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Would they be shocked?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi All,
Would people in your workplace/every day life be surprised that you swing?
A while ago a guy from close to where we live went missing, it was raised in the press that he was on 'Fab'. One of our parents started referring to him as a right dirty bastard over the dinner table. We just sat there and grinned at each other! If only her dad knew!! |
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By *iyuWoman
over a year ago
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I think they'd be shocked I swing. But when some friends/family members found out about the Bdsm they just said 'what a surprise' in an incredibly sarcastic way.
So actually I don't even think they would be.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the people in my workplace are too self absorbed to give a fuck what anyone else is doing.
And my few friends know that I don't live a conventional life.
And I don't have any close family. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think they'd be shocked I swing. But when some friends/family members found out about the Bdsm they just said 'what a surprise' in an incredibly sarcastic way.
So actually I don't even think they would be. "
Ah, Cheltenham, my uni town. I love visiting the place |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes! At work I am the epitome of professionalism. Strictly keeping this and my work life separate.
In real life, yes! Fab is for me, not for anyone other than fab friends to know nothing about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of my friends and family knew I used to be on here a few years ago. Only 1 person knows now and that's for safety reasons. If my colleagues knew they'd be very surprised. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None of my family know but they live far away. Couple of my workmates knew - one left job few years ago, other only works as a bank staff. She was curious about fab but left after a few weeks as it wasn't for her. She meets guys for fun from tinder though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi All,
Would people in your workplace/every day life be surprised that you swing?
A while ago a guy from close to where we live went missing, it was raised in the press that he was on 'Fab'. One of our parents started referring to him as a right dirty bastard over the dinner table. We just sat there and grinned at each other! If only her dad knew!!"
What happened to the guy? Did they find him or was he murdered on a meet? |
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Our family's, both sides parents and all our siblings know we swing. They just say whatever makes us happy. Most our friends know too xx
Lots of worrys about them finding out before and when they did. No issues at all xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi All,
Would people in your workplace/every day life be surprised that you swing?
A while ago a guy from close to where we live went missing, it was raised in the press that he was on 'Fab'. One of our parents started referring to him as a right dirty bastard over the dinner table. We just sat there and grinned at each other! If only her dad knew!!"
Was that guy Corrie McKeague? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well i'm not a swinger (and i'm single so it wouldnt matter either way  ) but they'd probably be surprised to find me here.
I'm prett quiet/reserved so I definitely dont think I give off that impression |
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I'm complex and straight forward. I surprise and delight but no great shocks as I've been there and done that. People are interested, some jealous I'm fairly sure - but they are capable of doing what we love, if they want to.
We'll never eradicate ignorance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My Mom knows I’m in a ‘dating’ site as I had to explain why I’m not available when she decides she wants my company, she thinks I meet up for a coffee or a drink but I’m far too fussy as I haven’t fallen for any of them yet.. or more like they did a runner  in all honesty I think she’s thinking at 50 I should be at least living with someone now  |
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My dirty little secret isnt so astray from common knowledge any more most folk i socialise with know, and my housemate knows , i dont see my family but, even if i did , i dont discuss their intimacies with them so, as for work , if it came up , i wouldnt deny it, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What happened to the guy?
what guy?
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The guy who went missing and they found out he was on here
I don't really care what everyone's family would think if they found out they were swingers
The story about the guy is far more interesting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My two best friends know....one wasn't surprised but the other one was both surprised and horrified, and still never asks about it or talks about it!! Lol!
My family....especially my son...would be horrified!!
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No they are not shocked as I've just come out at work this week they are more interested in the real me now the only thing that shocked them was how good I look and that I was being stalked by a another work colleague |
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