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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Twice in one thread it was suggested that some people "maybe shouldn't be on the site" if they have low self esteem.

So twisting it round then who should be here? What kind of people should be encouraged to join and to stay?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had low self estime before now im like my ego

Everyone should be forsed to stay forever

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People who don't take themselves too seriously.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nutters should stay. If you like self harm and appreciate narcissistic arseholes, pull up a fab chair....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think there should be tit dimension requirements....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cock pics fo sho

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nutters should stay. If you like self harm and appreciate narcissistic arseholes, pull up a fab chair.... "
haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ppl who agree with me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My friends/friend

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

The rich and gullible.

They can stay. I'll be the gatekeeper.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not my family

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By *valanche1001Man over a year ago

Leeds

I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ppl making empty harmless death threats and with freaky fantasies. They make my day.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ppl with talc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ppl without talc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OK my lunch is over I'm gong back to the office....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic "

a verified pic of what ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ppl who agree with me "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If your crazy - stay

Funny -stay

Dominant - please stay

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Quiet honestly, I don't care I enjoy myself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Authentic peeps can stay

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tbh, think it should be just Rubi and I, but I already have that on WhatsApp, so maybe fab should just be closed..... Idk... * shrug *

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Authentic peeps can stay

Define that?

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By *valanche1001Man over a year ago

Leeds

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic

a verified pic of what ?"

Face with any luck. At least confirms you’re talking with a genuine member who is who they claim to be.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic "

So, which males are you going to cull?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ppl who agree with me

Your tits can stay....

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Ppl without talc "

I don't use talc.

Slopes off to find the delete profile page.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic "

I thought that was already the case these days?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Tbh, think it should be just Rubi and I, but I already have that on WhatsApp, so maybe fab should just be closed..... Idk... * shrug *"

I don't want to be stuck alone with you forever

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ppl without talc

I don't use talc.

Slopes off to find the delete profile page.

See the other reply, with or without is fine.....

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic

a verified pic of what ?

Face with any luck. At least confirms you’re talking with a genuine member who is who they claim to be."

It just confirms they have a way of verifying a picture. Who they claim to be is another matter entirely.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There should b someone for everyone and fuck the rest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Tbh, think it should be just Rubi and I, but I already have that on WhatsApp, so maybe fab should just be closed..... Idk... * shrug *

I don't want to be stuck alone with you forever

Really???

But I thought.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic

So, which males are you going to cull?

Can we please have them parade around us in their speedos and throw rotten tomatoes at the ones we don't want?

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By *anana JoeMan over a year ago

Sheffield

I don't really think any of us have the right to say someone shouldn't be here doing so just shows a lack of tolerance to others.

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By *valanche1001Man over a year ago

Leeds

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic

a verified pic of what ?

Face with any luck. At least confirms you’re talking with a genuine member who is who they claim to be.

It just confirms they have a way of verifying a picture. Who they claim to be is another matter entirely.

That’s very true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Authentic peeps can stay

Define that? "

Those who are who they portray to be, those who don't mask their true inner workings.

If you're a head case, don't be afraid to own it - I'm not

But then again, there are people who are weasels, they don't show their weaselness, so I guess that's what makes them weasely.... so they are being authentically themselves.

That's a bit deep that.

Just be what you say on the tin is what I'm on about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Tbh, think it should be just Rubi and I, but I already have that on WhatsApp, so maybe fab should just be closed..... Idk... * shrug *

I don't want to be stuck alone with you forever

Really???

But I thought.......

You know you'd never keep up! And I'd miss boobs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Tbh, think it should be just Rubi and I, but I already have that on WhatsApp, so maybe fab should just be closed..... Idk... * shrug *

I don't want to be stuck alone with you forever

Really???

But I thought.......

You know you'd never keep up! And I'd miss boobs

What are we jogging or jigging???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Who are you to judge ?

Should couples be on here in a last ditch attempt to save their marriage?

Should single men and women be here because the can’t pull in the real world ?

Should the sex addicts and kinksters be here?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who are you to judge ?

Should couples be on here in a last ditch attempt to save their marriage?

Should single men and women be here because the can’t pull in the real world ?

No....

Should the sex addicts and kinksters be here?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh ffs, NOOOO.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Tbh, think it should be just Rubi and I, but I already have that on WhatsApp, so maybe fab should just be closed..... Idk... * shrug *"

Humblebrag

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic

a verified pic of what ?

Face with any luck. At least confirms you’re talking with a genuine member who is who they claim to be."

Not unless admin came to my house, checked out my birth cert and passport it doesn't.

It would def be a human face tho.

I never get why people think that a face pic makes them more 'genuine'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can someone please get angry? I can't do it all on my own.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Tbh, think it should be just Rubi and I, but I already have that on WhatsApp, so maybe fab should just be closed..... Idk... * shrug *

Humblebrag

Thats the spirit!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Who are you to judge ?

Should couples be on here in a last ditch attempt to save their marriage?

Should single men and women be here because the can’t pull in the real world ?

Should the sex addicts and kinksters be here?

To be totally honest...... of course they should. Goddamn!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Can someone please get angry? I can't do it all on my own.....

Rarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"There should b someone for everyone and fuck the rest "

That sounds like my sort of party.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Slim hot people who will fuck anyone who asks. Aged 21 to 35, full head of hair but none anywhere else.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can someone please get angry? I can't do it all on my own.....

Rarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr"

Now we're cooking.....

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic

So, which males are you going to cull?

Can we please have them parade around us in their speedos and throw rotten tomatoes at the ones we don't want? "

We need an attitude test too. Some of the pretty looking ones have ugly ways.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

The ugly

They will never be able to pick up anyone hot in the outside world with someone else’s pic sellotaped to their face.....

Works a treat here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You ppl don't know what day you're born..... .....even when ppl deliberately want to mess with you, aka making this post, you still can't get it right.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Who are you to judge ?

Should couples be on here in a last ditch attempt to save their marriage?

Should single men and women be here because the can’t pull in the real world ?

Should the sex addicts and kinksters be here?

That's kinda my point. If we're dictating who shouldn't be here then I figure everyone has a gripe about something so eventually there would be no one left.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

I probably shouldn't be. I'm too cute and young for here and I'm kind of sorted for at least a few years of great fucking now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic

So, which males are you going to cull?

Can we please have them parade around us in their speedos and throw rotten tomatoes at the ones we don't want?

We need an attitude test too. Some of the pretty looking ones have ugly ways.

We'll bring some kittens. I think you can judge someone's personality by how they react to cute baby animals.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I probably shouldn't be. I'm too cute and young for here and I'm kind of sorted for at least a few years of great fucking now. "

But your quim is that of legend and brings new users from far and wide just to admire it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The ugly

They will never be able to pick up anyone hot in the outside world with someone else’s pic sellotaped to their face.....

Works a treat here"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic

So, which males are you going to cull?

Can we please have them parade around us in their speedos and throw rotten tomatoes at the ones we don't want?

We need an attitude test too. Some of the pretty looking ones have ugly ways.

We'll bring some kittens. I think you can judge someone's personality by how they react to cute baby animals. "

Baby animals? Pleeeeeeeeease please pleeeeaaaaaaase bring some

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The kinda people that should be here are like OP Rubi is just lovely

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The kinda people that should be here are like OP Rubi is just lovely

Back off from my arse a bit love!

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"I probably shouldn't be. I'm too cute and young for here and I'm kind of sorted for at least a few years of great fucking now.

But your quim is that of legend and brings new users from far and wide just to admire it.

I adore you loveable daftie.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic

So, which males are you going to cull?

Can we please have them parade around us in their speedos and throw rotten tomatoes at the ones we don't want?

We need an attitude test too. Some of the pretty looking ones have ugly ways.

We'll bring some kittens. I think you can judge someone's personality by how they react to cute baby animals. "

Just don't hurt the kittens for being cute. I know what you're like.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I probably shouldn't be. I'm too cute and young for here and I'm kind of sorted for at least a few years of great fucking now. "

And modest

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic

So, which males are you going to cull?

Can we please have them parade around us in their speedos and throw rotten tomatoes at the ones we don't want?

We need an attitude test too. Some of the pretty looking ones have ugly ways.

We'll bring some kittens. I think you can judge someone's personality by how they react to cute baby animals.

Baby animals? Pleeeeeeeeease please pleeeeaaaaaaase bring some

See! And we all know Peach is lovely. Her reaction is a marker for all!

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By *ancardiff7Man over a year ago

Near Cowbridge

Probably not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My self esteem comes and goes so does that mean I need to deactivate when I feel shitty about myself then reactivate when I feel good? Haha

The only people I think shouldn't be on it are the creepy aggressive types haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic

So, which males are you going to cull?

Can we please have them parade around us in their speedos and throw rotten tomatoes at the ones we don't want?

We need an attitude test too. Some of the pretty looking ones have ugly ways.

We'll bring some kittens. I think you can judge someone's personality by how they react to cute baby animals.

Just don't hurt the kittens for being cute. I know what you're like."

I will stay away from the kittens

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic

So, which males are you going to cull?

Can we please have them parade around us in their speedos and throw rotten tomatoes at the ones we don't want?

We need an attitude test too. Some of the pretty looking ones have ugly ways.

We'll bring some kittens. I think you can judge someone's personality by how they react to cute baby animals.

Just don't hurt the kittens for being cute. I know what you're like."

We might also need antihistamines.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic

So, which males are you going to cull?

Can we please have them parade around us in their speedos and throw rotten tomatoes at the ones we don't want?

We need an attitude test too. Some of the pretty looking ones have ugly ways.

We'll bring some kittens. I think you can judge someone's personality by how they react to cute baby animals.

Just don't hurt the kittens for being cute. I know what you're like.

I will stay away from the kittens

Wait, does that mean you'll stay away from me too?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic

So, which males are you going to cull?

Can we please have them parade around us in their speedos and throw rotten tomatoes at the ones we don't want?

We need an attitude test too. Some of the pretty looking ones have ugly ways.

We'll bring some kittens. I think you can judge someone's personality by how they react to cute baby animals.

Just don't hurt the kittens for being cute. I know what you're like.

We might also need antihistamines.

I'll just look after all the kittens

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic

So, which males are you going to cull?

Can we please have them parade around us in their speedos and throw rotten tomatoes at the ones we don't want?

We need an attitude test too. Some of the pretty looking ones have ugly ways.

We'll bring some kittens. I think you can judge someone's personality by how they react to cute baby animals.

Just don't hurt the kittens for being cute. I know what you're like.

We might also need antihistamines.

I'll just look after all the kittens"

Is this a ploy to have every other male tomatoed leaving you the sole Fab male?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"My self esteem comes and goes so does that mean I need to deactivate when I feel shitty about myself then reactivate when I feel good? Haha

The only people I think shouldn't be on it are the creepy aggressive types haha

Show me your ARSE covered in sexy smarties..... RIGHT NOW RIGHT HERE!

Creepy enough ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic

So, which males are you going to cull?

Can we please have them parade around us in their speedos and throw rotten tomatoes at the ones we don't want?

We need an attitude test too. Some of the pretty looking ones have ugly ways.

We'll bring some kittens. I think you can judge someone's personality by how they react to cute baby animals.

Baby animals? Pleeeeeeeeease please pleeeeaaaaaaase bring some

See! And we all know Peach is lovely. Her reaction is a marker for all! "

My need to snuggle fur babies.... It's hitting maximum and I may need to you tube baby animals doing cuteness. Ohhhh the sneezing puppy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic

So, which males are you going to cull?

Can we please have them parade around us in their speedos and throw rotten tomatoes at the ones we don't want?

We need an attitude test too. Some of the pretty looking ones have ugly ways.

We'll bring some kittens. I think you can judge someone's personality by how they react to cute baby animals.

Just don't hurt the kittens for being cute. I know what you're like.

I will stay away from the kittens

Wait, does that mean you'll stay away from me too?"

If you want me to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic

So, which males are you going to cull?

Can we please have them parade around us in their speedos and throw rotten tomatoes at the ones we don't want?

We need an attitude test too. Some of the pretty looking ones have ugly ways.

We'll bring some kittens. I think you can judge someone's personality by how they react to cute baby animals.

Just don't hurt the kittens for being cute. I know what you're like.

We might also need antihistamines.

I'll just look after all the kittens

Is this a ploy to have every other male tomatoed leaving you the sole Fab male?

No, I just want to look after the kittens. Being the only male sounds exhausting.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic

So, which males are you going to cull?

Can we please have them parade around us in their speedos and throw rotten tomatoes at the ones we don't want?

We need an attitude test too. Some of the pretty looking ones have ugly ways.

We'll bring some kittens. I think you can judge someone's personality by how they react to cute baby animals.

Just don't hurt the kittens for being cute. I know what you're like.

I will stay away from the kittens

Wait, does that mean you'll stay away from me too?

If you want me to

No, I don't. Just try not to hurt me too much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic

So, which males are you going to cull?

Can we please have them parade around us in their speedos and throw rotten tomatoes at the ones we don't want?

We need an attitude test too. Some of the pretty looking ones have ugly ways.

We'll bring some kittens. I think you can judge someone's personality by how they react to cute baby animals.

Just don't hurt the kittens for being cute. I know what you're like.

We might also need antihistamines.

I'll just look after all the kittens

Is this a ploy to have every other male tomatoed leaving you the sole Fab male?

Fabswinglander-there can be only one!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic

So, which males are you going to cull?

Can we please have them parade around us in their speedos and throw rotten tomatoes at the ones we don't want?

We need an attitude test too. Some of the pretty looking ones have ugly ways.

We'll bring some kittens. I think you can judge someone's personality by how they react to cute baby animals.

Just don't hurt the kittens for being cute. I know what you're like.

I will stay away from the kittens

Wait, does that mean you'll stay away from me too?

If you want me to

No, I don't. Just try not to hurt me too much."

I promise not to send you home dead

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic

So, which males are you going to cull?

Can we please have them parade around us in their speedos and throw rotten tomatoes at the ones we don't want?

We need an attitude test too. Some of the pretty looking ones have ugly ways.

We'll bring some kittens. I think you can judge someone's personality by how they react to cute baby animals.

Just don't hurt the kittens for being cute. I know what you're like.

We might also need antihistamines.

I'll just look after all the kittens

Is this a ploy to have every other male tomatoed leaving you the sole Fab male?

No, I just want to look after the kittens. Being the only male sounds exhausting. "

Can we share them? I can be their big snuggle sister

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic

So, which males are you going to cull?

Can we please have them parade around us in their speedos and throw rotten tomatoes at the ones we don't want?

We need an attitude test too. Some of the pretty looking ones have ugly ways.

We'll bring some kittens. I think you can judge someone's personality by how they react to cute baby animals.

Just don't hurt the kittens for being cute. I know what you're like.

I will stay away from the kittens

Wait, does that mean you'll stay away from me too?

If you want me to

No, I don't. Just try not to hurt me too much.

I promise not to send you home dead

That's very sweet of you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic

So, which males are you going to cull?

Can we please have them parade around us in their speedos and throw rotten tomatoes at the ones we don't want?

We need an attitude test too. Some of the pretty looking ones have ugly ways.

We'll bring some kittens. I think you can judge someone's personality by how they react to cute baby animals.

Just don't hurt the kittens for being cute. I know what you're like.

We might also need antihistamines.

I'll just look after all the kittens

Is this a ploy to have every other male tomatoed leaving you the sole Fab male?

No, I just want to look after the kittens. Being the only male sounds exhausting.

Can we share them? I can be their big snuggle sister

As it's you, of course.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'll just look after all the kittens

Is this a ploy to have every other male tomatoed leaving you the sole Fab male?

Fabswinglander-there can be only one! "

That has made be

more than it should have.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m not sure about a ‘type’ but it couldn’t harm to even up the ratio of male to female on here!

Wouldn’t mind at all if everyone was required to have a verified pic, even if they didn't choose to show it. - sorry I know I’m going off-topic

So, which males are you going to cull?

Can we please have them parade around us in their speedos and throw rotten tomatoes at the ones we don't want?

We need an attitude test too. Some of the pretty looking ones have ugly ways.

We'll bring some kittens. I think you can judge someone's personality by how they react to cute baby animals.

Just don't hurt the kittens for being cute. I know what you're like.

We might also need antihistamines.

I'll just look after all the kittens

Is this a ploy to have every other male tomatoed leaving you the sole Fab male?

No, I just want to look after the kittens. Being the only male sounds exhausting.

Can we share them? I can be their big snuggle sister

As it's you, of course. "

yaaaaaaaaaaaaaay

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Last I looked the place was open to all (unless you've committed the cardinal sin and upset admin so much that you're perma-blocked) and that is part of the joy of the place - the diversity of people, tastes, wants and needs.

Sure there are some I would rather weren't here, and some that I wish would "get" the site and how it works better, and maybe a handful that with the greatest respect in the world probably aren't doing themselves any favours by being here, but in the spirit of the site and as I often say, if those people aren't impacting me (which for the most part they're not) then why shouldn't they be here?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who are you to judge ?

Should couples be on here in a last ditch attempt to save their marriage?

Should single men and women be here because the can’t pull in the real world ?

Should the sex addicts and kinksters be here?

That's kinda my point. If we're dictating who shouldn't be here then I figure everyone has a gripe about something so eventually there would be no one left. "

Everyone is entitled to be here. Sure the fakes, fantasists and trolls spoil it a little bit it’s a free public forum. What do you expect?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Last I looked the place was open to all (unless you've committed the cardinal sin and upset admin so much that you're perma-blocked) and that is part of the joy of the place - the diversity of people, tastes, wants and needs.

*Passes Gemini a kitten to stroke*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Twice in one thread it was suggested that some people "maybe shouldn't be on the site" if they have low self esteem.

So twisting it round then who should be here? What kind of people should be encouraged to join and to stay?

I think a reply someone made to a post of mine is one of the comments you're referring to. Thanks for the support.

Even if they might be right, i can't stand it when someone says " msybe you shouldn't be on here."

It's so bloody patronising and condescending.

I may not like how i look. Does that mean I should never have sex? Believe it or not i have had great sex before.

I joined for the right reasons. To chat to, and maybe meet new and interesting people who are open minded sexually. Some people up in just to post and use the forums. I think both are fine.

It's people who use this site to be nasty who need to go. There are a lot that do.

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

*Passes Gemini a kitten to stroke*"

Awwwww a cute ickle kitten all of my own? I shall love him and hug him and call him George

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By *valanche1001Man over a year ago

Leeds

"Twice in one thread it was suggested that some people "maybe shouldn't be on the site" if they have low self esteem.

So twisting it round then who should be here? What kind of people should be encouraged to join and to stay?

I think a reply someone made to a post of mine is one of the comments you're referring to. Thanks for the support.

Even if they might be right, i can't stand it when someone says " msybe you shouldn't be on here."

It's so bloody patronising and condescending.

I may not like how i look. Does that mean I should never have sex? Believe it or not i have had great sex before.

I joined for the right reasons. To chat to, and maybe meet new and interesting people who are open minded sexually. Some people up in just to post and use the forums. I think both are fine.

It's people who use this site to be nasty who need to go. There are a lot that do."

I think your attitude is spot on, bollocks to the haters. Now if you need me I’ll be in your gallery

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My self esteem comes and goes so does that mean I need to deactivate when I feel shitty about myself then reactivate when I feel good? Haha

The only people I think shouldn't be on it are the creepy aggressive types haha

Show me your ARSE covered in sexy smarties..... RIGHT NOW RIGHT HERE!

Creepy enough ?"

Nah, it's when you demand I insert them so you can lick them out it goes from aggressively unusual to aggressively creepy Haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why can’t we all just stay and be happy

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Twice in one thread it was suggested that some people "maybe shouldn't be on the site" if they have low self esteem.

So twisting it round then who should be here? What kind of people should be encouraged to join and to stay?

I think a reply someone made to a post of mine is one of the comments you're referring to. Thanks for the support.

Even if they might be right, i can't stand it when someone says " msybe you shouldn't be on here."

It's so bloody patronising and condescending.

I may not like how i look. Does that mean I should never have sex? Believe it or not i have had great sex before.

I joined for the right reasons. To chat to, and maybe meet new and interesting people who are open minded sexually. Some people up in just to post and use the forums. I think both are fine.

It's people who use this site to be nasty who need to go. There are a lot that do."

That's the thing. You yourself know why you're here and only you can judge if you're getting what you want from the site.

At the end of the day we only get to see a glimpse of someone's personality or mentality so to suddenly proclaim yourself some kind of mental health guru and dictate who can and can't stay "for their own good" is ludicrous.

Look after yourself and let others do the same.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tbag

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Tbag"

Gerbil

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By *valanche1001Man over a year ago

Leeds

Take it all back about face pics, look what just got approved as ‘my’ pic

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By *revaunanceCouple over a year ago

Exeter

I should stay because I'm paranoid.

And if I left you'll all be talking about me behind my back.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Take it all back about face pics, look what just got approved as ‘my’ pic

Who is that...lol...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Take it all back about face pics, look what just got approved as ‘my’ pic

oh Tom

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Twice in one thread it was suggested that some people "maybe shouldn't be on the site" if they have low self esteem.

So twisting it round then who should be here? What kind of people should be encouraged to join and to stay?

I think a reply someone made to a post of mine is one of the comments you're referring to. Thanks for the support.

Even if they might be right, i can't stand it when someone says " msybe you shouldn't be on here."

It's so bloody patronising and condescending.

I may not like how i look. Does that mean I should never have sex? Believe it or not i have had great sex before.

I joined for the right reasons. To chat to, and maybe meet new and interesting people who are open minded sexually. Some people up in just to post and use the forums. I think both are fine.

It's people who use this site to be nasty who need to go. There are a lot that do.

I think your attitude is spot on, bollocks to the haters. Now if you need me I’ll be in your gallery

I'll be in yours.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Take it all back about face pics, look what just got approved as ‘my’ pic

"
shocking

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By *valanche1001Man over a year ago

Leeds

Either the admin doesn’t care or I’m a close approximation of Tom Hardy!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Twice in one thread it was suggested that some people "maybe shouldn't be on the site" if they have low self esteem.

So twisting it round then who should be here? What kind of people should be encouraged to join and to stay?

I think a reply someone made to a post of mine is one of the comments you're referring to. Thanks for the support.

Even if they might be right, i can't stand it when someone says " msybe you shouldn't be on here."

It's so bloody patronising and condescending.

I may not like how i look. Does that mean I should never have sex? Believe it or not i have had great sex before.

I joined for the right reasons. To chat to, and maybe meet new and interesting people who are open minded sexually. Some people up in just to post and use the forums. I think both are fine.

It's people who use this site to be nasty who need to go. There are a lot that do.

I think your attitude is spot on, bollocks to the haters. Now if you need me I’ll be in your gallery

I'll be in yours.

Get a room

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t think anyone can tell any one if they should or should not be here I’ve been told that i shouldn’t be here because I think I’m fat if someone has bad mental ill health a comment like that could be taken the wrong way an out of concept

Mrscxxx

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By *valanche1001Man over a year ago

Leeds

"Twice in one thread it was suggested that some people "maybe shouldn't be on the site" if they have low self esteem.

So twisting it round then who should be here? What kind of people should be encouraged to join and to stay?

I think a reply someone made to a post of mine is one of the comments you're referring to. Thanks for the support.

Even if they might be right, i can't stand it when someone says " msybe you shouldn't be on here."

It's so bloody patronising and condescending.

I may not like how i look. Does that mean I should never have sex? Believe it or not i have had great sex before.

I joined for the right reasons. To chat to, and maybe meet new and interesting people who are open minded sexually. Some people up in just to post and use the forums. I think both are fine.

It's people who use this site to be nasty who need to go. There are a lot that do.

I think your attitude is spot on, bollocks to the haters. Now if you need me I’ll be in your gallery

I'll be in yours.

Careful it’s a bit murky

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is there any guidelines has to who can be here rubi? Everyone is her for the same thing , though which ever way they did is entirely there choice xx

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By *ulfilthmentMan over a year ago

Just around the corner

"Slim hot people who will fuck anyone who asks. Aged 21 to 35, full head of hair but none anywhere else. "

There seems to be a lot of females who don’t like hair up there either.

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By *ulfilthmentMan over a year ago

Just around the corner

"Everyone is her for the same thing..."

Except a quick read of the forums suggests that’s clearly not true, and some members are very vociferous about who they think are here for the ‘wrong’ reasons.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is there any guidelines has to who can be here rubi? Everyone is her for the same thing , though which ever way they did is entirely there choice xx"

But is everyone here for the same thing?

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Joking aside, I think you need to be fairly robust and resilient to survive on FAB.

If you are fragile in mental health or self esteem terms then you might find this place pretty brutal.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Joking aside, I think you need to be fairly robust and resilient to survive on FAB.

If you are fragile in mental health or self esteem terms then you might find this place pretty brutal.

yep.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

The people who come on the forums (and its mostly men) who complain they have been here years without a meet and say that its soul destroying or taken away there confidence. Why would you be somewhere thats detrimental to your mental health its like they are sadists

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Joking aside, I think you need to be fairly robust and resilient to survive on FAB.

If you are fragile in mental health or self esteem terms then you might find this place pretty brutal.

Or if you have fragile mental health or low self esteem you might just find some support. There are a lot of good people here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There is always someone who will feel the need to tell another what they must should could do....

Almost as though they know that others life as intimately as their own...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Joking aside, I think you need to be fairly robust and resilient to survive on FAB.

If you are fragile in mental health or self esteem terms then you might find this place pretty brutal.

Or if you have fragile mental health or low self esteem you might just find some support. There are a lot of good people here. "

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Joking aside, I think you need to be fairly robust and resilient to survive on FAB.

If you are fragile in mental health or self esteem terms then you might find this place pretty brutal.

Or if you have fragile mental health or low self esteem you might just find some support. There are a lot of good people here. "
theres also a lot of nasty fuckers here that will jump on anyones vulnerabilty and insecurities

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By *ust chilled out meMan over a year ago

Peterborough

Everyone has there own reasons for being on hear and everyone has their right to be on hear to

I do also think that for people with low confidence/ self esteem this place can be bad for them but everyone has to find out for themselves

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By *ust chilled out meMan over a year ago

Peterborough

"Joking aside, I think you need to be fairly robust and resilient to survive on FAB.

If you are fragile in mental health or self esteem terms then you might find this place pretty brutal.

Or if you have fragile mental health or low self esteem you might just find some support. There are a lot of good people here. theres also a lot of nasty fuckers here that will jump on anyones vulnerabilty and insecurities"

Your right there are alot of nasty vindictive people on hear but that's no different from any other site or in real life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Joking aside, I think you need to be fairly robust and resilient to survive on FAB.

If you are fragile in mental health or self esteem terms then you might find this place pretty brutal.

There are, I agree. But maybe they are the ones we should be saying shouldn't be here.

There are also alot of good people here, I like to think the good outweigh the bad.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Joking aside, I think you need to be fairly robust and resilient to survive on FAB.

If you are fragile in mental health or self esteem terms then you might find this place pretty brutal.

Your right there are alot of nasty vindictive people on hear but that's no different from any other site or in real life "
it happened right here in the forums when someone opened up just yesterday

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh the forum collective does like to tell people what they should or shouldn't do, the right and the wrong way to do things what's acceptable and what isn't. I don't think that anyone shouldn't be here, but I sure as fuck wouldn't be if I suffered with something like low self esteem etc..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Twice in one thread it was suggested that some people "maybe shouldn't be on the site" if they have low self esteem.

So twisting it round then who should be here? What kind of people should be encouraged to join and to stay?

Nymphomaniacs and men with

Micro cocks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I probably shouldn’t but I find it difficult to do what’s expected or what I’m told.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The people who come on the forums (and its mostly men) who complain they have been here years without a meet and say that its soul destroying or taken away there confidence. Why would you be somewhere thats detrimental to your mental health its like they are sadists"

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Also adults with special needs who might not fully know what they are consenting too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nobody is mentally impervious to everything we all have moments of weakness does that mean people get to tell us what we can and cannot do na fuck em

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By *ust chilled out meMan over a year ago

Peterborough

"Also adults with special needs who might not fully know what they are consenting too"

That's a very good point and could also be putting themselves is danger

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

That's the thing though. Those guys are acknowledging the fact it's bringing them down and yes I agree it probably is fair to question why they don't just leave but it's the fact that people just assume that anyone with any mental health issues will struggle when in fact as many have said already some actually thrive here because they get support and encouragement they need. "
well in that case then i shouldnt be here. However i know my illness and very very rarely have i told anyone how i feel on a daily basis. Noone knows if i havent been able to leave the house for a couple of weeks whether ive just had a 4hr panic attack or whether im sat here with tears streaming down my face as i refuse to show vulnerability people take advantage

If im too ill for the forums i just fuck off and come back when im feeling better. I think a lot of people with mental illness especially long term know their own triggers and what they can deal with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Isn’t more the intent behind the suggestion that’s misplaced as opposed to the actual advice?

When I’m feeling not on top form I’ve learnt to stay away from here, does me the world of good....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Isn’t more the intent behind the suggestion that’s misplaced as opposed to the actual advice?

When I’m feeling not on top form I’ve learnt to stay away from here, does me the world of good....

"
im opposite i like to vent here makes me feel better huuuuulk smaaaaaash better than meeting mates down the pub much cheaper too

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By *r TriomanMan over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Isn’t more the intent behind the suggestion that’s misplaced as opposed to the actual advice?

When I’m feeling not on top form I’ve learnt to stay away from here, does me the world of good....

This was how I understood it; a bit like advising someone with migrain not to go to work.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Probably not me, but sadly, looks like you're stuck with me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Joking aside, I think you need to be fairly robust and resilient to survive on FAB.

If you are fragile in mental health or self esteem terms then you might find this place pretty brutal.

I agree and there are people who would take advantage of that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Isn’t more the intent behind the suggestion that’s misplaced as opposed to the actual advice?

When I’m feeling not on top form I’ve learnt to stay away from here, does me the world of good....

This was how I understood it; a bit like advising someone with migrain not to go to work."

Yes but a migraine is a physical affliction with measurable effect. Mental health is a whole different thing which manifests in so many ways. Assuming you know what's best for someone you don't know or have any understanding of isn't the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Isn’t more the intent behind the suggestion that’s misplaced as opposed to the actual advice?

When I’m feeling not on top form I’ve learnt to stay away from here, does me the world of good....

This was how I understood it; a bit like advising someone with migrain not to go to work.

Without the context it’s hard to see what lead them to posting what they did.

Forums are all about interactions, assumptions / suggestions / differing point of _iews are all part of that. Coupled with being on a site for swinging & sex it takes a thick skin at times to be on here.

If you’re easily offended / upset by such comments then it’s worth taking a moment to think if this is the best place to be, for your own peace of mind...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Slim hot people who will fuck anyone who asks. Aged 21 to 35, full head of hair but none anywhere else.

There seems to be a lot of females who don’t like hair up there either.

Up where?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Also adults with special needs who might not fully know what they are consenting too"

Some adults in general might not fully know what they're consenting to.

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Everyone but the meek

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Did anyone crack the riddle?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldnt presume to say who should stay and who shouldn't. Given my situation, i know there are some who think I shouldn't be here, but tough shit. I'm here to stay

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldnt presume to say who should stay and who shouldn't. Given my situation, i know there are some who think I shouldn't be here, but tough shit. I'm here to stay

If you went you'd still be in our minds

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldnt presume to say who should stay and who shouldn't. Given my situation, i know there are some who think I shouldn't be here, but tough shit. I'm here to stay

If you went you'd still be in our minds

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anyone old enough should be here if they want to be, and stay for however long they see fit.

Nothing else would be natural or right.

Embrace the beauty in everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm working my way through the single men, so I'm useful.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldnt presume to say who should stay and who shouldn't. Given my situation, i know there are some who think I shouldn't be here, but tough shit. I'm here to stay

Did you join a nunnery?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldnt presume to say who should stay and who shouldn't. Given my situation, i know there are some who think I shouldn't be here, but tough shit. I'm here to stay

Did you join a nunnery?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone Rubi. There should be no prejudice or bias given to any type of person over any other. If you have low self esteem and need to be told regularly that you aren't worthless, well I'm sure there are people here that are happy to oblige. If you're full on happy with yourself and don't need people to tell you then it's all gravy. If you're fat, thin, homosexual, transexual, straight, bi, or something else, welcome, post as much as you want and try your best to enjoy yourself while you're here. No one should be telling you otherwise and anyone that does should be ignored. You do you and let everyone worry about themselves

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We all know the answer to this question really, as with all the other questions posed on this damn special forum, and it's in our unique little minds and it's not the same for everyone, right....

Peace and sorry for being deliberately a twat earlier, no offence meant but if you took any then you're very welcome

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

Everyone's entitled to be on here just like you and I Op.

Wether they choose to whine and winge on a daily basis is completely up to them.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Take it all back about face pics, look what just got approved as ‘my’ pic

My point, exactly!

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Attractive ladies with low standards should certainly be encouraged to join especially those who didn't go to specsavers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Everyone Rubi. There should be no prejudice or bias given to any type of person over any other. If you have low self esteem and need to be told regularly that you aren't worthless, well I'm sure there are people here that are happy to oblige. If you're full on happy with yourself and don't need people to tell you then it's all gravy. If you're fat, thin, homosexual, transexual, straight, bi, or something else, welcome, post as much as you want and try your best to enjoy yourself while you're here. No one should be telling you otherwise and anyone that does should be ignored. You do you and let everyone worry about themselves

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am as mad as a box of frogs so I definitely belong on here!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't really think any of us have the right to say someone shouldn't be here doing so just shows a lack of tolerance to others. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Joking aside, I think you need to be fairly robust and resilient to survive on FAB.

If you are fragile in mental health or self esteem terms then you might find this place pretty brutal.

Your right there are alot of nasty vindictive people on hear but that's no different from any other site or in real life "

They are the ones I think have low self esteem and/or poor mental health.

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By *he Mac LassWoman over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

There’s room on Fab for everyone. I quite like the variety and the different _iewpoints. It’s all terribly boring when you’re cut from the same cloth.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Joking aside, I think you need to be fairly robust and resilient to survive on FAB.

If you are fragile in mental health or self esteem terms then you might find this place pretty brutal.

Lickety came into being after the last suicidal period in my life. I found a lot of support on here, as well as being hate. The support won and I remain here for now.

I find the 'toughen up' and 'you'll need a thicker skin' responses unhelpful as those of us with thinner skins can offer strength through compassion. And hugs.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Joking aside, I think you need to be fairly robust and resilient to survive on FAB.

If you are fragile in mental health or self esteem terms then you might find this place pretty brutal.

Your right there are alot of nasty vindictive people on hear but that's no different from any other site or in real life

They are the ones I think have low self esteem and/or poor mental health. "
really? I have poor mental but im not nasty and vindictive

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nicely said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Joking aside, I think you need to be fairly robust and resilient to survive on FAB.

If you are fragile in mental health or self esteem terms then you might find this place pretty brutal.

Your right there are alot of nasty vindictive people on hear but that's no different from any other site or in real life

They are the ones I think have low self esteem and/or poor mental health. really? I have poor mental but im not nasty and vindictive

No, I was talking about the vindictive people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Joking aside, I think you need to be fairly robust and resilient to survive on FAB.

If you are fragile in mental health or self esteem terms then you might find this place pretty brutal.

Lickety came into being after the last suicidal period in my life. I found a lot of support on here, as well as being hate. The support won and I remain here for now.

I find the 'toughen up' and 'you'll need a thicker skin' responses unhelpful as those of us with thinner skins can offer strength through compassion. And hugs.

People with poor mental health can have a thick skin too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not really here. I'm just a part of the construct..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Joking aside, I think you need to be fairly robust and resilient to survive on FAB.

If you are fragile in mental health or self esteem terms then you might find this place pretty brutal.

Lickety came into being after the last suicidal period in my life. I found a lot of support on here, as well as being hate. The support won and I remain here for now.

I find the 'toughen up' and 'you'll need a thicker skin' responses unhelpful as those of us with thinner skins can offer strength through compassion. And hugs.

I also don't think think telling people with low self esteem that they shouldn't be here is going to do anything for their self worth.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Joking aside, I think you need to be fairly robust and resilient to survive on FAB.

If you are fragile in mental health or self esteem terms then you might find this place pretty brutal.

Lickety came into being after the last suicidal period in my life. I found a lot of support on here, as well as being hate. The support won and I remain here for now.

I find the 'toughen up' and 'you'll need a thicker skin' responses unhelpful as those of us with thinner skins can offer strength through compassion. And hugs.

People with poor mental health can have a thick skin too.

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and people with thick skins can show compassion as well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Joking aside, I think you need to be fairly robust and resilient to survive on FAB.

If you are fragile in mental health or self esteem terms then you might find this place pretty brutal.

Lickety came into being after the last suicidal period in my life. I found a lot of support on here, as well as being hate. The support won and I remain here for now.

I find the 'toughen up' and 'you'll need a thicker skin' responses unhelpful as those of us with thinner skins can offer strength through compassion. And hugs.

I also don't think think telling people with low self esteem that they shouldn't be here is going to do anything for their self worth. "

Agreed. They should move on and offer advice to people who ask for it. People might have their own reasons for being here, and everyone deserves a chance to meet people, even if they don't think they're amazing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No. Someone's rudely put me back on the shelf. I've been in the bargain bucket for a good three years now and not one sexy woman has offered to bring me home.

I feel like the Douche from Sausage Party.

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

I don’t think the opinions of others are relevant with this. If you feel you should be here and gain something from being here, whatever that may be, then why not be here?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This thread turned a bit mushy.... ... There's right and wrong and there's challenging opinion and mental growth.....

If everything is perfect and just so then we'd all need to be perfect and just so and what a dismal existence that would be ... Not one person here managed perfect all day today and that's why ppl are so brilliant imho....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don’t think the opinions of others are relevant with this. If you feel you should be here and gain something from being here, whatever that may be, then why not be here? "

Cracked it

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By *he Mac LassWoman over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

"No. Someone's rudely put me back on the shelf. I've been in the bargain bucket for a good three years now and not one sexy woman has offered to bring me home.

I feel like the Douche from Sausage Party."

I do like a rummage in a bargain bucket. Breast or thigh?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This thread turned a bit mushy.... ... There's right and wrong and there's challenging opinion and mental growth.....

You cracked it too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is there any guidelines has to who can be here rubi? Everyone is her for the same thing , though which ever way they did is entirely there choice xx

But is everyone here for the same thing?"

So some people arnt here for sex ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is there any guidelines has to who can be here rubi? Everyone is her for the same thing , though which ever way they did is entirely there choice xx

But is everyone here for the same thing?

So some people arnt here for sex ? "

Yes, really, even guys!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We’re all here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is there any guidelines has to who can be here rubi? Everyone is her for the same thing , though which ever way they did is entirely there choice xx

But is everyone here for the same thing?

So some people arnt here for sex ? "

I'm not. I'm here for the forums only

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