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"People can use it how they want to "They can, but such a predictable safe answer | |||
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"Haven’t had one of these threads for, ooooh at least a few days." Bit like most the threads, thanks for your intelligent input | |||
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"People can use it how they want to
They can, but such a predictable safe answer "And a correct one - if you don't like the people that want a bit more than just getting naked then pass them by. They are no more wrong in what they are looking for than you are | |||
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"Haven’t had one of these threads for, ooooh at least a few days. Bit like most the threads, thanks for your intelligent input " Thanks for you’re wry observations of the site, truly fascinating. | |||
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"People can use it how they want to
They can, but such a predictable safe answer
And a correct one - if you don't like the people that want a bit more than just getting naked then pass them by. They are no more wrong in what they are looking for than you are "I already agreed with you, I also didn't say I didn't like it I asked an opinion on it | |||
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"What wine and dined??..." To be takin out to a fancy restaurant with wine to drink and good food to eat. (wine and dined ) | |||
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"Haven’t had one of these threads for, ooooh at least a few days. Bit like most the threads, thanks for your intelligent input Thanks for you’re wry observations of the site, truly fascinating. " As you stand with an erection for your profile pic, I was looking to talk to people who are more than just a cock | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this " I'm struggling to see why you view people looking for something different to you as being, in your words, competition. | |||
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"What wine and dined??... To be takin out to a fancy restaurant with wine to drink and good food to eat. (wine and dined )" Nope still dont know what that means   | |||
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"Haven’t had one of these threads for, ooooh at least a few days. Bit like most the threads, thanks for your intelligent input Thanks for you’re wry observations of the site, truly fascinating. As you stand with an erection for your profile pic, I was looking to talk to people who are more than just a cock " Says a blank avatar. | |||
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"People can use it how they want to
They can, but such a predictable safe answer
And a correct one - if you don't like the people that want a bit more than just getting naked then pass them by. They are no more wrong in what they are looking for than you are
I already agreed with you, I also didn't say I didn't like it I asked an opinion on it "But you did - you said they shouldn't be here | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this I'm struggling to see why you view people looking for something different to you as being, in your words, competition. " Fair comment, maybe competition was the incorrect term of phrase, and I would imagine that came from subliminal place in my mind, as my interest is based on how people think with regards to the site, but also being a male with a desire and sexual attitude, therefore causing me to see other males/females as competition | |||
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"People can use it how they want to
They can, but such a predictable safe answer
And a correct one - if you don't like the people that want a bit more than just getting naked then pass them by. They are no more wrong in what they are looking for than you are
I already agreed with you, I also didn't say I didn't like it I asked an opinion on it
But you did - you said they shouldn't be here " | |||
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"People can use it how they want to
They can, but such a predictable safe answer
And a correct one - if you don't like the people that want a bit more than just getting naked then pass them by. They are no more wrong in what they are looking for than you are
I already agreed with you, I also didn't say I didn't like it I asked an opinion on it
But you did - you said they shouldn't be here "Again true, putting my opinion across and asking for others opinions | |||
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"What wine and dined??... To be takin out to a fancy restaurant with wine to drink and good food to eat. (wine and dined ) Nope still dont know what that means "Guy takes you out to a posh restaurant. You both drink wine You both Eat good food. He pays the hole bill. (wine and dined)  | |||
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"People can use it how they want to
They can, but such a predictable safe answer
And a correct one - if you don't like the people that want a bit more than just getting naked then pass them by. They are no more wrong in what they are looking for than you are
I already agreed with you, I also didn't say I didn't like it I asked an opinion on it
But you did - you said they shouldn't be here " | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this I'm struggling to see why you view people looking for something different to you as being, in your words, competition. " Fab logic is different from normal logic  | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this I'm struggling to see why you view people looking for something different to you as being, in your words, competition. Fair comment, maybe competition was the incorrect term of phrase, and I would imagine that came from subliminal place in my mind, as my interest is based on how people think with regards to the site, but also being a male with a desire and sexual attitude, therefore causing me to see other males/females as competition" Just concentrate on those members who are looking for the same thing as you and ignore those that aren't. Wouldn't that remove the issue? | |||
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"People can use it how they want to
They can, but such a predictable safe answer
And a correct one - if you don't like the people that want a bit more than just getting naked then pass them by. They are no more wrong in what they are looking for than you are
I already agreed with you, I also didn't say I didn't like it I asked an opinion on it
But you did - you said they shouldn't be here "I also didn't say I didn't like it, just curious if they are in the right place | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this I'm struggling to see why you view people looking for something different to you as being, in your words, competition. Fair comment, maybe competition was the incorrect term of phrase, and I would imagine that came from subliminal place in my mind, as my interest is based on how people think with regards to the site, but also being a male with a desire and sexual attitude, therefore causing me to see other males/females as competition Just concentrate on those members who are looking for the same thing as you and ignore those that aren't. Wouldn't that remove the issue? " Im not actually looking, I don't care, I'm don't want to connect with anyone, there is no issue, I'm deeper than that | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this I'm struggling to see why you view people looking for something different to you as being, in your words, competition. Fair comment, maybe competition was the incorrect term of phrase, and I would imagine that came from subliminal place in my mind, as my interest is based on how people think with regards to the site, but also being a male with a desire and sexual attitude, therefore causing me to see other males/females as competition Just concentrate on those members who are looking for the same thing as you and ignore those that aren't. Wouldn't that remove the issue? Im not actually looking, I don't care, I'm don't want to connect with anyone, there is no issue, I'm deeper than that" I see a site like this as a swinger or fuck site, if I wanted to take someone out to dinner and all that, then you would do all that properly | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this I'm struggling to see why you view people looking for something different to you as being, in your words, competition. Fair comment, maybe competition was the incorrect term of phrase, and I would imagine that came from subliminal place in my mind, as my interest is based on how people think with regards to the site, but also being a male with a desire and sexual attitude, therefore causing me to see other males/females as competition Just concentrate on those members who are looking for the same thing as you and ignore those that aren't. Wouldn't that remove the issue? Im not actually looking, I don't care, I'm don't want to connect with anyone, there is no issue, I'm deeper than that" You’re deeper than connecting with people ? | |||
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"I don’t think I’ve ever seen a woman asked to be wined and dined on here, iso I don’t actually know where that’s come from. " Obviously you're just looking at the pictures then | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this I'm struggling to see why you view people looking for something different to you as being, in your words, competition. Fair comment, maybe competition was the incorrect term of phrase, and I would imagine that came from subliminal place in my mind, as my interest is based on how people think with regards to the site, but also being a male with a desire and sexual attitude, therefore causing me to see other males/females as competition Just concentrate on those members who are looking for the same thing as you and ignore those that aren't. Wouldn't that remove the issue? Im not actually looking, I don't care, I'm don't want to connect with anyone, there is no issue, I'm deeper than that" Out of interest, do you think that there are more men looking for something more than a simple sex site than women? Otherwise wouldn't removing those members leave the ratio the same? Or is the idea to just remove men who are looking for something different to you? | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this I'm struggling to see why you view people looking for something different to you as being, in your words, competition. Fair comment, maybe competition was the incorrect term of phrase, and I would imagine that came from subliminal place in my mind, as my interest is based on how people think with regards to the site, but also being a male with a desire and sexual attitude, therefore causing me to see other males/females as competition Just concentrate on those members who are looking for the same thing as you and ignore those that aren't. Wouldn't that remove the issue? Im not actually looking, I don't care, I'm don't want to connect with anyone, there is no issue, I'm deeper than that Out of interest, do you think that there are more men looking for something more than a simple sex site than women? Otherwise wouldn't removing those members leave the ratio the same? Or is the idea to just remove men who are looking for something different to you?" The men are clearly here thinking with their dicks, we are all men, so no crap about no we don't, the ladies on the other hand, I believe are hopeful, what I'm saying is that half the ladies here, should not be, they clearly need something else, it was actually female opinions I was seeking, I want to go deeper into why ladies use these sites, and by reading some of the profiles it is clearly not just about sex (not including lifestyle swingers) | |||
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"I don’t think I’ve ever seen a woman asked to be wined and dined on here, iso I don’t actually know where that’s come from. Obviously you're just looking at the pictures then " Okay, well if that’s the case, then I’m sure they’ll be loads of blokes along shortly to say ‘Yeah all the women on here want to be wined and dined!’ Woman have plenty of demands on here, but being wined and dined isn’t one of them. I’ve seen a profile saying no men called Gary or Darren, but never, I must be wined and dined first. | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this I'm struggling to see why you view people looking for something different to you as being, in your words, competition. Fair comment, maybe competition was the incorrect term of phrase, and I would imagine that came from subliminal place in my mind, as my interest is based on how people think with regards to the site, but also being a male with a desire and sexual attitude, therefore causing me to see other males/females as competition Just concentrate on those members who are looking for the same thing as you and ignore those that aren't. Wouldn't that remove the issue? Im not actually looking, I don't care, I'm don't want to connect with anyone, there is no issue, I'm deeper than that Out of interest, do you think that there are more men looking for something more than a simple sex site than women? Otherwise wouldn't removing those members leave the ratio the same? Or is the idea to just remove men who are looking for something different to you? The men are clearly here thinking with their dicks, we are all men, so no crap about no we don't, the ladies on the other hand, I believe are hopeful, what I'm saying is that half the ladies here, should not be, they clearly need something else, it was actually female opinions I was seeking, I want to go deeper into why ladies use these sites, and by reading some of the profiles it is clearly not just about sex (not including lifestyle swingers) " I'm not convinced that the site would be improved by removing 'half the ladies here's and the ratio certainly wouldn't be. I think the weakness in your theory might be the sweeping generalisations. | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this " I think people who decree who should and shouldn't be here, shouldn't be here. | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this I think people who decree who should and shouldn't be here, shouldn't be here." Wanna date? | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this " Lots of nice men on here are wanting to wine and dine women. Scroungers is a harsh word OP, it shows your true colours! | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this I think people who decree who should and shouldn't be here, shouldn't be here." | |||
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"What wine and dined??... To be takin out to a fancy restaurant with wine to drink and good food to eat. (wine and dined ) Nope still dont know what that means
Guy takes you out to a posh restaurant.
You both drink wine
You both Eat good food.
He pays the hole bill.
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"Is it just me or does this feel like somebody who's a tad salty about forking out on the gold membership and not immediately getting laid... " | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this Lots of nice men on here are wanting to wine and dine women. Scroungers is a harsh word OP, it shows your true colours! " | |||
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"i do not go on any dating site anymore due to failing all site when i was on them so it show nice guys comes lasted" | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this Lots of nice men on here are wanting to wine and dine women. Scroungers is a harsh word OP, it shows your true colours! " Please explain my true colours as I think you're well off the mark | |||
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"I'm a great fan of socials, dinner dates, getting together, building friendships, knowing you have trusted friends who will take the piss out of you, friends who can hold a confidence, hold your hand, hold your gaze, hold your interest. Friends who will pick you up when you feel vunerable, slap you about when you are being self absorbed, ask nothing of you but that you be yourself. Friends that will confide in you, share their secrets, trust you with details they would share with no one else. Friends that intimacy is a welcome bonus, not a sole reason for being their friend. Friends that have equally complex lives and don't demand your attention 24/7. Friends that aren't shocked when you get your arse / bits out and give a cheeky fab from time to time. Friends that you would quite happily ravish but are still friends if you can't / won't or choose not to, as much as they have the same choice. Yep, I may be on the wrong site, but then so are my friends. I'm glad they are." | |||
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"I'm a great fan of socials, dinner dates, getting together, building friendships, knowing you have trusted friends who will take the piss out of you, friends who can hold a confidence, hold your hand, hold your gaze, hold your interest. Friends who will pick you up when you feel vunerable, slap you about when you are being self absorbed, ask nothing of you but that you be yourself. Friends that will confide in you, share their secrets, trust you with details they would share with no one else. Friends that intimacy is a welcome bonus, not a sole reason for being their friend. Friends that have equally complex lives and don't demand your attention 24/7. Friends that aren't shocked when you get your arse / bits out and give a cheeky fab from time to time. Friends that you would quite happily ravish but are still friends if you can't / won't or choose not to, as much as they have the same choice. Yep, I may be on the wrong site, but then so are my friends. I'm glad they are." Thank you for your intelligent answer, you are an actual swinger, in my opinion | |||
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"Is it just me or does this feel like somebody who's a tad salty about forking out on the gold membership and not immediately getting laid...
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this I think people who decree who should and shouldn't be here, shouldn't be here. Wanna date?" Yes as long as you don't mind live facetiming it for the OP, he's not got a lot on these days. | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this " I don't agree with your observation or opinions... Let people be and mind your own business if they aren't seeking what you are seeking. As long as they aren't breaking site rules or doing anything illegal they have every right to be here just as you. | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this Lots of nice men on here are wanting to wine and dine women. Scroungers is a harsh word OP, it shows your true colours! Please explain my true colours as I think you're well off the mark " Well your replies I have read out across to me you thought join here pay a membership and treat us like whores you go on about men thinking with their dick wtf you thinking with and black silhouette no pics bland profile what exactly were you expecting?? | |||
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" Yep, I may be on the wrong site, but then so are my friends. I'm glad they are. Thank you for your intelligent answer, you are an actual swinger, in my opinion" I'm a bit confused because that sounds like the exact members you are complaining about  | |||
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"I'm a great fan of socials, dinner dates, getting together, building friendships, knowing you have trusted friends who will take the piss out of you, friends who can hold a confidence, hold your hand, hold your gaze, hold your interest. Friends who will pick you up when you feel vunerable, slap you about when you are being self absorbed, ask nothing of you but that you be yourself. Friends that will confide in you, share their secrets, trust you with details they would share with no one else. Friends that intimacy is a welcome bonus, not a sole reason for being their friend. Friends that have equally complex lives and don't demand your attention 24/7. Friends that aren't shocked when you get your arse / bits out and give a cheeky fab from time to time. Friends that you would quite happily ravish but are still friends if you can't / won't or choose not to, as much as they have the same choice. Yep, I may be on the wrong site, but then so are my friends. I'm glad they are." That’s lovely that is | |||
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"Seeing as this site, like many others, are dealing with a persons subjective decision to embark upon a sexual experience, be they qualitative (deeper connections etc) or quantitative (tone of sex) it's got truly no standardised answer as to how it's used. People are complex individuals and will utilise this place in the way they see fit as it is nothing more than a tool to be utilised to make connections, regardless of how they wish to go about this, and this is personal to them entirely. Ratios aside; make whatever approach you see fit to embark upon your time here, share (or dont sgare) as much of yourself as you are comfortable and, above all, respectfully accept that people here are different. Words like 'scrounging' have such a negative connotation and are not useful in a society that's supposed to be about inclusion and acceptance of a deviation of supposed 'societal normal behaviours' Have fun, promote inclusion and accept others individuality in this eclectic place Back under my rock I go " Me and you could definitely talk about the physiological reasons why women use this site in the many various ways they do, thank you | |||
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"Seeing as this site, like many others, are dealing with a persons subjective decision to embark upon a sexual experience, be they qualitative (deeper connections etc) or quantitative (tone of sex) it's got truly no standardised answer as to how it's used. People are complex individuals and will utilise this place in the way they see fit as it is nothing more than a tool to be utilised to make connections, regardless of how they wish to go about this, and this is personal to them entirely. Ratios aside; make whatever approach you see fit to embark upon your time here, share (or dont sgare) as much of yourself as you are comfortable and, above all, respectfully accept that people here are different. Words like 'scrounging' have such a negative connotation and are not useful in a society that's supposed to be about inclusion and acceptance of a deviation of supposed 'societal normal behaviours' Have fun, promote inclusion and accept others individuality in this eclectic place Back under my rock I go Me and you could definitely talk about the physiological reasons why women use this site in the many various ways they do, thank you" Physcological* | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this Lots of nice men on here are wanting to wine and dine women. Scroungers is a harsh word OP, it shows your true colours! Please explain my true colours as I think you're well off the mark " I think she’s saying you’re tight - I might agree... | |||
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"Seeing as this site, like many others, are dealing with a persons subjective decision to embark upon a sexual experience, be they qualitative (deeper connections etc) or quantitative (tone of sex) it's got truly no standardised answer as to how it's used. People are complex individuals and will utilise this place in the way they see fit as it is nothing more than a tool to be utilised to make connections, regardless of how they wish to go about this, and this is personal to them entirely. Ratios aside; make whatever approach you see fit to embark upon your time here, share (or dont sgare) as much of yourself as you are comfortable and, above all, respectfully accept that people here are different. Words like 'scrounging' have such a negative connotation and are not useful in a society that's supposed to be about inclusion and acceptance of a deviation of supposed 'societal normal behaviours' Have fun, promote inclusion and accept others individuality in this eclectic place Back under my rock I go Me and you could definitely talk about the physiological reasons why women use this site in the many various ways they do, thank you" We could.....we wont....because in one post you have insulted people whom I regard as genuine individuals. Plus I have respect for people and dont have the time or the inclination to educate anybody. Enjoy your time here OP. Hope this thread is what you're expecting it to be | |||
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" Yep, I may be on the wrong site, but then so are my friends. I'm glad they are. Thank you for your intelligent answer, you are an actual swinger, in my opinion I'm a bit confused because that sounds like the exact members you are complaining about "Please be smarter there is a line between swingers, sex addicts, sex seekers. | |||
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"Seeing as this site, like many others, are dealing with a persons subjective decision to embark upon a sexual experience, be they qualitative (deeper connections etc) or quantitative (tone of sex) it's got truly no standardised answer as to how it's used. People are complex individuals and will utilise this place in the way they see fit as it is nothing more than a tool to be utilised to make connections, regardless of how they wish to go about this, and this is personal to them entirely. Ratios aside; make whatever approach you see fit to embark upon your time here, share (or dont sgare) as much of yourself as you are comfortable and, above all, respectfully accept that people here are different. Words like 'scrounging' have such a negative connotation and are not useful in a society that's supposed to be about inclusion and acceptance of a deviation of supposed 'societal normal behaviours' Have fun, promote inclusion and accept others individuality in this eclectic place Back under my rock I go Me and you could definitely talk about the physiological reasons why women use this site in the many various ways they do, thank you Physcological*" *Psychological You’re welcome | |||
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"Seeing as this site, like many others, are dealing with a persons subjective decision to embark upon a sexual experience, be they qualitative (deeper connections etc) or quantitative (tone of sex) it's got truly no standardised answer as to how it's used. People are complex individuals and will utilise this place in the way they see fit as it is nothing more than a tool to be utilised to make connections, regardless of how they wish to go about this, and this is personal to them entirely. Ratios aside; make whatever approach you see fit to embark upon your time here, share (or dont sgare) as much of yourself as you are comfortable and, above all, respectfully accept that people here are different. Words like 'scrounging' have such a negative connotation and are not useful in a society that's supposed to be about inclusion and acceptance of a deviation of supposed 'societal normal behaviours' Have fun, promote inclusion and accept others individuality in this eclectic place Back under my rock I go Me and you could definitely talk about the physiological reasons why women use this site in the many various ways they do, thank you Physcological* *Psychological You’re welcome "Lol first time laughed all night Nora | |||
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"Seeing as this site, like many others, are dealing with a persons subjective decision to embark upon a sexual experience, be they qualitative (deeper connections etc) or quantitative (tone of sex) it's got truly no standardised answer as to how it's used. People are complex individuals and will utilise this place in the way they see fit as it is nothing more than a tool to be utilised to make connections, regardless of how they wish to go about this, and this is personal to them entirely. Ratios aside; make whatever approach you see fit to embark upon your time here, share (or dont sgare) as much of yourself as you are comfortable and, above all, respectfully accept that people here are different. Words like 'scrounging' have such a negative connotation and are not useful in a society that's supposed to be about inclusion and acceptance of a deviation of supposed 'societal normal behaviours' Have fun, promote inclusion and accept others individuality in this eclectic place Back under my rock I go Me and you could definitely talk about the physiological reasons why women use this site in the many various ways they do, thank you We could.....we wont....because in one post you have insulted people whom I regard as genuine individuals. Plus I have respect for people and dont have the time or the inclination to educate anybody. Enjoy your time here OP. Hope this thread is what you're expecting it to be " You dissapoint with your reply, I never insulted anyone, I questioned their reasoning | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this Lots of nice men on here are wanting to wine and dine women. Scroungers is a harsh word OP, it shows your true colours! Please explain my true colours as I think you're well off the mark I think she’s saying you’re tight - I might agree..." True colours as in a whinging entitled man who should leave people to use the site as they see fit and you to do the same! | |||
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"So OP your view and expectation of the site and any meet you get is that you should turn up, get naked immediately, do the deed and then go your separate ways? And that anyone that doesn't subscribe to that view has no place here? Is that pretty much it in a nutshell? If so, that's a pretty selfish view in my opinion - the bit about anyone that doesn't buy into your view not having a place here that is. Personally, I like to spend time getting to know people, like a meet that has an element of social, including sharing a meal or doing some social activity - it's all part of what makes a pleasurable experience for all concerned and the build up of spending some social time together just heightens the anticipation and excitement for what follows. Now that's not dating, we go our separate ways at the end of the meet and have no hold over one another when we're not together - it's exactly the same in essence as your version, just done differently. Yes, some people take it to other levels, or do it differently again, but if it doesn't impact me why would I let it bother me? Each to their own and vive le difference "So, I shall make this a little easier What sort of site is this? | |||
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Lol first time laughed all night Nora "Is it worth taking me out for a meal and a bottle of wine? Is it? Is it? I’m so fookin needy. I need to feel wanted and loved and be romanced. It’s to do with my psychological issues. I just need someone to give me some affection and love. Am I in the right place? | |||
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"So OP your view and expectation of the site and any meet you get is that you should turn up, get naked immediately, do the deed and then go your separate ways? And that anyone that doesn't subscribe to that view has no place here? Is that pretty much it in a nutshell? If so, that's a pretty selfish view in my opinion - the bit about anyone that doesn't buy into your view not having a place here that is. Personally, I like to spend time getting to know people, like a meet that has an element of social, including sharing a meal or doing some social activity - it's all part of what makes a pleasurable experience for all concerned and the build up of spending some social time together just heightens the anticipation and excitement for what follows. Now that's not dating, we go our separate ways at the end of the meet and have no hold over one another when we're not together - it's exactly the same in essence as your version, just done differently. Yes, some people take it to other levels, or do it differently again, but if it doesn't impact me why would I let it bother me? Each to their own and vive le difference
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this Lots of nice men on here are wanting to wine and dine women. Scroungers is a harsh word OP, it shows your true colours! Please explain my true colours as I think you're well off the mark I think she’s saying you’re tight - I might agree... True colours as in a whinging entitled man who should leave people to use the site as they see fit and you to do the same! "I don't want anything sexually from 99% of anyone from here, so stop flattering yourself, I seek intelligent deep people to talk to. Its called learning | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this Lots of nice men on here are wanting to wine and dine women. Scroungers is a harsh word OP, it shows your true colours! Please explain my true colours as I think you're well off the mark I think she’s saying you’re tight - I might agree... True colours as in a whinging entitled man who should leave people to use the site as they see fit and you to do the same!
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"Seeing as this site, like many others, are dealing with a persons subjective decision to embark upon a sexual experience, be they qualitative (deeper connections etc) or quantitative (tone of sex) it's got truly no standardised answer as to how it's used. People are complex individuals and will utilise this place in the way they see fit as it is nothing more than a tool to be utilised to make connections, regardless of how they wish to go about this, and this is personal to them entirely. Ratios aside; make whatever approach you see fit to embark upon your time here, share (or dont sgare) as much of yourself as you are comfortable and, above all, respectfully accept that people here are different. Words like 'scrounging' have such a negative connotation and are not useful in a society that's supposed to be about inclusion and acceptance of a deviation of supposed 'societal normal behaviours' Have fun, promote inclusion and accept others individuality in this eclectic place Back under my rock I go Me and you could definitely talk about the physiological reasons why women use this site in the many various ways they do, thank you We could.....we wont....because in one post you have insulted people whom I regard as genuine individuals. Plus I have respect for people and dont have the time or the inclination to educate anybody. Enjoy your time here OP. Hope this thread is what you're expecting it to be You dissapoint with your reply, I never insulted anyone, I questioned their reasoning " By attributing the label 'scroungers' to the community here, who mostly welcome newcomers and attempt to provide a society which has a symbiotic goal of encouraging people to live a life free of narrow minded perceptions you have insulted people. By showing a lack of understanding of peoples individualised approach to this site you have indeed overlooked a part of swinging that is imperative; community. Instead you start to disparage and attempt to browbeat people with an attitude that quite frankly is not in keeping with the spirit of swinging itself. Think what you will as is your right but theres more knowledge in my little finger about the psychological implications of swinging. This is the establishment of a community; many individual voices and desires striving together forca common goal. Who cares the niceties of peoples motivations? Not I. Respect to all. Enjoy your dates or fucks however you wish! | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this " Going out before, whether it's to be wined and dined or for cocktails or just out for a dance, it adds to a nice experience. Builds chemistry - call it foreplay. Or it does the opposite and shows you that that isn't the person that you necessarily want to be sleeping with.... we call it a social and not a date. But it is a good thing if you want to have an enjoyable time, sometimes I am here for raw sex, fuck and goes but actually we all define our own swinging experiences and a datey kind of evening sometimes is nice to if you find someone that you can share that with | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this Lots of nice men on here are wanting to wine and dine women. Scroungers is a harsh word OP, it shows your true colours! Please explain my true colours as I think you're well off the mark I think she’s saying you’re tight - I might agree... True colours as in a whinging entitled man who should leave people to use the site as they see fit and you to do the same!
I don't want anything sexually from 99% of anyone from here, so stop flattering yourself, I seek intelligent deep people to talk to. Its called learning"These so called “intelligent, deep people”, can they be sexy at the same time ? On fab at the same time ? Hmmm .... I wonder ? Don’t think this is a thread that’s going to end well for you OP, just a guess x | |||
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"Seeing as this site, like many others, are dealing with a persons subjective decision to embark upon a sexual experience, be they qualitative (deeper connections etc) or quantitative (tone of sex) it's got truly no standardised answer as to how it's used. People are complex individuals and will utilise this place in the way they see fit as it is nothing more than a tool to be utilised to make connections, regardless of how they wish to go about this, and this is personal to them entirely. Ratios aside; make whatever approach you see fit to embark upon your time here, share (or dont sgare) as much of yourself as you are comfortable and, above all, respectfully accept that people here are different. Words like 'scrounging' have such a negative connotation and are not useful in a society that's supposed to be about inclusion and acceptance of a deviation of supposed 'societal normal behaviours' Have fun, promote inclusion and accept others individuality in this eclectic place Back under my rock I go Me and you could definitely talk about the physiological reasons why women use this site in the many various ways they do, thank you We could.....we wont....because in one post you have insulted people whom I regard as genuine individuals. Plus I have respect for people and dont have the time or the inclination to educate anybody. Enjoy your time here OP. Hope this thread is what you're expecting it to be You dissapoint with your reply, I never insulted anyone, I questioned their reasoning By attributing the label 'scroungers' to the community here, who mostly welcome newcomers and attempt to provide a society which has a symbiotic goal of encouraging people to live a life free of narrow minded perceptions you have insulted people. By showing a lack of understanding of peoples individualised approach to this site you have indeed overlooked a part of swinging that is imperative; community. Instead you start to disparage and attempt to browbeat people with an attitude that quite frankly is not in keeping with the spirit of swinging itself. Think what you will as is your right but theres more knowledge in my little finger about the psychological implications of swinging. This is the establishment of a community; many individual voices and desires striving together forca common goal. Who cares the niceties of peoples motivations? Not I. Respect to all. Enjoy your dates or fucks however you wish! " Clearly I am misunderstood I asked a question as to why people use the site in the way that they do, I was not whining, or whinging, just asking for an intelligent insight to peoples minds | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this Going out before, whether it's to be wined and dined or for cocktails or just out for a dance, it adds to a nice experience. Builds chemistry - call it foreplay. Or it does the opposite and shows you that that isn't the person that you necessarily want to be sleeping with.... we call it a social and not a date. But it is a good thing if you want to have an enjoyable time, sometimes I am here for raw sex, fuck and goes but actually we all define our own swinging experiences and a datey kind of evening sometimes is nice to if you find someone that you can share that with " | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this Going out before, whether it's to be wined and dined or for cocktails or just out for a dance, it adds to a nice experience. Builds chemistry - call it foreplay. Or it does the opposite and shows you that that isn't the person that you necessarily want to be sleeping with.... we call it a social and not a date. But it is a good thing if you want to have an enjoyable time, sometimes I am here for raw sex, fuck and goes but actually we all define our own swinging experiences and a datey kind of evening sometimes is nice to if you find someone that you can share that with "Thank you, nicely explained | |||
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"Seeing as this site, like many others, are dealing with a persons subjective decision to embark upon a sexual experience, be they qualitative (deeper connections etc) or quantitative (tone of sex) it's got truly no standardised answer as to how it's used. People are complex individuals and will utilise this place in the way they see fit as it is nothing more than a tool to be utilised to make connections, regardless of how they wish to go about this, and this is personal to them entirely. Ratios aside; make whatever approach you see fit to embark upon your time here, share (or dont sgare) as much of yourself as you are comfortable and, above all, respectfully accept that people here are different. Words like 'scrounging' have such a negative connotation and are not useful in a society that's supposed to be about inclusion and acceptance of a deviation of supposed 'societal normal behaviours' Have fun, promote inclusion and accept others individuality in this eclectic place Back under my rock I go Me and you could definitely talk about the physiological reasons why women use this site in the many various ways they do, thank you We could.....we wont....because in one post you have insulted people whom I regard as genuine individuals. Plus I have respect for people and dont have the time or the inclination to educate anybody. Enjoy your time here OP. Hope this thread is what you're expecting it to be You dissapoint with your reply, I never insulted anyone, I questioned their reasoning By attributing the label 'scroungers' to the community here, who mostly welcome newcomers and attempt to provide a society which has a symbiotic goal of encouraging people to live a life free of narrow minded perceptions you have insulted people. By showing a lack of understanding of peoples individualised approach to this site you have indeed overlooked a part of swinging that is imperative; community. Instead you start to disparage and attempt to browbeat people with an attitude that quite frankly is not in keeping with the spirit of swinging itself. Think what you will as is your right but theres more knowledge in my little finger about the psychological implications of swinging. This is the establishment of a community; many individual voices and desires striving together forca common goal. Who cares the niceties of peoples motivations? Not I. Respect to all. Enjoy your dates or fucks however you wish! Clearly I am misunderstood I asked a question as to why people use the site in the way that they do, I was not whining, or whinging, just asking for an intelligent insight to peoples minds " I gave you one which you clearly ignored as it didn't suit you! Your original post is insulting, you come across as if you just want to fuck and ago yet are trying to back pedal. As I previously said, I think YOU are on the wrong site! | |||
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"Seeing as this site, like many others, are dealing with a persons subjective decision to embark upon a sexual experience, be they qualitative (deeper connections etc) or quantitative (tone of sex) it's got truly no standardised answer as to how it's used. People are complex individuals and will utilise this place in the way they see fit as it is nothing more than a tool to be utilised to make connections, regardless of how they wish to go about this, and this is personal to them entirely. Ratios aside; make whatever approach you see fit to embark upon your time here, share (or dont sgare) as much of yourself as you are comfortable and, above all, respectfully accept that people here are different. Words like 'scrounging' have such a negative connotation and are not useful in a society that's supposed to be about inclusion and acceptance of a deviation of supposed 'societal normal behaviours' Have fun, promote inclusion and accept others individuality in this eclectic place Back under my rock I go Me and you could definitely talk about the physiological reasons why women use this site in the many various ways they do, thank you We could.....we wont....because in one post you have insulted people whom I regard as genuine individuals. Plus I have respect for people and dont have the time or the inclination to educate anybody. Enjoy your time here OP. Hope this thread is what you're expecting it to be You dissapoint with your reply, I never insulted anyone, I questioned their reasoning By attributing the label 'scroungers' to the community here, who mostly welcome newcomers and attempt to provide a society which has a symbiotic goal of encouraging people to live a life free of narrow minded perceptions you have insulted people. By showing a lack of understanding of peoples individualised approach to this site you have indeed overlooked a part of swinging that is imperative; community. Instead you start to disparage and attempt to browbeat people with an attitude that quite frankly is not in keeping with the spirit of swinging itself. Think what you will as is your right but theres more knowledge in my little finger about the psychological implications of swinging. This is the establishment of a community; many individual voices and desires striving together forca common goal. Who cares the niceties of peoples motivations? Not I. Respect to all. Enjoy your dates or fucks however you wish! Clearly I am misunderstood I asked a question as to why people use the site in the way that they do, I was not whining, or whinging, just asking for an intelligent insight to peoples minds " Sigh....Here we go then - Because its subjective and they wish to use it that way. Desired outcomes are different from person to person. People = Individual Individual = Different Different = Unique Unique = differing desired outcomes and approaches to gain that End of fucking thread! Jesus! That sentiment has been echoed by the majority of the posters so this should of tapered off a long time ago. | |||
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"Another individual telling people how they should be using the site. My way or the high way. Just because some people like to form friendships with the people they play with doesn't mean they're in the wrong place. It means they're in exactly the right place. Likewise, if some people want to find a partner, why shouldn't they? Someone with a common view of sex and relationships. If something isn't for you just move on rather than trying to dictate who should and shouldn't be here. " I never told anyone how to use the site I simply asked why in the ways, it's not nice to make things up | |||
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"Another individual telling people how they should be using the site. My way or the high way. Just because some people like to form friendships with the people they play with doesn't mean they're in the wrong place. It means they're in exactly the right place. Likewise, if some people want to find a partner, why shouldn't they? Someone with a common view of sex and relationships. If something isn't for you just move on rather than trying to dictate who should and shouldn't be here. I never told anyone how to use the site I simply asked why in the ways, it's not nice to make things up" I apologise for the word scrounging, I have seen more and more profiles asking for money and gifts and to be spoilt, this clearly is not intended for those that don't | |||
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"Another individual telling people how they should be using the site. My way or the high way. Just because some people like to form friendships with the people they play with doesn't mean they're in the wrong place. It means they're in exactly the right place. Likewise, if some people want to find a partner, why shouldn't they? Someone with a common view of sex and relationships. If something isn't for you just move on rather than trying to dictate who should and shouldn't be here. I never told anyone how to use the site I simply asked why in the ways, it's not nice to make things up I apologise for the word scrounging, I have seen more and more profiles asking for money and gifts and to be spoilt, this clearly is not intended for those that don't " Just report profiles requesting payment and move on... | |||
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"Seeing as this site, like many others, are dealing with a persons subjective decision to embark upon a sexual experience, be they qualitative (deeper connections etc) or quantitative (tone of sex) it's got truly no standardised answer as to how it's used. People are complex individuals and will utilise this place in the way they see fit as it is nothing more than a tool to be utilised to make connections, regardless of how they wish to go about this, and this is personal to them entirely. Ratios aside; make whatever approach you see fit to embark upon your time here, share (or dont sgare) as much of yourself as you are comfortable and, above all, respectfully accept that people here are different. Words like 'scrounging' have such a negative connotation and are not useful in a society that's supposed to be about inclusion and acceptance of a deviation of supposed 'societal normal behaviours' Have fun, promote inclusion and accept others individuality in this eclectic place Back under my rock I go Me and you could definitely talk about the physiological reasons why women use this site in the many various ways they do, thank you We could.....we wont....because in one post you have insulted people whom I regard as genuine individuals. Plus I have respect for people and dont have the time or the inclination to educate anybody. Enjoy your time here OP. Hope this thread is what you're expecting it to be You dissapoint with your reply, I never insulted anyone, I questioned their reasoning By attributing the label 'scroungers' to the community here, who mostly welcome newcomers and attempt to provide a society which has a symbiotic goal of encouraging people to live a life free of narrow minded perceptions you have insulted people. By showing a lack of understanding of peoples individualised approach to this site you have indeed overlooked a part of swinging that is imperative; community. Instead you start to disparage and attempt to browbeat people with an attitude that quite frankly is not in keeping with the spirit of swinging itself. Think what you will as is your right but theres more knowledge in my little finger about the psychological implications of swinging. This is the establishment of a community; many individual voices and desires striving together forca common goal. Who cares the niceties of peoples motivations? Not I. Respect to all. Enjoy your dates or fucks however you wish! Clearly I am misunderstood I asked a question as to why people use the site in the way that they do, I was not whining, or whinging, just asking for an intelligent insight to peoples minds I gave you one which you clearly ignored as it didn't suit you! Your original post is insulting, you come across as if you just want to fuck and ago yet are trying to back pedal. As I previously said, I think YOU are on the wrong site! "Again, you're incorrect, I asked why people use the site in the way they do, to me, I see it as a sex site. If you take intelligent conversation as insult, I'm afraid you should choose a thread such as "fuck or pass" | |||
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"Another individual telling people how they should be using the site. My way or the high way. Just because some people like to form friendships with the people they play with doesn't mean they're in the wrong place. It means they're in exactly the right place. Likewise, if some people want to find a partner, why shouldn't they? Someone with a common view of sex and relationships. If something isn't for you just move on rather than trying to dictate who should and shouldn't be here. I never told anyone how to use the site I simply asked why in the ways, it's not nice to make things up I apologise for the word scrounging, I have seen more and more profiles asking for money and gifts and to be spoilt, this clearly is not intended for those that don't Just report profiles requesting payment and move on..." If you're interested in the people you are meeting, would it not be better to know their true reasons for being here | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this I'm struggling to see why you view people looking for something different to you as being, in your words, competition. Fair comment, maybe competition was the incorrect term of phrase, and I would imagine that came from subliminal place in my mind, as my interest is based on how people think with regards to the site, but also being a male with a desire and sexual attitude, therefore causing me to see other males/females as competition Just concentrate on those members who are looking for the same thing as you and ignore those that aren't. Wouldn't that remove the issue? Im not actually looking, I don't care, I'm don't want to connect with anyone, there is no issue, I'm deeper than that I see a site like this as a swinger or fuck site, if I wanted to take someone out to dinner and all that, then you would do all that properly " It is a swinger site. It is also a place for likeminded people to come together and enjoy each other. Whether that be the social or the sexual element. Relationships have developed on here. Some have even gotten married. To see it as a place where people just have sex, is a little narrow minded in my opinion. This site reflects many types of people amd i for one, think that's a good thing
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"Another individual telling people how they should be using the site. My way or the high way. Just because some people like to form friendships with the people they play with doesn't mean they're in the wrong place. It means they're in exactly the right place. Likewise, if some people want to find a partner, why shouldn't they? Someone with a common view of sex and relationships. If something isn't for you just move on rather than trying to dictate who should and shouldn't be here. I never told anyone how to use the site I simply asked why in the ways, it's not nice to make things up I apologise for the word scrounging, I have seen more and more profiles asking for money and gifts and to be spoilt, this clearly is not intended for those that don't Just report profiles requesting payment and move on... If you're interested in the people you are meeting, would it not be better to know their true reasons for being here " Sex? | |||
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" So, I shall make this a little easier What sort of site is this? " For me it's a site where I can get to know people that I may otherwise not have met in my normal day to day life - and if those people and I get along sufficiently well that we decide we want to meet up, socialise and potentially get naked together we can do so - and for me that means spending time getting to know them, spending time socially with them as well as sexually. I would find the idea of having sex with someone just for the sake of sex very cold, clinical and ultimately unsatisfying - that doesn't make me wrong, it just makes me different in my approach and expectations of the site than you. And without blowing my own trumpet too much - my veris would suggest that I'm not alone in that view of how the site works. Now none of that means your approach to the site is wrong as such, and if your approach works for you and you're not back here bemoaning your lack of meets in 3 months time, then good luck to you | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this " As a "420-friendly" man with no profile pictures and 3 whole weeks of membership, I am surprised you haven't been inundated with women wanting your cock. You should ask for a refund. Oh, wait a minute, you haven't paid anything. Maybe you could claim compensation for having your time wasted. | |||
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"Another individual telling people how they should be using the site. My way or the high way. Just because some people like to form friendships with the people they play with doesn't mean they're in the wrong place. It means they're in exactly the right place. Likewise, if some people want to find a partner, why shouldn't they? Someone with a common view of sex and relationships. If something isn't for you just move on rather than trying to dictate who should and shouldn't be here. I never told anyone how to use the site I simply asked why in the ways, it's not nice to make things up I apologise for the word scrounging, I have seen more and more profiles asking for money and gifts and to be spoilt, this clearly is not intended for those that don't Just report profiles requesting payment and move on... If you're interested in the people you are meeting, would it not be better to know their true reasons for being here " I'm truly confused by this response...
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"Seeing as this site, like many others, are dealing with a persons subjective decision to embark upon a sexual experience, be they qualitative (deeper connections etc) or quantitative (tone of sex) it's got truly no standardised answer as to how it's used. People are complex individuals and will utilise this place in the way they see fit as it is nothing more than a tool to be utilised to make connections, regardless of how they wish to go about this, and this is personal to them entirely. Ratios aside; make whatever approach you see fit to embark upon your time here, share (or dont sgare) as much of yourself as you are comfortable and, above all, respectfully accept that people here are different. Words like 'scrounging' have such a negative connotation and are not useful in a society that's supposed to be about inclusion and acceptance of a deviation of supposed 'societal normal behaviours' Have fun, promote inclusion and accept others individuality in this eclectic place Back under my rock I go Me and you could definitely talk about the physiological reasons why women use this site in the many various ways they do, thank you We could.....we wont....because in one post you have insulted people whom I regard as genuine individuals. Plus I have respect for people and dont have the time or the inclination to educate anybody. Enjoy your time here OP. Hope this thread is what you're expecting it to be You dissapoint with your reply, I never insulted anyone, I questioned their reasoning By attributing the label 'scroungers' to the community here, who mostly welcome newcomers and attempt to provide a society which has a symbiotic goal of encouraging people to live a life free of narrow minded perceptions you have insulted people. By showing a lack of understanding of peoples individualised approach to this site you have indeed overlooked a part of swinging that is imperative; community. Instead you start to disparage and attempt to browbeat people with an attitude that quite frankly is not in keeping with the spirit of swinging itself. Think what you will as is your right but theres more knowledge in my little finger about the psychological implications of swinging. This is the establishment of a community; many individual voices and desires striving together forca common goal. Who cares the niceties of peoples motivations? Not I. Respect to all. Enjoy your dates or fucks however you wish! Clearly I am misunderstood I asked a question as to why people use the site in the way that they do, I was not whining, or whinging, just asking for an intelligent insight to peoples minds Sigh....Here we go then - Because its subjective and they wish to use it that way. Desired outcomes are different from person to person. People = Individual Individual = Different Different = Unique Unique = differing desired outcomes and approaches to gain that End of fucking thread! Jesus! That sentiment has been echoed by the majority of the posters so this should of tapered off a long time ago. " By your statement it clearly shows you have some serious un happiness that needs to be addressed, ant deppresents might help, or up the dosage, you clearly know the words bit the thinking show problems | |||
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" So, I shall make this a little easier What sort of site is this? For me it's a site where I can get to know people that I may otherwise not have met in my normal day to day life - and if those people and I get along sufficiently well that we decide we want to meet up, socialise and potentially get naked together we can do so - and for me that means spending time getting to know them, spending time socially with them as well as sexually. I would find the idea of having sex with someone just for the sake of sex very cold, clinical and ultimately unsatisfying - that doesn't make me wrong, it just makes me different in my approach and expectations of the site than you. And without blowing my own trumpet too much - my veris would suggest that I'm not alone in that view of how the site works. Now none of that means your approach to the site is wrong as such, and if your approach works for you and you're not back here bemoaning your lack of meets in 3 months time, then good luck to you " | |||
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"Seeing as this site, like many others, are dealing with a persons subjective decision to embark upon a sexual experience, be they qualitative (deeper connections etc) or quantitative (tone of sex) it's got truly no standardised answer as to how it's used. People are complex individuals and will utilise this place in the way they see fit as it is nothing more than a tool to be utilised to make connections, regardless of how they wish to go about this, and this is personal to them entirely. Ratios aside; make whatever approach you see fit to embark upon your time here, share (or dont sgare) as much of yourself as you are comfortable and, above all, respectfully accept that people here are different. Words like 'scrounging' have such a negative connotation and are not useful in a society that's supposed to be about inclusion and acceptance of a deviation of supposed 'societal normal behaviours' Have fun, promote inclusion and accept others individuality in this eclectic place Back under my rock I go Me and you could definitely talk about the physiological reasons why women use this site in the many various ways they do, thank you We could.....we wont....because in one post you have insulted people whom I regard as genuine individuals. Plus I have respect for people and dont have the time or the inclination to educate anybody. Enjoy your time here OP. Hope this thread is what you're expecting it to be You dissapoint with your reply, I never insulted anyone, I questioned their reasoning By attributing the label 'scroungers' to the community here, who mostly welcome newcomers and attempt to provide a society which has a symbiotic goal of encouraging people to live a life free of narrow minded perceptions you have insulted people. By showing a lack of understanding of peoples individualised approach to this site you have indeed overlooked a part of swinging that is imperative; community. Instead you start to disparage and attempt to browbeat people with an attitude that quite frankly is not in keeping with the spirit of swinging itself. Think what you will as is your right but theres more knowledge in my little finger about the psychological implications of swinging. This is the establishment of a community; many individual voices and desires striving together forca common goal. Who cares the niceties of peoples motivations? Not I. Respect to all. Enjoy your dates or fucks however you wish! Clearly I am misunderstood I asked a question as to why people use the site in the way that they do, I was not whining, or whinging, just asking for an intelligent insight to peoples minds I gave you one which you clearly ignored as it didn't suit you! Your original post is insulting, you come across as if you just want to fuck and ago yet are trying to back pedal. As I previously said, I think YOU are on the wrong site!
Again, you're incorrect, I asked why people use the site in the way they do, to me, I see it as a sex site. If you take intelligent conversation as insult, I'm afraid you should choose a thread such as "fuck or pass" "I think you’re here to just cause mischief with this thread! Awkward, whinging, entitled! You’ve seen the odd message asking for money so tar all with the same brush! Report those people rather than refer to people as scroungers. Also people form judgements from forum postings.... | |||
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"Seeing as this site, like many others, are dealing with a persons subjective decision to embark upon a sexual experience, be they qualitative (deeper connections etc) or quantitative (tone of sex) it's got truly no standardised answer as to how it's used. People are complex individuals and will utilise this place in the way they see fit as it is nothing more than a tool to be utilised to make connections, regardless of how they wish to go about this, and this is personal to them entirely. Ratios aside; make whatever approach you see fit to embark upon your time here, share (or dont sgare) as much of yourself as you are comfortable and, above all, respectfully accept that people here are different. Words like 'scrounging' have such a negative connotation and are not useful in a society that's supposed to be about inclusion and acceptance of a deviation of supposed 'societal normal behaviours' Have fun, promote inclusion and accept others individuality in this eclectic place Back under my rock I go Me and you could definitely talk about the physiological reasons why women use this site in the many various ways they do, thank you We could.....we wont....because in one post you have insulted people whom I regard as genuine individuals. Plus I have respect for people and dont have the time or the inclination to educate anybody. Enjoy your time here OP. Hope this thread is what you're expecting it to be You dissapoint with your reply, I never insulted anyone, I questioned their reasoning By attributing the label 'scroungers' to the community here, who mostly welcome newcomers and attempt to provide a society which has a symbiotic goal of encouraging people to live a life free of narrow minded perceptions you have insulted people. By showing a lack of understanding of peoples individualised approach to this site you have indeed overlooked a part of swinging that is imperative; community. Instead you start to disparage and attempt to browbeat people with an attitude that quite frankly is not in keeping with the spirit of swinging itself. Think what you will as is your right but theres more knowledge in my little finger about the psychological implications of swinging. This is the establishment of a community; many individual voices and desires striving together forca common goal. Who cares the niceties of peoples motivations? Not I. Respect to all. Enjoy your dates or fucks however you wish! Clearly I am misunderstood I asked a question as to why people use the site in the way that they do, I was not whining, or whinging, just asking for an intelligent insight to peoples minds I gave you one which you clearly ignored as it didn't suit you! Your original post is insulting, you come across as if you just want to fuck and ago yet are trying to back pedal. As I previously said, I think YOU are on the wrong site!
Again, you're incorrect, I asked why people use the site in the way they do, to me, I see it as a sex site. If you take intelligent conversation as insult, I'm afraid you should choose a thread such as "fuck or pass" "I suggest you reconsider what you think as intelligent conversation, as your profile clearly reflects exactly what your OP was really about. Now things aren't going how you clearly expected, you are trying to change what and how you worded your post. I have a more intelligent conversation with my cat than anything the OP has on here! | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this As a "420-friendly" man with no profile pictures and 3 whole weeks of membership, I am surprised you haven't been inundated with women wanting your cock. You should ask for a refund. Oh, wait a minute, you haven't paid anything. Maybe you could claim compensation for having your time wasted." OK sherlock, been here three years deleted and came back had some great meet, got plenty of pics, so please present me with things that are true, btw how's the wife | |||
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" Please be smarter there is a line between swingers, sex addicts, sex seekers. " You're doing you're investment harm here lol, please be smarter and less of a dick | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this As a "420-friendly" man with no profile pictures and 3 whole weeks of membership, I am surprised you haven't been inundated with women wanting your cock. You should ask for a refund. Oh, wait a minute, you haven't paid anything. Maybe you could claim compensation for having your time wasted. OK sherlock, been here three years deleted and came back had some great meet, got plenty of pics, so please present me with things that are true, btw how's the wife " Wife? [scratches head] | |||
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" Please be smarter there is a line between swingers, sex addicts, sex seekers. You're doing you're investment harm here lol, please be smarter and less of a dick "Seriously, that's it | |||
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" Please be smarter there is a line between swingers, sex addicts, sex seekers. You're doing you're investment harm here lol, please be smarter and less of a dick
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" Please be smarter there is a line between swingers, sex addicts, sex seekers. You're doing you're investment harm here lol, please be smarter and less of a dick
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"Seeing as this site, like many others, are dealing with a persons subjective decision to embark upon a sexual experience, be they qualitative (deeper connections etc) or quantitative (tone of sex) it's got truly no standardised answer as to how it's used. People are complex individuals and will utilise this place in the way they see fit as it is nothing more than a tool to be utilised to make connections, regardless of how they wish to go about this, and this is personal to them entirely. Ratios aside; make whatever approach you see fit to embark upon your time here, share (or dont sgare) as much of yourself as you are comfortable and, above all, respectfully accept that people here are different. Words like 'scrounging' have such a negative connotation and are not useful in a society that's supposed to be about inclusion and acceptance of a deviation of supposed 'societal normal behaviours' Have fun, promote inclusion and accept others individuality in this eclectic place Back under my rock I go Me and you could definitely talk about the physiological reasons why women use this site in the many various ways they do, thank you We could.....we wont....because in one post you have insulted people whom I regard as genuine individuals. Plus I have respect for people and dont have the time or the inclination to educate anybody. Enjoy your time here OP. Hope this thread is what you're expecting it to be You dissapoint with your reply, I never insulted anyone, I questioned their reasoning By attributing the label 'scroungers' to the community here, who mostly welcome newcomers and attempt to provide a society which has a symbiotic goal of encouraging people to live a life free of narrow minded perceptions you have insulted people. By showing a lack of understanding of peoples individualised approach to this site you have indeed overlooked a part of swinging that is imperative; community. Instead you start to disparage and attempt to browbeat people with an attitude that quite frankly is not in keeping with the spirit of swinging itself. Think what you will as is your right but theres more knowledge in my little finger about the psychological implications of swinging. This is the establishment of a community; many individual voices and desires striving together forca common goal. Who cares the niceties of peoples motivations? Not I. Respect to all. Enjoy your dates or fucks however you wish! Clearly I am misunderstood I asked a question as to why people use the site in the way that they do, I was not whining, or whinging, just asking for an intelligent insight to peoples minds Sigh....Here we go then - Because its subjective and they wish to use it that way. Desired outcomes are different from person to person. People = Individual Individual = Different Different = Unique Unique = differing desired outcomes and approaches to gain that End of fucking thread! Jesus! That sentiment has been echoed by the majority of the posters so this should of tapered off a long time ago. By your statement it clearly shows you have some serious un happiness that needs to be addressed, ant deppresents might help, or up the dosage, you clearly know the words bit the thinking show problems " I dumbed it down for you as you seemed to be unable to grasp even the most basic of concepts of personal freedom and the issues of capacity, that every person has (mostly), to choose their own approaches in their life. My understanding in the psychological field I do not need to quantify to an ignoramous. I shall merely state that your black and white thinking has no real place in this world that exists in shades of grey. | |||
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"Seeing as this site, like many others, are dealing with a persons subjective decision to embark upon a sexual experience, be they qualitative (deeper connections etc) or quantitative (tone of sex) it's got truly no standardised answer as to how it's used. People are complex individuals and will utilise this place in the way they see fit as it is nothing more than a tool to be utilised to make connections, regardless of how they wish to go about this, and this is personal to them entirely. Ratios aside; make whatever approach you see fit to embark upon your time here, share (or dont sgare) as much of yourself as you are comfortable and, above all, respectfully accept that people here are different. Words like 'scrounging' have such a negative connotation and are not useful in a society that's supposed to be about inclusion and acceptance of a deviation of supposed 'societal normal behaviours' Have fun, promote inclusion and accept others individuality in this eclectic place Back under my rock I go Me and you could definitely talk about the physiological reasons why women use this site in the many various ways they do, thank you We could.....we wont....because in one post you have insulted people whom I regard as genuine individuals. Plus I have respect for people and dont have the time or the inclination to educate anybody. Enjoy your time here OP. Hope this thread is what you're expecting it to be You dissapoint with your reply, I never insulted anyone, I questioned their reasoning By attributing the label 'scroungers' to the community here, who mostly welcome newcomers and attempt to provide a society which has a symbiotic goal of encouraging people to live a life free of narrow minded perceptions you have insulted people. By showing a lack of understanding of peoples individualised approach to this site you have indeed overlooked a part of swinging that is imperative; community. Instead you start to disparage and attempt to browbeat people with an attitude that quite frankly is not in keeping with the spirit of swinging itself. Think what you will as is your right but theres more knowledge in my little finger about the psychological implications of swinging. This is the establishment of a community; many individual voices and desires striving together forca common goal. Who cares the niceties of peoples motivations? Not I. Respect to all. Enjoy your dates or fucks however you wish! Clearly I am misunderstood I asked a question as to why people use the site in the way that they do, I was not whining, or whinging, just asking for an intelligent insight to peoples minds Sigh....Here we go then - Because its subjective and they wish to use it that way. Desired outcomes are different from person to person. People = Individual Individual = Different Different = Unique Unique = differing desired outcomes and approaches to gain that End of fucking thread! Jesus! That sentiment has been echoed by the majority of the posters so this should of tapered off a long time ago. By your statement it clearly shows you have some serious un happiness that needs to be addressed, ant deppresents might help, or up the dosage, you clearly know the words bit the thinking show problems I dumbed it down for you as you seemed to be unable to grasp even the most basic of concepts of personal freedom and the issues of capacity, that every person has (mostly), to choose their own approaches in their life. My understanding in the psychological field I do not need to quantify to an ignoramous. I shall merely state that your black and white thinking has no real place in this world that exists in shades of grey. " No you didn't you just don't have the words or mind, you didn't dumb it down, you're just clearly dumb | |||
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"Well thank you all for your truly male insights to the world of fabs, you all take it as an insult, which is your right, and most of you seen to have some sort of emotional problems, so have fun and fuck you all Anyone fancy organising a sweepstakes on how long until his profile disappears?" I never win any bets | |||
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"Well thank you all for your truly male insights to the world of fabs, you all take it as an insult, which is your right, and most of you seen to have some sort of emotional problems, so have fun and fuck you all Anyone fancy organising a sweepstakes on how long until his profile disappears?" LOL 3days | |||
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"Seeing as this site, like many others, are dealing with a persons subjective decision to embark upon a sexual experience, be they qualitative (deeper connections etc) or quantitative (tone of sex) it's got truly no standardised answer as to how it's used. People are complex individuals and will utilise this place in the way they see fit as it is nothing more than a tool to be utilised to make connections, regardless of how they wish to go about this, and this is personal to them entirely. Ratios aside; make whatever approach you see fit to embark upon your time here, share (or dont sgare) as much of yourself as you are comfortable and, above all, respectfully accept that people here are different. Words like 'scrounging' have such a negative connotation and are not useful in a society that's supposed to be about inclusion and acceptance of a deviation of supposed 'societal normal behaviours' Have fun, promote inclusion and accept others individuality in this eclectic place Back under my rock I go Me and you could definitely talk about the physiological reasons why women use this site in the many various ways they do, thank you We could.....we wont....because in one post you have insulted people whom I regard as genuine individuals. Plus I have respect for people and dont have the time or the inclination to educate anybody. Enjoy your time here OP. Hope this thread is what you're expecting it to be You dissapoint with your reply, I never insulted anyone, I questioned their reasoning By attributing the label 'scroungers' to the community here, who mostly welcome newcomers and attempt to provide a society which has a symbiotic goal of encouraging people to live a life free of narrow minded perceptions you have insulted people. By showing a lack of understanding of peoples individualised approach to this site you have indeed overlooked a part of swinging that is imperative; community. Instead you start to disparage and attempt to browbeat people with an attitude that quite frankly is not in keeping with the spirit of swinging itself. Think what you will as is your right but theres more knowledge in my little finger about the psychological implications of swinging. This is the establishment of a community; many individual voices and desires striving together forca common goal. Who cares the niceties of peoples motivations? Not I. Respect to all. Enjoy your dates or fucks however you wish! Clearly I am misunderstood I asked a question as to why people use the site in the way that they do, I was not whining, or whinging, just asking for an intelligent insight to peoples minds Sigh....Here we go then - Because its subjective and they wish to use it that way. Desired outcomes are different from person to person. People = Individual Individual = Different Different = Unique Unique = differing desired outcomes and approaches to gain that End of fucking thread! Jesus! That sentiment has been echoed by the majority of the posters so this should of tapered off a long time ago. By your statement it clearly shows you have some serious un happiness that needs to be addressed, ant deppresents might help, or up the dosage, you clearly know the words bit the thinking show problems I dumbed it down for you as you seemed to be unable to grasp even the most basic of concepts of personal freedom and the issues of capacity, that every person has (mostly), to choose their own approaches in their life. My understanding in the psychological field I do not need to quantify to an ignoramous. I shall merely state that your black and white thinking has no real place in this world that exists in shades of grey. No you didn't you just don't have the words or mind, you didn't dumb it down, you're just clearly dumb " Guess what? Baiting doesn't work 'my friend' You hold your views close. Enjoy them in your sexless time with Fabs. It's a cold and lonely place out on that ledge where you have firmly placed yourself. And on that note.......you may leave, I'm done with you! Toodles | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this Lots of nice men on here are wanting to wine and dine women. Scroungers is a harsh word OP, it shows your true colours! Please explain my true colours as I think you're well off the mark I think she’s saying you’re tight - I might agree... True colours as in a whinging entitled man who should leave people to use the site as they see fit and you to do the same!
I don't want anything sexually from 99% of anyone from here, so stop flattering yourself, I seek intelligent deep people to talk to. Its called learning"Seriously stop contradicting yourself you want someone to talk to go see your friends, your clearly on the wrong site if you dont want anything sexually, and the way you have degraded wemon on here you certainly wont be getting any!! | |||
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" No you didn't you just don't have the words or mind, you didn't dumb it down, you're just clearly dumb " And you have clearly confused this site with a subscription dial a ride service that should only be used the way you say, even your profile says it all, people use this site how they like and if you think the majority are using it wrong and yours is the one way to use it not only are you stupid you're also on the wrong site, have fun 'wandering along' because judging by your profile and fiasco here I'd say you've about fucked it mate
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this Lots of nice men on here are wanting to wine and dine women. Scroungers is a harsh word OP, it shows your true colours! Please explain my true colours as I think you're well off the mark I think she’s saying you’re tight - I might agree... True colours as in a whinging entitled man who should leave people to use the site as they see fit and you to do the same!
I don't want anything sexually from 99% of anyone from here, so stop flattering yourself, I seek intelligent deep people to talk to. Its called learning
Seriously stop contradicting yourself you want someone to talk to go see your friends, your clearly on the wrong site if you dont want anything sexually, and the way you have degraded wemon on here you certainly wont be getting any!!"Women not wemon | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this Lots of nice men on here are wanting to wine and dine women. Scroungers is a harsh word OP, it shows your true colours! Please explain my true colours as I think you're well off the mark I think she’s saying you’re tight - I might agree... True colours as in a whinging entitled man who should leave people to use the site as they see fit and you to do the same!
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" No you didn't you just don't have the words or mind, you didn't dumb it down, you're just clearly dumb And you have clearly confused this site with a subscription dial a ride service that should only be used the way you say, even your profile says it all, people use this site how they like and if you think the majority are using it wrong and yours is the one way to use it not only are you stupid you're also on the wrong site, have fun 'wandering along' because judging by your profile and fiasco here I'd say you've about fucked it mate
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"It's amazing how fast a few words can wind up so many people, what the fuck is wrong with you all, who gives a shit what I think.......... Hahahaha you do Nope. I don’t. Can see a wind up a mile off. Jokes on you sweetheart. Now delete and come back as someone else and play nice "What wind up?? | |||
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" No you didn't you just don't have the words or mind, you didn't dumb it down, you're just clearly dumb And you have clearly confused this site with a subscription dial a ride service that should only be used the way you say, even your profile says it all, people use this site how they like and if you think the majority are using it wrong and yours is the one way to use it not only are you stupid you're also on the wrong site, have fun 'wandering along' because judging by your profile and fiasco here I'd say you've about fucked it mate
That enough words for you? Dick
Thanks but you should have used your full name Richard.
Sorry Dick your words are too shallow for my understanding.
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"It's amazing how fast a few words can wind up so many people, what the fuck is wrong with you all, who gives a shit what I think.......... Hahahaha you do Nope. I don’t. Can see a wind up a mile off. Jokes on you sweetheart. Now delete and come back as someone else and play nice "What do you think he'll come back as? Wanderingalone? | |||
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"Well I thoroughly enjoyed that, now you can all fuck off and carry on being fake to each other to see if you can get laid " Cheers. Entertained me
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"It's amazing how fast a few words can wind up so many people, what the fuck is wrong with you all, who gives a shit what I think.......... Hahahaha you do Nope. I don’t. Can see a wind up a mile off. Jokes on you sweetheart. Now delete and come back as someone else and play nice
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"Well I thoroughly enjoyed that, now you can all fuck off and carry on being fake to each other to see if you can get laid Cheers. Entertained me
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"Well I thoroughly enjoyed that, now you can all fuck off and carry on being fake to each other to see if you can get laid " We'll have better chance than a grumpy ould cunt like you anyway
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"What wine and dined?? Men on dating sites are just mean rude and insecure... That's the experience I made... Bad ones I know..." They are, they want one thing only | |||
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"Well I thoroughly enjoyed that, now you can all fuck off and carry on being fake to each other to see if you can get laid Cheers. Entertained me
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Yeah? I know a lovely restaurant "Can I come along, I’m bored | |||
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"Well I thoroughly enjoyed that, now you can all fuck off and carry on being fake to each other to see if you can get laid Cheers. Entertained me
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Can I come along, I’m bored "He’s paying | |||
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"Well I thoroughly enjoyed that, now you can all fuck off and carry on being fake to each other to see if you can get laid Cheers. Entertained me
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"Well I thoroughly enjoyed that, now you can all fuck off and carry on being fake to each other to see if you can get laid " Thank you for providing the entertainment for this evening. Much obliged | |||
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"Well I thoroughly enjoyed that, now you can all fuck off and carry on being fake to each other to see if you can get laid Cheers. Entertained me
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Yeah my kind of lady
Yeah? I know a lovely restaurant
Can I come along, I’m bored "You can pay lol cause I'm a tight, miserable, old, druggy, cunt | |||
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Nowt on telly
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Can I come along, I’m bored
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this Lots of nice men on here are wanting to wine and dine women. Scroungers is a harsh word OP, it shows your true colours! Please explain my true colours as I think you're well off the mark I think she’s saying you’re tight - I might agree... True colours as in a whinging entitled man who should leave people to use the site as they see fit and you to do the same!
I don't want anything sexually from 99% of anyone from here, so stop flattering yourself, I seek intelligent deep people to talk to. Its called learning
Seriously stop contradicting yourself you want someone to talk to go see your friends, your clearly on the wrong site if you dont want anything sexually, and the way you have degraded wemon on here you certainly wont be getting any!!
Women not wemon"No wemon as in more than one as no one is going to touch you if I said woman it would mean 1 | |||
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Yeah? I know a lovely restaurant
Can I come along, I’m bored
He’s paying
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Nowt on telly
Yeah my kind of lady
Yeah? I know a lovely restaurant
Can I come along, I’m bored
He’s paying
Oh how lovely
He,s skint! Spent all his pocket money on sweeties.... "Will you pay with curly wurlies | |||
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"Well I thoroughly enjoyed that, now you can all fuck off and carry on being fake to each other to see if you can get laid Cheers. Entertained me
Nowt on telly
Yeah my kind of lady
Yeah? I know a lovely restaurant
Can I come along, I’m bored
You can pay lol cause I'm a tight, miserable, old, druggy, cunt "If you listen closely you can hear the knickers of the ladies of Fab drop at the prospect of such a distinguished gent as your good self! | |||
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this Lots of nice men on here are wanting to wine and dine women. Scroungers is a harsh word OP, it shows your true colours! Please explain my true colours as I think you're well off the mark I think she’s saying you’re tight - I might agree... True colours as in a whinging entitled man who should leave people to use the site as they see fit and you to do the same!
I don't want anything sexually from 99% of anyone from here, so stop flattering yourself, I seek intelligent deep people to talk to. Its called learning
Seriously stop contradicting yourself you want someone to talk to go see your friends, your clearly on the wrong site if you dont want anything sexually, and the way you have degraded wemon on here you certainly wont be getting any!!
Women not wemon
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Can I come along, I’m bored
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"I'm a great fan of socials, dinner dates, getting together, building friendships, knowing you have trusted friends who will take the piss out of you, friends who can hold a confidence, hold your hand, hold your gaze, hold your interest. Friends who will pick you up when you feel vunerable, slap you about when you are being self absorbed, ask nothing of you but that you be yourself. Friends that will confide in you, share their secrets, trust you with details they would share with no one else. Friends that intimacy is a welcome bonus, not a sole reason for being their friend. Friends that have equally complex lives and don't demand your attention 24/7. Friends that aren't shocked when you get your arse / bits out and give a cheeky fab from time to time. Friends that you would quite happily ravish but are still friends if you can't / won't or choose not to, as much as they have the same choice. Yep, I may be on the wrong site, but then so are my friends. I'm glad they are."
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Nowt on telly
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Yeah? I know a lovely restaurant
Can I come along, I’m bored
He’s paying
Oh how lovely
He,s skint! Spent all his pocket money on sweeties....
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"Well I thoroughly enjoyed that, now you can all fuck off and carry on being fake to each other to see if you can get laid Thank you for providing the entertainment for this evening. Much obliged "Please do not encourage this shit lol x | |||
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Yeah? I know a lovely restaurant
Can I come along, I’m bored
You can pay lol cause I'm a tight, miserable, old, druggy, cunt
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"I find as a male competition is high being that the ratio of women to men is about 30-70%, that's cool, at my age you know you're not for everyone. But people who wish to be wined and dined and spoiled I think should not be here, generally it's a swinging site, which means, like minded people get together in a social environment and share their desire for sex, on the other hand it's a sex site, for people to get together and have raw sex. In my opinion, I feel that (setting aside genuine swingers), the site is used as a dating or scrounging site, I would love to know, everyone's thoughts on this Lots of nice men on here are wanting to wine and dine women. Scroungers is a harsh word OP, it shows your true colours! Please explain my true colours as I think you're well off the mark I think she’s saying you’re tight - I might agree... True colours as in a whinging entitled man who should leave people to use the site as they see fit and you to do the same!
I don't want anything sexually from 99% of anyone from here, so stop flattering yourself, I seek intelligent deep people to talk to. Its called learning
Seriously stop contradicting yourself you want someone to talk to go see your friends, your clearly on the wrong site if you dont want anything sexually, and the way you have degraded wemon on here you certainly wont be getting any!!
Women not wemon
No wemon as in more than one as no one is going to touch you if I said woman it would mean 1
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"Well I thoroughly enjoyed that, now you can all fuck off and carry on being fake to each other to see if you can get laid Cheers. Entertained me
Nowt on telly
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Yeah? I know a lovely restaurant
Can I come along, I’m bored
You can pay lol cause I'm a tight, miserable, old, druggy, cunt
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Yeah? I know a lovely restaurant
Can I come along, I’m bored
He’s paying
Oh how lovely
He,s skint! Spent all his pocket money on sweeties....
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Yeah? I know a lovely restaurant
Can I come along, I’m bored
You can pay lol cause I'm a tight, miserable, old, druggy, cunt
If you listen closely you can hear the knickers of the ladies of Fab drop at the prospect of such a distinguished gent as your good self!
Mine have been off a while I’m on my third strum! "You're having a laugh, who am I, you don't know but I feel flattered that you are able to judge by a few words | |||
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"People can use it how they want to
They can, but such a predictable safe answer
And a correct one - if you don't like the people that want a bit more than just getting naked then pass them by. They are no more wrong in what they are looking for than you are
I already agreed with you, I also didn't say I didn't like it I asked an opinion on it
But you did - you said they shouldn't be here
I also didn't say I didn't like it, just curious if they are in the right place"If they want to on this site, then yes they are in the right place! L | |||
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