk) |
"Ate some Easter Egg
Ate some different Easter Egg
Had a nice nap
Easter eggs only count as 1! Try again.....
Tame isn't this bossy on his threads, I'll stick to them in future.
Ok
Ate some Easter Eggs
Spaffed over Hepatica's pictures
Had a nice nap
Spoke to me "
I could only name 3 things, there's lots of rules on this thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1 I’ve had a day without pain and hopefully I’ve turned the corner.
2. I’ve had some lovely messages of someone special thinking of me.
3. My son is coming back home tomorrow after being in Germany for the weekend x |
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3 good things
1. It was my birthday. I spent the weekend with my Teeny Tiny Mummy
2. The motorway wasn't a nightmare on the way home
3. Accepting, admitting something, I already knew deep down but didn't want to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just been another mundane day really.
New carpet has been laid in the restaurant in time for a wake tomorrow.
I did everything on my list
I had an amazing nap.
Morning world changing, will try harder tomorrow.
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Sat on the sofa and laughed about something daft with my friend's youngest daughter this morning. Was great to make her laugh as shes had some challenges recently.
Made a curry that was a triumph.
The sun shone again today after a day of torrential rain yesterday.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Did not waste the day as per usual Sunday, was pleased with just the few small progressions I made
Enjoyed the time with both the cat and the dog cwtched on my lap
Started a new craft project! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Caught up with friends
Spoke to a friend via wats app for first time in months
The sun shone again and people smiled again. (we hate fucking rain, except after a heatwave) |
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