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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Possibly the same reason women feel the need to tell you what they’re not going to do with you in the first message.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ? "

How would you know?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Possibly the same reason women feel the need to tell you what they’re not going to do with you in the first message. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Possibly the same reason women feel the need to tell you what they’re not going to do with you in the first message. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ? "

Should say some men, but always men.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

"hey baby, I'm going to be ultimately fuck you over", that sort of thing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ?

How would you know?"

Total guess. I’ll wait to be told it never happens and that all first messages are lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ?

How would you know?"

He’s been doing research

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Possibly the same reason women feel the need to tell you what they’re not going to do with you in the first message. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ? "

No idea.....but it pisses me off no end when I'm just about to tuck into my porridge and some fucking clown decides to tell me he wants to cover me from head to toe in cum.

Cheers mate

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ? "

I don't.

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By *uciyassMan  over a year ago

sheffield

Man is great. Man can read the future. Man has enoromous cock and knows how to use it. No woman can escape mans sexual greatness.

Dam sorry I was thinking about straight man sex. Oops

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ?

I don't. "

I clarified to some men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ?

No idea.....but it pisses me off no end when I'm just about to tuck into my porridge and some fucking clown decides to tell me he wants to cover me from head to toe in cum.

Cheers mate "

Put you right off your oats.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because its hard to maintain an erectoon while writing a message that isn't just soft porn....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Probably because it makes them feel superior or some shit, maybe they have sent so many messages with the usual ‘hey’ and nothing else and got no where so thought ‘fuck it, I’ll go all in’. Had one the other day which wasn’t graphic in words but pictures, how they thought that would be a turn on I have no idea as it almost made me vomit!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ? "

U been getting rude messages again?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ? "

Because they are fuckwits

It's a really efficient filter though!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Possibly the same reason women feel the need to tell you what they’re not going to do with you in the first message.

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Could be speaking of himself?

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By *ea monkeyMan  over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


""hey baby, I'm going to be ultimately fuck you over", that sort of thing? "

"I'm going to pepper you with compliments and attention until we've met, then I'll pretend that you don't exist." that sort of thing?

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman  over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ? "

I have no idea

But I can guarantee it won't happen!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ? "

Very true! Love reading the messages my wife gets sent! most guys are just clueless! Lmao!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury

Although about a third of them are just "how you doing?" Or similar.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like it best when it's one giant block of text with no punctuation.

Especially if they send the same one repeatedly.

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By *he Cheeky GirlsCouple (FF)  over a year ago

Dover and Benidorm

Because their control freaks.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple  over a year ago

Coventry

Easy, women don't have any plans, desires and wants. Simply there to facilitate the plans of random strangers.

At least I think that's how it works

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By *ulfilthmentMan  over a year ago

Just around the corner


"No idea.....but it pisses me off no end when I'm just about to tuck into my porridge and some fucking clown decides to tell me he wants to cover me from head to toe in cum."

I find golden syrup much tastier at that time of day.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

How do you know ?

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By *hubaysiWoman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Although about a third of them are just "how you doing?" Or similar. "

No it’s how u doin ? Lol

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By *ulfilthmentMan  over a year ago

Just around the corner


"Although about a third of them are just "how you doing?" Or similar.

No it’s how u doin ? Lol "

That only works if you get the head nod just right.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Suddenly appear

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Or if they are rejected say the person is missing the best fuck of their life

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You know what tho what is the right approach? I've tried all different ways and never get it right

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

South Wales

It’s because at that moment, they have an erection. And instead of messaging “hey tits, look at my powerful erection” they go down the overly sensual, heavily laden with licking pussy, sex scenario.

I don’t mind personally, but if you’re going to send me filth it has to be very, very dirty. And not a lot of men on here are. Initially.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"It’s because at that moment, they have an erection. And instead of messaging “hey tits, look at my powerful erection” they go down the overly sensual, heavily laden with licking pussy, sex scenario.

I don’t mind personally, but if you’re going to send me filth it has to be very, very dirty. And not a lot of men on here are. Initially.

"

I'll bring my funnel...

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

South Wales


"It’s because at that moment, they have an erection. And instead of messaging “hey tits, look at my powerful erection” they go down the overly sensual, heavily laden with licking pussy, sex scenario.

I don’t mind personally, but if you’re going to send me filth it has to be very, very dirty. And not a lot of men on here are. Initially.

I'll bring my funnel..."

Don’t bother, i’ll take it as it comes

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By *carlet_heavenWoman  over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks

As they possess a brain no larger than a pea it’s inevitable!

All of us, male & female have the opportunity during our lifetime to evolve & expand our brains through knowledge, experience & learning. Only very few however are inquisitive & sensible enough to achieve this as modern society sets traps to stop us from continued self development.

Consequently the majority of people stay at a certain level of personal development (think Daily Mail reader) & are content to function at that level. Not just men...although I suspect that certain online alogarithms are aimed at certain types of men that have failed to reach their full potential but are never the less ‘happy’ with that & these alogarithms show them adverts on the internet which tell them that there are millions of women desperate to be fucked by men just like them (although their lifelong personal experience has offered them little evidence of this) & they are directed via search engines to ‘sex’ sites where most female profiles are fake. Unfortunately, due to poorly evolved critical thinking processes in their brain they choose to believe what is obviously untrue, find sites such as this one & get frustrated when confronted with reality (of women not being desperate to fuck anyone). Because they are unable, or slow, to adapt their thinking they continue with their original belief & continue speaking to women as if they are positive that they will appear irresistible to them.

It’s a theory I’ve formed on the basis of observation & experience.

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

They think it's sexy and it's what we want to hear!! Idiots

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’m nice in the forums hence need to strike a balance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It’s because at that moment, they have an erection. And instead of messaging “hey tits, look at my powerful erection” they go down the overly sensual, heavily laden with licking pussy, sex scenario.

I don’t mind personally, but if you’re going to send me filth it has to be very, very dirty. And not a lot of men on here are. Initially.

"

Basically it’s their cocks doing the typing, their cock is telling the bloke this is gold, she will love this, while the bloke says okay fella you know best. And the cock replies, ‘Trust me I got this!’

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By *ittleAcornMan  over a year ago

visiting the beach


"As they possess a brain no larger than a pea it’s inevitable!

All of us, male & female have the opportunity during our lifetime to evolve & expand our brains through knowledge, experience & learning. Only very few however are inquisitive & sensible enough to achieve this as modern society sets traps to stop us from continued self development.

Consequently the majority of people stay at a certain level of personal development (think Daily Mail reader) & are content to function at that level. Not just men...although I suspect that certain online alogarithms are aimed at certain types of men that have failed to reach their full potential but are never the less ‘happy’ with that & these alogarithms show them adverts on the internet which tell them that there are millions of women desperate to be fucked by men just like them (although their lifelong personal experience has offered them little evidence of this) & they are directed via search engines to ‘sex’ sites where most female profiles are fake. Unfortunately, due to poorly evolved critical thinking processes in their brain they choose to believe what is obviously untrue, find sites such as this one & get frustrated when confronted with reality (of women not being desperate to fuck anyone). Because they are unable, or slow, to adapt their thinking they continue with their original belief & continue speaking to women as if they are positive that they will appear irresistible to them.

It’s a theory I’ve formed on the basis of observation & experience.

"

...those adverts aren't real?!

Bugger!

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

South Wales


"It’s because at that moment, they have an erection. And instead of messaging “hey tits, look at my powerful erection” they go down the overly sensual, heavily laden with licking pussy, sex scenario.

I don’t mind personally, but if you’re going to send me filth it has to be very, very dirty. And not a lot of men on here are. Initially.

Basically it’s their cocks doing the typing, their cock is telling the bloke this is gold, she will love this, while the bloke says okay fella you know best. And the cock replies, ‘Trust me I got this!’ "

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It’s because at that moment, they have an erection. And instead of messaging “hey tits, look at my powerful erection” they go down the overly sensual, heavily laden with licking pussy, sex scenario.

I don’t mind personally, but if you’re going to send me filth it has to be very, very dirty. And not a lot of men on here are. Initially.

"

Well that's me out, dont id pass the background check

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think we're possibly supposed to feel grateful when a man deigns to lavish that much attention on us. I mean, he could have chosen any woman, right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"How do you know ? "

When you speak to women, they tell you things.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How do you know ?

When you speak to women, they tell you things. "

Speak to women? You mean not at them?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How do you know ?

When you speak to women, they tell you things.

Speak to women? You mean not at them? "

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By *ickygirl41Woman  over a year ago

Glasgow


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ? "

"I'm going to message you hard baby, want to watch me type out explicit messages about my throbbing member? Ooh yeah baby! I'll keep it coming til you read my profile and block me!"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


""hey baby, I'm going to be ultimately fuck you over", that sort of thing?

"I'm going to pepper you with compliments and attention until we've met, then I'll pretend that you don't exist." that sort of thing?

"

I thought this only happened to me! Always being ghosted after a meet

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By *hilloutMan  over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ? "

Because they're clueless on the art of seduction.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"How do you know ?

When you speak to women, they tell you things.

Speak to women? You mean not at them? "

I’m a very Attentive listener, always asking probing questions!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ?

"I'm going to message you hard baby, want to watch me type out explicit messages about my throbbing member? Ooh yeah baby! I'll keep it coming til you read my profile and block me!"

"

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By *rkeb3Man  over a year ago

east Lancashire road

Why not ask ur self ur a man arnt u?

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By * Lexi xWoman  over a year ago

stockport


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ? "

I don’t think you need to explain anything with a cock like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ?

I don’t think you need to explain anything with a cock like that "

I just tell them I have no idea what I’m doing with it. Keep expectations low!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why have no men appeared on this thread to explain their motivations?

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By *orraine999Woman  over a year ago

Somewhere


"Possibly the same reason women feel the need to tell you what they’re not going to do with you in the first message. "

Touche....

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By *onygirlieWoman  over a year ago

Leicestershire

One guy sent me a really nice message about how he thought I had a lovely face.

Some guys are really nice

Makes up for the idiots...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How do you know ?

When you speak to women, they tell you things.

Speak to women? You mean not at them?

I’m a very Attentive listener, always asking probing questions! "

Hahahahah!

That is SOOOOO not the dynamic of our friendship!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"How do you know ?

When you speak to women, they tell you things.

Speak to women? You mean not at them?

I’m a very Attentive listener, always asking probing questions!

Hahahahah!

That is SOOOOO not the dynamic of our friendship! "

Think she said something about a hammock or some shit.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ?

How would you know?"

hes been catfishing

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend

They might not get a chance to send a second message

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Speak for yourself I would never be as crass as that and no one connecting with Scooby has ever done that. Respect and manners cost nothing. Male

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think we're possibly supposed to feel grateful when a man deigns to lavish that much attention on us. I mean, he could have chosen any woman, right? "

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By *r MoriartyMan  over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Yet women love erotic novels, it makes no sense.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Most of them seem to like cake...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Most of them seem to like cake..."

Cake you say

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Most of them seem to like cake...

Cake you say "

Rose cake....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Most of them seem to like cake...

Cake you say

Rose cake...."

Any cake will do

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yet women love erotic novels, it makes no sense."

Mills & Boon: "He grabbed her hips firmly and drew her towards him. She gasped with pleasure as her heaving breasts pressed against his manly chest. He kissed her passionately and she melted into his arms."

Fab man: "i wanna wank over yer tits and finger yer minge so kik me bbz...."

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By *r MoriartyMan  over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"Yet women love erotic novels, it makes no sense.

Mills & Boon: "He grabbed her hips firmly and drew her towards him. She gasped with pleasure as her heaving breasts pressed against his manly chest. He kissed her passionately and she melted into his arms."

Fab man: "i wanna wank over yer tits and finger yer minge so kik me bbz....""

What's your point?

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

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"Yet women love erotic novels, it makes no sense.

Mills & Boon: "He grabbed her hips firmly and drew her towards him. She gasped with pleasure as her heaving breasts pressed against his manly chest. He kissed her passionately and she melted into his arms."

Fab man: "i wanna wank over yer tits and finger yer minge so kik me bbz....""

And people mock Mills & Boon

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yet women love erotic novels, it makes no sense.

Mills & Boon: "He grabbed her hips firmly and drew her towards him. She gasped with pleasure as her heaving breasts pressed against his manly chest. He kissed her passionately and she melted into his arms."

Fab man: "i wanna wank over yer tits and finger yer minge so kik me bbz...."

What's your point?"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

how can you ever know whats gonna happen in a first meet??,unless its a role play scenario?

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By *uzukiNo1Woman  over a year ago

Rhyl

In case they forget? I dunno.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Speak for yourself I would never be as crass as that and no one connecting with Scooby has ever done that. Respect and manners cost nothing. Male "

Thanks male.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Yet women love erotic novels, it makes no sense.

Mills & Boon: "He grabbed her hips firmly and drew her towards him. She gasped with pleasure as her heaving breasts pressed against his manly chest. He kissed her passionately and she melted into his arms."

Fab man: "i wanna wank over yer tits and finger yer minge so kik me bbz....""

What novel is the second one in, I’m getting it?!

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By *ndrew CareyMan  over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ? "

I've never done this

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

it really does depend who sent the message

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By *.H.SMan  over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Planting psychological seeds isn't always as bad thing. Doesn't need to be filth.....

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By *adeiteWoman  over a year ago

Staffordshire

It's like a bedtime story for me. They start to waffle on and my the 5th word I'm asleep

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yet women love erotic novels, it makes no sense.

Mills & Boon: "He grabbed her hips firmly and drew her towards him. She gasped with pleasure as her heaving breasts pressed against his manly chest. He kissed her passionately and she melted into his arms."

Fab man: "i wanna wank over yer tits and finger yer minge so kik me bbz...."

What novel is the second one in, I’m getting it?!"

Print it out. That's the entire thing right there. No happy ending.

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By *ust PeachyWoman  over a year ago

Prestonish


"Yet women love erotic novels, it makes no sense.

Mills & Boon: "He grabbed her hips firmly and drew her towards him. She gasped with pleasure as her heaving breasts pressed against his manly chest. He kissed her passionately and she melted into his arms."

Fab man: "i wanna wank over yer tits and finger yer minge so kik me bbz...."

What novel is the second one in, I’m getting it?!

Print it out. That's the entire thing right there. No happy ending. "

I’m told you need to go to a ‘special ‘ massage parlour for one of those?

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By *nabelle21Woman  over a year ago

B38


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ? "

I don't know but I do know that for me less said can definitely be more. A tantalising tease which sets your own imagination on fire. I like that.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yet women love erotic novels, it makes no sense.

Mills & Boon: "He grabbed her hips firmly and drew her towards him. She gasped with pleasure as her heaving breasts pressed against his manly chest. He kissed her passionately and she melted into his arms."

Fab man: "i wanna wank over yer tits and finger yer minge so kik me bbz...."

What novel is the second one in, I’m getting it?!

Print it out. That's the entire thing right there. No happy ending.

I’m told you need to go to a ‘special ‘ massage parlour for one of those? "

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By *ensualtouch15Man  over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ? "

It's the exact same reason the plaster their profile with pics of their penis

They are clueless x or like men

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ?

It's the exact same reason the plaster their profile with pics of their penis

They are clueless x or like men "

Some people like to see dick pics.

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By *tingly ByronMan  over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

Penis envy. That's a thing, right?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"it really does depend who sent the message "

Ta daa.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Penis envy. That's a thing, right?"

I would love to have a penis

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend


"Yet women love erotic novels, it makes no sense.

Mills & Boon: "He grabbed her hips firmly and drew her towards him. She gasped with pleasure as her heaving breasts pressed against his manly chest. He kissed her passionately and she melted into his arms."

Fab man: "i wanna wank over yer tits and finger yer minge so kik me bbz....""

Me ...I've got fruitcake or cheesecake

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Penis envy. That's a thing, right?

I would love to have a penis "

In your ass?

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By *tingly ByronMan  over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Penis envy. That's a thing, right?

I would love to have a penis

In your ass? "

Kaitlin, you got this one....

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By *ust PeachyWoman  over a year ago

Prestonish


"Yet women love erotic novels, it makes no sense.

Mills & Boon: "He grabbed her hips firmly and drew her towards him. She gasped with pleasure as her heaving breasts pressed against his manly chest. He kissed her passionately and she melted into his arms."

Fab man: "i wanna wank over yer tits and finger yer minge so kik me bbz...."

Me ...I've got fruitcake or cheesecake"

New York vanilla cheesecake with salted caramel ice cream?

Say yes and I’m yours!

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By *tingly ByronMan  over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ?

It's the exact same reason the plaster their profile with pics of their penis

They are clueless x or like men "

I suspect men looking for men are visually more attracted to a good physique that a cock.

Equally men with a good physique can use it to attract women and men.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Penis envy. That's a thing, right?

I would love to have a penis

In your ass? "

You know me so well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ?

It's the exact same reason the plaster their profile with pics of their penis

They are clueless x or like men "

Except my penis gets women messaging me first, in fact when I put my penis on my avatar my messages from women probably more than double. So not really that clueless.

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By *nabelle21Woman  over a year ago

B38


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ?

It's the exact same reason the plaster their profile with pics of their penis

They are clueless x or like men

Except my penis gets women messaging me first, in fact when I put my penis on my avatar my messages from women probably more than double. So not really that clueless. "

It is a great penis

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By *tingly ByronMan  over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ?

It's the exact same reason the plaster their profile with pics of their penis

They are clueless x or like men

Except my penis gets women messaging me first, in fact when I put my penis on my avatar my messages from women probably more than double. So not really that clueless.

It is a great penis "

Gotta be honest, if my tumescence was half as grand I'd have it out all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ?

It's the exact same reason the plaster their profile with pics of their penis

They are clueless x or like men

Except my penis gets women messaging me first, in fact when I put my penis on my avatar my messages from women probably more than double. So not really that clueless.

It is a great penis "

Exactly, not many men have such a handsome penis. I reckon most men wouldn't get such favourable responses to cock avatars.

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By *carlettxWoman  over a year ago

Essex


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ? "

Hahahaha yeah why do men do that ?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Because they are thinking with their dicks.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because they are thinking with their dicks. "

Do you think if they spoke with their cocks they'd just hiss and spit?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Because they are thinking with their dicks.

Do you think if they spoke with their cocks they'd just hiss and spit? "

No idea.

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By *ensualtouch15Man  over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Aw bless you all for being so defensive about Tame's penis

Now let's add some facts

There have been many forum threads on penis pics

The general consensus would usually be 90 percent would prefer it left to the imagination , often with a follow up of "is a penis all they have to offer ?"

Of course some ladies like to see a penis but it is mostly articulated they prefer not

One may note that according to the forums the men and their penis pic on hot men have most likely been fabbed by men and it's also articulated on the forum that a profile holding a good bod and or penis pics will attract men in droves yet is more hit or miss with ladies

From experience , I too have a number of first messages , many from men , some from men on profiles pretending to be ladies , and indeed some ladies including some of the most lovely on the forums ,thank you

Now back to rude first messages ,often the Male involved would hold a similar mind set to penis presentation to what they feel most women want ie this is graphically what I can give you ,

90 percent of women as demonstrated in the forums do not like this approach either

However according to reading lady's profiles some indeed want to hear dirty talk

Thus my simple clear mildly humourous and mainly factual point is

The general mindset(not applicable in all cases) to send dirty first message or present a penis would be ( look here you can have this and I'll tell you what I can do to make you howel) as regularly written on this forum , both approaches are not generally recommended, especially when man with numerous penis pics asks for profile advice

Nice to know everyone loves tame , but I'm sure his wisdom and experience at ribbing others would mean he would realise its playful banter , do you use a penis pump and l arginine bruuuu xxx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Aw bless you all for being so defensive about Tame's penis

Now let's add some facts

There have been many forum threads on penis pics

The general consensus would usually be 90 percent would prefer it left to the imagination , often with a follow up of "is a penis all they have to offer ?"

Of course some ladies like to see a penis but it is mostly articulated they prefer not

One may note that according to the forums the men and their penis pic on hot men have most likely been fabbed by men and it's also articulated on the forum that a profile holding a good bod and or penis pics will attract men in droves yet is more hit or miss with ladies

From experience , I too have a number of first messages , many from men , some from men on profiles pretending to be ladies , and indeed some ladies including some of the most lovely on the forums ,thank you

Now back to rude first messages ,often the Male involved would hold a similar mind set to penis presentation to what they feel most women want ie this is graphically what I can give you ,

90 percent of women as demonstrated in the forums do not like this approach either

However according to reading lady's profiles some indeed want to hear dirty talk

Thus my simple clear mildly humourous and mainly factual point is

The general mindset(not applicable in all cases) to send dirty first message or present a penis would be ( look here you can have this and I'll tell you what I can do to make you howel) as regularly written on this forum , both approaches are not generally recommended, especially when man with numerous penis pics asks for profile advice

Nice to know everyone loves tame , but I'm sure his wisdom and experience at ribbing others would mean he would realise its playful banter , do you use a penis pump and l arginine bruuuu xxx"

You're using the woman of the forums as a gauge for all women on the site?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ?

Hahahaha yeah why do men do that ? "

I'm guessing to them it's porn with a pulse

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman  over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ? "

Because they think it will work...because that's what they do in pubs etc ...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

They're looking for gullible females.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ? "

I think it's animal instinct.

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By *tingly ByronMan  over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Aw bless you all for being so defensive about Tame's penis

Now let's add some facts

There have been many forum threads on penis pics

The general consensus would usually be 90 percent would prefer it left to the imagination , often with a follow up of "is a penis all they have to offer ?"

Of course some ladies like to see a penis but it is mostly articulated they prefer not

One may note that according to the forums the men and their penis pic on hot men have most likely been fabbed by men and it's also articulated on the forum that a profile holding a good bod and or penis pics will attract men in droves yet is more hit or miss with ladies

From experience , I too have a number of first messages , many from men , some from men on profiles pretending to be ladies , and indeed some ladies including some of the most lovely on the forums ,thank you

Now back to rude first messages ,often the Male involved would hold a similar mind set to penis presentation to what they feel most women want ie this is graphically what I can give you ,

90 percent of women as demonstrated in the forums do not like this approach either

However according to reading lady's profiles some indeed want to hear dirty talk

Thus my simple clear mildly humourous and mainly factual point is

The general mindset(not applicable in all cases) to send dirty first message or present a penis would be ( look here you can have this and I'll tell you what I can do to make you howel) as regularly written on this forum , both approaches are not generally recommended, especially when man with numerous penis pics asks for profile advice

Nice to know everyone loves tame , but I'm sure his wisdom and experience at ribbing others would mean he would realise its playful banter , do you use a penis pump and l arginine bruuuu xxx

You're using the woman of the forums as a gauge for all women on the site? "

You beat me to it.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm starting to feel a bit put upon, being lumped in with these arseholes.

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By *he Cheeky GirlsCouple (FF)  over a year ago

Dover and Benidorm


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ?

It's the exact same reason the plaster their profile with pics of their penis

They are clueless x or like men

Except my penis gets women messaging me first, in fact when I put my penis on my avatar my messages from women probably more than double. So not really that clueless. "

I'd rather a man have something interesting between his ears, than between his thighs.

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By *nabelle21Woman  over a year ago

B38


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ? "

What's your opening gambit?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ?

What's your opening gambit?"

With you, I think I’d ask which hob you use the most.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I thought he was using reverse pyschology

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By *icentiousCouple  over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Neanderthal fore play?

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By *ickygirl41Woman  over a year ago

Glasgow


"Most of them seem to like cake..."

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend


"Yet women love erotic novels, it makes no sense.

Mills & Boon: "He grabbed her hips firmly and drew her towards him. She gasped with pleasure as her heaving breasts pressed against his manly chest. He kissed her passionately and she melted into his arms."

Fab man: "i wanna wank over yer tits and finger yer minge so kik me bbz...."

Me ...I've got fruitcake or cheesecake

New York vanilla cheesecake with salted caramel ice cream?

Say yes and I’m yours! "

I'll get some in specially

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By *ensualtouch15Man  over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Aw bless you all for being so defensive about Tame's penis

Now let's add some facts

There have been many forum threads on penis pics

The general consensus would usually be 90 percent would prefer it left to the imagination , often with a follow up of "is a penis all they have to offer ?"

Of course some ladies like to see a penis but it is mostly articulated they prefer not

One may note that according to the forums the men and their penis pic on hot men have most likely been fabbed by men and it's also articulated on the forum that a profile holding a good bod and or penis pics will attract men in droves yet is more hit or miss with ladies

From experience , I too have a number of first messages , many from men , some from men on profiles pretending to be ladies , and indeed some ladies including some of the most lovely on the forums ,thank you

Now back to rude first messages ,often the Male involved would hold a similar mind set to penis presentation to what they feel most women want ie this is graphically what I can give you ,

90 percent of women as demonstrated in the forums do not like this approach either

However according to reading lady's profiles some indeed want to hear dirty talk

Thus my simple clear mildly humourous and mainly factual point is

The general mindset(not applicable in all cases) to send dirty first message or present a penis would be ( look here you can have this and I'll tell you what I can do to make you howel) as regularly written on this forum , both approaches are not generally recommended, especially when man with numerous penis pics asks for profile advice

Nice to know everyone loves tame , but I'm sure his wisdom and experience at ribbing others would mean he would realise its playful banter , do you use a penis pump and l arginine bruuuu xxx

You're using the woman of the forums as a gauge for all women on the site?

You beat me to it..... "

Ahh it seems you have both missed the subtlety x

No that's the exact opposite of my intention

I was actually pointing out what has already been said by others on the subjects and subtlety pointing out that those who give such sage advice do indeed always suggest they are talking for all women , I often find it odd they dismiss penis pic profiles so authoritatively x I wrote it such and with intent that your predictable accusation of bad statistics could be directed at those forumites who do as you accuse x

Dispute the extrapolation dispute it with those who do it

I was clear to point out the opinions given were actually not mine ,that's why you picked up on it

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By *nabelle21Woman  over a year ago

B38


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ?

What's your opening gambit?

With you, I think I’d ask which hob you use the most."

Well I do switch it up.....let's let's say I'm cooking on gas

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ? "

Possibly because they believe that they don’t stand a snowballs chance, so they get all like to do out of the first message knowing that they’ll be blocked

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By *ensualtouch15Man  over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ?

Possibly because they believe that they don’t stand a snowballs chance, so they get all like to do out of the first message knowing that they’ll be blocked"

Is it possible most women of fab like such messages and on the whole work out successfully for the sender ?

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By *r MoriartyMan  over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic.

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By *stellaWoman  over a year ago

London


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic."

But what would you wanna do to all the women? We wanna know!!

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By *r MoriartyMan  over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic.

But what would you wanna do to all the women? We wanna know!! "

Mostly I would like to fuck them in the arse then cum on their face.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like to do the opposite and tell them what I want them to do to me in the first message

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By *nabelle21Woman  over a year ago

B38


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic."

If you dont ask you dont get.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I like to do the opposite and tell them what I want them to do to me in the first message "

That is very very very very true.

I know.

I was that message.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman  over a year ago

...


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ? "

I'm going to bend you over and Fuck your arse until you weep for your mammy

Always a winner

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

.


"I like to do the opposite and tell them what I want them to do to me in the first message "

Originality. Nice.

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By *moothCriminal_xMan  over a year ago

Redditch


"I like to do the opposite and tell them what I want them to do to me in the first message

Originality. Nice. "

Im going incompetently muff you out for 15 minutes and then fumble about to get it in and will cum in 30secs or less...

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By *r MoriartyMan  over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic.

If you dont ask you dont get."

I'm not really fussed

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By *nabelle21Woman  over a year ago

B38


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic.

If you dont ask you dont get.

I'm not really fussed"

I can relate to that

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By *nabelle21Woman  over a year ago

B38


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic.

If you dont ask you dont get.

I'm not really fussed

I can relate to that"

Mind you now I've seen your picks...Helloooo how you doing

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By *stellaWoman  over a year ago

London


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic.

But what would you wanna do to all the women? We wanna know!!

Mostly I would like to fuck them in the arse then cum on their face."

You should totally send first messages.

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By *r MoriartyMan  over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic.

If you dont ask you dont get.

I'm not really fussed

I can relate to that

Mind you now I've seen your picks...Helloooo how you doing"

I'm alright, you alright?

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By *nabelle21Woman  over a year ago

B38


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic.

If you dont ask you dont get.

I'm not really fussed

I can relate to that

Mind you now I've seen your picks...Helloooo how you doing

I'm alright, you alright?"

All the better for seeing you

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By *r MoriartyMan  over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic.

But what would you wanna do to all the women? We wanna know!!

Mostly I would like to fuck them in the arse then cum on their face.

You should totally send first messages. "

I'll pop that in a first message and see how it goes down.

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By *stellaWoman  over a year ago

London


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic.

But what would you wanna do to all the women? We wanna know!!

Mostly I would like to fuck them in the arse then cum on their face.

You should totally send first messages.

I'll pop that in a first message and see how it goes down."

It’s been two minutes and I’ve not received a message.

Boo.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic.

If you dont ask you dont get."

As a rule, if you do ask you don't get, and you spend a lot more time, effort and trouble doing it.

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By *moothCriminal_xMan  over a year ago

Redditch


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic.

But what would you wanna do to all the women? We wanna know!!

Mostly I would like to fuck them in the arse then cum on their face.

You should totally send first messages.

I'll pop that in a first message and see how it goes down.

It’s been two minutes and I’ve not received a message.

Boo."

Thought u had replied to me and i just sent one lol

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By *stellaWoman  over a year ago

London


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic.

But what would you wanna do to all the women? We wanna know!!

Mostly I would like to fuck them in the arse then cum on their face.

You should totally send first messages.

I'll pop that in a first message and see how it goes down.

It’s been two minutes and I’ve not received a message.

Boo.

Thought u had replied to me and i just sent one lol"

Okay that’s awkward. Did I just delete your message?

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By *moothCriminal_xMan  over a year ago

Redditch


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic.

But what would you wanna do to all the women? We wanna know!!

Mostly I would like to fuck them in the arse then cum on their face.

You should totally send first messages.

I'll pop that in a first message and see how it goes down.

It’s been two minutes and I’ve not received a message.

Boo.

Thought u had replied to me and i just sent one lol

Okay that’s awkward. Did I just delete your message? "

Haha yep. I hadnt read what you were replying properly and just saw a few similar words.

Now im gonna write about this in my rejection diary ??

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By *r MoriartyMan  over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic.

But what would you wanna do to all the women? We wanna know!!

Mostly I would like to fuck them in the arse then cum on their face.

You should totally send first messages.

I'll pop that in a first message and see how it goes down.

It’s been two minutes and I’ve not received a message.

Boo."

I've d*unk half a bottle of rum tonight, I'm struggling to focus let alone type.

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By *stellaWoman  over a year ago

London


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic.

But what would you wanna do to all the women? We wanna know!!

Mostly I would like to fuck them in the arse then cum on their face.

You should totally send first messages.

I'll pop that in a first message and see how it goes down.

It’s been two minutes and I’ve not received a message.

Boo.

Thought u had replied to me and i just sent one lol

Okay that’s awkward. Did I just delete your message?

Haha yep. I hadnt read what you were replying properly and just saw a few similar words.

Now im gonna write about this in my rejection diary ?? "

What I was replying on the thread?

Apologies, I’ve been just deleting messages without reading today if I don’t know the person.

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By *stellaWoman  over a year ago

London


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic.

But what would you wanna do to all the women? We wanna know!!

Mostly I would like to fuck them in the arse then cum on their face.

You should totally send first messages.

I'll pop that in a first message and see how it goes down.

It’s been two minutes and I’ve not received a message.

Boo.

I've d*unk half a bottle of rum tonight, I'm struggling to focus let alone type. "

Rum over bum.

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By *r MoriartyMan  over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic.

But what would you wanna do to all the women? We wanna know!!

Mostly I would like to fuck them in the arse then cum on their face.

You should totally send first messages.

I'll pop that in a first message and see how it goes down.

It’s been two minutes and I’ve not received a message.

Boo.

I've d*unk half a bottle of rum tonight, I'm struggling to focus let alone type.

Rum over bum. "

Never

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By *nabelle21Woman  over a year ago

B38


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic.

If you dont ask you dont get.

As a rule, if you do ask you don't get, and you spend a lot more time, effort and trouble doing it."

I understand that and as a woman it is a totally different beast. Still you got to be in it to win it...so to speak.

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By *r MoriartyMan  over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic.

If you dont ask you dont get.

I'm not really fussed

I can relate to that

Mind you now I've seen your picks...Helloooo how you doing

I'm alright, you alright?

All the better for seeing you"

Are you little red riding hood?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic.

If you dont ask you dont get.

As a rule, if you do ask you don't get, and you spend a lot more time, effort and trouble doing it.

I understand that and as a woman it is a totally different beast. Still you got to be in it to win it...so to speak. "

As Einstein allegedly said, the definition of insanity is repeating the same action again and again and expecting a different result.

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By *nabelle21Woman  over a year ago

B38


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic.

If you dont ask you dont get.

I'm not really fussed

I can relate to that

Mind you now I've seen your picks...Helloooo how you doing

I'm alright, you alright?

All the better for seeing you

Are you little red riding hood?"

No more like the big bad wolf..I fear little red riding hood...she's a formidable character

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By *r MoriartyMan  over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic.

If you dont ask you dont get.

I'm not really fussed

I can relate to that

Mind you now I've seen your picks...Helloooo how you doing

I'm alright, you alright?

All the better for seeing you

Are you little red riding hood?

No more like the big bad wolf..I fear little red riding hood...she's a formidable character"

I'm watching the new series of Sabrina at the minute, she's hot but I wouldn't fuck with her.

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By *nabelle21Woman  over a year ago

B38


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic.

If you dont ask you dont get.

As a rule, if you do ask you don't get, and you spend a lot more time, effort and trouble doing it.

I understand that and as a woman it is a totally different beast. Still you got to be in it to win it...so to speak.

As Einstein allegedly said, the definition of insanity is repeating the same action again and again and expecting a different result."

Yes but without hope what is one left with? I'm ever the optimist.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic.

If you dont ask you dont get.

As a rule, if you do ask you don't get, and you spend a lot more time, effort and trouble doing it.

I understand that and as a woman it is a totally different beast. Still you got to be in it to win it...so to speak.

As Einstein allegedly said, the definition of insanity is repeating the same action again and again and expecting a different result.

Yes but without hope what is one left with? I'm ever the optimist."

Give it long enough, hope just starts to hurt.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ? "
because they got nothing to loses if the are perfect in the way they say it

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By *nabelle21Woman  over a year ago

B38


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic.

If you dont ask you dont get.

As a rule, if you do ask you don't get, and you spend a lot more time, effort and trouble doing it.

I understand that and as a woman it is a totally different beast. Still you got to be in it to win it...so to speak.

As Einstein allegedly said, the definition of insanity is repeating the same action again and again and expecting a different result.

Yes but without hope what is one left with? I'm ever the optimist.

Give it long enough, hope just starts to hurt. "

There is somebody for everyone hopefully x

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By *nabelle21Woman  over a year ago

B38


"I just don't bother sending first messages, what's the point. I'm not bitter just realistic.

If you dont ask you dont get.

I'm not really fussed

I can relate to that

Mind you now I've seen your picks...Helloooo how you doing

I'm alright, you alright?

All the better for seeing you

Are you little red riding hood?

No more like the big bad wolf..I fear little red riding hood...she's a formidable character

I'm watching the new series of Sabrina at the minute, she's hot but I wouldn't fuck with her."

Still you can enjoy the view

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"feel the need to tell women what they’re going to do with them in a first message ?

Possibly because they believe that they don’t stand a snowballs chance, so they get all like to do out of the first message knowing that they’ll be blocked

Is it possible most women of fab like such messages and on the whole work out successfully for the sender ?"

Some do some don’t I personally don’t

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Aw bless you all for being so defensive about Tame's penis

Now let's add some facts

There have been many forum threads on penis pics

The general consensus would usually be 90 percent would prefer it left to the imagination , often with a follow up of "is a penis all they have to offer ?"

Of course some ladies like to see a penis but it is mostly articulated they prefer not

One may note that according to the forums the men and their penis pic on hot men have most likely been fabbed by men and it's also articulated on the forum that a profile holding a good bod and or penis pics will attract men in droves yet is more hit or miss with ladies

From experience , I too have a number of first messages , many from men , some from men on profiles pretending to be ladies , and indeed some ladies including some of the most lovely on the forums ,thank you

Now back to rude first messages ,often the Male involved would hold a similar mind set to penis presentation to what they feel most women want ie this is graphically what I can give you ,

90 percent of women as demonstrated in the forums do not like this approach either

However according to reading lady's profiles some indeed want to hear dirty talk

Thus my simple clear mildly humourous and mainly factual point is

The general mindset(not applicable in all cases) to send dirty first message or present a penis would be ( look here you can have this and I'll tell you what I can do to make you howel) as regularly written on this forum , both approaches are not generally recommended, especially when man with numerous penis pics asks for profile advice

Nice to know everyone loves tame , but I'm sure his wisdom and experience at ribbing others would mean he would realise its playful banter , do you use a penis pump and l arginine bruuuu xxx

You're using the woman of the forums as a gauge for all women on the site?

You beat me to it.....

Ahh it seems you have both missed the subtlety x

No that's the exact opposite of my intention

I was actually pointing out what has already been said by others on the subjects and subtlety pointing out that those who give such sage advice do indeed always suggest they are talking for all women , I often find it odd they dismiss penis pic profiles so authoritatively x I wrote it such and with intent that your predictable accusation of bad statistics could be directed at those forumites who do as you accuse x

Dispute the extrapolation dispute it with those who do it

I was clear to point out the opinions given were actually not mine ,that's why you picked up on it

"

So, you did think it's a good thing for Tame to have his penis on show.

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By *ensualtouch15Man  over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Aw bless you all for being so defensive about Tame's penis

Now let's add some facts

There have been many forum threads on penis pics

The general consensus would usually be 90 percent would prefer it left to the imagination , often with a follow up of "is a penis all they have to offer ?"

Of course some ladies like to see a penis but it is mostly articulated they prefer not

One may note that according to the forums the men and their penis pic on hot men have most likely been fabbed by men and it's also articulated on the forum that a profile holding a good bod and or penis pics will attract men in droves yet is more hit or miss with ladies

From experience , I too have a number of first messages , many from men , some from men on profiles pretending to be ladies , and indeed some ladies including some of the most lovely on the forums ,thank you

Now back to rude first messages ,often the Male involved would hold a similar mind set to penis presentation to what they feel most women want ie this is graphically what I can give you ,

90 percent of women as demonstrated in the forums do not like this approach either

However according to reading lady's profiles some indeed want to hear dirty talk

Thus my simple clear mildly humourous and mainly factual point is

The general mindset(not applicable in all cases) to send dirty first message or present a penis would be ( look here you can have this and I'll tell you what I can do to make you howel) as regularly written on this forum , both approaches are not generally recommended, especially when man with numerous penis pics asks for profile advice

Nice to know everyone loves tame , but I'm sure his wisdom and experience at ribbing others would mean he would realise its playful banter , do you use a penis pump and l arginine bruuuu xxx

You're using the woman of the forums as a gauge for all women on the site?

You beat me to it.....

Ahh it seems you have both missed the subtlety x

No that's the exact opposite of my intention

I was actually pointing out what has already been said by others on the subjects and subtlety pointing out that those who give such sage advice do indeed always suggest they are talking for all women , I often find it odd they dismiss penis pic profiles so authoritatively x I wrote it such and with intent that your predictable accusation of bad statistics could be directed at those forumites who do as you accuse x

Dispute the extrapolation dispute it with those who do it

I was clear to point out the opinions given were actually not mine ,that's why you picked up on it

So, you did think it's a good thing for Tame to have his penis on show."

I honestly have no opinion on his penis , and honestly think it's up to him , his profile his choice

My very first post was obviously a flippant bit of humorous banter in keeping with the ops standards of winding others up and dishing out flippant humourous quips

For some reason , I was pretty much launched upon , gang style lol taken at face value and , despite others making judgments upon those who send odd first messages, and the wild assumption that non forumites would hate receiving them , it's my flippant remark linking the mindset with penis pic profile holders that caused such turbulence lol,

Truth is , egos got tweaked by insinuating tame was clueless , of course he isn't clueless

My genuine take

Who cares if a man sends rude messages , we know it works for some and some look creepy

My action I would not do it and my hunch is it's not productive for most

Who cares if a man has penis pics , we know it works for some and some look creepy

My action I would not do it and my hunch is it's not productive for most

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