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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well you can't be that good if they stay asleep."
The initial penetration is the idea, you just one of these people that like to make negative comments ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well you can't be that good if they stay asleep.
The initial penetration is the idea, you just one of these people that like to make negative comments ? "
I dont think that will be the last negative comment youre gonna get. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well you can't be that good if they stay asleep.
The initial penetration is the idea, you just one of these people that like to make negative comments ? "
Where is your sense of humour? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Mine loves to be woken I’m the night this way 
She looks stunning mate, you’ve done well 
Thanks, I often remind her how lucky she is...... oh hang on? You mean me lol!"
My bad  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haha I had an ex who asked about this once, she thought she might be into the idea.
Couple days later and I'm awake before her. Oooh here goes let's see.
She was not into it. Elbow was delivered to my gut with a sleepy grunt that sounded a bit like "fuck off will you".
We laughed about it after she got the rest of her 8 hours. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Haha I had an ex who asked about this once, she thought she might be into the idea.
Couple days later and I'm awake before her. Oooh here goes let's see.
She was not into it. Elbow was delivered to my gut with a sleepy grunt that sounded a bit like "fuck off will you".
We laughed about it after she got the rest of her 8 hours. "
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"Does anyone’s wife allow them to fuck them even if they’re asleep ? "
Prenegotiated, hell yes. Wee small hours, waking up to it it's so hot.
Unnegoitiated? Will usually end up a short drop onto a hard floor  |
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"Does anyone’s wife allow them to fuck them even if they’re asleep ?
Prenegotiated, hell yes. Wee small hours, waking up to it it's so hot.
Unnegoitiated? Will usually end up a short drop onto a hard floor "
I hear you...negotiation is key |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My wife lets me wank over her when she sleeps
You know 'letting you' and 'not knowing' are two very different things right?
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Literally wank over her? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone’s wife allow them to fuck them even if they’re asleep ? "
If your fucking your wife how is she going to be asleep ? If she is your doing something wrongs , unless you possess chloroform lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone’s wife allow them to fuck them even if they’re asleep ?
If your fucking your wife how is she going to be asleep ? If she is your doing something wrongs , unless you possess chloroform lol "
That’s what I thought!  . I’m a very heavy sleeper but I think that might wake me up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like being woken by wandering hands but I don't think it would be the same to wake to being fucked. I would probably wake up confused and punch them. "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like being woken by wandering hands but I don't think it would be the same to wake to being fucked. I would probably wake up confused and punch them. "
I think that's highly likely! |
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"Well you can't be that good if they stay asleep.
The initial penetration is the idea, you just one of these people that like to make negative comments ?
Where is your sense of humour?"
maybe thats still asleep lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love it when Mr F wakes me up with wandering hands that leads to early morning shenanigans ...not sure about full on shagging while I'm asleep tho...and definitely not waking up to finding out he's wanked all over my face!!
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"Sleepy sex yes .. gently waking by wandering hands that then leads to sex .. yes
Penetration whilst they're still asleep? Where's the consent?
Prearranged."
Yes... but that wasn't the original question |
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"Sleepy sex yes .. gently waking by wandering hands that then leads to sex .. yes
Penetration whilst they're still asleep? Where's the consent?
Prearranged.
Yes... but that wasn't the original question "
Yes it was. He used the word 'allow', so it's been previously agreed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There may be some but I learned quickly not to go there. Even if they say it’s ok consent is actually always a good idea. Things change."
I’m not just talking about penetration either |
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"My ex used to have sex in his sleep with me id wake up and we would be shagging and hed never remember in the morning.. could be a bad thing i suppose "
That is called sexsomnia, some people suffer from it and it can be anything from touching to full sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a really light sleeper so I always wake before sex could actually happen. Sleepy morning sex is great when you have spent the whole night together anyway.
There has only been once it crossed the line for me and creeped me out, but that is dysfunctional relationships for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well you can't be that good if they stay asleep.
The initial penetration is the idea, you just one of these people that like to make negative comments ? "
Is it not bone dry? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well you can't be that good if they stay asleep.
The initial penetration is the idea, you just one of these people that like to make negative comments ?
Is it not bone dry?"
Lol "it" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I prefer to be conscious at the point of penetration.
Tickling works for waking people i up"
I would probably scream like a banshee and punch someone if they tickled me in my sleep! There's no way that would lead to sex  |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
The Land that time forgot (Norfolk) |
"Personally I prefer to be conscious at the point of penetration.
Tickling works for waking people i up
I would probably scream like a banshee and punch someone if they tickled me in my sleep! There's no way that would lead to sex "
Wouldn't that depend where they tickled? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I prefer to be conscious at the point of penetration.
Tickling works for waking people i up
I would probably scream like a banshee and punch someone if they tickled me in my sleep! There's no way that would lead to sex "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love sleepy morning sex or middle of the night sex
But being Woking up by being played with haven't ever been woken up by penatration not sure I'd be so forthcoming if that had happend |
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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago
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"Does anyone’s wife allow them to fuck them even if they’re asleep ?
That's sexual assault
How is it? "
Consent?
If one party is asleep, how is consent established?
Even if you have discussed it before hand, suppose that day, she is not up for it?
What do you class that as then? |
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I also love it when she wakes me up sucking my cock, which is quite often. Why all these questions about consent, should I report my partner for sexual abuse, this surely is political madness gone mad ??? |
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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago
Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire |
"I also love it when she wakes me up sucking my cock, which is quite often. Why all these questions about consent, should I report my partner for sexual abuse, this surely is political madness gone mad ???"
No, the point is they can be woken up with foreplay so they can give consent to sex.
As opposed to shagging them when they are asleep.
Lots of people get rapd in relationships, it's nothing about political correctness but respecting each other. |
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"Does anyone’s wife allow them to fuck them even if they’re asleep ?
That's sexual assault
How is it?
Consent?
If one party is asleep, how is consent established?
Even if you have discussed it before hand, suppose that day, she is not up for it?
What do you class that as then?"
I’d class it as two people not being pedantic about it , and ignoring the current trend of so called pc behaviour . Just being themselves and getting on with life . If , like us , it’s been agreed that sleepy sex is ok and one party doesn’t want to know on a particular occasion , I would imagine they would say so . Simple .
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Does anyone’s wife allow them to fuck them even if they’re asleep ?
That's sexual assault
How is it?
Consent?
If one party is asleep, how is consent established?
Even if you have discussed it before hand, suppose that day, she is not up for it?
What do you class that as then?
I’d class it as two people not being pedantic about it , and ignoring the current trend of so called pc behaviour . Just being themselves and getting on with life . If , like us , it’s been agreed that sleepy sex is ok and one party doesn’t want to know on a particular occasion , I would imagine they would say so . Simple .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I also love it when she wakes me up sucking my cock, which is quite often. Why all these questions about consent, should I report my partner for sexual abuse, this surely is political madness gone mad ???
No, the point is they can be woken up with foreplay so they can give consent to sex.
As opposed to shagging them when they are asleep.
Lots of people get rapd in relationships, it's nothing about political correctness but respecting each other."
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"Does anyone’s wife allow them to fuck them even if they’re asleep ?
That's sexual assault
How is it?
Consent?
If one party is asleep, how is consent established?
Even if you have discussed it before hand, suppose that day, she is not up for it?
What do you class that as then?
I’d class it as two people not being pedantic about it , and ignoring the current trend of so called pc behaviour . Just being themselves and getting on with life . If , like us , it’s been agreed that sleepy sex is ok and one party doesn’t want to know on a particular occasion , I would imagine they would say so . Simple .
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My God ... how ... adult |
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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago
Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire |
"Does anyone’s wife allow them to fuck them even if they’re asleep ?
That's sexual assault
How is it?
Consent?
If one party is asleep, how is consent established?
Even if you have discussed it before hand, suppose that day, she is not up for it?
What do you class that as then?
I’d class it as two people not being pedantic about it , and ignoring the current trend of so called pc behaviour . Just being themselves and getting on with life . If , like us , it’s been agreed that sleepy sex is ok and one party doesn’t want to know on a particular occasion , I would imagine they would say so . Simple .
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Agreed. Which is what I said above.
I'm amazed that suggesting consent is established before sex is "controversial" or "PC culture" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone’s wife allow them to fuck them even if they’re asleep ?
That's sexual assault
How is it?
Consent?
If one party is asleep, how is consent established?
Even if you have discussed it before hand, suppose that day, she is not up for it?
What do you class that as then?
I’d class it as two people not being pedantic about it , and ignoring the current trend of so called pc behaviour . Just being themselves and getting on with life . If , like us , it’s been agreed that sleepy sex is ok and one party doesn’t want to know on a particular occasion , I would imagine they would say so . Simple .
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Exactly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I also love it when she wakes me up sucking my cock, which is quite often. Why all these questions about consent, should I report my partner for sexual abuse, this surely is political madness gone mad ???"
Depends. I wouldn’t do it without checking consent, you are free to allow your wife to do what she likes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone’s wife allow them to fuck them even if they’re asleep ?
That's sexual assault
How is it?
Consent?
If one party is asleep, how is consent established?
Even if you have discussed it before hand, suppose that day, she is not up for it?
What do you class that as then?
I’d class it as two people not being pedantic about it , and ignoring the current trend of so called pc behaviour . Just being themselves and getting on with life . If , like us , it’s been agreed that sleepy sex is ok and one party doesn’t want to know on a particular occasion , I would imagine they would say so . Simple .
Agreed. Which is what I said above.
I'm amazed that suggesting consent is established before sex is "controversial" or "PC culture""
I guess it depends what kind of marriage you have. I’m just going on what mine was like. Consent wasn’t even mentioned in 24 years. There was no need. I guess we knew each other quite well after that long! Although I know for a fact he wouldn’t have wanted to fuck me whilst I was asleep anyway! Wandering hands wasn’t a problem. Surely if you’re married you’d know that. Do you ask for consent every time? This place truly baffles me sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I also love it when she wakes me up sucking my cock, which is quite often. Why all these questions about consent, should I report my partner for sexual abuse, this surely is political madness gone mad ???"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone’s wife allow them to fuck them even if they’re asleep ?
That's sexual assault
How is it?
Consent?
If one party is asleep, how is consent established?
Even if you have discussed it before hand, suppose that day, she is not up for it?
What do you class that as then?
I’d class it as two people not being pedantic about it , and ignoring the current trend of so called pc behaviour . Just being themselves and getting on with life . If , like us , it’s been agreed that sleepy sex is ok and one party doesn’t want to know on a particular occasion , I would imagine they would say so . Simple .
Agreed. Which is what I said above.
I'm amazed that suggesting consent is established before sex is "controversial" or "PC culture"
I guess it depends what kind of marriage you have. I’m just going on what mine was like. Consent wasn’t even mentioned in 24 years. There was no need. I guess we knew each other quite well after that long! Although I know for a fact he wouldn’t have wanted to fuck me whilst I was asleep anyway! Wandering hands wasn’t a problem. Surely if you’re married you’d know that. Do you ask for consent every time? This place truly baffles me sometimes "
That’s nice that wandering hands wasn’t a problem, but some folk do need the whole ‘consent thing’ and don’t do well with random touch, nothing about being PC mad or whatever |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone’s wife allow them to fuck them even if they’re asleep ?
That's sexual assault
How is it?
Consent?
If one party is asleep, how is consent established?
Even if you have discussed it before hand, suppose that day, she is not up for it?
What do you class that as then?
I’d class it as two people not being pedantic about it , and ignoring the current trend of so called pc behaviour . Just being themselves and getting on with life . If , like us , it’s been agreed that sleepy sex is ok and one party doesn’t want to know on a particular occasion , I would imagine they would say so . Simple .
Agreed. Which is what I said above.
I'm amazed that suggesting consent is established before sex is "controversial" or "PC culture"
I guess it depends what kind of marriage you have. I’m just going on what mine was like. Consent wasn’t even mentioned in 24 years. There was no need. I guess we knew each other quite well after that long! Although I know for a fact he wouldn’t have wanted to fuck me whilst I was asleep anyway! Wandering hands wasn’t a problem. Surely if you’re married you’d know that. Do you ask for consent every time? This place truly baffles me sometimes
That’s nice that wandering hands wasn’t a problem, but some folk do need the whole ‘consent thing’ and don’t do well with random touch, nothing about being PC mad or whatever "
But surely if you’re married you’d know what’s acceptable and what’s not?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone’s wife allow them to fuck them even if they’re asleep ?
That's sexual assault
How is it?
Consent?
If one party is asleep, how is consent established?
Even if you have discussed it before hand, suppose that day, she is not up for it?
What do you class that as then?
I’d class it as two people not being pedantic about it , and ignoring the current trend of so called pc behaviour . Just being themselves and getting on with life . If , like us , it’s been agreed that sleepy sex is ok and one party doesn’t want to know on a particular occasion , I would imagine they would say so . Simple .
Agreed. Which is what I said above.
I'm amazed that suggesting consent is established before sex is "controversial" or "PC culture"
I guess it depends what kind of marriage you have. I’m just going on what mine was like. Consent wasn’t even mentioned in 24 years. There was no need. I guess we knew each other quite well after that long! Although I know for a fact he wouldn’t have wanted to fuck me whilst I was asleep anyway! Wandering hands wasn’t a problem. Surely if you’re married you’d know that. Do you ask for consent every time? This place truly baffles me sometimes
That’s nice that wandering hands wasn’t a problem, but some folk do need the whole ‘consent thing’ and don’t do well with random touch, nothing about being PC mad or whatever
But surely if you’re married you’d know what’s acceptable and what’s not?!"
Yes. And it’s acceptable for my husband to ensure I am fully consenting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone’s wife allow them to fuck them even if they’re asleep ?
That's sexual assault
How is it?
Consent?
If one party is asleep, how is consent established?
Even if you have discussed it before hand, suppose that day, she is not up for it?
What do you class that as then?
I’d class it as two people not being pedantic about it , and ignoring the current trend of so called pc behaviour . Just being themselves and getting on with life . If , like us , it’s been agreed that sleepy sex is ok and one party doesn’t want to know on a particular occasion , I would imagine they would say so . Simple .
Agreed. Which is what I said above.
I'm amazed that suggesting consent is established before sex is "controversial" or "PC culture"
I guess it depends what kind of marriage you have. I’m just going on what mine was like. Consent wasn’t even mentioned in 24 years. There was no need. I guess we knew each other quite well after that long! Although I know for a fact he wouldn’t have wanted to fuck me whilst I was asleep anyway! Wandering hands wasn’t a problem. Surely if you’re married you’d know that. Do you ask for consent every time? This place truly baffles me sometimes
That’s nice that wandering hands wasn’t a problem, but some folk do need the whole ‘consent thing’ and don’t do well with random touch, nothing about being PC mad or whatever
But surely if you’re married you’d know what’s acceptable and what’s not?!
Yes. And it’s acceptable for my husband to ensure I am fully consenting "
Ok fair enough. We didn’t have a relationship where consent was required for every touch. It was just a natural thing. Different strokes for different folks and all that .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone’s wife allow them to fuck them even if they’re asleep ?
That's sexual assault
How is it?
Consent?
If one party is asleep, how is consent established?
Even if you have discussed it before hand, suppose that day, she is not up for it?
What do you class that as then?
I’d class it as two people not being pedantic about it , and ignoring the current trend of so called pc behaviour . Just being themselves and getting on with life . If , like us , it’s been agreed that sleepy sex is ok and one party doesn’t want to know on a particular occasion , I would imagine they would say so . Simple .
Agreed. Which is what I said above.
I'm amazed that suggesting consent is established before sex is "controversial" or "PC culture"
I guess it depends what kind of marriage you have. I’m just going on what mine was like. Consent wasn’t even mentioned in 24 years. There was no need. I guess we knew each other quite well after that long! Although I know for a fact he wouldn’t have wanted to fuck me whilst I was asleep anyway! Wandering hands wasn’t a problem. Surely if you’re married you’d know that. Do you ask for consent every time? This place truly baffles me sometimes
That’s nice that wandering hands wasn’t a problem, but some folk do need the whole ‘consent thing’ and don’t do well with random touch, nothing about being PC mad or whatever
But surely if you’re married you’d know what’s acceptable and what’s not?!
Yes. And it’s acceptable for my husband to ensure I am fully consenting
Ok fair enough. We didn’t have a relationship where consent was required for every touch. It was just a natural thing. Different strokes for different folks and all that .... "
Glad that worked for you, at no point did I say consent was required for every touch, but ok |
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"Does anyone’s wife allow them to fuck them even if they’re asleep ?
That's sexual assault
How is it?
Consent?
If one party is asleep, how is consent established?
Even if you have discussed it before hand, suppose that day, she is not up for it?
What do you class that as then?
I’d class it as two people not being pedantic about it , and ignoring the current trend of so called pc behaviour . Just being themselves and getting on with life . If , like us , it’s been agreed that sleepy sex is ok and one party doesn’t want to know on a particular occasion , I would imagine they would say so . Simple .
Agreed. Which is what I said above.
I'm amazed that suggesting consent is established before sex is "controversial" or "PC culture"
I guess it depends what kind of marriage you have. I’m just going on what mine was like. Consent wasn’t even mentioned in 24 years. There was no need. I guess we knew each other quite well after that long! Although I know for a fact he wouldn’t have wanted to fuck me whilst I was asleep anyway! Wandering hands wasn’t a problem. Surely if you’re married you’d know that. Do you ask for consent every time? This place truly baffles me sometimes
That’s nice that wandering hands wasn’t a problem, but some folk do need the whole ‘consent thing’ and don’t do well with random touch, nothing about being PC mad or whatever
But surely if you’re married you’d know what’s acceptable and what’s not?!
Yes. And it’s acceptable for my husband to ensure I am fully consenting
Ok fair enough. We didn’t have a relationship where consent was required for every touch. It was just a natural thing. Different strokes for different folks and all that .... "
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"Does anyone’s wife allow them to fuck them even if they’re asleep ?
That's sexual assault
How is it?
Consent?
If one party is asleep, how is consent established?
Even if you have discussed it before hand, suppose that day, she is not up for it?
What do you class that as then?
I’d class it as two people not being pedantic about it , and ignoring the current trend of so called pc behaviour . Just being themselves and getting on with life . If , like us , it’s been agreed that sleepy sex is ok and one party doesn’t want to know on a particular occasion , I would imagine they would say so . Simple .
Agreed. Which is what I said above.
I'm amazed that suggesting consent is established before sex is "controversial" or "PC culture"
I guess it depends what kind of marriage you have. I’m just going on what mine was like. Consent wasn’t even mentioned in 24 years. There was no need. I guess we knew each other quite well after that long! Although I know for a fact he wouldn’t have wanted to fuck me whilst I was asleep anyway! Wandering hands wasn’t a problem. Surely if you’re married you’d know that. Do you ask for consent every time? This place truly baffles me sometimes
That’s nice that wandering hands wasn’t a problem, but some folk do need the whole ‘consent thing’ and don’t do well with random touch, nothing about being PC mad or whatever
But surely if you’re married you’d know what’s acceptable and what’s not?!
Yes. And it’s acceptable for my husband to ensure I am fully consenting
Ok fair enough. We didn’t have a relationship where consent was required for every touch. It was just a natural thing. Different strokes for different folks and all that ....
Glad that worked for you, at no point did I say consent was required for every touch, but ok "
Im honestly not being funny here. Im intrigued. My husband never needed to ensure I was fully consenting. We were together for 24 years. We knew each other so well. It’s not something I even thought about. |
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"Does anyone’s wife allow them to fuck them even if they’re asleep ?
That's sexual assault
How is it?
Consent?
If one party is asleep, how is consent established?
Even if you have discussed it before hand, suppose that day, she is not up for it?
What do you class that as then?
I’d class it as two people not being pedantic about it , and ignoring the current trend of so called pc behaviour . Just being themselves and getting on with life . If , like us , it’s been agreed that sleepy sex is ok and one party doesn’t want to know on a particular occasion , I would imagine they would say so . Simple .
Agreed. Which is what I said above.
I'm amazed that suggesting consent is established before sex is "controversial" or "PC culture"
I guess it depends what kind of marriage you have. I’m just going on what mine was like. Consent wasn’t even mentioned in 24 years. There was no need. I guess we knew each other quite well after that long! Although I know for a fact he wouldn’t have wanted to fuck me whilst I was asleep anyway! Wandering hands wasn’t a problem. Surely if you’re married you’d know that. Do you ask for consent every time? This place truly baffles me sometimes
That’s nice that wandering hands wasn’t a problem, but some folk do need the whole ‘consent thing’ and don’t do well with random touch, nothing about being PC mad or whatever
But surely if you’re married you’d know what’s acceptable and what’s not?!
Yes. And it’s acceptable for my husband to ensure I am fully consenting
Ok fair enough. We didn’t have a relationship where consent was required for every touch. It was just a natural thing. Different strokes for different folks and all that .... "
Internet is a scary place now that we're all educated by Facebook.....
If a girl wants to grab my cock and wake me up with a bj and we're already in bed together then she's free to try, if I don't want her to i'll tell her to stop....
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"My wife lets me wank over her when she sleeps
You know 'letting you' and 'not knowing' are two very different things right?
lol
Literally wank over her?
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"Do you literally just let the jizz dry on or do you wipe up and go back to sleep????
I can picture her at work the next morning with spunky hair..... "
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Internet is a scary place now that we're all educated by Facebook.....
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It's like everything can be defined in ten magic rules or something, rules the mob have decided. If ppl want to let their hubby fuck them while they're asleep, then it's not something that floats my boat but who am I to judge.....
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"Do you literally just let the jizz dry on or do you wipe up and go back to sleep????
I can picture her at work the next morning with spunky hair.....
Like with a 1980s hairstyle? Big hair and spunk lol. "
Depends on the volume I guess, I've never used it to style mine....? |
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Internet is a scary place now that we're all educated by Facebook.....
It's like everything can be defined in ten magic rules or something, rules the mob have decided. If ppl want to let their hubby fuck them while they're asleep, then it's not something that floats my boat but who am I to judge.....
(quote me fully next time) "
I’m still trying to work out how it’s even possible! How deep do these wives sleep ffs! |
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Internet is a scary place now that we're all educated by Facebook.....
It's like everything can be defined in ten magic rules or something, rules the mob have decided. If ppl want to let their hubby fuck them while they're asleep, then it's not something that floats my boat but who am I to judge.....
(quote me fully next time)
I’m still trying to work out how it’s even possible! How deep do these wives sleep ffs!"
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"Do you literally just let the jizz dry on or do you wipe up and go back to sleep????
I can picture her at work the next morning with spunky hair.....
Like with a 1980s hairstyle? Big hair and spunk lol.
Depends on the volume I guess, I've never used it to style mine....? "
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Internet is a scary place now that we're all educated by Facebook.....
It's like everything can be defined in ten magic rules or something, rules the mob have decided. If ppl want to let their hubby fuck them while they're asleep, then it's not something that floats my boat but who am I to judge.....
(quote me fully next time)
I’m still trying to work out how it’s even possible! How deep do these wives sleep ffs!
Deep "
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Internet is a scary place now that we're all educated by Facebook.....
It's like everything can be defined in ten magic rules or something, rules the mob have decided. If ppl want to let their hubby fuck them while they're asleep, then it's not something that floats my boat but who am I to judge.....
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I’m still trying to work out how it’s even possible! How deep do these wives sleep ffs!
Deep
Very very deep "
I wake up pretty quickly tbf, I just enjoy not having to do anything |
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Internet is a scary place now that we're all educated by Facebook.....
It's like everything can be defined in ten magic rules or something, rules the mob have decided. If ppl want to let their hubby fuck them while they're asleep, then it's not something that floats my boat but who am I to judge.....
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I’m still trying to work out how it’s even possible! How deep do these wives sleep ffs!"
Lolol I think it's just the same shit as a girl waking you up with your cock in her mouth, initial surprise and you fall into it together if it's something you enjoy. Personally I'd be with Rubi on this, I'd likely wake up and punch the person just through a natural reactiin of fright.... |
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I give my wife an early morning shock sometimes by dangling my bits right in front of her face as she's waking.
Never fails to make me laugh early doors. |
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"Do you literally just let the jizz dry on or do you wipe up and go back to sleep????
I can picture her at work the next morning with spunky hair.....
Like with a 1980s hairstyle? Big hair and spunk lol.
Depends on the volume I guess, I've never used it to style mine....?
Does it need a "heavy cummer"?"
We never defined heavy???? |
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Internet is a scary place now that we're all educated by Facebook.....
It's like everything can be defined in ten magic rules or something, rules the mob have decided. If ppl want to let their hubby fuck them while they're asleep, then it's not something that floats my boat but who am I to judge.....
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I’m still trying to work out how it’s even possible! How deep do these wives sleep ffs!
Deep
Very very deep
I wake up pretty quickly tbf, I just enjoy not having to do anything "
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Internet is a scary place now that we're all educated by Facebook.....
It's like everything can be defined in ten magic rules or something, rules the mob have decided. If ppl want to let their hubby fuck them while they're asleep, then it's not something that floats my boat but who am I to judge.....
(quote me fully next time)
I’m still trying to work out how it’s even possible! How deep do these wives sleep ffs!
Lolol I think it's just the same shit as a girl waking you up with your cock in her mouth, initial surprise and you fall into it together if it's something you enjoy. Personally I'd be with Rubi on this, I'd likely wake up and punch the person just through a natural reactiin of fright.... "
I love waking people up like that! Never been punched thank god |
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Internet is a scary place now that we're all educated by Facebook.....
It's like everything can be defined in ten magic rules or something, rules the mob have decided. If ppl want to let their hubby fuck them while they're asleep, then it's not something that floats my boat but who am I to judge.....
(quote me fully next time)
I’m still trying to work out how it’s even possible! How deep do these wives sleep ffs!
Deep
Very very deep
I wake up pretty quickly tbf, I just enjoy not having to do anything
lol. The morning is the only time I’m sometimes quite happy to be a pillow princess "
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Internet is a scary place now that we're all educated by Facebook.....
It's like everything can be defined in ten magic rules or something, rules the mob have decided. If ppl want to let their hubby fuck them while they're asleep, then it's not something that floats my boat but who am I to judge.....
(quote me fully next time)
I’m still trying to work out how it’s even possible! How deep do these wives sleep ffs!
Deep
Very very deep
I wake up pretty quickly tbf, I just enjoy not having to do anything "
Pretend sleep is good |
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Internet is a scary place now that we're all educated by Facebook.....
It's like everything can be defined in ten magic rules or something, rules the mob have decided. If ppl want to let their hubby fuck them while they're asleep, then it's not something that floats my boat but who am I to judge.....
(quote me fully next time)
I’m still trying to work out how it’s even possible! How deep do these wives sleep ffs!
Deep
Very very deep
I wake up pretty quickly tbf, I just enjoy not having to do anything
lol. The morning is the only time I’m sometimes quite happy to be a pillow princess
I'm happy to just be a princess "
Oh I’m always one of those anyway |
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Internet is a scary place now that we're all educated by Facebook.....
It's like everything can be defined in ten magic rules or something, rules the mob have decided. If ppl want to let their hubby fuck them while they're asleep, then it's not something that floats my boat but who am I to judge.....
(quote me fully next time)
I’m still trying to work out how it’s even possible! How deep do these wives sleep ffs!
Deep
Very very deep
I wake up pretty quickly tbf, I just enjoy not having to do anything
Pretend sleep is good "
Faking it?? |
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Internet is a scary place now that we're all educated by Facebook.....
It's like everything can be defined in ten magic rules or something, rules the mob have decided. If ppl want to let their hubby fuck them while they're asleep, then it's not something that floats my boat but who am I to judge.....
(quote me fully next time)
I’m still trying to work out how it’s even possible! How deep do these wives sleep ffs!
Deep
Very very deep
I wake up pretty quickly tbf, I just enjoy not having to do anything
Pretend sleep is good "
Mwahaha yes it is |
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Internet is a scary place now that we're all educated by Facebook.....
It's like everything can be defined in ten magic rules or something, rules the mob have decided. If ppl want to let their hubby fuck them while they're asleep, then it's not something that floats my boat but who am I to judge.....
(quote me fully next time)
I’m still trying to work out how it’s even possible! How deep do these wives sleep ffs!
Deep
Very very deep
I wake up pretty quickly tbf, I just enjoy not having to do anything
lol. The morning is the only time I’m sometimes quite happy to be a pillow princess
I'm happy to just be a princess
Oh I’m always one of those anyway "
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"Haha I had an ex who asked about this once, she thought she might be into the idea.
Couple days later and I'm awake before her. Oooh here goes let's see.
She was not into it. Elbow was delivered to my gut with a sleepy grunt that sounded a bit like "fuck off will you".
We laughed about it after she got the rest of her 8 hours. "
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"Does anyone’s wife allow them to fuck them even if they’re asleep ?
That's sexual assault
How is it?
Consent?
If one party is asleep, how is consent established?
Even if you have discussed it before hand, suppose that day, she is not up for it?
What do you class that as then?
I’d class it as two people not being pedantic about it , and ignoring the current trend of so called pc behaviour . Just being themselves and getting on with life . If , like us , it’s been agreed that sleepy sex is ok and one party doesn’t want to know on a particular occasion , I would imagine they would say so . Simple .
Agreed. Which is what I said above.
I'm amazed that suggesting consent is established before sex is "controversial" or "PC culture"
I guess it depends what kind of marriage you have. I’m just going on what mine was like. Consent wasn’t even mentioned in 24 years. There was no need. I guess we knew each other quite well after that long! Although I know for a fact he wouldn’t have wanted to fuck me whilst I was asleep anyway! Wandering hands wasn’t a problem. Surely if you’re married you’d know that. Do you ask for consent every time? This place truly baffles me sometimes
That’s nice that wandering hands wasn’t a problem, but some folk do need the whole ‘consent thing’ and don’t do well with random touch, nothing about being PC mad or whatever
But surely if you’re married you’d know what’s acceptable and what’s not?!
Yes. And it’s acceptable for my husband to ensure I am fully consenting
Ok fair enough. We didn’t have a relationship where consent was required for every touch. It was just a natural thing. Different strokes for different folks and all that .... "
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Never fails to make me laugh early doors."
Stinky sweaty unwashed dangly bits! By eck lad your wife must have a strong stomach and a sense of humour!!!  |
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Never fails to make me laugh early doors.
Stinky sweaty unwashed dangly bits! By eck lad your wife must have a strong stomach and a sense of humour!!! "
Mine always smells of febreze.... |
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"Does anyone’s wife allow them to fuck them even if they’re asleep ? "
Mine (ex) loved to, she used to wake up moaning and begging for it. Not sure why some don't. My gf liked to masturbate during the night (and day and every other time) and just as she would get really excited I would jump on her forcefully which drover her wild. |
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