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Does it put guys off do you think if the woman has met bi guys?
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Actually having thought about it OP the only thing that would put me off would be if you didn't suggest the possibility of inviting him along the next time (if we were all in agreement of course) |
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Puts me off if anyone has gone before. Tricky these days given my age. Asked my current lover the usual question “was I the first? She replied “if you were a Butlins redcoat in 1974 the yes”.
Boom boom |
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over a year ago
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"Actually having thought about it OP the only thing that would put me off would be if you didn't suggest the possibility of inviting him along the next time (if we were all in agreement of course)"
You beat me to it. But I’d have to fancy him not just get along.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It did play on my mind, she had a bi bf who played bareback as did she with several others.
I had to condiser how many partners were involved and the numeracy of it killed the boner. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Actually having thought about it OP the only thing that would put me off would be if you didn't suggest the possibility of inviting him along the next time (if we were all in agreement of course)
You beat me to it. But I’d have to fancy him not just get along. "
That was what the "if we were all in agreement" bit was about |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually having thought about it OP the only thing that would put me off would be if you didn't suggest the possibility of inviting him along the next time (if we were all in agreement of course)
You beat me to it. But I’d have to fancy him not just get along.
That was what the "if we were all in agreement" bit was about "
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"No not at all... just finishing my work break so will check back in.
What if the bi Man was a tv op?"
For me it just depends on the interaction I have had/having with a person and if I found them attractive then never say never |
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"Actually having thought about it OP the only thing that would put me off would be if you didn't suggest the possibility of inviting him along the next time (if we were all in agreement of course)
You beat me to it. But I’d have to fancy him not just get along. "
Oooo interesting that could be my 1st mmf adventure lol |
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"Puts me off if anyone has gone before. Tricky these days given my age. Asked my current lover the usual question “was I the first? She replied “if you were a Butlins redcoat in 1974 the yes”.
Boom boom"
Dont give up the day job  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm one of the unclean ones (and according to another thread, also liable to sexually assault people) so it doesn't bother me. "
You are just the person to meet down a dark alley then. Noted  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who cares (well apart from THAT person on THAT thread, bizarre to say the least), bi boys are soooooo much fun and opens up a whole new area of filthy possibilities  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd like to think not. I've met bi guys numerous times and I've not been aware of it causing a problem for potential meets. Then again, how would I know? |
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There are loads of people who would be bothered .
When we were swinging we went to the gum clinic every couple of months , and were asked every time if we played with bi men . Every time we said probably we have . So we were tested for hiv every time and had throat and anal swabs . The first time we went and told them we were swingers we were given the hep jab and it was topped up after six months . We were told we couldn’t give blood as we played with bi guys .
So don’t blame the people who say they don’t want to play with bi guys . Blame the gum clinics , the nhs , the online scare stories etc.....
Oh and it never bothered us when we were swinging whether people were bi or not . Nit one bit . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually having thought about it OP the only thing that would put me off would be if you didn't suggest the possibility of inviting him along the next time (if we were all in agreement of course)
You beat me to it. But I’d have to fancy him not just get along. "
Animals.. all three of you. |
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"There are loads of people who would be bothered .
When we were swinging we went to the gum clinic every couple of months , and were asked every time if we played with bi men . Every time we said probably we have . So we were tested for hiv every time and had throat and anal swabs . The first time we went and told them we were swingers we were given the hep jab and it was topped up after six months . We were told we couldn’t give blood as we played with bi guys .
So don’t blame the people who say they don’t want to play with bi guys . Blame the gum clinics , the nhs , the online scare stories etc.....
Oh and it never bothered us when we were swinging whether people were bi or not . Nit one bit ."
I have found this when I have visited clinics for checks. And wondered if risk of infection was part of it or the scare mongering of it. Or do straight guys during a mmf meet with a bi guy think that they are so hot the bi guy won't be able resist the straight guy. I don't know really I was just curious to hear peoples experiences and thoughts.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are loads of people who would be bothered .
When we were swinging we went to the gum clinic every couple of months , and were asked every time if we played with bi men . Every time we said probably we have . So we were tested for hiv every time and had throat and anal swabs . The first time we went and told them we were swingers we were given the hep jab and it was topped up after six months . We were told we couldn’t give blood as we played with bi guys .
So don’t blame the people who say they don’t want to play with bi guys . Blame the gum clinics , the nhs , the online scare stories etc.....
Oh and it never bothered us when we were swinging whether people were bi or not . Nit one bit .
I have found this when I have visited clinics for checks. And wondered if risk of infection was part of it or the scare mongering of it. Or do straight guys during a mmf meet with a bi guy think that they are so hot the bi guy won't be able resist the straight guy. I don't know really I was just curious to hear peoples experiences and thoughts.
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And some people are repulsed by it  |
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"There are loads of people who would be bothered .
When we were swinging we went to the gum clinic every couple of months , and were asked every time if we played with bi men . Every time we said probably we have . So we were tested for hiv every time and had throat and anal swabs . The first time we went and told them we were swingers we were given the hep jab and it was topped up after six months . We were told we couldn’t give blood as we played with bi guys .
So don’t blame the people who say they don’t want to play with bi guys . Blame the gum clinics , the nhs , the online scare stories etc.....
Oh and it never bothered us when we were swinging whether people were bi or not . Nit one bit .
I have found this when I have visited clinics for checks. And wondered if risk of infection was part of it or the scare mongering of it. Or do straight guys during a mmf meet with a bi guy think that they are so hot the bi guy won't be able resist the straight guy. I don't know really I was just curious to hear peoples experiences and thoughts.
And some people are repulsed by it "
Each to their own. I have no problem with that but being abusive about it doesn't sit well with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would take note of the increased risk to my sexual health (which is a proven fact not just predudice on my part) and it would make me take a more cautious approach to assessing the lady's sexual health. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I would take note of the increased risk to my sexual health (which is a proven fact not just predudice on my part) and it would make me take a more cautious approach to assessing the lady's sexual health. "
Increased risk over meeting swingers you mean? Or one of the other groups considered high risk by GUM clinics and the like? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would take note of the increased risk to my sexual health (which is a proven fact not just predudice on my part) and it would make me take a more cautious approach to assessing the lady's sexual health.
Increased risk over meeting swingers you mean? Or one of the other groups considered high risk by GUM clinics and the like?"
I was responding to the OP's question on would you take into account the fact a women you wanted to meet had met bi guys. I was responding yes I would and why I would. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I would take note of the increased risk to my sexual health (which is a proven fact not just predudice on my part) and it would make me take a more cautious approach to assessing the lady's sexual health.
Increased risk over meeting swingers you mean? Or one of the other groups considered high risk by GUM clinics and the like?
I was responding to the OP's question on would you take into account the fact a women you wanted to meet had met bi guys. I was responding yes I would and why I would."
I know you were, and I was querying why that would make you think twice over meeting any one else who has multiple partners or is a swinger, regardless of their sexuality, being as they are in the same high risk group as bisexual men? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would take note of the increased risk to my sexual health (which is a proven fact not just predudice on my part) and it would make me take a more cautious approach to assessing the lady's sexual health.
Increased risk over meeting swingers you mean? Or one of the other groups considered high risk by GUM clinics and the like?
I was responding to the OP's question on would you take into account the fact a women you wanted to meet had met bi guys. I was responding yes I would and why I would.
I know you were, and I was querying why that would make you think twice over meeting any one else who has multiple partners or is a swinger, regardless of their sexuality, being as they are in the same high risk group as bisexual men?"
So earnest. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I would take note of the increased risk to my sexual health (which is a proven fact not just predudice on my part) and it would make me take a more cautious approach to assessing the lady's sexual health.
Increased risk over meeting swingers you mean? Or one of the other groups considered high risk by GUM clinics and the like?
I was responding to the OP's question on would you take into account the fact a women you wanted to meet had met bi guys. I was responding yes I would and why I would.
I know you were, and I was querying why that would make you think twice over meeting any one else who has multiple partners or is a swinger, regardless of their sexuality, being as they are in the same high risk group as bisexual men?
So earnest."
Foxtrot Oscar |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would take note of the increased risk to my sexual health (which is a proven fact not just predudice on my part) and it would make me take a more cautious approach to assessing the lady's sexual health.
Increased risk over meeting swingers you mean? Or one of the other groups considered high risk by GUM clinics and the like?
I was responding to the OP's question on would you take into account the fact a women you wanted to meet had met bi guys. I was responding yes I would and why I would.
I know you were, and I was querying why that would make you think twice over meeting any one else who has multiple partners or is a swinger, regardless of their sexuality, being as they are in the same high risk group as bisexual men?
So earnest.
Foxtrot Oscar "
Lima Mike Foxtrot Alpha Oscar |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Best not to admit any preferences on the forums for fear of being slagged off."
And people wonder why others lie on profiles / posts or say what they think others want to hear... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Best not to admit any preferences on the forums for fear of being slagged off.
And people wonder why others lie on profiles / posts or say what they think others want to hear..."
Exactly. Or they don’t say anything at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How can anyone know for sure OP? Not everyone is asked or will say if they're bi (why should they?). The lady may not know.
If it bothers you then probably best not to have sex with anyone to stay on the safe side! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yeah it would "bother me". It shouldn't and I have no prejudice against anyone because of their sexuality, but I grew up during the period of the AIDS iceberg adverts, that frightend the shit out of me. I have OCD and I make stuff up in my head, but that would give me a narrative to start.
K_S. |
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"How can anyone know for sure OP? Not everyone is asked or will say if they're bi (why should they?). The lady may not know.
If it bothers you then probably best not to have sex with anyone to stay on the safe side! "
I have never stayed on the safe side of life lol |
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"Yeah it would "bother me". It shouldn't and I have no prejudice against anyone because of their sexuality, but I grew up during the period of the AIDS iceberg adverts, that frightend the shit out of me. I have OCD and I make stuff up in my head, but that would give me a narrative to start.
K_S. "
I appreciate that x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Who I meet has feck all to do with anyone else and if someone is going to take issue with me being with a bi man in the past I’d rather know so I can stop it there and find someone less flakey
Fecking buttercups |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have had guys put off when they've seen my profile info of me wanting to meet bi guys
Are they worried they may catch bi?"
I've had lots of different things said about it, some "puzzled" why I would want to meet bi sexual men, some telling me there is a more higher risk of HIV. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who I meet has feck all to do with anyone else and if someone is going to take issue with me being with a bi man in the past I’d rather know so I can stop it there and find someone less flakey
Fecking buttercups"
What would be an acceptable reason for not wanting to meet you? |
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