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over a year ago
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"Lets be logical if they can't (won't because everyone can) send a photo what are the chances of them turning up and how would you recognise them?
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And why would a potential meet be unwilling to show a photo of themselves ??
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I keep asking him why he wont send a photo and he says he doesnt send photos and likes to meet without any expectations; although he does have a naked pic on his profile His face is blocked out.
I just find it very strange |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s 2019, who can’t send a picture 
Oh that’s who.... Time wasting fantasists
Everyone can! Its just some won't I guess as they have something to hide. "
True, attraction is key to fun so i guess anyone who won’t send a face pic is finding it hard on here |
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"Does anyone meet without first seeing a photo of who they are meeting?"
No not normally, safety first.
I did it once, spur of the moment but that was for a pure drink in a very public place and I could see them before I even entered |
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There was a thread not long back, in which a guy was complaining about women or couples insisting on seeing a face pic before they'd message him back. Claimed he doesn't want to be seen as a piece of meat. Could be the same guy 
And to answer your question, definitely not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No chance. If we're meeting there has to be an attraction whether it's social or play.
We're not going to risk an awkward or embarrassing situation if we don't find them attractive and have to make excuses to leave. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have on two occasions.
The first time was with a guy out of my preferred age range so I didn’t think we would ever meet and it wasn’t important. We talked about everything and got on exceptionally well. The attraction grew from there until I was desperate to meet him. It felt wrong and shallow to ask him to send me a pic before meeting after we’d been chatting for so long. And by that point itbdidnt matter what he looked like. I was attracted to his personality so I met him knowing only that he had dark hair and dark eyes and a super sexy voice lol.
Turned out to be one of my hottest meets and spent a fabulous morning in a hotel room with him. And he was gorgeous! We still talk every day for hours on end sometimes and I consider him a very close and sexy friend.
Second time was a younger guy living in the village next to mine. Was only supposed to be a quick social but we quickly discovered that I knew his whole family and ended up getting on like a house on fire. |
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"Does anyone meet without first seeing a photo of who they are meeting?"
No
But as I've said before, I've had a few socials who I had no idea who I was talking to!
Rookie mistake.
Chat now on kik before any date arranged, if they can't then send a live pic.. Bye |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I keep asking him why he wont send a photo and he says he doesnt send photos and likes to meet without any expectations; although he does have a naked pic on his profile His face is blocked out.
I just find it very strange "
Why are you still chatting to him?
I'd think he just wants to wank about meeting and won't turn up.
Or he's not at all attractive and he thinks if you turn up you'll be afraid to turn him down and hurt his feelings so you'll fuck him anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Last time I did that was 15 years ago. We had a few really hot hours together in a hotel, 40 minutes after our first message in an IRC chatroom.
Wouldn’t do it now though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely not. I don’t even continue a conversation without one.
But you’ll answer a thread to one!! Ha haa "
That’s different. A private message asking me to meet is very different. |
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"I keep asking him why he wont send a photo and he says he doesnt send photos and likes to meet without any expectations; although he does have a naked pic on his profile His face is blocked out.
I just find it very strange
Why are you still chatting to him?
I'd think he just wants to wank about meeting and won't turn up.
Or he's not at all attractive and he thinks if you turn up you'll be afraid to turn him down and hurt his feelings so you'll fuck him anyway."
Not sure he'd get much of a wank out of our conversations |
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