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I was once speaking to a woman on here who was interested in me until I told her I was mixed race. That could probably full under racism.
But on the other hand, I'm not attracted to large women, is there really a difference? |
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"I was once speaking to a woman on here who was interested in me until I told her I was mixed race. That could probably full under racism.
But on the other hand, I'm not attracted to large women, is there really a difference? "
To me, it's the same.
Might irk many, but that's how I see it. |
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"I was once speaking to a woman on here who was interested in me until I told her I was mixed race. That could probably full under racism.
But on the other hand, I'm not attracted to large women, is there really a difference? "
I’m not sure it does fall under racism. Does not wanting to meet the same sex fall under a category then? I won’t meet men with beards either. It’s a difficult one. When it comes to race/colour etc I don’t see it. I just see am I attracted to them or not. Whereas where it comes to beards and very slim people it’s a definite no. I think if I saw a profile saying no black people, no white people, no Asians or whatever it would put me off them as a person whereas no large people wouldn’t. Like I say it’s a toughie. |
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"I was once speaking to a woman on here who was interested in me until I told her I was mixed race. That could probably full under racism.
But on the other hand, I'm not attracted to large women, is there really a difference?
To me, it's the same.
Might irk many, but that's how I see it."
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I don't think there is a difference, if you have a type or just aren't attracted to certain things I don't think it should be viewed as racism as you wouldn't have an issue with it in any other form of your life.
A few couples on here have had asain men as the male. But they don't mention or show it in pictures, they just say they are a mixed couple or something along them lines, now the female half doesn't generally find asain men attractive but does find the odd asain guy attractive depending on features and build and other stuff... We are both born in Bradford and have zero issues with asain people at all... In fact we both like asain women and we both like black women too but sometimes on this website it's not made clear on profiles..
You can't fancy everyone end of the day and if you don't find a black, asain or white person attractive and wouldn't meet for that reason it's certainly not racism... Your meeting them with the intention of something sexual happening not hiring them for a job...
Oh and we have seen profiles where white women only meet black guys and only meet asain guys. And profiles where black women only meet white guys. Are they racist? Absolutely not, it's just preference and on a website like this your allowed and perfectly entitled to go for what you think is most attractive to you x |
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