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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been a long time since ive been on a first date!
Are flowers still acceptable xx"
Where's the date ? What's the plan ?
Context might help in deciding appropriate gestures |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been a long time since ive been on a first date!
Are flowers still acceptable xx
Where's the date ? What's the plan ?
Context might help in deciding appropriate gestures "
Also, do you know them ?
How long have you chatted for ?
Do you know them well enough to know what they might appreciate ?
Is this someone you have me in everyday life, off the net or off here ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"First date from where? Where are you going? What will you be doing?
I'd be fed up having to cart a bouquet round on a country walk or sit in a restaurant with them."
I was thinking just the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it’s a lovely idea. Someone from here brought me some once and another brought over wine and chocolate to cheer me up when I was feeling rubbish.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"First date from where? Where are you going? What will you be doing?
I'd be fed up having to cart a bouquet round on a country walk or sit in a restaurant with them."
Ive known her for years and im picking her up from home so she can drop them inside first! |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"First date from where? Where are you going? What will you be doing?
I'd be fed up having to cart a bouquet round on a country walk or sit in a restaurant with them.
Ive known her for years and im picking her up from home so she can drop them inside first!"
Is she a Fabber? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"First date from where? Where are you going? What will you be doing?
I'd be fed up having to cart a bouquet round on a country walk or sit in a restaurant with them.
Ive known her for years and im picking her up from home so she can drop them inside first!"
Then buy her some bright flowers. |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"First date from where? Where are you going? What will you be doing?
I'd be fed up having to cart a bouquet round on a country walk or sit in a restaurant with them.
Ive known her for years and im picking her up from home so she can drop them inside first!
Then buy her some bright flowers."
Or some lovely spring flowers? |
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"First date from where? Where are you going? What will you be doing?
I'd be fed up having to cart a bouquet round on a country walk or sit in a restaurant with them.
Ive known her for years and im picking her up from home so she can drop them inside first!"
Then buy her some if you want to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You should get her a simple yet tasteful bouquet of summer flowers. Nothing too over the top but a simple but thoughtful gesture.
Which has got me thinking, what would be the idea gift to give to a lady on a fab first meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You should get her a simple yet tasteful bouquet of summer flowers. Nothing too over the top but a simple but thoughtful gesture.
Which has got me thinking, what would be the idea gift to give to a lady on a fab first meet? "
Anal hook? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ferrero Rocher and I'm all yours
I’m going to write that down haha
Be my guest "
I ask because I’m meeting someone for the first time tonight so am thinking maybe a little something for them to enjoy after the date |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ferrero Rocher and I'm all yours
I’m going to write that down haha
Be my guest
I ask because I’m meeting someone for the first time tonight so am thinking maybe a little something for them to enjoy after the date "
Me and my fabber enjoyed it during our date  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ferrero Rocher and I'm all yours
I’m going to write that down haha
Be my guest
I ask because I’m meeting someone for the first time tonight so am thinking maybe a little something for them to enjoy after the date
Me and my fabber enjoyed it during our date "
Well if I’m ever lucky enough to get a date with you I’ll make sure to bring the big variety box haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ferrero Rocher and I'm all yours
I’m going to write that down haha
Be my guest
I ask because I’m meeting someone for the first time tonight so am thinking maybe a little something for them to enjoy after the date
Me and my fabber enjoyed it during our date
Well if I’m ever lucky enough to get a date with you I’ll make sure to bring the big variety box haha "
Haha he brought exactly that and a big Toblerone on his next visit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ferrero Rocher and I'm all yours
I’m going to write that down haha
Be my guest
I ask because I’m meeting someone for the first time tonight so am thinking maybe a little something for them to enjoy after the date
Me and my fabber enjoyed it during our date
Well if I’m ever lucky enough to get a date with you I’ll make sure to bring the big variety box haha
Haha he brought exactly that and a big Toblerone on his next visit "
Surprised he doesn’t just get you a day out to Cadbury’s world! |
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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago
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"Ferrero Rocher and I'm all yours
I’m going to write that down haha
Be my guest
I ask because I’m meeting someone for the first time tonight so am thinking maybe a little something for them to enjoy after the date "
That’s a lovely thought but if a guy turned up with a gift for me on a first fab meet I’d feel awkward.
The best thing you can do is turn up on time, clean and smelling great, with a great big smile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ferrero Rocher and I'm all yours
I’m going to write that down haha
Be my guest
I ask because I’m meeting someone for the first time tonight so am thinking maybe a little something for them to enjoy after the date
That’s a lovely thought but if a guy turned up with a gift for me on a first fab meet I’d feel awkward.
The best thing you can do is turn up on time, clean and smelling great, with a great big smile "
Thankyou for the advice, just recently got in after purchasing new shoes and a new cologne haha.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As you've said it's not a fab date, it's someone you've known for years, I think it's a lovely idea. Have a great night "
Even if it was a fab date, it would still be a nice gesture if he liked her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As you've said it's not a fab date, it's someone you've known for years, I think it's a lovely idea. Have a great night
Even if it was a fab date, it would still be a nice gesture if he liked her. "
Totally.. as much as some would say otherwise.. I'd be made up if someone brought me flowers!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As you've said it's not a fab date, it's someone you've known for years, I think it's a lovely idea. Have a great night
Even if it was a fab date, it would still be a nice gesture if he liked her.
Totally.. as much as some would say otherwise.. I'd be made up if someone brought me flowers!! "
I would prefer an Easter egg this weekend though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As you've said it's not a fab date, it's someone you've known for years, I think it's a lovely idea. Have a great night
Even if it was a fab date, it would still be a nice gesture if he liked her.
Totally.. as much as some would say otherwise.. I'd be made up if someone brought me flowers!!
I would prefer an Easter egg this weekend though "
*waits for queue of men offering you chocolate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As you've said it's not a fab date, it's someone you've known for years, I think it's a lovely idea. Have a great night
Even if it was a fab date, it would still be a nice gesture if he liked her.
Totally.. as much as some would say otherwise.. I'd be made up if someone brought me flowers!!
I would prefer an Easter egg this weekend though
*waits for queue of men offering you chocolate "
Looks like Lola has more of a love affair with tasteful lingerie and vintage attire than chocolate! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As you've said it's not a fab date, it's someone you've known for years, I think it's a lovely idea. Have a great night
Even if it was a fab date, it would still be a nice gesture if he liked her.
Totally.. as much as some would say otherwise.. I'd be made up if someone brought me flowers!!
I would prefer an Easter egg this weekend though
*waits for queue of men offering you chocolate
Looks like Lola has more of a love affair with tasteful lingerie and vintage attire than chocolate! "
A simple creme egg goes a long way with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As you've said it's not a fab date, it's someone you've known for years, I think it's a lovely idea. Have a great night
Even if it was a fab date, it would still be a nice gesture if he liked her.
Totally.. as much as some would say otherwise.. I'd be made up if someone brought me flowers!!
I would prefer an Easter egg this weekend though
*waits for queue of men offering you chocolate
Looks like Lola has more of a love affair with tasteful lingerie and vintage attire than chocolate!
A simple creme egg goes a long way with me. "
I’m more Hotel Chocolate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As you've said it's not a fab date, it's someone you've known for years, I think it's a lovely idea. Have a great night
Even if it was a fab date, it would still be a nice gesture if he liked her.
Totally.. as much as some would say otherwise.. I'd be made up if someone brought me flowers!!
I would prefer an Easter egg this weekend though
*waits for queue of men offering you chocolate
Looks like Lola has more of a love affair with tasteful lingerie and vintage attire than chocolate!
A simple creme egg goes a long way with me. "
Bet you’re in heaven at the moment! You loves a creme egg don’t you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As you've said it's not a fab date, it's someone you've known for years, I think it's a lovely idea. Have a great night
Even if it was a fab date, it would still be a nice gesture if he liked her.
Totally.. as much as some would say otherwise.. I'd be made up if someone brought me flowers!!
I would prefer an Easter egg this weekend though
*waits for queue of men offering you chocolate
Looks like Lola has more of a love affair with tasteful lingerie and vintage attire than chocolate!
A simple creme egg goes a long way with me.
Bet you’re in heaven at the moment! You loves a creme egg don’t you! "
Not had one for weeks. Someone sent me a video of a guy hiding one in his foreskin and popping it out and it’s put me off the last week. I will get over it very soon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As you've said it's not a fab date, it's someone you've known for years, I think it's a lovely idea. Have a great night
Even if it was a fab date, it would still be a nice gesture if he liked her.
Totally.. as much as some would say otherwise.. I'd be made up if someone brought me flowers!!
I would prefer an Easter egg this weekend though
*waits for queue of men offering you chocolate
Looks like Lola has more of a love affair with tasteful lingerie and vintage attire than chocolate!
A simple creme egg goes a long way with me.
I’m more Hotel Chocolate. "
I’ve been to the hotel for lunch in St Lucia. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As you've said it's not a fab date, it's someone you've known for years, I think it's a lovely idea. Have a great night
Even if it was a fab date, it would still be a nice gesture if he liked her.
Totally.. as much as some would say otherwise.. I'd be made up if someone brought me flowers!!
I would prefer an Easter egg this weekend though
*waits for queue of men offering you chocolate
Looks like Lola has more of a love affair with tasteful lingerie and vintage attire than chocolate!
A simple creme egg goes a long way with me.
Bet you’re in heaven at the moment! You loves a creme egg don’t you!
Not had one for weeks. Someone sent me a video of a guy hiding one in his foreskin and popping it out and it’s put me off the last week. I will get over it very soon. "
Ewwwwww  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a date, but a very early social for me on Fab
We had been due to meet on the Saturday at a lovely bakery
I can't remember why, but it never happened and we actually ended up meeting on the Sunday in a McDonalds
I did, however, go to the bakery on the Saturday and bought a selection of cakes
I took them with me on the Sunday and, at the end of the social, gave her the cakes in a way that said 'you don't need to miss out on yesterday completely'
Glad to report several (cough) years down the line, she's still a Fab friend |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"BTW OP, let us know how it went
We're a right bunch of nosey fkers in here "
Flowers are lovely Op. As are chocolates. If it's tonight, definitely do Easter themed ones. I was really touched when a social had bought me a book of one of our mutual favourite authors we had been discussing. I hope you have a lovely date! |
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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago
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"Not a date, but a very early social for me on Fab
We had been due to meet on the Saturday at a lovely bakery
I can't remember why, but it never happened and we actually ended up meeting on the Sunday in a McDonalds
I did, however, go to the bakery on the Saturday and bought a selection of cakes
I took them with me on the Sunday and, at the end of the social, gave her the cakes in a way that said 'you don't need to miss out on yesterday completely'
Glad to report several (cough) years down the line, she's still a Fab friend "
What a lovely and very thoughtful thing to do |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"As you've said it's not a fab date, it's someone you've known for years, I think it's a lovely idea. Have a great night
Even if it was a fab date, it would still be a nice gesture if he liked her. "
This |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"BTW OP, let us know how it went
We're a right bunch of nosey fkers in here
Flowers are lovely Op. As are chocolates. If it's tonight, definitely do Easter themed ones. I was really touched when a social had bought me a book of one of our mutual favourite authors we had been discussing. I hope you have a lovely date!"
Went well asked her if she had been to a few places an she said she hadn’t so should i just surprise her an tell her to be ready on such a date an take her? Or should i ask whether she wants to come? Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Initial reaction was to take the piss but then I thought about it, and I think any gesture like that would be great as long as its genuine and thoughtful. Whenever I've bought flowers for a girl they've gone down really well, initially they can be a bit embarrassed, but who wouldn't want to know that a guy has put some thought into meeting you and is genuinely enthusiastic...
Good luck buddy  |
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