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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ll say this now I’m not complaining but I’ve had to take a break.
I have s thick skin but the past couple of weeks was been interesting to say the least.
Mainly because some fellas were really offensive re not answering them immediately.
How do others on here manage the aggression?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I do block and without arguing but some are really unpleasant keyboard warriors.
It’s expected but still hits a nerve.
It’s a shame coz I have to work harder to not expect all to be f*cktards! |
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"I’ll say this now I’m not complaining but I’ve had to take a break.
I have s thick skin but the past couple of weeks was been interesting to say the least.
Mainly because some fellas were really offensive re not answering them immediately.
How do others on here manage the aggression?
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Well if they are going to be assholes hiding behind their PC's, sat in their mothers basement, then good luck with any meets. Does McDonalds still do those children meal boxes? |
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Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.
******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).
Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.
Admin
PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.
Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:
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Your feedback has been saved.
A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.
By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.****** |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.
******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).
Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.
Admin
PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.
Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:
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Your feedback has been saved.
A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.
By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******"
Thanks I’ll use that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are there really a lot of people who get abusive and angry about not being replied too?
I’m not shocked as there’s keyboard warriors everywhere, im just surprised that if their first message didn’t interest you then what’s the point with an angry or abusive one? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I manage how I react to them, not necessarily react.
Ignore, block move on.
I did just that the other night, next thing I get PM's off guys telling me that this muppet had been slagging me off, and had actually messaged people telling them to steer clear. What the actual fuck! Luckily I was assured he'd been reported.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Report abuse before you block. .
Seems a palarva but could stop them having a go at someone else
Were they abusive or angry?"
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Arrestable abusive. Quite cold and I went all rabbit in headlights. Now feel bad for not reporting |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Report abuse before you block. .
Seems a palarva but could stop them having a go at someone else
Were they abusive or angry?.
Arrestable abusive. Quite cold and I went all rabbit in headlights. Now feel bad for not reporting "
Not cold vile
New specs I think lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Report abuse before you block. .
Seems a palarva but could stop them having a go at someone else
Were they abusive or angry?.
Arrestable abusive. Quite cold and I went all rabbit in headlights. Now feel bad for not reporting "
It can be a bit of a shock when someone you have been chatting to goes Psycho on you. I'm lucky that it wears off quickly and I can ignore it. Frightening though, if they know enough about you to be an actual threat. |
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"I’ll say this now I’m not complaining but I’ve had to take a break.
I have s thick skin but the past couple of weeks was been interesting to say the least.
Mainly because some fellas were really offensive re not answering them immediately.
How do others on here manage the aggression?
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Aggression on here... Report & block.
Then chuckle to myself, that if they acted that way with me on real life, I'd be the only one left standing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Report abuse before you block. .
Seems a palarva but could stop them having a go at someone else
Were they abusive or angry?.
Arrestable abusive. Quite cold and I went all rabbit in headlights. Now feel bad for not reporting
It can be a bit of a shock when someone you have been chatting to goes Psycho on you. I'm lucky that it wears off quickly and I can ignore it. Frightening though, if they know enough about you to be an actual threat."
It can be quite unsettling. I normally shrug it off but it’s been full on recently. Most have been very new members. Which I think may give me my answer  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When it gets me down or I'm not wanting to meet I filter to 99 year olds only and just enjoy the odd forum post.
Good idea"
Or filter out new members.. unverified.. age ranges.. works great for me x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When it gets me down or I'm not wanting to meet I filter to 99 year olds only and just enjoy the odd forum post.
Good idea
Or filter out new members.. unverified.. age ranges.. works great for me x "
I had done that but I now filtering for 99 year olds as well ty |
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"When it gets me down or I'm not wanting to meet I filter to 99 year olds only and just enjoy the odd forum post.
Good idea
Or filter out new members.. unverified.. age ranges.. works great for me x
I had done that but I now filtering for 99 year olds as well ty"
It's really not what you need & you really shouldn't have to put up with that sort of behaviour. Kinda sad that anyone can lower themselves to such tactics quite frankly.
Good luck -don't completely give up up....there are a few good ones left here.
Heck ...I'm now actually too young for someone.....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When it gets me down or I'm not wanting to meet I filter to 99 year olds only and just enjoy the odd forum post.
Good idea
Or filter out new members.. unverified.. age ranges.. works great for me x
I had done that but I now filtering for 99 year olds as well ty
It's really not what you need & you really shouldn't have to put up with that sort of behaviour. Kinda sad that anyone can lower themselves to such tactics quite frankly.
Good luck -don't completely give up up....there are a few good ones left here.
Heck ...I'm now actually too young for someone.....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When it gets me down or I'm not wanting to meet I filter to 99 year olds only and just enjoy the odd forum post.
Good idea
Or filter out new members.. unverified.. age ranges.. works great for me x
I had done that but I now filtering for 99 year olds as well ty
It's really not what you need & you really shouldn't have to put up with that sort of behaviour. Kinda sad that anyone can lower themselves to such tactics quite frankly.
Good luck -don't completely give up up....there are a few good ones left here.
Heck ...I'm now actually too young for someone.....
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So am I it’s novel on here lol |
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I really dont get hung up on people's replies, unless I'm actively pursuing them. Even then if it's not what I want/need to hear I forget about it. I would much rather concentrate on those that get me. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Report abuse before you block. .
Seems a palarva but could stop them having a go at someone else
Were they abusive or angry?.
Arrestable abusive. Quite cold and I went all rabbit in headlights. Now feel bad for not reporting "
I had a really nasty one today. I've reported, blocked and have taken a screenshot with his face pic on it in case I need to go to the police. Unfortunately it's against the rules to state the content here. Needless to say I think he's angry enough to pose a real danger to women. |
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"Report abuse before you block. .
Seems a palarva but could stop them having a go at someone else
Were they abusive or angry?.
Arrestable abusive. Quite cold and I went all rabbit in headlights. Now feel bad for not reporting
I had a really nasty one today. I've reported, blocked and have taken a screenshot with his face pic on it in case I need to go to the police. Unfortunately it's against the rules to state the content here. Needless to say I think he's angry enough to pose a real danger to women. "
Jeez...that sounds a bit intense. I don't know why some people think they have the right to be indignant, angry and down right menacing...hope you are ok x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll say this now I’m not complaining but I’ve had to take a break.
I have s thick skin but the past couple of weeks was been interesting to say the least.
Mainly because some fellas were really offensive re not answering them immediately.
How do others on here manage the aggression?
Well if they are going to be assholes hiding behind their PC's, sat in their mothers basement, then good luck with any meets. Does McDonalds still do those children meal boxes?"
Irony impaired? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Report abuse before you block. .
Seems a palarva but could stop them having a go at someone else
Were they abusive or angry?.
Arrestable abusive. Quite cold and I went all rabbit in headlights. Now feel bad for not reporting
I had a really nasty one today. I've reported, blocked and have taken a screenshot with his face pic on it in case I need to go to the police. Unfortunately it's against the rules to state the content here. Needless to say I think he's angry enough to pose a real danger to women. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Report abuse before you block. .
Seems a palarva but could stop them having a go at someone else
Were they abusive or angry?.
Arrestable abusive. Quite cold and I went all rabbit in headlights. Now feel bad for not reporting
I had a really nasty one today. I've reported, blocked and have taken a screenshot with his face pic on it in case I need to go to the police. Unfortunately it's against the rules to state the content here. Needless to say I think he's angry enough to pose a real danger to women. "
The worst thing is it makes it so hard or harder to accept this for those who are actually genuine. Hope you’re okay |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Report abuse before you block. .
Seems a palarva but could stop them having a go at someone else
Were they abusive or angry?.
Arrestable abusive. Quite cold and I went all rabbit in headlights. Now feel bad for not reporting
I had a really nasty one today. I've reported, blocked and have taken a screenshot with his face pic on it in case I need to go to the police. Unfortunately it's against the rules to state the content here. Needless to say I think he's angry enough to pose a real danger to women.
I get women being aggressive all the time for not replying lol (not) I say block and just think lucky you never met them x
The worst thing is it makes it so hard or harder to accept this for those who are actually genuine. Hope you’re okay"
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