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Changed your mind about your sexuality?
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over a year ago
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Almost. I thought about it for years. Tried it a lot in my early 40s. Some was delicious. A lot wasn't. My favourite now are ladyboys but I don't think their type were available in Southampton back in the 80s? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone ever thought they might be bisexual, tried it for real, and decided that they aren't, but are glad they tried it anyway ?"
People try allsorts of things then realise they do or don't like it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How can someone not know what sexuality they are? I am not criticising, just trying to understand. I have only ever been attracted to women, so I have always known I am heterosexual."
Easy I’d say. Some straight men are attracted to the beautiful T girls so may question their sexuality. For years I wondered what it would be like to go with a woman but never did until recently. I think fab can make you think differently too. There’s lots of things I thought I’d never do before joining here which I’m now more open to maybe trying. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"How can someone not know what sexuality they are? I am not criticising, just trying to understand. I have only ever been attracted to women, so I have always known I am heterosexual.
Easy I’d say. Some straight men are attracted to the beautiful T girls so may question their sexuality. For years I wondered what it would be like to go with a woman but never did until recently. I think fab can make you think differently too. There’s lots of things I thought I’d never do before joining here which I’m now more open to maybe trying. "
 I didn't realise I found men attractive until several years of dating and having sex with women only. Sexuality can change easily. |
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"How can someone not know what sexuality they are? I am not criticising, just trying to understand. I have only ever been attracted to women, so I have always known I am heterosexual.
Easy I’d say. Some straight men are attracted to the beautiful T girls so may question their sexuality. For years I wondered what it would be like to go with a woman but never did until recently. I think fab can make you think differently too. There’s lots of things I thought I’d never do before joining here which I’m now more open to maybe trying. "
If you had wondered what it was like to go with a woman, wouldn't that mean you were/are bisexual? |
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"How can someone not know what sexuality they are? I am not criticising, just trying to understand. I have only ever been attracted to women, so I have always known I am heterosexual.
Easy I’d say. Some straight men are attracted to the beautiful T girls so may question their sexuality. For years I wondered what it would be like to go with a woman but never did until recently. I think fab can make you think differently too. There’s lots of things I thought I’d never do before joining here which I’m now more open to maybe trying.
I didn't realise I found men attractive until several years of dating and having sex with women only. Sexuality can change easily."
Fair enough. I am learning something today. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How can someone not know what sexuality they are? I am not criticising, just trying to understand. I have only ever been attracted to women, so I have always known I am heterosexual.
Easy I’d say. Some straight men are attracted to the beautiful T girls so may question their sexuality. For years I wondered what it would be like to go with a woman but never did until recently. I think fab can make you think differently too. There’s lots of things I thought I’d never do before joining here which I’m now more open to maybe trying.
If you had wondered what it was like to go with a woman, wouldn't that mean you were/are bisexual?"
Bi curious probably. Now I have am i bisexual? I don’t know. Like I said it was fun but wouldn’t bother me if it never happened again. This is why I’m not keen on labels. |
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"How can someone not know what sexuality they are? I am not criticising, just trying to understand. I have only ever been attracted to women, so I have always known I am heterosexual."
I was strictly heterosexual till my early 20s, then I saw a Transvestite porn film (soft core) in which a guy crossdressed and ended up snogging a guy and giving him oral. My erection sort of indicated my emerging bisexuality |
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"How can someone not know what sexuality they are? I am not criticising, just trying to understand. I have only ever been attracted to women, so I have always known I am heterosexual."
Generally speaking, most people are brought up to think heterosexuality is the norm. I certainly was and regularly had girlfriends. And a wife. Then I moved away, found a male friend who became a lover and realised my sexuality wasn't as straight forward as I thought. I now "label" myself as bisexual and don't give it a second thought. I can't be certain if my sexuality has changed or was previously just repressed but I try not to be too analytical about it. I'm a happier person for straying from the "norm" |
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