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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What's in it for you? Excluding the obvious 'pussy' or any bi fantasy fulfilling. And also excluding 'bulls' and joining cuckold couples.
Is it the taboo of having another man's partner? An opportunity to show off your sexual prowess? Being the star guest?!
How does joining a loving couple differ for you from a more standard MFM in which no 'participants' are part of a couple with each other? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They just want a fuck with the female half as they can't find a single one to fuck. Simple lol.  "
I suspect there are plenty of the "any hole's a goal" mentally
But also some good looking and decent guys who could be knee deep in clunge but still choose to go with couples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They just want a fuck with the female half as they can't find a single one to fuck. Simple lol.
And this is wrong because??  
I didn't say it was wrong at all. I stated a fact. "
It's not a fact, it's your impression. I've met men who meet single women and couples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They just want a fuck with the female half as they can't find a single one to fuck. Simple lol.
And this is wrong because??
I didn't say it was wrong at all. I stated a fact. "
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"They just want a fuck with the female half as they can't find a single one to fuck. Simple lol.
And this is wrong because??
I didn't say it was wrong at all. I stated a fact.
It's not a fact, it's your impression. I've met men who meet single women and couples."
It is a fact, I've played as a couple before, we were told that by several single guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They just want a fuck with the female half as they can't find a single one to fuck. Simple lol.
And this is wrong because??
I didn't say it was wrong at all. I stated a fact.
It's not a fact, it's your impression. I've met men who meet single women and couples.
It is a fact, I've played as a couple before, we were told that by several single guys. "
That was the ones you met. It's not a fact for all of them.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It is a fact, I've played as a couple before, we were told that by several single guys. "
I wouldn't say that your examples are representative of all single men who meet couples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They just want a fuck with the female half as they can't find a single one to fuck. Simple lol.
And this is wrong because??
I didn't say it was wrong at all. I stated a fact.
It's not a fact, it's your impression. I've met men who meet single women and couples.
It is a fact, I've played as a couple before, we were told that by several single guys.
That was the ones you met. It's not a fact for all of them.
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No doubt it is right that some guys are like that and enjoy fucking somebody who wouldn’t normally look at them. We don’t mind having them from time to time because we can explore voyeurism and a more basic “just fuck” type of meet. It’s good for MissJ to feel wanted and know she has the freedom to go for it.
Some guys like to put themselves in the middle of a couple dynamic. It’s a difficult trick to pull, though, and not many succeed. Being bi(-curious) might help but that’s it such a guarantee of success as it might seem. If a guy is good at observation then he can find himself having “marital sex only with three people”, with each of such showing and guiding all of the others how best to enjoy sex. Gaston loves picking up new techniques from other guys (MissJ loves experiencing them too!) and he also gives pointers about certain things which work.
One guy likes to come for dinner and none of have any idea what’s going to happen, who’s going to caress MissJ first, what combinations are going to happen. We all flirt openly with one another and tend to get undressed quickly. The fuck-and-go guys never experience this.
Swinging takes all sorts I guess - and that’s what’s good about it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just like seeing women really really turned on, if that means two guys are required rather than one so be it."
I don't have my partner's ability/willingness to share and I quizzed he life out of him Inn the early days of getting into this. When told that he just loves seeing me have a good time, I'd usually respond with the suggestion of watching me on a rollercoaster or something instead |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"definitely the taboo of being with another man's wife, married women have always been very appealing to me  "
Is it such a taboo when the partner has consented to you playing with another man's wife? |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
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It is a fact, I've played as a couple before, we were told that by several single guys.
I wouldn't say that your examples are representative of all single men who meet couples. "
Never said they were lol, just speaking from experience. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"They just want a fuck with the female half as they can't find a single one to fuck. Simple lol.
And this is wrong because??
I didn't say it was wrong at all. I stated a fact.
It's not a fact, it's your impression. I've met men who meet single women and couples.
It is a fact, I've played as a couple before, we were told that by several single guys.
That was the ones you met. It's not a fact for all of them.
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"They just want a fuck with the female half as they can't find a single one to fuck. Simple lol.
I suspect there are plenty of the "any hole's a goal" mentally
But also some good looking and decent guys who could be knee deep in clunge but still choose to go with couples."
Recently came out of an 18 year relationship and at this time couples/married women suit as there is less emotional pressure than there potentially is with a single girl. Right now i just want to enjoy myself with no hang ups.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really enjoy watching and then being invited to join in. Certainly not “any holes a goal” attitude. For me it’s like they are allowing me into their most personal space and trust. The trust element is just as sexy as the act itself. To be welcomed into somebody’s home and into their personal life takes a lot of trust from all sides. Once everything gets going and that is gained it’s a great environment. I prefer couple meets to singles on most occasions. Being bi can be helpful as well as it brakes down certain barriers. On the other hand it can cause problems because the guy thinks I’m going to jump on him at the sight of his cock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven’t met a couple for 11 years or so, but a I met them because I liked them and thought a threesome would be fun. I also experienced being sucked off by a guy for the first time in 20 odd years, which peaked my curiosity for a while.
I would mainly meet couples now for bi MMF experiences where we all play with each other, that is still an unfulfilled fantasy, although I would enjoy straight MMF simply to help give the women in a couple that I really fancied a pleasurable experience.
I am both exhibitionistic and voyeuristic so watching and being watched both turn me on |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think I’m the opposite  I cant bring myself to play with a woman in front of their husband/partner even with his consent! I have no idea why 
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I couldn't play with a man in front of his partner either! I'd feel shady as! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The feeling of corruption?
Spit roasting is fun.
I’m bi...
It’s just sex, there’s not really a deeper meaning to it for me. I’m sure there are reasons why the couple accept singles. They may be similar?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I’m the opposite I cant bring myself to play with a woman in front of their husband/partner even with his consent! I have no idea why
D.
I couldn't play with a man in front of his partner either! I'd feel shady as! "
Exactly! You have made me feel a little better now
Thanks
D. |
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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago
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"What's in it for you? Excluding the obvious 'pussy' or any bi fantasy fulfilling. And also excluding 'bulls' and joining cuckold couples.
Is it the taboo of having another man's partner? An opportunity to show off your sexual prowess? Being the star guest?!
How does joining a loving couple differ for you from a more standard MFM in which no 'participants' are part of a couple with each other?"
I enjoy the kindliness of being invited to have sex with somebody else’s wife/partner and I also enjoy knowing that the husband/partner is turned on looking at his wife’s pleasure by me (hopefully) |
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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It is a fact, I've played as a couple before, we were told that by several single guys.
I wouldn't say that your examples are representative of all single men who meet couples.
Never said they were lol, just speaking from experience. "
So it’s not a fact.
It’s just your own opinion based on your personal experience. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"They just want a fuck with the female half as they can't find a single one to fuck. Simple lol.
'take issue with that remark Ms Giveswood... Or Perhaps you were
remarking in jest...."
Part fact, part opinion lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I’m the opposite I cant bring myself to play with a woman in front of their husband/partner even with his consent! I have no idea why
D.
I couldn't play with a man in front of his partner either! I'd feel shady as!
Exactly! You have made me feel a little better now
Thanks
D. "
The idea of fucking another man while he watches and maybe even holds my hand turns me on sooo much but I worry about how we'd both feel afterwards.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it very flattering to be allowed into “their world” for a fleeting moment. Knowing the closeness they have to be able to allow another in is very humbling. "
I’m not sure there’s a need to feel humbled, though we know what you mean, but otherwise it’s exactly this for us: letting somebody into our world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I’m the opposite I cant bring myself to play with a woman in front of their husband/partner even with his consent! I have no idea why
D.
I couldn't play with a man in front of his partner either! I'd feel shady as!
Exactly! You have made me feel a little better now
Thanks
D.
The idea of fucking another man while he watches and maybe even holds my hand turns me on sooo much but I worry about how we'd both feel afterwards.
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I am exactly the same, I would need D to be fucking another woman, but the likelihood of finding suitable singles to partake is extremely low so it’s stays as a fantasy....
for now 
Jo.Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy meeting new people on Fab. Flirting, finding stuff out. I'm semi flexible about what happens, provided there's no expectations and demands.
I prefer Hotwives, but I will play with the occasional couple who are clear about what they want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They just want a fuck with the female half as they can't find a single one to fuck. Simple lol.
And this is wrong because??
I didn't say it was wrong at all. I stated a fact.
It's not a fact, it's your impression. I've met men who meet single women and couples.
It is a fact, I've played as a couple before, we were told that by several single guys. "
I'll be honest it's the reason that when single I've never plated with a couple, because being honest it would be very much about fucking the woman and I would be lying if I said otherwise.
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"They just want a fuck with the female half as they can't find a single one to fuck. Simple lol.
And this is wrong because??
I didn't say it was wrong at all. I stated a fact.
It's not a fact, it's your impression. I've met men who meet single women and couples.
It is a fact, I've played as a couple before, we were told that by several single guys.
I'll be honest it's the reason that when single I've never plated with a couple, because being honest it would be very much about fucking the woman and I would be lying if I said otherwise.
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At least you are honest, I'm the same with mff meets, I'd expect to fuck the man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They just want a fuck with the female half as they can't find a single one to fuck. Simple lol.
And this is wrong because??
I didn't say it was wrong at all. I stated a fact.
It's not a fact, it's your impression. I've met men who meet single women and couples.
It is a fact, I've played as a couple before, we were told that by several single guys.
I'll be honest it's the reason that when single I've never plated with a couple, because being honest it would be very much about fucking the woman and I would be lying if I said otherwise.
At least you are honest, I'm the same with mff meets, I'd expect to fuck the man. "
Damn straight. And MissJ expects the same in mmf |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think I’m the opposite I cant bring myself to play with a woman in front of their husband/partner even with his consent! I have no idea why
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cos your competitive like me |
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It's just such a turn on to be allowed to join in this sensuous time and be part of it. My first ever was to come watch as they had not done this before and we all played and it was great but I was content to watch if that was all that was going to happen so for me it's not any hole is a goal etc. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Nice to read that some men have actually considered the intimacy of being invited to join a couple. It takes a huge amount of trust for a LOVING couple to engage in such shenanigans and finding the right single man is crucial - hence why we've only done it once. The amount of messages from men who think that I (female half) am a piece of meat to be passed around or that my partner wants to see me "ruined" by a "real man"  |
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"Nice to read that some men have actually considered the intimacy of being invited to join a couple. It takes a huge amount of trust for a LOVING couple to engage in such shenanigans and finding the right single man is crucial - hence why we've only done it once. The amount of messages from men who think that I (female half) am a piece of meat to be passed around or that my partner wants to see me "ruined" by a "real man" "
Sums it up for me. I like the fact that I’ve been invited to join in their naughty secret time too. I’ve only been lucky enough to be invited a few time. Those memories will live with me for a long time. Nothing to do with ruining the lady. It’s all about giving her pleasure. Not about me. When you are “part of the couple” it’s more to do with respect and intimacy. Amazing really. |
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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago
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"Nice to read that some men have actually considered the intimacy of being invited to join a couple. It takes a huge amount of trust for a LOVING couple to engage in such shenanigans and finding the right single man is crucial - hence why we've only done it once. The amount of messages from men who think that I (female half) am a piece of meat to be passed around or that my partner wants to see me "ruined" by a "real man" "
It is always a privilege for everybody else to join in somebody’s marriage/relationship, not a right. |
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