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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When you see the phrase looking for an attractive couple/ woman/ man (delete as appropriate) does it put you off replying?
We’re just a normal, run of the mill couple and possibly do ourselves down but worry we wouldn’t match up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you see the phrase looking for an attractive couple/ woman/ man (delete as appropriate) does it put you off replying?
We’re just a normal, run of the mill couple and possibly do ourselves down but worry we wouldn’t match up!"
No I consider it a filter and am grateful for their honesty. Saves a lot of time. |
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"When you see the phrase looking for an attractive couple/ woman/ man (delete as appropriate) does it put you off replying?
We’re just a normal, run of the mill couple and possibly do ourselves down but worry we wouldn’t match up!"
Not in the way you mean - we tend to avoid couples who define compatibility solely on looks ...... |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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Yes, what I find attractive is always what others find attractive.
I don't bother looking at profiles who describe themselves as attractive as it seems somewhat arrogant nor ones who want ' attractive ' people. |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
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Anyone with a list of specific requirements is a no go for me, a rough idea of what they are looking for is helpful but once it gets too specific I write them off as probably incompatible with my outlook. |
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Yes, it puts me off, I don't know if I'm up to their level of attractiveness. If you look at the 'Hot' photos in the TV/TS section, I'm nowhere close to those girls. So I make the assumptions that's whom they're looking for.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would put me off the woman or couple asking. Anyone asking for attractive/ exceptional isn’t the sort of person I’m interested in. Nothing to do whether I meet their demands, rather we would have nothing in common. |
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"I just move on if they state attractive. I'm like marmite and think attractiveness is more than just the outer packaging x"
Exactly how I see myself. not winning any beauty contests over here but beauty is not everything  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I steer clear of those profiles because I don’t see the point of even looking further than the heading or first paragraph, I mean one persons attractive is different to someone else isn’t it but generally these profiles want gym fit, chiselled jaw, perfectly perfect in everywhere (looking).
Of course we all have our wants and desires and they are just expressing something they want, the same as we only look for curvy women for example, they just want ‘good looking people’ but the problem I have found talking to those people that have got the balls to say they are good looking generally have personality issues, not everyone but anyone that in my opinion struts around the place thinking there shit doesn’t stink have flaws. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hot people want sex too. They have preferences the same as anyone. If they are looking for attractive people, good for them. I don't think it's a bad thing at all.
It's the same as asking for tall people or only meeting people between a certain age range. I don't meet their preferences, I'm not upset.
I don't know why people get pissed off about some preferences but not others. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hot people want sex too. They have preferences the same as anyone. If they are looking for attractive people, good for them. I don't think it's a bad thing at all.
It's the same as asking for tall people or only meeting people between a certain age range. I don't meet their preferences, I'm not upset.
I don't know why people get pissed off about some preferences but not others. "
It doesn’t piss us off. It’s just about our own insecurities. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hot people want sex too. They have preferences the same as anyone. If they are looking for attractive people, good for them. I don't think it's a bad thing at all.
It's the same as asking for tall people or only meeting people between a certain age range. I don't meet their preferences, I'm not upset.
I don't know why people get pissed off about some preferences but not others.
It doesn’t piss us off. It’s just about our own insecurities."
Sorry it was a general comment/ observation, it wasn't 'aimed' at you. X |
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"Hot people want sex too. They have preferences the same as anyone. If they are looking for attractive people, good for them. I don't think it's a bad thing at all.
It's the same as asking for tall people or only meeting people between a certain age range. I don't meet their preferences, I'm not upset.
I don't know why people get pissed off about some preferences but not others.
It doesn’t piss us off. It’s just about our own insecurities."
Exactly this and was in my reply, I don't get pissed off, I just expect they're looking for someone more attractive than me, my insecurities, nothing to do with their preference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I consider myself to be attractive. Whether I'm their type, or they consider me attractive is another matter mind "
Well I think you know how attractive i find you MDHV
And i am not too shabby myself 
LJ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hot people want sex too. They have preferences the same as anyone. If they are looking for attractive people, good for them. I don't think it's a bad thing at all.
It's the same as asking for tall people or only meeting people between a certain age range. I don't meet their preferences, I'm not upset.
I don't know why people get pissed off about some preferences but not others. "
I think it is because the term attractive is subjective with other preferences you're black or you're not, you're over 6ft or you're not, you're over 25 or you're not. However what is attractive? What I find attractive isn't what the next man will find attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" What I find attractive isn't what the next man will find attractive."
Yeah except for the fact that statistically people find the same features attractive
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it’s on their profile, but they’ve messaged me I don’t mind. Honestly though, it would stop me messaging first. It gives the impression that looks are of more interest than personality (which I’m sure they often are on Fab and there’s nothing wrong with that) it’s just I like to rely on both!
As has been said attractiveness is subjective. I guess most of us are looking for one version of attractive or another (physically attractive, mentally attractive).
If they message me first I get the feeling that my body at least, is their idea of attractive which is a start |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" What I find attractive isn't what the next man will find attractive.
Yeah except for the fact that statistically people find the same features attractive
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Really?? I never knew that!! 
It’s good to know you are on hand to point these things out 
LJ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" What I find attractive isn't what the next man will find attractive.
Yeah except for the fact that statistically people find the same features attractive
Really?? I never knew that!!
It’s good to know you are on hand to point these things out
LJ"
Damn! I really wanted to go down the sarcasm route. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" What I find attractive isn't what the next man will find attractive.
Yeah except for the fact that statistically people find the same features attractive
Really?? I never knew that!!
It’s good to know you are on hand to point these things out
LJ
Damn! I really wanted to go down the sarcasm route."
I wouldn’t worry i am sure you will get another chance
LJ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" What I find attractive isn't what the next man will find attractive.
Yeah except for the fact that statistically people find the same features attractive
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Do you mean all women find Tom Cruise or Tom Hardy attractive? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" What I find attractive isn't what the next man will find attractive.
Yeah except for the fact that statistically people find the same features attractive
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The sheeple |
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