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Be nice people we all have demons
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"I find that the forums can be the opposite. Lots of lovely and supportive people on here. Some really caring individuals who have been very kind to lots of fellow forumites x " | |||
"**Resists urge to make fun of Take That "Doing the same but it seems like it could be a nice post so I'm going to be nice! Enjoy OP  hope this thread goes well | |||
"I find that the forums can be the opposite. Lots of lovely and supportive people on here. Some really caring individuals who have been very kind to lots of fellow forumites x " And this | |||
Enjoy Take That. | |||
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"Ive come to find that this place can be quite dark, cold and callous. So be nice people you dont know what the other persons going through, we all have demons and prrson battles, its not all about you. Ill leave that there, im off to see take that "I saw them this week and they were amazing the highlight though was Rick Astley supporting  | |||
"Ive come to find that this place can be quite dark, cold and callous. So be nice people you dont know what the other persons going through, we all have demons and prrson battles, its not all about you. Ill leave that there, im off to see take that
I saw them this week and they were amazing the highlight though was Rick Astley supporting "He's been good since his own comeback has Rick. | |||
"Ive come to find that this place can be quite dark, cold and callous. So be nice people you dont know what the other persons going through, we all have demons and prrson battles, its not all about you. Ill leave that there, im off to see take that
I saw them this week and they were amazing the highlight though was Rick Astley supporting
He's been good since his own comeback has Rick."He’s amazing | |||
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"I've found that most forumites are friendly and nice to chat too x" Friendly Folk from Fabswingers Forums.. All the "F's" there! | |||
"Ive come to find that this place can be quite dark, cold and callous. So be nice people you dont know what the other persons going through, we all have demons and prrson battles, its not all about you. Ill leave that there, im off to see take that "I saw them on Tuesday, AMAZING | |||
"Ive come to find that this place can be quite dark, cold and callous. So be nice people you dont know what the other persons going through, we all have demons and prrson battles, its not all about you. Ill leave that there, im off to see take that
I saw them this week and they were amazing the highlight though was Rick Astley supporting "I love how much you love Rick Astley. | |||
" the highlight though was Rick Astley supporting "You can go off people ya know | |||
"I've found that most forumites are friendly and nice to chat too x" To not too, grrrrrr x | |||
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"Ive come to find that this place can be quite dark, cold and callous. So be nice people you dont know what the other persons going through, we all have demons and prrson battles, its not all about you. Ill leave that there, im off to see take that
I saw them this week and they were amazing the highlight though was Rick Astley supporting "Love Rick | |||
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" Ill leave that there, im off to see *take that* "Being a middle aged woman in a mans body must be quite the burden to bear | |||
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"Ive come to find that this place can be quite dark, cold and callous. So be nice people you dont know what the other persons going through, we all have demons and prrson battles, its not all about you. Ill leave that there, im off to see take that
I saw them this week and they were amazing the highlight though was Rick Astley supporting "Hey babs, must admit rick astley was great x | |||
"Just have a little patience" Like it. | |||
"Ive come to find that this place can be quite dark, cold and callous. So be nice people you dont know what the other persons going through, we all have demons and prrson battles, its not all about you. Ill leave that there, im off to see take that
I saw them this week and they were amazing the highlight though was Rick Astley supporting
Love Rick "Rick was great, fair play to him. | |||
"Ive come to find that this place can be quite dark, cold and callous. So be nice people you dont know what the other persons going through, we all have demons and prrson battles, its not all about you. Ill leave that there, im off to see take that "You're talking about the hob thread, aren't you? Thanks for your support. I'll be strong. | |||
"Ive come to find that this place can be quite dark, cold and callous. So be nice people you dont know what the other persons going through, we all have demons and prrson battles, its not all about you. Ill leave that there, im off to see take that
I saw them on Tuesday, AMAZING "Shame we couldnt see them together x | |||
"Ive come to find that this place can be quite dark, cold and callous. So be nice people you dont know what the other persons going through, we all have demons and prrson battles, its not all about you. Ill leave that there, im off to see take that "Well said. There are some really lovely, genuine and supportive people on here but I've experienced a lot of hate on here too. Some people are very cold and detached emotionally it seems. As this is a " sex site " as people like to mention a lot, there will unfortunately be people who are only interested in number one and don't care who they hurt or abuse along the way. I've come across some really lovely, thoughtful people who've been a real support so i'm trying to focus on them. I hope you had fun at the concert. | |||
"Ive come to find that this place can be quite dark, cold and callous. So be nice people you dont know what the other persons going through, we all have demons and prrson battles, its not all about you. Ill leave that there, im off to see take that
Well said. There are some really lovely, genuine and supportive people on here but I've experienced a lot of hate on here too. Some people are very cold and detached emotionally it seems.
As this is a " sex site " as people like to mention a lot, there will unfortunately be people who are only interested in number one and don't care who they hurt or abuse along the way.
I've come across some really lovely, thoughtful people who've been a real support so i'm trying to focus on them.
I hope you had fun at the concert. " | |||
"Ive come to find that this place can be quite dark, cold and callous. So be nice people you dont know what the other persons going through, we all have demons and prrson battles, its not all about you. Ill leave that there, im off to see take that
I saw them this week and they were amazing the highlight though was Rick Astley supporting
Hey babs, must admit rick astley was great x"He really is. I’m glad you enjoyed the concert | |||
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"As in every walk of life, the Forum holds a mix of people, of personalities, of moods I think your experience may be different to that of many because your introduction was with a couple of contentious and somewhat contradictory threads There was little warmth in your introduction, just 'BAM - feed on this' folks The responses were, as expected, mixed and you have not allowed for this in your summing up of the forum and vis-a-vis 'us' I can, hand on heart, say that herein lies a group of people with a combined life experience like no other, with opinions, with differing values, with differing communication skills, tolerances and intolerances, with cynicism and scepticism, literally a cross section of society I only follow one other Forum and that is a local news site - I can tell you now, if you want cruel, go there, if you want warmth and consideration, stay here Just don't expect sympathy and appeasement with every thread I like it here. I probably wouldn't have returned to Fab if it didn't offer the facility, but friendship and warmth aren't givens How you interpret and balance your own response to some of the comments thrown your way isn't always easy, but it is possible to find friends and indeed friendships in these few rooms and, hidden in amongst us all, there will be people that get YOU. Concentrate on those, don't take everything to heart, pay scant attention to any repetitive 'haters' and just take things for what they are, comments, from strangers, on a screen, that you can turn off any time you like If your mind won't allow you to detach from the comments, I do wonder, however, if this is the place to be asking questions about deeply personal subject matter There are people who are paid professionals to help you work through those They are a much better option for you" ^^^^^ This bloke knows stuff | |||
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"Ive come to find that this place can be quite dark, cold and callous. So be nice people you dont know what the other persons going through, we all have demons and prrson battles, its not all about you. Ill leave that there, im off to see take that "Don't let it put you off, I've had my fair share of crap from the forums but it is words on a screen by the faceless few. Not worthy of your time or attention. | |||
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"Sometimes the way a comment is taken is about the frame of mind of the receiver than the poster. I've find some people flying off the handle because of the way they interpret it not the way it is meant. The danger of the textual form of communication, there is no intonation I think there are more friendly people here than trolls. Ps .. also resisting the urge to comment on Take That "That does happen, but there are a few who like to make their feelings known via PM, I've had some vile messages sent because of something I've said in the forum. The way I respond doesn't change, still a report and block. | |||
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"It's a shame you cant block people from the forum too as some idiots I have in my block list still come up on the forums so I have to see their bullshit here" But wouldn’t the forums look weird if you couldn’t see some of the posts? | |||
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"I try and remember that everyone is fighting some kind of battle in their head, however, do no harm but take no shit. Life is too short to be stressed by someone that drains you, but your own wellbeing should be top of your list "Couldn't agree more but it's easier to get there by steering your own ship and not trying to scupper everyone elses. I feel for those that don't see that the world is not focused on them or out to get them. | |||
"Ive come to find that this place can be quite dark, cold and callous. So be nice people you dont know what the other persons going through, we all have demons and prrson battles, its not all about you. Ill leave that there, im off to see take that "Very true..  | |||
"It's a shame you cant block people from the forum too as some idiots I have in my block list still come up on the forums so I have to see their bullshit here" Are they not better behaved to a wider audience? | |||
"This kind of thread is like a stink bomb.... Run in DROP IT..... run off. Some folks consider that it's EVERYONE ELSE but never them. Enjoy your concert O.P. For me i'd rather 'Fuck That' than Take That.... Pax vobiscum. " Haha chuckle Love THAT!  | |||
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"As in every walk of life, the Forum holds a mix of people, of personalities, of moods I think your experience may be different to that of many because your introduction was with a couple of contentious and somewhat contradictory threads There was little warmth in your introduction, just 'BAM - feed on this' folks The responses were, as expected, mixed and you have not allowed for this in your summing up of the forum and vis-a-vis 'us' I can, hand on heart, say that herein lies a group of people with a combined life experience like no other, with opinions, with differing values, with differing communication skills, tolerances and intolerances, with cynicism and scepticism, literally a cross section of society I only follow one other Forum and that is a local news site - I can tell you now, if you want cruel, go there, if you want warmth and consideration, stay here Just don't expect sympathy and appeasement with every thread I like it here. I probably wouldn't have returned to Fab if it didn't offer the facility, but friendship and warmth aren't givens How you interpret and balance your own response to some of the comments thrown your way isn't always easy, but it is possible to find friends and indeed friendships in these few rooms and, hidden in amongst us all, there will be people that get YOU. Concentrate on those, don't take everything to heart, pay scant attention to any repetitive 'haters' and just take things for what they are, comments, from strangers, on a screen, that you can turn off any time you like If your mind won't allow you to detach from the comments, I do wonder, however, if this is the place to be asking questions about deeply personal subject matter There are people who are paid professionals to help you work through those They are a much better option for you" | |||
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"**Resists urge to make fun of Take That "Their stage shows are pretty amazing and I get to go with a wonderful woman | |||
"I skirt past all the negativity and comment on things I'm either interested in or where I can support (when online of course). Agree about some of the other things you put OP. Be kind to yourself and others
Enjoy Take That."Be kind to yourself and others...liking that | |||
"Ive come to find that this place can be quite dark, cold and callous. So be nice people you dont know what the other persons going through, we all have demons and prrson battles, its not all about you. Ill leave that there, im off to see take that
I saw them this week and they were amazing the highlight though was Rick Astley supporting
He's been good since his own comeback has Rick.
He’s amazing "Rick Astley playing the drums and singing Highway to Hell and playing lead guitar and singing a Foo Fighters song were a couple of my favourite moments in live music for years...left me grinning for hours after. | |||
"Demons - Fatboy Slim & Macy Gray
www.youtube.com/watch?v=dins1tqcoAw"I’ll see yours with Demons - Brian McFadden https://youtu.be/iTM-DFdtg78 And I’ll raise you with Demons - Imagined Dragons https://youtu.be/mWRsgZuwf_8 | |||
"Demons - Fatboy Slim & Macy Gray
www.youtube.com/watch?v=dins1tqcoAw
I’ll see yours with Demons - Brian McFadden
https://youtu.be/iTM-DFdtg78
And I’ll raise you with Demons - Imagined Dragons
https://youtu.be/mWRsgZuwf_8
"Great song. Love Imagine Dragons x | |||
"Ive come to find that this place can be quite dark, cold and callous. So be nice people you dont know what the other persons going through, we all have demons and prrson battles, its not all about you. Ill leave that there, im off to see take that " | |||
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"As in every walk of life, the Forum holds a mix of people, of personalities, of moods I think your experience may be different to that of many because your introduction was with a couple of contentious and somewhat contradictory threads There was little warmth in your introduction, just 'BAM - feed on this' folks The responses were, as expected, mixed and you have not allowed for this in your summing up of the forum and vis-a-vis 'us' I can, hand on heart, say that herein lies a group of people with a combined life experience like no other, with opinions, with differing values, with differing communication skills, tolerances and intolerances, with cynicism and scepticism, literally a cross section of society I only follow one other Forum and that is a local news site - I can tell you now, if you want cruel, go there, if you want warmth and consideration, stay here Just don't expect sympathy and appeasement with every thread I like it here. I probably wouldn't have returned to Fab if it didn't offer the facility, but friendship and warmth aren't givens How you interpret and balance your own response to some of the comments thrown your way isn't always easy, but it is possible to find friends and indeed friendships in these few rooms and, hidden in amongst us all, there will be people that get YOU. Concentrate on those, don't take everything to heart, pay scant attention to any repetitive 'haters' and just take things for what they are, comments, from strangers, on a screen, that you can turn off any time you like If your mind won't allow you to detach from the comments, I do wonder, however, if this is the place to be asking questions about deeply personal subject matter There are people who are paid professionals to help you work through those They are a much better option for you" That’s a great summation Bussy and concurs with my experience over the years. | |||
 . Hope you had an amazing time | |||
