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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

What kind of messages do people like to recieve in the first instance. Polite, straight to the point or something else?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Introduce yourself

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan  over a year ago

Northampton

Polite for me as I am also polite

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Introduce yourself"

I get that.. but do some like str8 to point or do people prefer.. hi, how are.you? Care to chat?

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By *ickygirl41Woman  over a year ago

Glasgow


"Introduce yourself

I get that.. but do some like str8 to point or do people prefer.. hi, how are.you? Care to chat?"

Polite, maybe humourous, and some indication they share interests

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Introduce yourself

I get that.. but do some like str8 to point or do people prefer.. hi, how are.you? Care to chat?"

Everyone is different but “fancy a fuck” isn’t often successful.

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

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Polite and friendly

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By *ed-monkeyCouple  over a year ago

Hailsham

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By *uciyassMan  over a year ago

sheffield

I like the original and the best

“Hi”.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Introduce yourself

I get that.. but do some like str8 to point or do people prefer.. hi, how are.you? Care to chat?

Everyone is different but “fancy a fuck” isn’t often successful. "

That's where i have been going wrong..lol

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By *ed-monkeyCouple  over a year ago

Hailsham

Oh yeah ... tell us you want to fuck us both from here to kingdom come and back again

That will get us salivating and unable to type a proper response ...

NOT!!

Hate direct and to the point as that objectifies rather than seeing us as people

Politeness never did anyone any real harm

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I like the original and the best

“Hi”. "

Doesn’t give you much to work with when that’s all they say tho.

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By *he Squire of Knotty AshMan  over a year ago

Liverpool

I would be quite happy with someone sending a message saying "oi ugly cunt want a fuck" well as long as it was from a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Open questions work, but bear in mind they might have already decided they don't want to hear from you before they even read whay you've written, do I wouldn't waste too much time crafting it, stay cheeky, short and energetic... Thick skin required if you're using pm's as your main method of communication on here....

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I go with polite and similar likes etc and it's 60/40 against... lol

I shall persist

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The best anf easiest conversations I've had on here were when I didn't care or was trying to log off and I was just offering short sarcastic almost 'piss off I'm busy' replies, it seems a lot of ladies here go for perceived confidence....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The best anf easiest conversations I've had on here were when I didn't care or was trying to log off and I was just offering short sarcastic almost 'piss off I'm busy' replies, it seems a lot of ladies here go for perceived confidence.... "

Honestly, I give up with my typing today, you know what I meant.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i like a first message to contain full bank details,sort code , current balance and pin numbers. other than that im not that fussy at all

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By *ed-monkeyCouple  over a year ago

Hailsham


"i like a first message to contain full bank details,sort code , current balance and pin numbers. other than that im not that fussy at all "

Are you a Nigerian prince????

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"i like a first message to contain full bank details,sort code , current balance and pin numbers. other than that im not that fussy at all

Are you a Nigerian prince????"

blast my covers blown err NO

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By *ed-monkeyCouple  over a year ago

Hailsham


"i like a first message to contain full bank details,sort code , current balance and pin numbers. other than that im not that fussy at all

Are you a Nigerian prince????

blast my covers blown err NO "

So it's you ... FFS man ... where's my money??? ... I donated all my funds as requested and now I'm waiting to rake in the proceeds

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

So long as the person has read my profile, it doesn't matter too much about the content.....

Unless they come across as entitled, talk about sex in a graphic manner, ask me what I'm wearing, it's a one liner, they attach a cock pic or if their profile is shit.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I always wonder what would be the consequence if ppl put this much thought into their first REPLY.....!

Just crack on and enjoy ppl....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"i like a first message to contain full bank details,sort code , current balance and pin numbers. other than that im not that fussy at all

Are you a Nigerian prince????

blast my covers blown err NO

So it's you ... FFS man ... where's my money??? ... I donated all my funds as requested and now I'm waiting to rake in the proceeds "

as componsation ill send you a rake

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Friendly and humorous I respond to well

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Friendly and humorous I respond to well "

Nice pic!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Keep it honest, but not rude.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Depends who it's from and what mood I'm in. Never crude or too generic though.

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By *om and JennieCouple  over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Read their profile first to make sure you can offer what they are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Depends who it's from and what mood I'm in. Never crude or too generic though. "

Faf....?

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I always wonder what would be the consequence if ppl put this much thought into their first REPLY.....!

Just crack on and enjoy ppl.... "

The way I see it is if they haven't put much effort into their reply then they're not interested

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always wonder what would be the consequence if ppl put this much thought into their first REPLY.....!

Just crack on and enjoy ppl....

The way I see it is if they haven't put much effort into their reply then they're not interested "

I think two ppl either spark or they don't, it's not a science, you can improve your chances but no guarantees.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The best first messages have been friendly chats on the back of a thread I've posted on. Completely non sexual and just getting to know someone.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Introduce yourself

I get that.. but do some like str8 to point or do people prefer.. hi, how are.you? Care to chat?"

For me - definitely not How are you? Or care to chat?

I like to get a sentence or two about you (not a repeat of what’s on your profile) and what you are looking for. Then the icing on the cake for me, would be a few words on how we might be compatible, then I know you’ve looked at my profile and not just my pics

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