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By *ewtoyouXXX OP   Man  over a year ago

rochdale cowboy

Hi I’m looking to meet a like minded man who wants a first time or second ish experience is this a thing guys want and are in here to find someone?

Please comment or if your really interested let me know

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi I’m looking to meet a like minded man who wants a first time or second ish experience is this a thing guys want and are in here to find someone?

Please comment or if your really interested let me know "

Maybe change your profile to bi-curious. Could have more luck that way x

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By *ewtoyouXXX OP   Man  over a year ago

rochdale cowboy


"Hi I’m looking to meet a like minded man who wants a first time or second ish experience is this a thing guys want and are in here to find someone?

Please comment or if your really interested let me know

Maybe change your profile to bi-curious. Could have more luck that way x"

rha k for your advice

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Someone's level of experience wouldn't bother me in the slightest - whether there was a connection and chemistry (the same as for meeting anyone) would - unfortunately I've found that most guys looking to meet other guys want to go straight to meeting/sex talk which isn't for me.

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By *ewtoyouXXX OP   Man  over a year ago

rochdale cowboy


"Someone's level of experience wouldn't bother me in the slightest - whether there was a connection and chemistry (the same as for meeting anyone) would - unfortunately I've found that most guys looking to meet other guys want to go straight to meeting/sex talk which isn't for me."
that’s a good synopsis I too share the same ideas and values I’m looking to chat and base any future experiences on factual conversations I think your spot on with the chemistry between two people, it has to be right or it won’t work properly

But thank for commenting

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I was in a glory hole with a young lady and just happened to yawn at the wrong time

True story

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By *ewtoyouXXX OP   Man  over a year ago

rochdale cowboy


"I was in a glory hole with a young lady and just happened to yawn at the wrong time

True story "

Lol brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was in a glory hole with a young lady and just happened to yawn at the wrong time

True story "

* should read threads before commenting

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By *ewtoyouXXX OP   Man  over a year ago

rochdale cowboy


"I was in a glory hole with a young lady and just happened to yawn at the wrong time

True story

* should read threads before commenting "

Another true story lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was in a glory hole with a young lady and just happened to yawn at the wrong time

True story

* should read threads before commenting

Another true story lol "

Yup, fraid so

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By *ewtoyouXXX OP   Man  over a year ago

rochdale cowboy


"I was in a glory hole with a young lady and just happened to yawn at the wrong time

True story

* should read threads before commenting

Another true story lol

Yup, fraid so "

Your comments were appreciated tho

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By *ecretpantyTV/TS  over a year ago

lisburn

Also try and let people know what you would like to try and not try early on.Saves a lot off time wasting.

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By *ewtoyouXXX OP   Man  over a year ago

rochdale cowboy


"Also try and let people know what you would like to try and not try early on.Saves a lot off time wasting. "

Thank you for your advice I’m hoping to engage in some private chat and during such time we can discuss boundaries

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was in a glory hole with a young lady and just happened to yawn at the wrong time

True story

* should read threads before commenting

Another true story lol

Yup, fraid so

Your comments were appreciated tho "

Thanks

I am well past the curious stage though

I've met newly bi guys who have taken to it like a duck to water

I've had others literally sit and shake

I've had to pretty much offer counselling to others

Taking that first step can be daunting

I'll be honest and frank, I used an escort my first experience after years in the closet

I went over a decade suppressing my sexual attraction guys

Using the services of a 'professional' cut out a lot of the nerves for me, not to mention the worry of 'I like the thought of it, but will I like the practical'

That was 16/17 years ago now

I can tell you I did like it and I've never looked back

I think now Fab and the like exist, it 'hopefully' makes it a bit easier for guys in a similar position to hook up and try things out

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By *ewtoyouXXX OP   Man  over a year ago

rochdale cowboy


"I was in a glory hole with a young lady and just happened to yawn at the wrong time

True story

* should read threads before commenting

Another true story lol

Yup, fraid so

Your comments were appreciated tho

Thanks

I am well past the curious stage though

I've met newly bi guys who have taken to it like a duck to water

I've had others literally sit and shake

I've had to pretty much offer counselling to others

Taking that first step can be daunting

I'll be honest and frank, I used an escort my first experience after years in the closet

I went over a decade suppressing my sexual attraction guys

Using the services of a 'professional' cut out a lot of the nerves for me, not to mention the worry of 'I like the thought of it, but will I like the practical'

That was 16/17 years ago now

I can tell you I did like it and I've never looked back

I think now Fab and the like exist, it 'hopefully' makes it a bit easier for guys in a similar position to hook up and try things out "

sounds like a plan , however I’m hoping this thread intrigues someone else and that ultimately there’s someone reading this thinking the same as me and messages me directly he he

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was in a glory hole with a young lady and just happened to yawn at the wrong time

True story

* should read threads before commenting

Another true story lol

Yup, fraid so

Your comments were appreciated tho

Thanks

I am well past the curious stage though

I've met newly bi guys who have taken to it like a duck to water

I've had others literally sit and shake

I've had to pretty much offer counselling to others

Taking that first step can be daunting

I'll be honest and frank, I used an escort my first experience after years in the closet

I went over a decade suppressing my sexual attraction guys

Using the services of a 'professional' cut out a lot of the nerves for me, not to mention the worry of 'I like the thought of it, but will I like the practical'

That was 16/17 years ago now

I can tell you I did like it and I've never looked back

I think now Fab and the like exist, it 'hopefully' makes it a bit easier for guys in a similar position to hook up and try things out sounds like a plan , however I’m hoping this thread intrigues someone else and that ultimately there’s someone reading this thinking the same as me and messages me directly he he "

Hope so. That’s how it happened for me. I met a woman on here for the first time (in fact that was the original reason I joined) decided to have a little peep at the men one day and never changed the filters back . Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was in a glory hole with a young lady and just happened to yawn at the wrong time

True story

* should read threads before commenting

Another true story lol

Yup, fraid so

Your comments were appreciated tho

Thanks

I am well past the curious stage though

I've met newly bi guys who have taken to it like a duck to water

I've had others literally sit and shake

I've had to pretty much offer counselling to others

Taking that first step can be daunting

I'll be honest and frank, I used an escort my first experience after years in the closet

I went over a decade suppressing my sexual attraction guys

Using the services of a 'professional' cut out a lot of the nerves for me, not to mention the worry of 'I like the thought of it, but will I like the practical'

That was 16/17 years ago now

I can tell you I did like it and I've never looked back

I think now Fab and the like exist, it 'hopefully' makes it a bit easier for guys in a similar position to hook up and try things out sounds like a plan , however I’m hoping this thread intrigues someone else and that ultimately there’s someone reading this thinking the same as me and messages me directly he he "

You look to be in pretty good shape (based on your avatar)

Added to some of the advice given above, maybe make a few more body pics available

Sorry to say it, but cocks also work for guys (whilst deterring some lasses)

All I can speak from is personal experience and usually it's the cock shots that draw the guys out of the woodwork

Being close to Manchester and a very active gay scene, you need to be careful not to become a trophy shag for someone

Shagging a 'straight' guy is the Golden Goose for a lot of guys

Would bi couples be of intetest to you or are you looking for a 1 on 1 initially ?

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By *ewtoyouXXX OP   Man  over a year ago

rochdale cowboy


"I was in a glory hole with a young lady and just happened to yawn at the wrong time

True story

* should read threads before commenting

Another true story lol

Yup, fraid so

Your comments were appreciated tho

Thanks

I am well past the curious stage though

I've met newly bi guys who have taken to it like a duck to water

I've had others literally sit and shake

I've had to pretty much offer counselling to others

Taking that first step can be daunting

I'll be honest and frank, I used an escort my first experience after years in the closet

I went over a decade suppressing my sexual attraction guys

Using the services of a 'professional' cut out a lot of the nerves for me, not to mention the worry of 'I like the thought of it, but will I like the practical'

That was 16/17 years ago now

I can tell you I did like it and I've never looked back

I think now Fab and the like exist, it 'hopefully' makes it a bit easier for guys in a similar position to hook up and try things out sounds like a plan , however I’m hoping this thread intrigues someone else and that ultimately there’s someone reading this thinking the same as me and messages me directly he he

You look to be in pretty good shape (based on your avatar)

Added to some of the advice given above, maybe make a few more body pics available

Sorry to say it, but cocks also work for guys (whilst deterring some lasses)

All I can speak from is personal experience and usually it's the cock shots that draw the guys out of the woodwork

Being close to Manchester and a very active gay scene, you need to be careful not to become a trophy shag for someone

Shagging a 'straight' guy is the Golden Goose for a lot of guys

Would bi couples be of intetest to you or are you looking for a 1 on 1 initially ? "

I have loads of gay friends and I been to Manchester loads over the years I’m a secret to everyone who knows me am I interested in bi couples ? I’m intrigued for sure tbh

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By *ewtoyouXXX OP   Man  over a year ago

rochdale cowboy


"I was in a glory hole with a young lady and just happened to yawn at the wrong time

True story

* should read threads before commenting

Another true story lol

Yup, fraid so

Your comments were appreciated tho

Thanks

I am well past the curious stage though

I've met newly bi guys who have taken to it like a duck to water

I've had others literally sit and shake

I've had to pretty much offer counselling to others

Taking that first step can be daunting

I'll be honest and frank, I used an escort my first experience after years in the closet

I went over a decade suppressing my sexual attraction guys

Using the services of a 'professional' cut out a lot of the nerves for me, not to mention the worry of 'I like the thought of it, but will I like the practical'

That was 16/17 years ago now

I can tell you I did like it and I've never looked back

I think now Fab and the like exist, it 'hopefully' makes it a bit easier for guys in a similar position to hook up and try things out sounds like a plan , however I’m hoping this thread intrigues someone else and that ultimately there’s someone reading this thinking the same as me and messages me directly he he

You look to be in pretty good shape (based on your avatar)

I have lots of body pics on my profile and my thinking is if we chat and like what we see firstly with a profile pic then a friends request accepted will reveal lots more of me —-

Added to some of the advice given above, maybe make a few more body pics available

Sorry to say it, but cocks also work for guys (whilst deterring some lasses)

All I can speak from is personal experience and usually it's the cock shots that draw the guys out of the woodwork taking your advice I have written between your message but again I thank u mate

Being close to Manchester and a very active gay scene, you need to be careful not to become a trophy shag for someone

Shagging a 'straight' guy is the Golden Goose for a lot of guys

Would bi couples be of intetest to you or are you looking for a 1 on 1 initially ? "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was in a glory hole with a young lady and just happened to yawn at the wrong time

True story

* should read threads before commenting

Another true story lol

Yup, fraid so

Your comments were appreciated tho

Thanks

I am well past the curious stage though

I've met newly bi guys who have taken to it like a duck to water

I've had others literally sit and shake

I've had to pretty much offer counselling to others

Taking that first step can be daunting

I'll be honest and frank, I used an escort my first experience after years in the closet

I went over a decade suppressing my sexual attraction guys

Using the services of a 'professional' cut out a lot of the nerves for me, not to mention the worry of 'I like the thought of it, but will I like the practical'

That was 16/17 years ago now

I can tell you I did like it and I've never looked back

I think now Fab and the like exist, it 'hopefully' makes it a bit easier for guys in a similar position to hook up and try things out sounds like a plan , however I’m hoping this thread intrigues someone else and that ultimately there’s someone reading this thinking the same as me and messages me directly he he

You look to be in pretty good shape (based on your avatar)

Added to some of the advice given above, maybe make a few more body pics available

Sorry to say it, but cocks also work for guys (whilst deterring some lasses)

All I can speak from is personal experience and usually it's the cock shots that draw the guys out of the woodwork taking your advice I have written between your message but again I thank u mate

Being close to Manchester and a very active gay scene, you need to be careful not to become a trophy shag for someone

Shagging a 'straight' guy is the Golden Goose for a lot of guys

Would bi couples be of intetest to you or are you looking for a 1 on 1 initially ?

I have lots of body pics on my profile and my thinking is if we chat and like what we see firstly with a profile pic then a friends request accepted will reveal lots more of me

"

That's fair enough

I do think though, that by just having the one chest shot as a profile pic will narrow interest down for you

Most members won't friends request on a hunch or a whim

Most members won't direct message a profile without pics either

If you're keen to get the ball rolling, giving guys something to go with is a start

Many guys in a similar position won't be able to accom either as many will be in an existing relationship

That is likely to be another stumbling block for you

Best of luck though

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By *-and-mCouple  over a year ago

Carlisle


"I was in a glory hole with a young lady and just happened to yawn at the wrong time

True story

* should read threads before commenting

Another true story lol

Yup, fraid so

Your comments were appreciated tho

Thanks

I am well past the curious stage though

I've met newly bi guys who have taken to it like a duck to water

I've had others literally sit and shake

I've had to pretty much offer counselling to others

Taking that first step can be daunting

I'll be honest and frank, I used an escort my first experience after years in the closet

I went over a decade suppressing my sexual attraction guys

Using the services of a 'professional' cut out a lot of the nerves for me, not to mention the worry of 'I like the thought of it, but will I like the practical'

That was 16/17 years ago now

I can tell you I did like it and I've never looked back

I think now Fab and the like exist, it 'hopefully' makes it a bit easier for guys in a similar position to hook up and try things out sounds like a plan , however I’m hoping this thread intrigues someone else and that ultimately there’s someone reading this thinking the same as me and messages me directly he he

You look to be in pretty good shape (based on your avatar)

Added to some of the advice given above, maybe make a few more body pics available

Sorry to say it, but cocks also work for guys (whilst deterring some lasses)

All I can speak from is personal experience and usually it's the cock shots that draw the guys out of the woodwork

Being close to Manchester and a very active gay scene, you need to be careful not to become a trophy shag for someone

Shagging a 'straight' guy is the Golden Goose for a lot of guys

Would bi couples be of intetest to you or are you looking for a 1 on 1 initially ? I have loads of gay friends and I been to Manchester loads over the years I’m a secret to everyone who knows me am I interested in bi couples ? I’m intrigued for sure tbh "

Maybe we can help we are a very open minded bi couple, message us if you are interested in some fun with!

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Bussy offers some very good advice OP - taking a back seat and waiting for potential meets to message you, especially with a sparsely populated profile, is not going reap rewards - not if, as you say, you want to meet the kind of guy that will want to chat and get to know you a little first.

Speaking as a guy open to meeting other guys one on one myself, and wanting to build a connection and chemistry before thinking about meeting, I'll be brutally honest and say that I'd skip past your profile if I came across it in a search - there's nothing to go on, no indication of your interests or what you are looking for from the site etc.

You might attract the attention of the "meet now for a BJ" brigade but I'm not sure from what you have said here that that is what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was in a glory hole with a young lady and just happened to yawn at the wrong time

True story

* should read threads before commenting

Another true story lol

Yup, fraid so

Your comments were appreciated tho

Thanks

I am well past the curious stage though

I've met newly bi guys who have taken to it like a duck to water

I've had others literally sit and shake

I've had to pretty much offer counselling to others

Taking that first step can be daunting

I'll be honest and frank, I used an escort my first experience after years in the closet

I went over a decade suppressing my sexual attraction guys

Using the services of a 'professional' cut out a lot of the nerves for me, not to mention the worry of 'I like the thought of it, but will I like the practical'

That was 16/17 years ago now

I can tell you I did like it and I've never looked back

I think now Fab and the like exist, it 'hopefully' makes it a bit easier for guys in a similar position to hook up and try things out "

I apent over 30 years in suppressing it and then another 5 vacillating between.curious and denial. It was only after a few months on the forum five years ago that I finally realised I was bi/pansexual. Ironically I haven’t practiced at all since I accepted it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was in a glory hole with a young lady and just happened to yawn at the wrong time

True story "

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By *ewtoyouXXX OP   Man  over a year ago

rochdale cowboy


"I was in a glory hole with a young lady and just happened to yawn at the wrong time

True story

* should read threads before commenting

Another true story lol

Yup, fraid so

Your comments were appreciated tho

Thanks

I am well past the curious stage though

I've met newly bi guys who have taken to it like a duck to water

I've had others literally sit and shake

I've had to pretty much offer counselling to others

Taking that first step can be daunting

I'll be honest and frank, I used an escort my first experience after years in the closet

I went over a decade suppressing my sexual attraction guys

Using the services of a 'professional' cut out a lot of the nerves for me, not to mention the worry of 'I like the thought of it, but will I like the practical'

That was 16/17 years ago now

I can tell you I did like it and I've never looked back

I think now Fab and the like exist, it 'hopefully' makes it a bit easier for guys in a similar position to hook up and try things out

I apent over 30 years in suppressing it and then another 5 vacillating between.curious and denial. It was only after a few months on the forum five years ago that I finally realised I was bi/pansexual. Ironically I haven’t practiced at all since I accepted it "

.

Well I’m here to learn and experience

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By *tephTV67TV/TS  over a year ago

Cheshire

Dressing service in Manchester, she was a Tgirl as well. After she applied makeup etc.. on me, I was flouncing around in a wedding dress, then next thing I was performing oral on her. Felt good and slightly scary at the same time, we tried anal on me but I couldn't relax and she was very big

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was in a glory hole with a young lady and just happened to yawn at the wrong time

True story

* should read threads before commenting

Another true story lol

Yup, fraid so

Your comments were appreciated tho

Thanks

I am well past the curious stage though

I've met newly bi guys who have taken to it like a duck to water

I've had others literally sit and shake

I've had to pretty much offer counselling to others

Taking that first step can be daunting

I'll be honest and frank, I used an escort my first experience after years in the closet

I went over a decade suppressing my sexual attraction guys

Using the services of a 'professional' cut out a lot of the nerves for me, not to mention the worry of 'I like the thought of it, but will I like the practical'

That was 16/17 years ago now

I can tell you I did like it and I've never looked back

I think now Fab and the like exist, it 'hopefully' makes it a bit easier for guys in a similar position to hook up and try things out

I apent over 30 years in suppressing it and then another 5 vacillating between.curious and denial. It was only after a few months on the forum five years ago that I finally realised I was bi/pansexual. Ironically I haven’t practiced at all since I accepted it .

Well I’m here to learn and experience "

I wish you well- I’m sure you’ll find fellow explorers

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By *ewtoyouXXX OP   Man  over a year ago

rochdale cowboy


"I was in a glory hole with a young lady and just happened to yawn at the wrong time

True story

* should read threads before commenting

Another true story lol

Yup, fraid so

Your comments were appreciated tho

Thanks

I am well past the curious stage though

I've met newly bi guys who have taken to it like a duck to water

I've had others literally sit and shake

I've had to pretty much offer counselling to others

Taking that first step can be daunting

I'll be honest and frank, I used an escort my first experience after years in the closet

I went over a decade suppressing my sexual attraction guys

Using the services of a 'professional' cut out a lot of the nerves for me, not to mention the worry of 'I like the thought of it, but will I like the practical'

That was 16/17 years ago now

I can tell you I did like it and I've never looked back

I think now Fab and the like exist, it 'hopefully' makes it a bit easier for guys in a similar position to hook up and try things out

I apent over 30 years in suppressing it and then another 5 vacillating between.curious and denial. It was only after a few months on the forum five years ago that I finally realised I was bi/pansexual. Ironically I haven’t practiced at all since I accepted it .

Well I’m here to learn and experience

I wish you well- I’m sure you’ll find fellow explorers "

well I’m hoping so

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By *ewtoyouXXX OP   Man  over a year ago

rochdale cowboy

Anyone close to Oldham interested?

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