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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really don't understand how people expect these questions to be answered?! Do people sit with a stopwatch while they have sex? Do they have some set routine where they get exactly the same of each act each time?
My answer is I don't know. Sometimes I want oral for ages, teasing me over and over, sometimes I don't want it at all. Sometimes I want fast hard sex, sometimes I want it slow and sensual. One thing I know for sure is I don't want to do any of it with someone who isn't able to just read the mood and my reactions and go with what feels right. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I really don't understand how people expect these questions to be answered?! Do people sit with a stopwatch while they have sex? Do they have some set routine where they get exactly the same of each act each time?
My answer is I don't know. Sometimes I want oral for ages, teasing me over and over, sometimes I don't want it at all. Sometimes I want fast hard sex, sometimes I want it slow and sensual. One thing I know for sure is I don't want to do any of it with someone who isn't able to just read the mood and my reactions and go with what feels right. "
I'm not expecting precise times 
For me it's usually over in about 20 - 30 mins when we're both extremely horny and passionate
Other times it can last over an hour |
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"There is no time limit 
Precisely this
You can't set a time, a limit.
It's a flow, a progression, a response to a reaction.
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Yes to all the above sometimes play goes v well and 6-8 hrs feels like two. however if OP is looking for ballpark figures then for me, usually around 4 hours start to finish then a rest before round 2 is normal.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mainly aimed at the women -
How long spent on oral and penetrative sex would be considered the perfect length of time for you?
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Any
I’ve had a sex session which lasted about five minutes but was still amazing 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There is no time limit
Precisely this
You can't set a time, a limit.
It's a flow, a progression, a response to a reaction.
Yes to all the above sometimes play goes v well and 6-8 hrs feels like two. however if OP is looking for ballpark figures then for me, usually around 4 hours start to finish then a rest before round 2 is normal.
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4 hours? Damn |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"However long our sex session will last OP will suit me just fine
Too bad I'm short and out of your age preference. Great profile though "
Folk make exceptions, thought you would have taken that hint a few weeks ago  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I really don't understand how people expect these questions to be answered?! Do people sit with a stopwatch while they have sex? Do they have some set routine where they get exactly the same of each act each time?
My answer is I don't know. Sometimes I want oral for ages, teasing me over and over, sometimes I don't want it at all. Sometimes I want fast hard sex, sometimes I want it slow and sensual. One thing I know for sure is I don't want to do any of it with someone who isn't able to just read the mood and my reactions and go with what feels right.
I'm not expecting precise times
For me it's usually over in about 20 - 30 mins when we're both extremely horny and passionate
Other times it can last over an hour"
Sounds perfect to me, even after 2 years without |
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"I can just hear some adanoidal voice going "right, 5 minutes kissing, 10 minutes oral and 5 minutes penetration... missionary, then we sleep, ok dear?"
Isn’t that how everyone does it??  "
No ... sometimes it's a quick "brace yourself I'm coming in" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I really don't understand how people expect these questions to be answered?! Do people sit with a stopwatch while they have sex? Do they have some set routine where they get exactly the same of each act each time?
My answer is I don't know. Sometimes I want oral for ages, teasing me over and over, sometimes I don't want it at all. Sometimes I want fast hard sex, sometimes I want it slow and sensual. One thing I know for sure is I don't want to do any of it with someone who isn't able to just read the mood and my reactions and go with what feels right.
I'm not expecting precise times
For me it's usually over in about 20 - 30 mins when we're both extremely horny and passionate
Other times it can last over an hour
Sounds perfect to me, even after 2 years without "
Well we're both from Aberdeen so... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is no one rule sometimes its half hour sometimes its 3 or 4 but either way its not ending there cos as soon as she cums it turns me on so i wanna go again its a vicious circle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Until I orgasm for the oral and until you do for the sex. Unless one of us falls asleep or starts yawning or looking around for the paper to read or something. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"Until I orgasm for the oral and until you do for the sex. Unless one of us falls asleep or starts yawning or looking around for the paper to read or something. "
Once she is in sub-space you can stick a vibrator in read the paper, just keep flicking the clit with a flogger every thirty seconds. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There isn't a ideal length of time. It depends on time constraints. How excited you are. Etc. I know the first session me and the fb have this week will be over in 5 mins flat but we will both have cum in that time and will be basking in the glory before we are ready for round 2 |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I really don't understand how people expect these questions to be answered?! Do people sit with a stopwatch while they have sex? Do they have some set routine where they get exactly the same of each act each time?
My answer is I don't know. Sometimes I want oral for ages, teasing me over and over, sometimes I don't want it at all. Sometimes I want fast hard sex, sometimes I want it slow and sensual. One thing I know for sure is I don't want to do any of it with someone who isn't able to just read the mood and my reactions and go with what feels right.
I'm not expecting precise times
For me it's usually over in about 20 - 30 mins when we're both extremely horny and passionate
Other times it can last over an hour
Sounds perfect to me, even after 2 years without
Well we're both from Aberdeen so... "
And I didn't even notice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really don't understand how people expect these questions to be answered?! Do people sit with a stopwatch while they have sex? Do they have some set routine where they get exactly the same of each act each time?
My answer is I don't know. Sometimes I want oral for ages, teasing me over and over, sometimes I don't want it at all. Sometimes I want fast hard sex, sometimes I want it slow and sensual. One thing I know for sure is I don't want to do any of it with someone who isn't able to just read the mood and my reactions and go with what feels right.
I'm not expecting precise times
For me it's usually over in about 20 - 30 mins when we're both extremely horny and passionate
Other times it can last over an hour
Sounds perfect to me, even after 2 years without
Well we're both from Aberdeen so...
And I didn't even notice "
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There is no set time , but as a rule of thumb about twenty minutes from start to finish . Neither of us like to stifle the orgasm and right from the start we always said we wouldn’t hold back . Nine years later and we are still at it twice a day , and it’s very rare we last longer than twenty minutes .
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I really don't understand how people expect these questions to be answered?! Do people sit with a stopwatch while they have sex? Do they have some set routine where they get exactly the same of each act each time?
My answer is I don't know. Sometimes I want oral for ages, teasing me over and over, sometimes I don't want it at all. Sometimes I want fast hard sex, sometimes I want it slow and sensual. One thing I know for sure is I don't want to do any of it with someone who isn't able to just read the mood and my reactions and go with what feels right.
I'm not expecting precise times
For me it's usually over in about 20 - 30 mins when we're both extremely horny and passionate
Other times it can last over an hour
Sounds perfect to me, even after 2 years without
Well we're both from Aberdeen so...
And I didn't even notice "
Pretty sure I messaged you a month ago
I've been waiting patiently for a reply ever since.... |
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By *ecks74Woman
over a year ago
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I’ve been seeing a guy regularly for 18 months, we normally have around 3 hours of non stop fun times every couple of weeks. Sometimes we only have sex once and sometimes 3-4 times depending how we feel. If it’s just the once we just kiss and tease each other and chill out in bed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol I do find this odd, what about if you just want a quickie in the heat of the moment, you might skip oral entirely..... Or you might fuck all night ten times or more....
Sometimes you're so horny it doesn't take much other times she's had a bad day and wants cwtches galore before any sex...
Timing it sounds like the kind of sex you pay for....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’ve had a fair few meets on various profiles over 10 years. We’ve met people who’ve said they like to fuck all night esp single guys. Generally we find sessions are unusual if they last more than an hour including foreplay. Even those hung studs with ‘lots of stamina’ only last about 20 mins once penetration starts.
In our view an hour max is a good session once play starts. Much more than that it can get boring and repetitive and sometimes just becomes a ‘look how long I can last’ performance. Our worst meet was a single guy who went for about an hour and a half with incredibly slow penetration. It was the sex equivalent of watching paint dry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I allocate approximately 22.5 minutes for sexy time a month. No more, no less.
I wonder if you still have any left so far this month? "
Nope, all gone. That's it now until May....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You've probably heard about this or seen me mention it alot....
But 6 hours is too much .. I envy people with normal times I really do....
When your both sweaty and wet as we were the sex was fun but stupidly messy .....and painful she had to take 2 days off work. |
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"I allocate approximately 22.5 minutes for sexy time a month. No more, no less.
I wonder if you still have any left so far this month?
Nope, all gone. That's it now until May....
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you should always keep couple of minutes in case of unplanned emergency sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I allocate approximately 22.5 minutes for sexy time a month. No more, no less.
I wonder if you still have any left so far this month?
Nope, all gone. That's it now until May....
you should always keep couple of minutes in case of unplanned emergency sex "
No, it can never be unplanned.... |
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"I allocate approximately 22.5 minutes for sexy time a month. No more, no less.
I wonder if you still have any left so far this month?
Nope, all gone. That's it now until May....
you should always keep couple of minutes in case of unplanned emergency sex
No, it can never be unplanned...."
in my experience, those unplanned ones are mostly great minutes! |
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