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over a year ago
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"You can tell the truth, but in a gentle manner. I don't like to be brutal with it. I like to sprinkle a little sugar  "
I need to get me some of that sugar I think  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You can tell the truth, but in a gentle manner. I don't like to be brutal with it. I like to sprinkle a little sugar
I need to get me some of that sugar I think "
I'm good at sharing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've no short term memory so I'd be a crap liar. I'm very open and probably too honest sometimes but I don't think I'm rude with it, just maybe a little brutal when necessary. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've no short term memory so I'd be a crap liar. I'm very open and probably too honest sometimes but I don't think I'm rude with it, just maybe a little brutal when necessary. "
Same I am too. Although maybe a bit too brutal sometimes. I need to try not to be |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've no short term memory so I'd be a crap liar. I'm very open and probably too honest sometimes but I don't think I'm rude with it, just maybe a little brutal when necessary.
Same I am too. Although maybe a bit too brutal sometimes. I need to try not to be "
Don't think there's anything wrong with that if people understand you though.. people don't expect a sugar coated response from me. My theory is 'if you don't want an honest answer, don't ask the question' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've no short term memory so I'd be a crap liar. I'm very open and probably too honest sometimes but I don't think I'm rude with it, just maybe a little brutal when necessary.
Same I am too. Although maybe a bit too brutal sometimes. I need to try not to be
Don't think there's anything wrong with that if people understand you though.. people don't expect a sugar coated response from me. My theory is 'if you don't want an honest answer, don't ask the question' "
He worst is when you don't ask the question and they choose to give it to you with both barrels anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've no short term memory so I'd be a crap liar. I'm very open and probably too honest sometimes but I don't think I'm rude with it, just maybe a little brutal when necessary.
Same I am too. Although maybe a bit too brutal sometimes. I need to try not to be
Don't think there's anything wrong with that if people understand you though.. people don't expect a sugar coated response from me. My theory is 'if you don't want an honest answer, don't ask the question' "
To be honest people like that about me. My friends know if they say does this dress look ok I will be honest and give my true opinion. I think it’s the people that don’t know me that well I need to be a bit more careful with! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've no short term memory so I'd be a crap liar. I'm very open and probably too honest sometimes but I don't think I'm rude with it, just maybe a little brutal when necessary.
Same I am too. Although maybe a bit too brutal sometimes. I need to try not to be
Don't think there's anything wrong with that if people understand you though.. people don't expect a sugar coated response from me. My theory is 'if you don't want an honest answer, don't ask the question'
He worst is when you don't ask the question and they choose to give it to you with both barrels anyway "
That's just rude!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've no short term memory so I'd be a crap liar. I'm very open and probably too honest sometimes but I don't think I'm rude with it, just maybe a little brutal when necessary.
Same I am too. Although maybe a bit too brutal sometimes. I need to try not to be
Don't think there's anything wrong with that if people understand you though.. people don't expect a sugar coated response from me. My theory is 'if you don't want an honest answer, don't ask the question'
He worst is when you don't ask the question and they choose to give it to you with both barrels anyway
That's just rude!! "
My sister was like that. She fried my brain sometimes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can speak my truth but it is only ever my truth- timing it well with appropriate language is the art I’m trying to learn.
Being open to other perspectives on the truth is also important - I’m trying to learn that too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've no short term memory so I'd be a crap liar. I'm very open and probably too honest sometimes but I don't think I'm rude with it, just maybe a little brutal when necessary.
Same I am too. Although maybe a bit too brutal sometimes. I need to try not to be
Don't think there's anything wrong with that if people understand you though.. people don't expect a sugar coated response from me. My theory is 'if you don't want an honest answer, don't ask the question'
To be honest people like that about me. My friends know if they say does this dress look ok I will be honest and give my true opinion. I think it’s the people that don’t know me that well I need to be a bit more careful with! "
Yeah true.. I probably assume people know my bluntness and humour more than they really do sometimes.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've no short term memory so I'd be a crap liar. I'm very open and probably too honest sometimes but I don't think I'm rude with it, just maybe a little brutal when necessary.
Same I am too. Although maybe a bit too brutal sometimes. I need to try not to be
Don't think there's anything wrong with that if people understand you though.. people don't expect a sugar coated response from me. My theory is 'if you don't want an honest answer, don't ask the question'
He worst is when you don't ask the question and they choose to give it to you with both barrels anyway
That's just rude!!
My sister was like that. She fried my brain sometimes "
Not surprised! That'd drive me nuts.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've no short term memory so I'd be a crap liar. I'm very open and probably too honest sometimes but I don't think I'm rude with it, just maybe a little brutal when necessary.
Same I am too. Although maybe a bit too brutal sometimes. I need to try not to be
Don't think there's anything wrong with that if people understand you though.. people don't expect a sugar coated response from me. My theory is 'if you don't want an honest answer, don't ask the question'
To be honest people like that about me. My friends know if they say does this dress look ok I will be honest and give my true opinion. I think it’s the people that don’t know me that well I need to be a bit more careful with! "
I would prefer for someone to say "that dress doesn't suit you" to " fuck me, your arse looks huge in that!!".... i already know i look a wreck, just by that first comment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've no short term memory so I'd be a crap liar. I'm very open and probably too honest sometimes but I don't think I'm rude with it, just maybe a little brutal when necessary.
Same I am too. Although maybe a bit too brutal sometimes. I need to try not to be
Don't think there's anything wrong with that if people understand you though.. people don't expect a sugar coated response from me. My theory is 'if you don't want an honest answer, don't ask the question'
He worst is when you don't ask the question and they choose to give it to you with both barrels anyway
That's just rude!!
My sister was like that. She fried my brain sometimes
Not surprised! That'd drive me nuts.. "
She even used to try and tell me how to bring up my child... despite not having children herself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've no short term memory so I'd be a crap liar. I'm very open and probably too honest sometimes but I don't think I'm rude with it, just maybe a little brutal when necessary.
Same I am too. Although maybe a bit too brutal sometimes. I need to try not to be
Don't think there's anything wrong with that if people understand you though.. people don't expect a sugar coated response from me. My theory is 'if you don't want an honest answer, don't ask the question'
To be honest people like that about me. My friends know if they say does this dress look ok I will be honest and give my true opinion. I think it’s the people that don’t know me that well I need to be a bit more careful with!
I would prefer for someone to say "that dress doesn't suit you" to " fuck me, your arse looks huge in that!!".... i already know i look a wreck, just by that first comment "
Oh god yeah I’m not that harsh! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've no short term memory so I'd be a crap liar. I'm very open and probably too honest sometimes but I don't think I'm rude with it, just maybe a little brutal when necessary.
Same I am too. Although maybe a bit too brutal sometimes. I need to try not to be
Don't think there's anything wrong with that if people understand you though.. people don't expect a sugar coated response from me. My theory is 'if you don't want an honest answer, don't ask the question'
To be honest people like that about me. My friends know if they say does this dress look ok I will be honest and give my true opinion. I think it’s the people that don’t know me that well I need to be a bit more careful with!
I would prefer for someone to say "that dress doesn't suit you" to " fuck me, your arse looks huge in that!!".... i already know i look a wreck, just by that first comment
Oh god yeah I’m not that harsh! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've no short term memory so I'd be a crap liar. I'm very open and probably too honest sometimes but I don't think I'm rude with it, just maybe a little brutal when necessary.
Same I am too. Although maybe a bit too brutal sometimes. I need to try not to be
Don't think there's anything wrong with that if people understand you though.. people don't expect a sugar coated response from me. My theory is 'if you don't want an honest answer, don't ask the question'
He worst is when you don't ask the question and they choose to give it to you with both barrels anyway
That's just rude!!
My sister was like that. She fried my brain sometimes
Not surprised! That'd drive me nuts..
She even used to try and tell me how to bring up my child... despite not having children herself. "
I had a mother in law like that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've no short term memory so I'd be a crap liar. I'm very open and probably too honest sometimes but I don't think I'm rude with it, just maybe a little brutal when necessary.
Same I am too. Although maybe a bit too brutal sometimes. I need to try not to be
Don't think there's anything wrong with that if people understand you though.. people don't expect a sugar coated response from me. My theory is 'if you don't want an honest answer, don't ask the question'
He worst is when you don't ask the question and they choose to give it to you with both barrels anyway
That's just rude!!
My sister was like that. She fried my brain sometimes
Not surprised! That'd drive me nuts..
She even used to try and tell me how to bring up my child... despite not having children herself.
I had a mother in law like that "
Well obviously she’d had children lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've no short term memory so I'd be a crap liar. I'm very open and probably too honest sometimes but I don't think I'm rude with it, just maybe a little brutal when necessary.
Same I am too. Although maybe a bit too brutal sometimes. I need to try not to be
Don't think there's anything wrong with that if people understand you though.. people don't expect a sugar coated response from me. My theory is 'if you don't want an honest answer, don't ask the question'
He worst is when you don't ask the question and they choose to give it to you with both barrels anyway
That's just rude!!
My sister was like that. She fried my brain sometimes
Not surprised! That'd drive me nuts..
She even used to try and tell me how to bring up my child... despite not having children herself.
I had a mother in law like that
Well obviously she’d had children lol "
That was one time i did lose the sugar  |
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Unless you are lacking in empathy, then it's important to always consider the effects that your actions have on others - especially if relationships are important to you.
The truth to you is just a perception anyway, so you also need to have a potential reassessment of your own limitations.
Callous disregard for others, whilst insisting that you speak the 'truth' trgardless, is repulsive. |
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"Unless you are lacking in empathy, then it's important to always consider the effects that your actions have on others - especially if relationships are important to you.
The truth to you is just a perception anyway, so you also need to have a potential reassessment of your own limitations.
Callous disregard for others, whilst insisting that you speak the 'truth' trgardless, is repulsive. "
That's the long and short of it |
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Mostly tell the truth but we must be kind here and there, but truth be told there are some bellends out there with no reguard for a persons feelings, they are the ones to be honest towards
And thats the gospel truth.. |
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By *UNCHBOX OP Man
over a year ago
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Just like to point out this thread isn't about my behaviour as anyone who has met me will tell you I'm very polite, it was about hearing from people who are blunt and straight to the point, as it's not something I can do. |
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By *UNCHBOX OP Man
over a year ago
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"... Should you be always be a diplomat or should tell the truth, even if the person doesn't like the answer?
I find you revolting im not interested "
Don't hold back, tell me what you really think |
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