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What's your major malfunction?

By *ea monkey OP Man over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Everyone on here likes to give the best account of themselves (or most do at any rate) and put the best bits of themselves forwards. However we also all have aspects of ourselves that might be seen as 'less than savoury'.

So folks, what do you consider to be your faults, foibles or failings?

Obviously I'm exempt from this because I'm a fucking delight...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh no, you need to go first Op!

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By *rimson_RoseWoman over a year ago

Tamworth

I can be very critical - if it makes things better, of myself just as much as others. Means I can be very picky when choosing meets!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What happens with these threads, is people get humble brags in. For example, I always put other people first it’s one of my failings, or I just care too much. Or I always tend to see the good in others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Or I have very high standards and expect the same for other people, that one usually pops up.

Mine is I’m very cynical, not that you could tell.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hey guys how's you're Sunday? Kinda new here so hoping to meet some new people..

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By *ea monkey OP Man over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Oh no, you need to go first Op!

I over think things and micro analyse, I also have a tendancy towards self critical anxiety.

I'm also a grumpy sod half the time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm extremely defensive and hide behind sarcasm. It takes quite a lot to get past these barriers and get to know me fully. When people do they realise I'm soft as hell, but very few get to that stage.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What happens with these threads, is people get humble brags in. For example, I always put other people first it’s one of my failings, or I just care too much. Or I always tend to see the good in others. "

You mean like 'my tits are far too perky and they distract people when I'm talking about really serious stuff, like pineapples actually growing on the ground and not in trees. I had to say it 8 times before he took any notice! Goddam my tits! Nobody takes me seriously'?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m really judgemental. Since joining fab I have toned it down a bit; for example I labelled all cheaters as awful people, and I don’t believe that so much anymore. But I still judge a lot. I try not let it show and be understanding though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey guys how's you're Sunday? Kinda new here so hoping to meet some new people.. "

Mines great. You’ve come to the right thread.

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By *ea monkey OP Man over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Or I have very high standards and expect the same for other people, that one usually pops up.

Mine is I’m very cynical, not that you could tell. "

I didn't see that in you!

I know what you mean about the humble brags though, I was anticipating those.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm the same mate can't stop wondering is it me?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pineapples grow in the ground, everyday is a learning day!

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By *ea monkey OP Man over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It's your burden and cross to bear (oh how appropriate today)

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By *andonmessMan over a year ago

A world all of his own

I obsess over trivial stuff FAR too much. I'm also far too near and tidy

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By *itty9899Man over a year ago

Craggy Island

I'm very closed off and keep myself to myself.

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By *andonmessMan over a year ago

A world all of his own

"I obsess over trivial stuff FAR too much. I'm also far too near and tidy

Neat*

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By *ea monkey OP Man over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I'm the same mate can't stop wondering is it me? "

Is it you not paying attention to the thread and posting whatever?

Yeah, it is...

(see; grumpy)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m really judgemental. Since joining fab I have toned it down a bit; for example I labelled all cheaters as awful people, and I don’t believe that so much anymore. But I still judge a lot. I try not let it show and be understanding though. "

I’ll also obsess over stupid little comments, good or negative.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm the same mate can't stop wondering is it me? "

I can see it in your eye, I can see it in your smile.You're all I've ever wanted. And my arms are open wide

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I let people down by forgetting important stuff like bithdays and writing Xmas cards. It's not that I don't care enough about people, I really do, I just have terrible executive functioning skills.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm very closed off and keep myself to myself. "

Who’s this guy ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pineapples grow in the ground, everyday is a learning day! "

Har har

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a drinking problem, made worse when my sister died last may.

I've spiralled into debt(not a great amount)

lastly I need a new fucking camera

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a drinking problem, made worse when my sister died last may.

I've spiralled into debt(not a great amount)

lastly I need a new fucking camera

Oh our debt is enormous. We are battling it though, it gets better x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Glad to hear it? Have I? That's good to hear because I'm quite shy not that my pics say that lol

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By *ea monkey OP Man over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I have a drinking problem, made worse when my sister died last may.

I've spiralled into debt(not a great amount)

lastly I need a new fucking camera

I'm sorry to read that, if you need to chat, feel free.

Drinking to escape or mask pain is a familiar thing, as is debt.

I can't help with the camera though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm far too hard on myself. Commitment issues mean I push away people who try to get close, as a result I've hurt some people along the way which really eats away at me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why thanks very much I'm honoured hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm quite lazy, selfish and procrastinate a lot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No I mean I'm quite self conscious about my self.. I don't get much luck and always think is it me...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And I spend far too much time on the Internet and not enough time in the real world doing meaningful things.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Glad to hear it? Have I? That's good to hear because I'm quite shy not that my pics say that lol"

I’m shy too dude, but sometimes you’ve got to step out and say you know what I’m not going to be that man anymore, put your best foot forward and get out there.

Good luck in all your future endeavours x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m taking to long to repair my fence.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm here if you need a chat mate I used to be a drug addict and I know it's not alcohol but an addiction is an addiction and if I can help in any way I will mate

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By *ea monkey OP Man over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"And I spend far too much time on the Internet and not enough time in the real world doing meaningful things. "

Who's meaningful things? I've not seen their account...

Oooohhhh!

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By *irkydirkyMan over a year ago

Stevenage

Selfish, blunt, always right, stubborn... I could go on and on...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just being me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's exactly why I joined this site.. I know a few people that are on here and they recommended it to me so here I am putting my self out there it's quite scary though as I suffer with anxiety and always thinking about what others think of me...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The problem isn't so much about bragging, how others with copious amounts of negativety view what others say as bragging. You can't with with these people, whether being honest about ones best or worst qualities, they'll just see it as a form of bragging.

Those people tend to be natural braggers themselves I feel and don't like the new competition.

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By *ea monkey OP Man over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"That's exactly why I joined this site.. I know a few people that are on here and they recommended it to me so here I am putting my self out there it's quite scary though as I suffer with anxiety and always thinking about what others think of me... "

Use the reply and quote button fella, then we can see who you're replying to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And I spend far too much time on the Internet and not enough time in the real world doing meaningful things. "

that's what I meant by procrastinating

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can come across as a bit negative as I do like to ask questions or challenge something to find out what's the motivation in order to get a perspective on what's behind something. Some see this as threatening. It's just me learning more and being open to a new way of seeing something. I'm also a giver, 100% and some have commented that I don't receive well...I'm learning.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Use the reply and quote button fella, then we can see who you're replying to"
sorry mate didn't know! My bad lol as I said I'm kinda new to this as for ages the forums wouldn't work on my mobile so just getting used to it..

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

Overthinking is a real issue for me. It gets in the way of all sorts of things. It stops me doing things and make me question so many things. I would love to be a bit more carefree in my thinking.

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

I can be terribly moody and fiery and i’m terribly indecisive.

I also lack patience with everyone except my youngest son who has ASD.

I’m very antisocial too.

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By *lucard5Man over a year ago

kerry capital

I can relate to most of ye. Nothing I say or do will solve yer worries or burdens. Be what you want for the next hour. See if that's something that eases things. Live for the next hour being the Queen or King. My problem is I care too much.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a drinking problem, made worse when my sister died last may.

I've spiralled into debt(not a great amount)

lastly I need a new fucking camera

Oh our debt is enormous. We are battling it though, it gets better x"

Hope so xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I tend to over react over nonsense as well as large stuff that deserves the reaction

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I also tend to worry a lot and carry others baggage

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a drinking problem, made worse when my sister died last may.

I've spiralled into debt(not a great amount)

lastly I need a new fucking camera

I'm sorry to read that, if you need to chat, feel free.

Drinking to escape or mask pain is a familiar thing, as is debt.

I can't help with the camera though"

thanks mate, it is coming to near her anniversary, I'm taking time out to be with her children (and her grandchildren!), I'm an ex-nurse btw, but will admit

I never could understand what a loss does to others, my thoughts are still in the "it's a dream/nightmare".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can relate to most of ye. Nothing I say or do will solve yer worries or burdens. Be what you want for the next hour. See if that's something that eases things. Live for the next hour being the Queen or King. My problem is I care too much. "

Thank you for the nice mail bud.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm my own worst critic, I cna't seem to shake off this bout of depression, I'm overweight, unfit and lack the motivation to do anything about either and I lack either the charm or the self-confidence to even make a friend, let alone anything more.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nowt wrong with me

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By *moothCriminal_xMan over a year ago

Redditch

I fall too easily in infatuation!

I have quite severe scoliosis that can make me look neckless

I have a quality that makes women like me as a friend unless im not interested in which case they are oddly attracted to me...

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

My failing is that I have high expectation of Fab men.....it’s causing me lots of issues but I can’t change how I am.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My failing is that I have high expectation of Fab men.....it’s causing me lots of issues but I can’t change how I am.

och yer ok I guess..I just wanted bigger fanny flaps

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm my own worst critic, I cna't seem to shake off this bout of depression, I'm overweight, unfit and lack the motivation to do anything about either and I lack either the charm or the self-confidence to even make a friend, let alone anything more."

I have been the same(sometimes now the same),I'm not critiquing your profile or even looked,but fab is not the best place to be in if you have existing confidence issues, especially those that might affect your daily mental health.

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"My failing is that I have high expectation of Fab men.....it’s causing me lots of issues but I can’t change how I am.

och yer ok I guess..I just wanted bigger fanny flaps"

What?

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

I worry. Does this person fancy me? Am I likeable or too bloody weird and atypical?

I take things personally when they aren't.

I want to try and fix things for everyone constantly when actually I should just let people do it themselves. Or they might not want my help.

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By *ea monkey OP Man over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I think that's a tough judgement to make for someone, people are here for many reasons and only the individual can know if its a benefit or detriment to them.

I recognise that your comment is meant with support but sometimes fab can be good to just find others to talk or as a distraction.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I'm a cynical, judgemental and intolerant old baggage. My biggest malfunction is that I don't care that I am.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont care enough. My friends family and animals i will go to the end of the earth for. Strangers i couldnt care less what they think or say. Im my own person and dont rely on strangers to make me feel good or bad

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a drinking problem, made worse when my sister died last may.

I've spiralled into debt(not a great amount)

lastly I need a new fucking camera

I'm sorry to read that, if you need to chat, feel free.

Drinking to escape or mask pain is a familiar thing, as is debt.

I can't help with the camera though

thanks mate, it is coming to near her anniversary, I'm taking time out to be with her children (and her grandchildren!), I'm an ex-nurse btw, but will admit

I never could understand what a loss does to others, my thoughts are still in the "it's a dream/nightmare". "

xxxxxx

Maybe once the anniversary has passed there will be a new 'phase'.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"I dont care enough. My friends family and animals i will go to the end of the earth for. Strangers i couldnt care less what they think or say. Im my own person and dont rely on strangers to make me feel good or bad"

That's not a malfunction that's a virtue

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By *asha86Couple over a year ago

walsall

Malfunction is choosing to stay in a caravan with children in close proximity so we dont get chance to have sex..... its been 2 days and im about to break already

D x

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By *asha86Couple over a year ago

walsall

I tend to be sarcastic as a way of handling being shy which can lead to coming across as cocky. I sometimes think without speaking aswell

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

That's not a malfunction that's a virtue

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I would agree but some think your heartless or emotionless when nothing could be further than the truth

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a fucking nightmare

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I'm a really sarcastic bitch at times and don't suffer fools or rude people.

I'm argumentative and bloody minded.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm needy. I read things into stuff and let things affect me more than I should. But my play mates know this about me I'm very honest about the way I am and it works if they know how to handle me. But I get better the more assured I am about someone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Over analysis leading to self doubt.

I tend to think the worst will happen in these situations.

I can then also seem intense in a bad way.

But most of the time just laid back and relaxed and go with flow.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't stop managing people

I am kinda bossy without realising

I like it my way or not at all

If it needs doing, it needs doing now, NOT in 5 minutes

I need to be either single or have a very easy going other half

I am pretty anti-social - I can hold my own in group social situations but I don't like them and find every excuse under the sun to get out of them or not stick around

I am definitely safer in my own company

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By *ristolcouple21Couple over a year ago

Bristol

I am really self critical and actually a bit of a bitch but... only in the sense that I will fight tooth and nail for what I think is right! Oh and i try to rein in my opinions but my face will say it anyway!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Being stubborn but it's also my strength so I don't know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Overthinking is a real issue for me. It gets in the way of all sorts of things. It stops me doing things and make me question so many things. I would love to be a bit more carefree in my thinking. "

I do as well. I over compensate at times by being too spontaneous at the wrong times.

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I amuse myself by talking in a German accent.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So basically I try to be totally carefree but fail a lot due to over analysis.

I then over react and go the wrong way.

I am at my most relaxed when I go with the flow.

This follows through into work. I can agonize over sending an email as I worry about how it will be seen.

I also have staff and instead of managing and delegating I tend to become a super doer.

Getting better at that and super doer has benefits when the shit hits the fan though.

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By *ea monkey OP Man over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I amuse myself by talking in a German accent."

Is that a malfunction? I leave phone messages in smeagols voice to amuse myself, it freaks people out.

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By *nSeeNMan over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

I like to keep my socks on

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"I can't stop managing people

I am kinda bossy without realising

I like it my way or not at all

If it needs doing, it needs doing now, NOT in 5 minutes

I need to be either single or have a very easy going other half

I am pretty anti-social - I can hold my own in group social situations but I don't like them and find every excuse under the sun to get out of them or not stick around

I am definitely safer in my own company

#scared

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I talk to myself when out walking or in work , quite loudly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Women tell me, it is my cock? lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like to keep my socks on "

That's horny, not a malfunction.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m extremely good at everything I do. Oh, and I’m very shy and modest.

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By *ocodoughnutgirlWoman over a year ago

Sea of jelly and doughnuts

I'm over critical of myself, over analyse everything I do, stubborn, Sarcastic and can speak my mind without thinking.

So I can come across as a hard ass and a bit cold at times, but having my daughter has helped with showing my softer side.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can't stop managing people

I am kinda bossy without realising

I like it my way or not at all

If it needs doing, it needs doing now, NOT in 5 minutes

I need to be either single or have a very easy going other half

I am pretty anti-social - I can hold my own in group social situations but I don't like them and find every excuse under the sun to get out of them or not stick around

I am definitely safer in my own company

#scared"

Don't be

I'm more good than I am bad

Recognising my flaws helps me manage them

I manage myself much more than I do others

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By *he Mac LassWoman over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Aloofness

Not knowing what I need rather than chasing what I want to find I didn’t want it after all

Assuming everyone is honest

Procrastination

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm incredibly laid back ... a gregarious hermit and totally incapable of emotional attachments

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

That's not a malfunction that's a virtue

I would agree but some think your heartless or emotionless when nothing could be further than the truth"

This is true also a lot of people don't believe it. Mind you my father (who I get not caring what people think about me from) has taken not caring what people think to the extreme now that he's in his nineties and it's proving quite difficult to deal with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think my age may have something to do with this, but my erections aren't what they used to be.

It's got a mind of its own these days!

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By *lucard5Man over a year ago

kerry capital

So do I. It's normal.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Very stubborn and very cynical

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I amuse myself by talking in a German accent."
thought it was swede

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can get bouts of anxiety and lose my confidence.

I trust my gut instinct more than I trust people.

I MAY forgive but I'll never forget, and if I'm genuinely hurt by something it hurts me deeply, yet I'm not weak even though I may sound it.

I can be lazy at home.

Once my trust is broken it will probably never be rebuilt, and I'll withdraw.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm messy, I procrastinate too much and I talk myself out of things when I really have no need to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can be a little bit needy. But in a nice way. It means I like you .

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By *ea monkey OP Man over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I can be a little bit needy. But in a nice way. It means I like you .

I'm a bit like that, when I like someone and they've gained my trust then I want to be around them. That's more in my personal relationships though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can be a little bit needy. But in a nice way. It means I like you .

I'm a bit like that, when I like someone and they've gained my trust then I want to be around them. That's more in my personal relationships though. "
yep same here suprisingly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Got all day?

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

I dont suffer fools or liars and you will know if I don’t like you as my face stays like this

I do trust on face value and if that is lost you will never get it back, I can be very feisty and outspoken on things I believe in and I swear like a trucker

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lots of flaws.

I'm often too nice to people who don't deserve it

I'm very self loathing. Can't help it .

I can be a bit over emotional.

I have zero willpower.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a total bitch and don't tolerate fools. In fact I don't tolerate most people. I'm hard to like.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can't say no to a sexy man.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m really not confident at all, we went to a group social recently and most of the night I sat in the corner while Doughnut was the social butterfly he always is, I find it very hard to talk to people, even people I know well.

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By *adylydfordWoman over a year ago

altinkum

Im a cynical pessamistic bossy bitch. .. people get confused because im also a sub.

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By *atalie..Woman over a year ago

Bolton

I have difficulty dealing with people who are late.. Late for work, late for appointments, late for family gatherings, late for dates.. Just late it really boils my piss.. Other people's time is just as important as yours. Ok and breathe

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

"I'm a total bitch and don't tolerate fools. In fact I don't tolerate most people. I'm hard to like. "

I should of said that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm extremely defensive and hide behind sarcasm. It takes quite a lot to get past these barriers and get to know me fully. When people do they realise I'm soft as hell, but very few get to that stage. "

Like fuck does it, Jim Carey could melt you......

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By *ools and the brainCouple over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Everyone on here likes to give the best account of themselves (or most do at any rate) and put the best bits of themselves forwards. However we also all have aspects of ourselves that might be seen as 'less than savoury'.

So folks, what do you consider to be your faults, foibles or failings?

Obviously I'm exempt from this because I'm a fucking delight... "

I'm a disgusting fat body

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If there's nobody home and I've got a booger, I'll pick it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh, and I always know best

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh, and I always know best

I mean I really do its not a fault....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have so many faults that it would be easier to point out my good bits

I think the main one is that I usually see the negative before the positive.

I'm working on it x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh and to the house work I have to throw a dinner party ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I constantly beat myself up. I strive for perfection then self-criticise because I don't achieve it. I really don't like myself much and am rarely kind to myself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have so many faults that it would be easier to point out my good bits

I think the main one is that I usually see the negative before the positive.

I'm working on it x"

I do that when it comes to myself, yet with others I see the positives straight away, or solutions to problems. I think it's because we have emotional attachment to our own shizzle

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By *thwalescplCouple over a year ago

brecon

It's my crippling modesty, holds me back from telling everyone how wonderful I am.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman over a year ago

Hull

I over think and over analyse everything grrrr and find it hard to just go with it oh and I'm very inpatient

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I can come across as cold and a bit of a snob, I've been called aloof to. I'm none of those things, I think it's because I'm a bit shy and people take that as 'unapproachable'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Highly self critical and an overthinker. I also worry a lot. I think if i didn't have something to worry about, I'd worry about that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never take things seriously and never judge.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can come across as cold and a bit of a snob, I've been called aloof to. I'm none of those things, I think it's because I'm a bit shy and people take that as 'unapproachable'

I hate it when people do that. I've been told, straight out, that people don't talk to me because I look uncomfortable and out of place - so they do exactly the thing that I'm afraid they'll do, which is why I'm uncomfortable in the first place!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I take too many selfies

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By *ea monkey OP Man over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I never take things seriously and never judge. "

And that's a bad thing is it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have so many faults that it would be easier to point out my good bits

I think the main one is that I usually see the negative before the positive.

I'm working on it x

I do that when it comes to myself, yet with others I see the positives straight away, or solutions to problems. I think it's because we have emotional attachment to our own shizzle

Exactly - it's easier to believe a negative comment than a compliment

Being on sites like these has made it worse for me- I immediately assume that most people are full of shit because any holes a goal

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Be warned it's a long list!!

Over-thinker

Far too self-critical

Lack self-confidence

Fairly reserved in social situations

Can be far too self-deprecating at times

Not selfish enough

Rarely listen to my own advice

Impulsive

And a few more besides...but other than that I'm alright!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Jeez all this self loathing is making me want to

Oops... there I go!

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By *ig_eric_tionMan over a year ago

IPSWICH

"Oh no, you need to go first Op!

I over think things and micro analyse, I also have a tendancy towards self critical anxiety.

I'm also a grumpy sod half the time

Sounds like you're describing me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Jeez all this self loathing is making me want to

Oops... there I go!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like fuck does it, Jim Carey could melt you......

He's proper weird!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Jeez all this self loathing is making me want to

Oops... there I go!"

Heaven forbid that people not all be happy and confident in themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is a great thread. It is very hard to admit your faults, particularly to others. Probably easier online, but I applaud all of your honesty.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm too much of an over thinker!...I'm working on doing that less and trying to compartmentalise all the crap more!! And I never think I'm good enough or capable enough... I need constant reassurance that I am...but then don't believe that reassurance or I over think it!! Lol!!! I'm a useless case!!

PT x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Jeez all this self loathing is making me want to

Oops... there I go!

Heaven forbid that people not all be happy and confident in themselves."

I'm adding my humour is too subtle for most

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Jeez all this self loathing is making me want to

Oops... there I go!

Heaven forbid that people not all be happy and confident in themselves.

I'm adding my humour is too subtle for most

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find it hard to trust anyone I am always guarded & I never let anyone in my life still trying to work on it tho

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oooooh I’m also a control freak

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find it hard to trust anyone I am always guarded & I never let anyone in my life still trying to work on it tho

Me neither but I’m happy that way. Fab is totally separate from my real life. That’s how I want it. Not many get to see the real whole me unless I really really trust them and that hasn’t happened fully yet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find it hard to trust anyone I am always guarded & I never let anyone in my life still trying to work on it tho

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m my own worst critic, emotionally I can be pretty closed off, it’s a barrier I put up to stop getting hurt. I worry and get a bit paranoid about what people think and say about me. I can be lazy and procrastinate a lot at home. But when organising something I can be a bit anal and want everything on my to do list ticked off. And lastly I’m too nice go people even when they’ve done something nasty to me. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I could do with losing about 2-3 stone. Fell out of love with cycling after getting my bikes stolen so I’ve gained weight.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Where to start?

I need to lose some weight, I'm too pessimistic and I can be ridiculously indecisive.

That's a good start

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've realised I'm a bit of a narcissist after taking an objective look at my own profile.

And I don't suffer fools well, or at least people I've decided are fools - need to learn a bit of tolerance.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Jeez all this self loathing is making me want to

Oops... there I go!

Heaven forbid that people not all be happy and confident in themselves.

I'm adding my humour is too subtle for most

Some things just aren't funny.

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By *xhib12Man over a year ago

Blyth

You just described me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Jeez all this self loathing is making me want to

Oops... there I go!

Heaven forbid that people not all be happy and confident in themselves.

I'm adding my humour is too subtle for most

Some things just aren't funny. "

Still missing it. I was digging at myself as per my previous comment. And yeah, some things aren't funny when you have to explain them!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Jeez all this self loathing is making me want to

Oops... there I go!

Heaven forbid that people not all be happy and confident in themselves.

I'm adding my humour is too subtle for most

Some things just aren't funny.

Still missing it. I was digging at myself as per my previous comment. And yeah, some things aren't funny when you have to explain them!

I think the need for an explanation just made it even funnier, there's nothing like some real life proof to back up your original statement

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I'm too generous, I can take quite a while to cum and am far too self critical. I also wish I just didn't care so much about people. I'm ok other than that.

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By *greygorCouple over a year ago

birmingham

love to eat cheese and oinion sarnies in morning .bad breath and farts after .any one want a meet ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wish I wasn't so nice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Probably that I get bored easily

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wish I wasn't so nice.

A rubbish fibber

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm just your average grumpy bird. Other than that, I'm a complete delight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wish I wasn't so nice.

You are nice really - that's your flaw - you want people to think you're being a cow

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wish I wasn't so nice.

You are nice really - that's your flaw - you want people to think you're being a cow

Nice is overrated.

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By *inkysexpotMan over a year ago

leeds

I'm an over thinker with OCD

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Probably my greatest strength is I’m a team player and I’m go getter.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Greatest weakness is probably my ability to not Finish what I was goi

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

you know what I don't think i have any,,perhaps and im being hard on myself but I can lack in confidence, but im pretty much perfect tbh

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"I'm the same mate can't stop wondering is it me?

Is it you not paying attention to the thread and posting whatever?

Yeah, it is...

(see; grumpy) "

I'm waiting for the rest of the dwarfs to appear. Love this thread so far

Mine is...I'm easily pleased

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Probably my greatest strength is I’m a team player and I’m go getter. "

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YgSPaXgAdzE

im a driver im a winner,,things are gonna change I can feel it

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Major malfunction? Wardrobe usually

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Major malfunction? Wardrobe usually

gosh you,ve a big clock

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can be a bit stroppy, hate being left out of anything and find it hard to say sorry

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By *eeBee67Man over a year ago

Masked and Distant

I hate confrontation, even if it means I don't stand up for myself.

Would defend my kids and loved onesto my last breath but would try and use calm words instead of arguing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m shy and too quiet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I drink too much. Once I get the taste I have to keep drinking until I feel sick.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I hate confrontation, even if it means I don't stand up for myself.

Would defend my kids and loved onesto my last breath but would try and use calm words instead of arguing."

thats a good thing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't have chocolate in the house without having to eat it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can't have chocolate in the house without having to eat it."

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can't have chocolate in the house without having to eat it."

the house?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I drink too much. Once I get the taste I have to keep drinking until I feel sick."

Let’s get tiddly lol

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Major malfunction? Wardrobe usually

gosh you,ve a big clock

Why thank you sweetie

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By *ea monkey OP Man over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I'm the same mate can't stop wondering is it me?

Is it you not paying attention to the thread and posting whatever?

Yeah, it is...

(see; grumpy)

I'm waiting for the rest of the dwarfs to appear. Love this thread so far

Mine is...I'm easily pleased "

I definitely saw Doc, bashful is up there, as is Happy. Sleepy, dopey and sneezy, I'm not so sure...

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By *ust cheerfulMan over a year ago

Nottingham

"I constantly beat myself up. I strive for perfection then self-criticise because I don't achieve it. I really don't like myself much and am rarely kind to myself. "

Same here,

Additionally I'm really careing person so when my efforts aren't appriciated I feel completely excluded and fed up, not good at chasing at all

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