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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thoughts on a first time share with a unsure partner, says she would like it it at least likes the idea, but would feel like a slag, anyway if assuring her it’s just like a hobby ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

nerves will be playing a big part of she actually agrees to having another guy join you two, whatever happens, don’t push her to do something she is clearly uncomfortable with, let her move at her pace.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"nerves will be playing a big part of she actually agrees to having another guy join you two, whatever happens, don’t push her to do something she is clearly uncomfortable with, let her move at her pace."

Agreed, I think her worries are about my feelings, I’ve assured her I’m ok with it, this is the sticking point for us

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

By the way, we’re both reading the replies so no digs about fab profile

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"By the way, we’re both reading the replies so no digs about fab profile "

Why would you think that?

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By *on12xxMan  over a year ago

nottingham

Film a love mm with u u are very attractive

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's a tough one, sometimes the fantasy is enough, the reality feeling too close to the truth from a different perspective and therefore can be a put off.

We had a similar issue to thelat yourself, after discussing some of our past together, I'd (he) touched on the fact I've swung previously, well I began with a tale of a former partner, myself and two other guys.

She said this sounded really hot.

We discussed more, the more I told her, the more interested she was in doing similar.

We talked, talked and talked some more.

Similar issues here then, she was raring to go, excited about it all.

But feared, what if certain people were to find out, is,it wrong, does it make her a slut, she shouldn't be fantasising about fucking another man, etc etc.

Even though she knew I'd done this before, she was still concerned about my reaction to her with another man.

We talked some more, and more.

Eventually, she decided she wanted to at,least experience a threesome with two guys, at least the once, that she felt more comfortable doing so with me than anyone else.

We had to set the scene though, we all chatted on the phone, discussed how is was to begin, boundaries and the likes.

Then went ahead, She wanted her hands tied, to be blindfolded when he arrives.

Felt it easier not being able to see my reaction.

She loved it, and after releasing her hands, taking off the blindfold, then a little chattering between us all, she announced she was ready for round two.

Things have come quite far since, the last two times, first one she answered the door herself with dressing gown draped open revealing her lingerie.

The last one, arranged for two guys (regulars) to arrive whilst I was out, then for me to return home to find the three already began. (First upload of our latest pictures is how I found them)

Basically, we have to feel it, want it more than question it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It's a tough one, sometimes the fantasy is enough, the reality feeling too close to the truth from a different perspective and therefore can be a put off.

We had a similar issue to thelat yourself, after discussing some of our past together, I'd (he) touched on the fact I've swung previously, well I began with a tale of a former partner, myself and two other guys.

She said this sounded really hot.

We discussed more, the more I told her, the more interested she was in doing similar.

We talked, talked and talked some more.

Similar issues here then, she was raring to go, excited about it all.

But feared, what if certain people were to find out, is,it wrong, does it make her a slut, she shouldn't be fantasising about fucking another man, etc etc.

Even though she knew I'd done this before, she was still concerned about my reaction to her with another man.

We talked some more, and more.

Eventually, she decided she wanted to at,least experience a threesome with two guys, at least the once, that she felt more comfortable doing so with me than anyone else.

We had to set the scene though, we all chatted on the phone, discussed how is was to begin, boundaries and the likes.

Then went ahead, She wanted her hands tied, to be blindfolded when he arrives.

Felt it easier not being able to see my reaction.

She loved it, and after releasing her hands, taking off the blindfold, then a little chattering between us all, she announced she was ready for round two.

Things have come quite far since, the last two times, first one she answered the door herself with dressing gown draped open revealing her lingerie.

The last one, arranged for two guys (regulars) to arrive whilst I was out, then for me to return home to find the three already began. (First upload of our latest pictures is how I found them)

Basically, we have to feel it, want it more than question it."

best answer yet, I’m not going to push the situation, hopefully she comes around

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Try not to push it, there can be serious consequences.

Encourage, by all means.

It's much easier for us now, as she has a friend who's intrigued by it all, so they talk about our exploits, fantasies and the likes, so my lady finds it easier, feeling she's doing no wrong, because her friend loves to hear the tales, wants to join in but is very nervous. Unlikely she'll join is, but it helps clear her fears a little.

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