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Seriously what does it take for someone to even give you the time of day on this site?? you be polite, respectful not arrogant and don't have any stupid cock photos and nobody can still be bothered to even message back |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
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"Seriously what does it take for someone to even give you the time of day on this site?? you be polite, respectful not arrogant and don't have any stupid cock photos and nobody can still be bothered to even message back"
2weeks mate. youv been here 2weeks... give it time, it'll happen  |
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"Seriously what does it take for someone to even give you the time of day on this site?? you be polite, respectful not arrogant and don't have any stupid cock photos and nobody can still be bothered to even message back"
Be their type...this isn't a charity. |
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By *iss SinWoman
over a year ago
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"Seriously what does it take for someone to even give you the time of day on this site?? you be polite, respectful not arrogant and don't have any stupid cock photos and nobody can still be bothered to even message back"
Hi, don’t let it get you down |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously what does it take for someone to even give you the time of day on this site?? you be polite, respectful not arrogant and don't have any stupid cock photos and nobody can still be bothered to even message back"
If that is all you can offer then I wouldn’t message back either, it’s surely a given to be polite and respectful?
Are you ensuring your profile is the best it could be? Good variety of photos? Are you reading profiles of those you are messaging and ensuring you are what they are looking for? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously what does it take for someone to even give you the time of day on this site?? you be polite, respectful not arrogant and don't have any stupid cock photos and nobody can still be bothered to even message back"
Try throwing your toys out of the pram, fab women love that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously what does it take for someone to even give you the time of day on this site?? you be polite, respectful not arrogant and don't have any stupid cock photos and nobody can still be bothered to even message back"
It's crap isn't it.
Many women and couples get hundreds of messages and it's impossible to reply to them all. If they try to reply, more keep coming in.
I think it's really bad if you send a nice message and get no response at all, but would you really want to meet someone like that?
The chances of a man getting a reply on here are very slim. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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Also, you have only been here 2 weeks. Engage in the cam rooms and forums with people in a positive, non ranty way that will also help to get you noticed for the right reasons not the wrong ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really don’t know what to say I have a profile deliberately designed to put people off messaging me, but they ignore it and message me anyway. I’m brutally honest about being a shit shag and they are still interested in meeting me. I don’t get it, it’s a weird site  |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"Seriously what does it take for someone to even give you the time of day on this site?? you be polite, respectful not arrogant and don't have any stupid cock photos and nobody can still be bothered to even message back"
OP..a couple of thoughts..
1. What are your perceptions of swinging? Do they match the actual reality? If you just want a fuck, there are other sites...
2. Is your profile enticing? Are you selling yourself well? What do you have to offer potential meets?
Consider the quality of your pics. Is your profile text bland?
3. Read the site rules, especialy regarding 'no reply means no thanks'. Do you reply to all unsolicited junk mail you get through the post?
4. Consider participating in the forums. Get known, but not for moaning.
Swinging is meant to be fun, so try not to stress. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously what does it take for someone to even give you the time of day on this site?? you be polite, respectful not arrogant and don't have any stupid cock photos and nobody can still be bothered to even message back
OP..a couple of thoughts..
1. What are your perceptions of swinging? Do they match the actual reality? If you just want a fuck, there are other sites...
2. Is your profile enticing? Are you selling yourself well? What do you have to offer potential meets?
Consider the quality of your pics. Is your profile text bland?
3. Read the site rules, especialy regarding 'no reply means no thanks'. Do you reply to all unsolicited junk mail you get through the post?
4. Consider participating in the forums. Get known, but not for moaning.
Swinging is meant to be fun, so try not to stress."
Good advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aye mate just be yourself and if you don't get a reply to a message never be a dick about it, women on here get soooo many messages they might not even see it. The odds are stacked against you lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have to loose that negativity man!
Patience is the way forward.
Fab is a platform for people to seek different things. To see it has sure fire way is actually trivial.
It’s all about knowing yourself and then the devils in the detail in what others seek and would you be a good match.
Take your time, be tasteful and don’t moan about not getting a meet. Desperation is not an attractive trait but on the other hand don’t go for someone that you wouldn’t in normal day to day life....just my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously what does it take for someone to even give you the time of day on this site?? you be polite, respectful not arrogant and don't have any stupid cock photos and nobody can still be bothered to even message back"
Just give it time, ignore the snide comments on here, Just stay polite and respectful when messaging and you’ll find someone soon enough. |
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"Seriously what does it take for someone to even give you the time of day on this site?? you be polite, respectful not arrogant and don't have any stupid cock photos and nobody can still be bothered to even message back
Just give it time, ignore the snide comments on here, Just stay polite and respectful when messaging and you’ll find someone soon enough. "
.....and have something for ppl to hang coats on......  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously what does it take for someone to even give you the time of day on this site?? you be polite, respectful not arrogant and don't have any stupid cock photos and nobody can still be bothered to even message back
Just give it time, ignore the snide comments on here, Just stay polite and respectful when messaging and you’ll find someone soon enough. "
Join in on the forum too. It can be a good way to make friends. Maybe look for social events in the Meets forum. |
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