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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For those that are regular to the forums you might have gotten to know me a little bit and seen some of the threads I've made.
So out of curiosity how would you sum me up?
Be as brutally honest as possible I'd like see what you all come up with if anything ... And yes I know there'll be loads of bad stuff said but trust me nothing that I havent heard before will offend me, so fire away.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From your earliest forum contributions, you've come across as negative and a bit needy.
Humour has shown through little more recently.
Other than that, don't know ya. |
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As this is the first time I have noticed you , I am going to err on the side of caution. I have absolutely no fooking idea who you are and feel that it's probably a teensy weensy bit deluded to imagine that people have been sitting analysing who you are and how they are going to sum you up 
Anyway ..... uhmmmmmm that's it.
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"As this is the first time I have noticed you , I am going to err on the side of caution. I have absolutely no fooking idea who you are and feel that it's probably a teensy weensy bit deluded to imagine that people have been sitting analysing who you are and how they are going to sum you up
Anyway ..... uhmmmmmm that's it.
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I have never said this before..I laughed so much I did nearly spat my coffee out. Still laughing now...oh dear me. |
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"As this is the first time I have noticed you , I am going to err on the side of caution. I have absolutely no fooking idea who you are and feel that it's probably a teensy weensy bit deluded to imagine that people have been sitting analysing who you are and how they are going to sum you up
Anyway ..... uhmmmmmm that's it.
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Oh btw I'm Anabelle lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In need of acceptance
A bit 'full on' with some of your responses to women
I've cringed into my cushion a few times
The good news (and bad) is there's a lot more like you
I don't find you obnoxious though, so browny points for being a decent chap |
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Unless your have been on here for a few years and posting regularly, Have something about you,
eg, Really good looks, banter or even act like a full on gobshite, You're just another single man on fab(at the moment)
All of the above come an go on a regularly on the furums |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Truthfully, I take what you say with a pinch of salt as an awful lot of what you say seems extremely far fetched.
Pactually thats mext thing i was going to post. Tells a few tall stories"
I don't think it's in a nasty way though, almost like trying too hard to get noticed or fit in.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For those that are regular to the forums you might have gotten to know me a little bit and seen some of the threads I've made.
So out of curiosity how would you sum me up?
Be as brutally honest as possible I'd like see what you all come up with if anything ... And yes I know there'll be loads of bad stuff said but trust me nothing that I havent heard before will offend me, so fire away.
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Odd and lost. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing obvious comes to mind, can’t recall you being a dick or offensive.
Do some people think you’re a tad weird in your responses at times, or am I thinking of someone else?
Actually I haven’t been that helpful, have I  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"A bit needy  "
i was originally thinking the same thing, but that might be just a tiny bit too harsh....
but some people just try "too hard"... and thats where i think the OP falls......
i think if you feel you have to ask people what they think of you.... what you going to do with results? change yourself into being something your not... so trying too hard again!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op be your self not what everyone expects,if people don't like the real you or your opinions fuck em better to be your own person than a false expectation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unless your have been on here for a few years and posting regularly, Have something about you,
eg, Really good looks, banter or even act like a full on gobshite, You're just another single man on fab(at the moment)
All of the above come an go on a regularly on the furums"
Same can be said for the majority really.
I can easily fade into the background, most of us can.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd question the wisdom and motive for a thread like this. Even of it girs reasinably well it will never get the responses to give the validation you seem keen for. But the negative responses will hurt and possibly/probably fuel the outsider comples
And what does it achieve, an opportunity for change to evolve in to a more popular forumite? I'd personally admire the integrity of just being yourself far more |
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"I'd question the wisdom and motive for a thread like this. Even of it girs reasinably well it will never get the responses to give the validation you seem keen for. But the negative responses will hurt and possibly/probably fuel the outsider comples
And what does it achieve, an opportunity for change to evolve in to a more popular forumite? I'd personally admire the integrity of just being yourself far more"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve said my piece about you before, the last time you did this kind of thing you ended up doing a goodbye post and hid your profile for two days.
I think you are a nice bloke but I don’t think fab is the right place for you, forums yes but everything else no, the reason I say forums only is because you provide lots of ‘wtf’ and ‘did that actually happen’ posts which are entertaining.
Is this the kind of thing you was after? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Annoying
Attention seeker aren't most posters to be fair"
True enough but if anybody genuinelly annoyed me on here I'd see that as my own failing and I'd waste my time somewhere else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We fade to grey
Isn't that an May Winehouse song  cheesy 80s song I can't remember who by
I like 80s reminds me of my 1st disco."
late 70s here ,my old boy was the DJ at the local community hall on a sat night ,fond memories of alpine pop and tartan trousers |
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"For those that are regular to the forums you might have gotten to know me a little bit and seen some of the threads I've made.
So out of curiosity how would you sum me up?
Be as brutally honest as possible I'd like see what you all come up with if anything ... And yes I know there'll be loads of bad stuff said but trust me nothing that I havent heard before will offend me, so fire away.
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I don't recall seeing you before tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dreadful idea OP... don't focus on what others think. Concentrate on what matters to you.
As this thread proves, this isn't the place to get affirmation. It's way too pantomime to be constructive to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never noticed you before, sorry. But often unless your a forum regular then posting a thread of this nature tends to lead to a degree of savagery, as you may have noticed...
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"The OP has mental health issues . I didn't remember that. But then I dont remember him either.
I hope you haven't taken everything to heart OP this is JUST fab x
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I didnt either but he wouldnt have put this thread up ifvhe didnt want the truth |
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"The OP has mental health issues . I didn't remember that. But then I dont remember him either.
I hope you haven't taken everything to heart OP this is JUST fab x
I didnt either but he wouldnt have put this thread up ifvhe didnt want the truth"
Ask and you shall receive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never noticed you before, sorry. But often unless your a forum regular then posting a thread of this nature tends to lead to a degree of savagery, as you may have noticed...
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That's just plan wrong! So unless you are well known people will be Savage!!
And people wonder why new people don't stay!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dreadful idea OP... don't focus on what others think. Concentrate on what matters to you.
As this thread proves, this isn't the place to get affirmation. It's way too pantomime to be constructive to you. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People do t stay because they can't cope with the bombardment of rude messages not because of character assassination"
I would say its both and noboby has the right to do either of those things! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never noticed you before, sorry. But often unless your a forum regular then posting a thread of this nature tends to lead to a degree of savagery, as you may have noticed...
That's just plan wrong! So unless you are well known people will be Savage!!
And people wonder why new people don't stay!!! "
Not quite what I said. As one of those new people once I know why many dont stay. It was my second incarnation here and a number of months before I posted anything in the forums.
Some of the comments to/about OP have been a little less than welcoming, or did I read a different thread? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never noticed you before, sorry. But often unless your a forum regular then posting a thread of this nature tends to lead to a degree of savagery, as you may have noticed...
That's just plan wrong! So unless you are well known people will be Savage!!
And people wonder why new people don't stay!!!
Not quite what I said. As one of those new people once I know why many dont stay. It was my second incarnation here and a number of months before I posted anything in the forums.
Some of the comments to/about OP have been a little less than welcoming, or did I read a different thread?"
It was the insinuation.
Yes some of the posts have been far from welcoming. Yes he asked a question and I'd say that was unwise to say the least however some people have been very unnecessary. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never noticed you before, sorry. But often unless your a forum regular then posting a thread of this nature tends to lead to a degree of savagery, as you may have noticed...
That's just plan wrong! So unless you are well known people will be Savage!!
And people wonder why new people don't stay!!!
Not quite what I said. As one of those new people once I know why many dont stay. It was my second incarnation here and a number of months before I posted anything in the forums.
Some of the comments to/about OP have been a little less than welcoming, or did I read a different thread?
It was the insinuation.
Yes some of the posts have been far from welcoming. Yes he asked a question and I'd say that was unwise to say the least however some people have been very unnecessary. "
To be fair, a lot of his posts (that I've noticed) invite ridicule. I think he gets off on it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.
Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never noticed you before, sorry. But often unless your a forum regular then posting a thread of this nature tends to lead to a degree of savagery, as you may have noticed...
That's just plan wrong! So unless you are well known people will be Savage!!
And people wonder why new people don't stay!!!
Not quite what I said. As one of those new people once I know why many dont stay. It was my second incarnation here and a number of months before I posted anything in the forums.
Some of the comments to/about OP have been a little less than welcoming, or did I read a different thread?
It was the insinuation.
Yes some of the posts have been far from welcoming. Yes he asked a question and I'd say that was unwise to say the least however some people have been very unnecessary. "
I think you are both agreeing here arent you in a roundabout way  |
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"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.
Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here."
Fair play to you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.
Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here."
Yes you keep posting and if people don't like it, they can scroll on by. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.
Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here."
Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it! |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.
Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.
Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.
Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it! "
Oh god there is not a chance in hell I would. I'm not thick skinned in the slightest! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.
Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.
Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it! "
I'll never get this kind of post. It's just the internet, there's not a lot of bravery involved. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.
Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.
Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it! "
If we did talk it must of been a long time ago... I can't even remember what it was about? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.
Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.
Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it!
I'll never get this kind of post. It's just the internet, there's not a lot of bravery involved."
It is if you’re low on self esteem or maybe looking to gain confidence from it, or whatever other reason people may do this, especially as most of the comments are probably not going to be the best!l |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.
Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.
Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it! If we did talk it must of been a long time ago... I can't even remember what it was about? "
Maybe it wasn’t you lol. Sorry  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.
Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.
Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it!
I'll never get this kind of post. It's just the internet, there's not a lot of bravery involved."
Just because it's the internet doesn't make it any less really or people's comments any less harmful! I think some people need to remember there are people at the end of posts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.
Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.
Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it!
I'll never get this kind of post. It's just the internet, there's not a lot of bravery involved.
Just because it's the internet doesn't make it any less really or people's comments any less harmful! I think some people need to remember there are people at the end of posts. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.
Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.
Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it!
I'll never get this kind of post. It's just the internet, there's not a lot of bravery involved.
Just because it's the internet doesn't make it any less really or people's comments any less harmful! I think some people need to remember there are people at the end of posts. "
The site has moderators to judge what should and shouldn't be posted.
Anything else is just somebody's subjective opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyone who has been on the forum knows how it works. You take it on the chin or learn from it."
the saying "don't dish what you cannot take yourself" springs into mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone who has been on the forum knows how it works. You take it on the chin or learn from it. the saying "don't dish what you cannot take yourself" springs into mind "
Absolutely |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.
Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.
Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it!
I'll never get this kind of post. It's just the internet, there's not a lot of bravery involved.
Just because it's the internet doesn't make it any less really or people's comments any less harmful! I think some people need to remember there are people at the end of posts.
The site has moderators to judge what should and shouldn't be posted.
Anything else is just somebody's subjective opinion."
I think you have missed the point. I didn't say what should or should not be posted! I think you should reread what I said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op keep posting mate sometimes you might make yourself look an arse sometimes a genius at least your brave enough to put your thoughts forward ,some on here haven't got the balls to do that but would rather try and look big with their snide remarks about you and your character |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"*checks notes to find out who the OP is* "
The one who wanted to try BDSM, then the next day announced his departure only to come back after his dinner.
Other than that, he just seems like a regular guy to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.
Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.
Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it!
I'll never get this kind of post. It's just the internet, there's not a lot of bravery involved.
Just because it's the internet doesn't make it any less really or people's comments any less harmful! I think some people need to remember there are people at the end of posts.
The site has moderators to judge what should and shouldn't be posted.
Anything else is just somebody's subjective opinion."
Indeed. One person's subjective opinion is another person's offensive post. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.
Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.
Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it!
I'll never get this kind of post. It's just the internet, there's not a lot of bravery involved.
Just because it's the internet doesn't make it any less really or people's comments any less harmful! I think some people need to remember there are people at the end of posts.
The site has moderators to judge what should and shouldn't be posted.
Anything else is just somebody's subjective opinion.
Indeed. One person's subjective opinion is another person's offensive post. "
There's nothing offensive on this thread. |
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By *iss SinWoman
over a year ago
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"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.
Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.
Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it!
I'll never get this kind of post. It's just the internet, there's not a lot of bravery involved.
Just because it's the internet doesn't make it any less really or people's comments any less harmful! I think some people need to remember there are people at the end of posts.
The site has moderators to judge what should and shouldn't be posted.
Anything else is just somebody's subjective opinion.
Indeed. One person's subjective opinion is another person's offensive post.
There's nothing offensive on this thread. "
Yes there is but he did ask for it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP can I ask why you started this thread? "
I guess curiosity and boredom.
Wanted to see what would happen because I've been on the forums for a few months just randomly posting stuff I wanted to see how others felt about me and if I've made an impression be it good or bad.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.
Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.
Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it!
I'll never get this kind of post. It's just the internet, there's not a lot of bravery involved.
Just because it's the internet doesn't make it any less really or people's comments any less harmful! I think some people need to remember there are people at the end of posts.
The site has moderators to judge what should and shouldn't be posted.
Anything else is just somebody's subjective opinion.
Indeed. One person's subjective opinion is another person's offensive post.
There's nothing offensive on this thread.
Yes there is but he did ask for it "
Yes but...you hate everybody today so I'm not sure you're opinion should be taken into account. |
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By *iss SinWoman
over a year ago
portchester |
"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.
Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.
Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it!
I'll never get this kind of post. It's just the internet, there's not a lot of bravery involved.
Just because it's the internet doesn't make it any less really or people's comments any less harmful! I think some people need to remember there are people at the end of posts.
The site has moderators to judge what should and shouldn't be posted.
Anything else is just somebody's subjective opinion.
Indeed. One person's subjective opinion is another person's offensive post.
There's nothing offensive on this thread.
Yes there is but he did ask for it
Yes but...you hate everybody today so I'm not sure you're opinion should be taken into account. "
I couldn’t give a damn this thread isn’t nice and can do more harm them good to people with mental health issues which people don’t take seriously!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Op be your self not what everyone expects,if people don't like the real you or your opinions fuck em better to be your own person than a false expectation"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I couldn’t give a damn this thread isn’t nice and can do more harm them good to people with mental health issues which people don’t take seriously!!"
You seem more upset on behalf of the op than the op |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I couldn’t give a damn this thread isn’t nice and can do more harm them good to people with mental health issues which people don’t take seriously!!
You seem more upset on behalf of the op than the op"
There's a lot of it about. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
You’re you OP. An individual and you sparkle in your own way. Some might not appreciate all of your posts but then again maybe someone reading the forum reads something of yours and it strikes a chord. Who knows.
Just do you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unless your have been on here for a few years and posting regularly, Have something about you,
eg, Really good looks, banter or even act like a full on gobshite, You're just another single man on fab(at the moment)
All of the above come an go on a regularly on the furums"
2 out of 3 aint bad |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
The Land that time forgot (Norfolk) |
"For those that are regular to the forums you might have gotten to know me a little bit and seen some of the threads I've made.
So out of curiosity how would you sum me up?
Be as brutally honest as possible I'd like see what you all come up with if anything ... And yes I know there'll be loads of bad stuff said but trust me nothing that I havent heard before will offend me, so fire away.
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You don't have boobs so I haven't noticed you, sorry.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m fed up with pple trying to belittle people and I’ve had a terrible day
There is a lot of it about on here unfortunately!  "
Oh yay! Couples profile! Congrats both  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m fed up with pple trying to belittle people and I’ve had a terrible day
There is a lot of it about on here unfortunately!
Oh yay! Couples profile! Congrats both "
Thank you, I swapped back to my profile because I keep forgetting to put the L at the bottom and I'm much much more gobby than Ash! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m fed up with pple trying to belittle people and I’ve had a terrible day
There is a lot of it about on here unfortunately!
Oh yay! Couples profile! Congrats both
Thank you, I swapped back to my profile because I keep forgetting to put the L at the bottom and I'm much much more gobby than Ash! "
I do the same! Haha. I'm remembering a little more often now, so it gets easier . I'm so happy for you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To the OP. Some comments you have made have given me an eyebrow raise, but all in all you seem like a decent guy and are fitting in well in the forums. It's always good to see new people contributing on here and enjoying the community
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't worry I'm perfectly fine with everything being said, I don't get offended and the mental health thing was just a minor bout of depression as I was feeling really down at the time and I did get help. I am stronger in my mind as I make out to be sometimes.
Nothing will change either after this I'll still be posting random stuff now and then because I like getting people talking and the forums are the only place on here that i can openly do that. Outside of forums it's quiet and I really don't care I feel welcome here.
Good. Glad you feel better. I remember your music thread. You seem like a decent chap to me. I think we’ve spoken privately too haven’t we? Very brave doing this though! I’m tough as old boots and I couldn’t do it!
I'll never get this kind of post. It's just the internet, there's not a lot of bravery involved.
Just because it's the internet doesn't make it any less really or people's comments any less harmful! I think some people need to remember there are people at the end of posts.
The site has moderators to judge what should and shouldn't be posted.
Anything else is just somebody's subjective opinion.
Indeed. One person's subjective opinion is another person's offensive post.
There's nothing offensive on this thread. "
It was an observation, not specific to this thread. |
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