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Do you ever get the feeling..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That some local status updates are being specifically targeted in your direction? Is it probable vanity on my part, or does this happen to others?
Feels like it's directed at me, but nobody on Fab meets smokers, so I have to stop myself from messaging to find out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only once when it actually was. Otherwise nope. Not even the ones that say "you know who you are". "
Oh that’s cause they’re all about me. I know who I am  |
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"Only once when it actually was. Otherwise nope. Not even the ones that say "you know who you are".
Oh that’s cause they’re all about me. I know who I am "
There ya go then.
I know who I am too and I'm definitely not the person "they" are talking about  |
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It doesnt happen me often, but I do see it happen a lot, for example I might see a status say "Some people look like a beached whale that caught in a fishing net in them body suits", right after someone posts a photo of themselves in a body suit.
I have never seen this specific scenario happen, I made it up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes local updates do pop up that are for you whatever the motive of the sender it does happen. It happens often enough that you notice it is a pattern. It didn't happen to me the first few months on the site but happens regularly now. It is noticeable because when you first come on site there is nothing suitable then before to long if your looking at a profile others start popping up that are to your taste. The experience is a strange one to experience and oft repeated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes local updates do pop up that are for you whatever the motive of the sender it does happen. It happens often enough that you notice it is a pattern. It didn't happen to me the first few months on the site but happens regularly now. It is noticeable because when you first come on site there is nothing suitable then before to long if your looking at a profile others start popping up that are to your taste. The experience is a strange one to experience and oft repeated. "
too long,etc.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did they say anything about the ego has landed ?
If you didn't still have me blocked, I'd take that in good humour. You do though.. so.. "
Oh I don’t keep checking that people have unblocked me it would take up most of my day. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"Unless they put my name in the status then no.
Why do you think they're not messaging you directly?
because some people want to be chased?"
Maybe. Go on, message and ask them....dare you!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ask them.......*is that status about me* answer " yes I want you" or " no you big headed plum" ......easy! "
'My Japanese Sister',that's good advice and might be a solution! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Did they say anything about the ego has landed ?
If you didn't still have me blocked, I'd take that in good humour. You do though.. so..
Oh I don’t keep checking that people have unblocked me it would take up most of my day."
 Respect. Now you can call me a big headed Cunt and I won't get grumpy about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ask them.......*is that status about me* answer " yes I want you" or " no you big headed plum" ......easy! "
I did this today when one of my friends put on her status"I'm keeping my legs closed for a special someone" I asked if it was me and she said yes it is you numpty , result |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ask them.......*is that status about me* answer " yes I want you" or " no you big headed plum" ......easy! "
I don't really care, unless they message. I like to be chased too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ask them.......*is that status about me* answer " yes I want you" or " no you big headed plum" ......easy! I did this today when one of my friends put on her status"I'm keeping my legs closed for a special someone" I asked if it was me and she said yes it is you numpty , result"
Awwww that’s lovely |
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"Ask them.......*is that status about me* answer " yes I want you" or " no you big headed plum" ......easy!
I don't really care, unless they message. I like to be chased too "
I'll chase you but rugby tackles do hurt you know.... |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I will admit, a lot of my statuses are directed at most men as a whole, but it is amazing the amount of abuse I get because they think it is aimed at them directly and personally! 
Maybe one of two, but honey, I have probably never noticed you before, so if you feel it is directed at you, then you probably show the same traits I focus are the negatives of men's actions  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I did see a ‘What’s up Doc?’ Status on a friend’s profile and even then didn’t think it was directed at me."
You are super self admittedly self deprecating though.. I on the other hand.. am awesome |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ask them.......*is that status about me* answer " yes I want you" or " no you big headed plum" ......easy! I did this today when one of my friends put on her status"I'm keeping my legs closed for a special someone" I asked if it was me and she said yes it is you numpty , result
Awwww that’s lovely "
well I'm a lovely guy lol as u know from our chats ,I chickened out of the loo challenge by the way as I thought kitchen roll was a bit boastful lol x |
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"Ask them.......*is that status about me* answer " yes I want you" or " no you big headed plum" ......easy! I did this today when one of my friends put on her status"I'm keeping my legs closed for a special someone" I asked if it was me and she said yes it is you numpty , result
Awwww that’s lovely well I'm a lovely guy lol as u know from our chats ,I chickened out of the loo challenge by the way as I thought kitchen roll was a bit boastful lol x"
Nothing like blowing your own horn is there.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I did see a ‘What’s up Doc?’ Status on a friend’s profile and even then didn’t think it was directed at me.
You are super self admittedly self deprecating though.. I on the other hand.. am awesome "
This is true. I also think I’m awesome- but I’m used to playing to an audience of one |
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"Ask them.......*is that status about me* answer " yes I want you" or " no you big headed plum" ......easy! I did this today when one of my friends put on her status"I'm keeping my legs closed for a special someone" I asked if it was me and she said yes it is you numpty , result
Awwww that’s lovely well I'm a lovely guy lol as u know from our chats ,I chickened out of the loo challenge by the way as I thought kitchen roll was a bit boastful lol x
Nothing like blowing your own horn is there.... "
Mmmm ... blowing horn  |
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"Ask them.......*is that status about me* answer " yes I want you" or " no you big headed plum" ......easy! I did this today when one of my friends put on her status"I'm keeping my legs closed for a special someone" I asked if it was me and she said yes it is you numpty , result
Awwww that’s lovely well I'm a lovely guy lol as u know from our chats ,I chickened out of the loo challenge by the way as I thought kitchen roll was a bit boastful lol x
Nothing like blowing your own horn is there....
Mmmm ... blowing horn "
Hehehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see loads of status that are aimed at me such as "there's some total dickheads on here"
I always wonder how they know that when I haven't even messaged! |
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"Ask them.......*is that status about me* answer " yes I want you" or " no you big headed plum" ......easy! I did this today when one of my friends put on her status"I'm keeping my legs closed for a special someone" I asked if it was me and she said yes it is you numpty , result
Awwww that’s lovely well I'm a lovely guy lol as u know from our chats ,I chickened out of the loo challenge by the way as I thought kitchen roll was a bit boastful lol x
Nothing like blowing your own horn is there....
Mmmm ... blowing horn
Hehehe "
Pfft ... yeah right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see loads of status that are aimed at me such as "there's some total dickheads on here"
I always wonder how they know that when I haven't even messaged! "
Ah yes the pissing on the group updates. It’s actually really aimed at a few specific people but actually drenches anyone who reads it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I did see a ‘What’s up Doc?’ Status on a friend’s profile and even then didn’t think it was directed at me.
You are super self admittedly self deprecating though.. I on the other hand.. am awesome
This is true. I also think I’m awesome- but I’m used to playing to an audience of one "
You're awesome |
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One of the things I’m really happy about is the fact that we aren’t looking at status updates , and have absolutely no interest in them .
When we did , there was nothing more cringeworthy than those who named people specifically asking them to message them . Followed closely by ‘ you know who you are ‘ , and ‘ this place is shit ‘ .
There was the odd one that we thought may relate to us , when people wrote stuff like ‘ don’t msg us if you go dogging ‘ , or ‘ won’t meet doggers ‘ . But that was cool because we knew who to block . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Someone on my friends list has a status about you
On your friends list?
Yes
I have myself as a friend
Fuck me!
It’s a very obvious update lol "
Yes, not quite as subtle or cryptic as I was describing. There will no doubt be a few Scots wondering who the fuck I am  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I did see a ‘What’s up Doc?’ Status on a friend’s profile and even then didn’t think it was directed at me.
You are super self admittedly self deprecating though.. I on the other hand.. am awesome
This is true. I also think I’m awesome- but I’m used to playing to an audience of one
You're awesome "
You are too. But shush we’ll be told to get a room soon |
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"Ask them.......*is that status about me* answer " yes I want you" or " no you big headed plum" ......easy! I did this today when one of my friends put on her status"I'm keeping my legs closed for a special someone" I asked if it was me and she said yes it is you numpty , result
Awwww that’s lovely well I'm a lovely guy lol as u know from our chats ,I chickened out of the loo challenge by the way as I thought kitchen roll was a bit boastful lol x
Nothing like blowing your own horn is there....
Mmmm ... blowing horn
Hehehe
Pfft ... yeah right "
What!?!?!?!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I did see a ‘What’s up Doc?’ Status on a friend’s profile and even then didn’t think it was directed at me.
You are super self admittedly self deprecating though.. I on the other hand.. am awesome
This is true. I also think I’m awesome- but I’m used to playing to an audience of one
You're awesome
You are too. But shush we’ll be told to get a room soon "
Hold this lamppost whilst I piss all over it would you good sir? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ask them.......*is that status about me* answer " yes I want you" or " no you big headed plum" ......easy! I did this today when one of my friends put on her status"I'm keeping my legs closed for a special someone" I asked if it was me and she said yes it is you numpty , result
Awwww that’s lovely well I'm a lovely guy lol as u know from our chats ,I chickened out of the loo challenge by the way as I thought kitchen roll was a bit boastful lol x
Nothing like blowing your own horn is there....
Mmmm ... blowing horn
Hehehe "
rather have it blown for mex |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I may be a tad curious, if the status was specific, but general stuff I wouldn't give a second thought to.
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Its just enough to tingle the curiosity cells |
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