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over a year ago
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I know, I'm 41, the wet dreams should be well over by now, but yet they still happen.
Not so much the wet, just wake up with a hard on and vivid thoughts of the dream.
But, what 'worries' me a little is that the sex partners in these dreams tend to be the same 2/3 people - and they are people I know (or have known) as opposed to random celebs etc.
So any dream analysers out there ?
Or does this happen to anyone else ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It sounds very much like you are unsatisfied with your life to date and feel you could have done better. Your link to the past - and the people in it - is an indication that a missed opportunity then could have made your life better now had you chose differently.
Outwardly you may feel that this is not the case and are happy with your lot now, but something is drawing you back to your past so it could well be on a subconscious level, or something you are unwilling to admit to or confront. |
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"It sounds very much like you are unsatisfied with your life to date and feel you could have done better. Your link to the past - and the people in it - is an indication that a missed opportunity then could have made your life better now had you chose differently.
Outwardly you may feel that this is not the case and are happy with your lot now, but something is drawing you back to your past so it could well be on a subconscious level, or something you are unwilling to admit to or confront."
Interesting comment - could be a smidgeon of truth there cos I did stifle my bisexuality for years and do feel like I missed out on stuff by waiting til I was 30+ and in a stable relationship b4 I started to act on it properly. |
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"I was dreamt I was getting it on with my sister  that was disturbing  "
well 1 of the recurring people in my dreams is my sisters first husband, who when i was 18/19 made it kinda clear if i was up for it, he was
i never did take him up on that and i have never told her to this day
let's hope she's not lurking on here somewhere  |
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"It sounds very much like you are unsatisfied with your life to date and feel you could have done better. Your link to the past - and the people in it - is an indication that a missed opportunity then could have made your life better now had you chose differently.
Outwardly you may feel that this is not the case and are happy with your lot now, but something is drawing you back to your past so it could well be on a subconscious level, or something you are unwilling to admit to or confront.
Interesting comment - could be a smidgeon of truth there cos I did stifle my bisexuality for years and do feel like I missed out on stuff by waiting til I was 30+ and in a stable relationship b4 I started to act on it properly."
You played it how you saw fit at the time, and that was the only way you could play it. You are the sum total of your experiences to date - good or bad - and to change any of them would make you a different person than you are now. The question that remains is: Are you happy with who you are? If your answer is yes then you should have no regrets, if it's no then analyse where you think you could have done differently, and strive to ensure that when faced with a similar decision that you are honest to yourself rather than to what other people think you should be. |
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