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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi all,

I like to think I have manners and know how to treat a lady (opening doors etc.....) however I have a question.

What is the general consensus on social meets and how you settle the bill? The good mannered me thinks I should pay.

Answers on a postcard please.

Gary

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Social meets are good, I've really enjoyed every one I have had, at times more than sex meets

And about the bill it depends where you have been? A meal? Couple of drinks? Pictures? Barbados

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By *edmark07Man over a year ago

liverpool

I always pay. My thinking is the lady forks out on hair,make up etc (well most do) so I like to pay for the night

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends on how the social went. If they were insistent and I was looking to meet them again, I would let them and pay the next time. If they have travelled a fair distance to me, I pay.....

Lots of 'depends'

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

If we're having a drink I like to take turns getting a round in, and if it was dinner I'd split the bill.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I generally find that we find a way of splitting the expenses equitably. There has been occasions where I’ve treated the person I’m meeting as it was special occasion, as a I might do for any friend.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Throated?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ah treated

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Throated? "

Bloody autocorrect

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman over a year ago

all loved up

"Hi all,

I like to think I have manners and know how to treat a lady (opening doors etc.....) however I have a question.

What is the general consensus on social meets and how you settle the bill? The good mannered me thinks I should pay.

Answers on a postcard please.

Gary"
I only have a drink on the rare occasions I've done a social. I would expect whoever invited the other out to the social to get the first drink. Then the other get a 2nd one. I wouldn't have food or if I did I'd pay my own x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Throated?

Bloody autocorrect "

It’s not even a word is it? My iPad has a mind of its own

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By *uzzy NavelWoman over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"If we're having a drink I like to take turns getting a round in, and if it was dinner I'd split the bill. "

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Throated?

Bloody autocorrect

It’s not even a word is it? My iPad has a mind of its own

Or fat fingers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's never a question for me, even if I was out with just a mate, I'd offer and maybe we'd fight over it, but always offer, it's hardly gonna set you into remortgage territory....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would definitely split the bill, always xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In general to keep it as a social then go Dutch. If inviting on a date then instigator should pick up the bill?

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By *amesRobs1987Man over a year ago

Brighton

I'd offer to pay, if she offers to split I'd 'gently' insist, if she insisted harder I'd split.

Good to offer, but don't patronise by refusing to accept the split - she probably earns her own decent money!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Throated?

Bloody autocorrect

It’s not even a word is it? My iPad has a mind of its own

Or fat fingers

My fingers aren’t fat, they are slender but it could still be inaccuracy of my thumb placement

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Regardless of the type of meet from here I always like to split the cost evenly - leaves no sense of expectation or obligation that way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just say can we pay for our own drinks then there’s no awkwardness & no pressure if all goes well treat them next time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

First date, always split the bill

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

If out drinking, it’s a take it turn for the rounds. Dinner would be a 50/50 split

I like to pay my own way

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks everyone. Have a great weekend.

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By * and RoxCouple over a year ago

Blackpool/Leeds

we always prefer to meet couples or singles first for a social it breaks the ice you ger a feel and when the banter rolls it gets you up for fun and is all part of it for us x

If we are in a club again bit of banter then game on all good fun x

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