What can be hard on here is finding its hard to find the right poeple who can fit in with your time scales
You find someone you like you cant get diarys to match
What would be good if folk in thier pfiles could say when they can meet and when they cant would make it easyer for folk to see if its possable that this perosn or cuple can meet when you can
what do folk think would that make it easyer to find what your looking for?
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Easiest way is to put what you can do on your profile as I'm guessing guys message you more than you message them.
Some folks diaries aren't set in stone as you get school holidays, your holidays, shift patterns change etc
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I can't speak for others, but I don't know that I am going to be horny and ready for a play meet two eeks on Tuesday between 6pm & 10pm
I don't mind pre-arranging socials, but for playtime I have to be in the zone - that generally only happens on the day
If meeting people socially beforehand gives us both (or all) the ease to play at short notice in the future, that's great
However, I don't have a 'rampant' button that I can flick at random and in advance
It is much easier for me to meet other blokes for this reason as, generally couples and single women have more considerations to make in their availability |
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OP, just use the meets and events function or put something about your availability in your profile. I'm not sure everyone can be as organised as you want. |
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"I can't speak for others, but I don't know that I am going to be horny and ready for a play meet two eeks on Tuesday between 6pm & 10pm
I don't mind pre-arranging socials, but for playtime I have to be in the zone - that generally only happens on the day
If meeting people socially beforehand gives us both (or all) the ease to play at short notice in the future, that's great
However, I don't have a 'rampant' button that I can flick at random and in advance
It is much easier for me to meet other blokes for this reason as, generally couples and single women have more considerations to make in their availability" Love your chest
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over a year ago
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Or how about this, it's a little off the wall, but works for me - I swap messages with people, we decide we'd like to meet, we agree a date and time that works for both of us and then we meet on that date and time.
It's quite simple really - if it panned out that we couldn't find a mutually convenient time to meet, and neither of us could be flexible to meet at a time that suited the other, then it obviously didn't mean that much to either of us, and therefore wasn't meant to happen ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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"I can't speak for others, but I don't know that I am going to be horny and ready for a play meet two eeks on Tuesday between 6pm & 10pm
I don't mind pre-arranging socials, but for playtime I have to be in the zone - that generally only happens on the day
If meeting people socially beforehand gives us both (or all) the ease to play at short notice in the future, that's great
However, I don't have a 'rampant' button that I can flick at random and in advance
It is much easier for me to meet other blokes for this reason as, generally couples and single women have more considerations to make in their availability"
A rampant button is an excellent idea. |
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"I can't speak for others, but I don't know that I am going to be horny and ready for a play meet two eeks on Tuesday between 6pm & 10pm
I don't mind pre-arranging socials, but for playtime I have to be in the zone - that generally only happens on the day
If meeting people socially beforehand gives us both (or all) the ease to play at short notice in the future, that's great
However, I don't have a 'rampant' button that I can flick at random and in advance
It is much easier for me to meet other blokes for this reason as, generally couples and single women have more considerations to make in their availabilityLove your chest
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