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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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And more importantly, do you clearly communicate that to people you speak to??
Seems to me that half of the moany threads are simply a lack of communication and people with very different expectations, which obviously results in one party being unhappy.
So are you as open as you can be? Or do you avoid subjects that you may feel limits your potential meets?
I've always worked on the basis that there are many things that make me a very acquired taste. But prefer to use my profile as a filter for those not looking for my preferences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And more importantly, do you clearly communicate that to people you speak to??
Seems to me that half of the moany threads are simply a lack of communication and people with very different expectations, which obviously results in one party being unhappy.
So are you as open as you can be? Or do you avoid subjects that you may feel limits your potential meets?
I've always worked on the basis that there are many things that make me a very acquired taste. But prefer to use my profile as a filter for those not looking for my preferences. "
My profile says it all. My digital mask is up more with some than others  I know what I want out of this site and am not willing to compromise and accept anything less. Ultimately this is a tool to gain a desired outcome for me. That being great, fun times, interesting conversations and the odd meet with people who intrigued and stimulate me both mentally and physically  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We try and communicate as clearly as possible. That holds true wherever you are for you will never get what you want if you ask for something different.
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Exactly this.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't feel the need to display everything on my profile. I'm very clear about what I want when messaging though. Very few people match what I'm looking for. |
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By *iyuWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't feel the need to display everything on my profile. I'm very clear about what I want when messaging though. Very few people match what I'm looking for. "
I'm the opposite very clear on my profile what it is I want, don't seem to have too many people read it though. I am an acquired taste and I am searching more for a quality playmate rather than quantity. Luckily I thi k I've found 2 potentials |
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"I’ll say anything to get my leg over."
I'd day welcome back but we have not been introduced I'm Anabelle pleased to meet you. I'm sure the pleasure will be mine...you being a superior c**t an all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yea and we state that all on our profile. We’re well aware that what we will and won’t do severely limits the amounts of meets we have.
It’s much easier to have conversations with people who already what what you’re looking for. Saves time getting to know people only to find out we aren’t suitable for them or them for us
Mind you, that’s if they even bother to read the profile. |
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"I’ll say anything to get my leg over.
I'd day welcome back but we have not been introduced I'm Anabelle pleased to meet you. I'm sure the pleasure will be mine...you being a superior c**t an all
Nice to meet you too  "
Now the formalities are over...welcome back  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In response to the OP; I think I'm fairly clear on my profile and in my messages. Effective communication is a key point of being on here isn't it? "
Think its clearly lacking with some people with the bickering we see between people with different wants and needs where neither is wrong, but both on a different page. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And more importantly, do you clearly communicate that to people you speak to??
Seems to me that half of the moany threads are simply a lack of communication and people with very different expectations, which obviously results in one party being unhappy.
So are you as open as you can be? Or do you avoid subjects that you may feel limits your potential meets?
I've always worked on the basis that there are many things that make me a very acquired taste. But prefer to use my profile as a filter for those not looking for my preferences.
My profile says it all. My digital mask is up more with some than others I know what I want out of this site and am not willing to compromise and accept anything less. Ultimately this is a tool to gain a desired outcome for me. That being great, fun times, interesting conversations and the odd meet with people who intrigued and stimulate me both mentally and physically "
We've all had messages though from people though that are not remotely on the same page that try to impose their way of doing things and ignoring what we want.. only by being clear and consistent do we avoid confrontation on here... |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"In response to the OP; I think I'm fairly clear on my profile and in my messages. Effective communication is a key point of being on here isn't it?
Think its clearly lacking with some people with the bickering we see between people with different wants and needs where neither is wrong, but both on a different page."
I agree, it's not even about what people want. Half of the disagreements on threads occur because people don't communicate clearly. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't feel the need to display everything on my profile. I'm very clear about what I want when messaging though. Very few people match what I'm looking for. "
Do you search rather than wait to be messaged then? I'm fully filtered now so I don't constantly have to delete those I'm not looking for.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In response to the OP; I think I'm fairly clear on my profile and in my messages. Effective communication is a key point of being on here isn't it?
Think its clearly lacking with some people with the bickering we see between people with different wants and needs where neither is wrong, but both on a different page.
I agree, it's not even about what people want. Half of the disagreements on threads occur because people don't communicate clearly. "
Drives me crackers.. square peg round hole.. such basic communication would avoid so much disappointment. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So what is it you really want, porridge? Let’s get the communication flowing"
That's weird!! Was just on the phone to someone talking about porridge!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yea and we state that all on our profile. We’re well aware that what we will and won’t do severely limits the amounts of meets we have.
It’s much easier to have conversations with people who already what what you’re looking for. Saves time getting to know people only to find out we aren’t suitable for them or them for us
Mind you, that’s if they even bother to read the profile."
Ha ha yeah that's a minor detail.. drives me mad. My preferences have led to some really crappy comments in the past about my changing requirements and whether or not I should remain on this site.. but my take is that not matching the majority is just fine and any one person that does is a genuine bonus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know what I dont want rather than what I want. My profile is pretty unclear in that respect too.
Messages are where it all plays out for me, I like when I get shown something I didn't even realise I knew I wanted. |
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"I know what I dont want rather than what I want. My profile is pretty unclear in that respect too.
Messages are where it all plays out for me, I like when I get shown something I didn't even realise I knew I wanted. "
Oh I like this. There’s something to be said to being open to possibilities. Sometimes you might discover you like something you never thought or knew you needed or would enjoy... Depends on the individual and how the communication flows. Being honest is key...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I know what I dont want rather than what I want. My profile is pretty unclear in that respect too.
Messages are where it all plays out for me, I like when I get shown something I didn't even realise I knew I wanted. "
But that's your honesty so leaves you open to conversation and possibilities.. I have a mental requirement rather than a physical type but I very much know it when I see it.. but I also know I'm not interested in sharing that, which can be a very unpopular preference! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, we try to say it in a polite way but, I have to be very upfront about it in messages. Still gets us promises of we can do that, and it doesn’t happen. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've found if you're to specific on your profile you get all sorts messaging trying to fit in with what you want. I don't want that. I want someone who is themself! |
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"I know what I dont want rather than what I want. My profile is pretty unclear in that respect too.
Messages are where it all plays out for me, I like when I get shown something I didn't even realise I knew I wanted. "
I get this.
I want new experiences and am open to ideas. It is by communicating by message that these and compatibility come to light |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes, we try to say it in a polite way but, I have to be very upfront about it in messages. Still gets us promises of we can do that, and it doesn’t happen. X "
Yeah that's really annoying.. don't see what those people get out of it if they're on a different page.. surely they'd have more fun if they stuck to what suited them!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't really want anything in particular which should really make things easier since the other person can tell me what they want and then I can see if it's tempting.
In reality though a lot of people also don't know what they want so we end up just drifting into a weird confused place where no decisions are made until one of us bows out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've found if you're to specific on your profile you get all sorts messaging trying to fit in with what you want. I don't want that. I want someone who is themself!"
Yeah I've had that.. easy to spot though with messages when they're just blowing smoke.. frustrating though.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And more importantly, do you clearly communicate that to people you speak to??
Seems to me that half of the moany threads are simply a lack of communication and people with very different expectations, which obviously results in one party being unhappy.
So are you as open as you can be? Or do you avoid subjects that you may feel limits your potential meets?
I've always worked on the basis that there are many things that make me a very acquired taste. But prefer to use my profile as a filter for those not looking for my preferences.
My profile says it all. My digital mask is up more with some than others I know what I want out of this site and am not willing to compromise and accept anything less. Ultimately this is a tool to gain a desired outcome for me. That being great, fun times, interesting conversations and the odd meet with people who intrigued and stimulate me both mentally and physically
We've all had messages though from people though that are not remotely on the same page that try to impose their way of doing things and ignoring what we want.. only by being clear and consistent do we avoid confrontation on here..."
That's the ever evolving process of ascertaining desired need and eliminating those that attempt to circumvent that. You choose to allow access to those people who fulfill a need in you, fuck the rest. Fences and walls my dear. Which I know you will get my meaning on that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't really want anything in particular which should really make things easier since the other person can tell me what they want and then I can see if it's tempting.
In reality though a lot of people also don't know what they want so we end up just drifting into a weird confused place where no decisions are made until one of us bows out. "
Ha ha yeah I did that for most of last year.. pottered around without much direction. A break and some cracking chats with the oracles have cleared the haze... |
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By *-man24Man
over a year ago
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I don’t know exactly what I really want I want to explore the more kinky side to love making I’m definitely not bi and as for communication I’m shit at that too been here for a few years only had one meet at townhouse it was amazing experience would definitely do a club meet again, when I exactly know what I want but my attitude here as changed I thought it’s was NSA SEX quick meet etc but there’s a lot more to fab than that so in time hopefully al find someone to make smile and more |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've found if you're to specific on your profile you get all sorts messaging trying to fit in with what you want. I don't want that. I want someone who is themself!"
Very much this. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And more importantly, do you clearly communicate that to people you speak to??
Seems to me that half of the moany threads are simply a lack of communication and people with very different expectations, which obviously results in one party being unhappy.
So are you as open as you can be? Or do you avoid subjects that you may feel limits your potential meets?
I've always worked on the basis that there are many things that make me a very acquired taste. But prefer to use my profile as a filter for those not looking for my preferences.
My profile says it all. My digital mask is up more with some than others I know what I want out of this site and am not willing to compromise and accept anything less. Ultimately this is a tool to gain a desired outcome for me. That being great, fun times, interesting conversations and the odd meet with people who intrigued and stimulate me both mentally and physically
We've all had messages though from people though that are not remotely on the same page that try to impose their way of doing things and ignoring what we want.. only by being clear and consistent do we avoid confrontation on here...
That's the ever evolving process of ascertaining desired need and eliminating those that attempt to circumvent that. You choose to allow access to those people who fulfill a need in you, fuck the rest. Fences and walls my dear. Which I know you will get my meaning on that. "
Jesus will you eat so you go back to daft wolf please?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, we try to say it in a polite way but, I have to be very upfront about it in messages. Still gets us promises of we can do that, and it doesn’t happen. X
Yeah that's really annoying.. don't see what those people get out of it if they're on a different page.. surely they'd have more fun if they stuck to what suited them!?"
Yes very true, I know we’ve come away from meets very disappointed. Not sure if they’re feeling the same x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don’t know exactly what I really want I want to explore the more kinky side to love making I’m definitely not bi and as for communication I’m shit at that too been here for a few years only had one meet at townhouse it was amazing experience would definitely do a club meet again, when I exactly know what I want but my attitude here as changed I thought it’s was NSA SEX quick meet etc but there’s a lot more to fab than that so in time hopefully al find someone to make smile and more "
Very much so.. the social side and friendships that begin here are often much more important than the sex.. that's only a small part of a much bigger picture. This place is great for chatting and exploring what you want.. took me bloody ages!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes, we try to say it in a polite way but, I have to be very upfront about it in messages. Still gets us promises of we can do that, and it doesn’t happen. X
Yeah that's really annoying.. don't see what those people get out of it if they're on a different page.. surely they'd have more fun if they stuck to what suited them!?
Yes very true, I know we’ve come away from meets very disappointed. Not sure if they’re feeling the same x "
That's rubbish  I'd be really fed up if someone led me to believe they were something that they're not! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Definitely. I’m very clear from the start about what I want. So much so they need to sign a contract "
Ha ha that sounds like a great idea! I use extra sarcasm until they run away or turn the tables.. my contract would be hilarious... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And more importantly, do you clearly communicate that to people you speak to??
Seems to me that half of the moany threads are simply a lack of communication and people with very different expectations, which obviously results in one party being unhappy.
So are you as open as you can be? Or do you avoid subjects that you may feel limits your potential meets?
I've always worked on the basis that there are many things that make me a very acquired taste. But prefer to use my profile as a filter for those not looking for my preferences.
My profile says it all. My digital mask is up more with some than others I know what I want out of this site and am not willing to compromise and accept anything less. Ultimately this is a tool to gain a desired outcome for me. That being great, fun times, interesting conversations and the odd meet with people who intrigued and stimulate me both mentally and physically
We've all had messages though from people though that are not remotely on the same page that try to impose their way of doing things and ignoring what we want.. only by being clear and consistent do we avoid confrontation on here...
That's the ever evolving process of ascertaining desired need and eliminating those that attempt to circumvent that. You choose to allow access to those people who fulfill a need in you, fuck the rest. Fences and walls my dear. Which I know you will get my meaning on that.
Jesus will you eat so you go back to daft wolf please? "
I'm eating and still I'm not going back to daft wolf still doesn't make it any less right, even spoken in a scouse accent
As a person on here you owe nobody anything. You have the right to use this as you see fit. It's a tool, nothing more. I wouldn't allow anybody down the pub to dictate my actions vis a vis a person I am attracted to. I let my own desires and judgement dictate that for me. Sometimes it works sometimes not. I will, however, not proceed to stand there and berate the other person for their choice in rejecting me either. I act the same way on here as I do irl. I say what I'm looking for, filter those that I believe will not fill those needs or I theirs and then interact with people how I see fit. It's sad and it happens but you shouldn't be called out for using this place in your own subjective way.
Anyway back under my rock I go lol |
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"Definitely. I’m very clear from the start about what I want. So much so they need to sign a contract
Ha ha that sounds like a great idea! I use extra sarcasm until they run away or turn the tables.. my contract would be hilarious... "
Me too. Not many “get” me to be fair. Never mind. I’m quite honest I think I scare them off  |
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"Definitely. I’m very clear from the start about what I want. So much so they need to sign a contract
Ha ha that sounds like a great idea! I use extra sarcasm until they run away or turn the tables.. my contract would be hilarious...
Me too. Not many “get” me to be fair. Never mind. I’m quite honest I think I scare them off "
Well better to scare some off... and then have an amazing time with those who get you? |
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"Definitely. I’m very clear from the start about what I want. So much so they need to sign a contract
Ha ha that sounds like a great idea! I use extra sarcasm until they run away or turn the tables.. my contract would be hilarious...
Me too. Not many “get” me to be fair. Never mind. I’m quite honest I think I scare them off "
Contract eh? love that idea |
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"Definitely. I’m very clear from the start about what I want. So much so they need to sign a contract
Ha ha that sounds like a great idea! I use extra sarcasm until they run away or turn the tables.. my contract would be hilarious...
Me too. Not many “get” me to be fair. Never mind. I’m quite honest I think I scare them off
Well better to scare some off... and then have an amazing time with those who get you? "
I meant get as in understand btw lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Definitely. I’m very clear from the start about what I want. So much so they need to sign a contract
Ha ha that sounds like a great idea! I use extra sarcasm until they run away or turn the tables.. my contract would be hilarious...
Me too. Not many “get” me to be fair. Never mind. I’m quite honest I think I scare them off
Well better to scare some off... and then have an amazing time with those who get you? "
Totally agree... hence virtually a nun for the last year! But as I often say.. I'd rather have a cup of tea than pointless shags. |
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"Definitely. I’m very clear from the start about what I want. So much so they need to sign a contract
Ha ha that sounds like a great idea! I use extra sarcasm until they run away or turn the tables.. my contract would be hilarious...
Me too. Not many “get” me to be fair. Never mind. I’m quite honest I think I scare them off
Contract eh? love that idea "
Haha. Mr Grey styleeee |
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"Definitely. I’m very clear from the start about what I want. So much so they need to sign a contract
Ha ha that sounds like a great idea! I use extra sarcasm until they run away or turn the tables.. my contract would be hilarious...
Me too. Not many “get” me to be fair. Never mind. I’m quite honest I think I scare them off
Contract eh? love that idea "
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"Definitely. I’m very clear from the start about what I want. So much so they need to sign a contract
Ha ha that sounds like a great idea! I use extra sarcasm until they run away or turn the tables.. my contract would be hilarious...
Me too. Not many “get” me to be fair. Never mind. I’m quite honest I think I scare them off
Well better to scare some off... and then have an amazing time with those who get you?
Totally agree... hence virtually a nun for the last year! But as I often say.. I'd rather have a cup of tea than pointless shags."
. Yep. Was thinking of becoming a nun. Are they allowed toys? |
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"Definitely. I’m very clear from the start about what I want. So much so they need to sign a contract
Ha ha that sounds like a great idea! I use extra sarcasm until they run away or turn the tables.. my contract would be hilarious...
Me too. Not many “get” me to be fair. Never mind. I’m quite honest I think I scare them off
Contract eh? love that idea
Haha. Mr Grey styleeee "
oh bejesus! But I dont think you're that scary lol just a touch intimidatey but I know a few people who have nothing but lovely things to say about you |
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"Definitely. I’m very clear from the start about what I want. So much so they need to sign a contract
Ha ha that sounds like a great idea! I use extra sarcasm until they run away or turn the tables.. my contract would be hilarious...
Me too. Not many “get” me to be fair. Never mind. I’m quite honest I think I scare them off
Well better to scare some off... and then have an amazing time with those who get you?
Totally agree... hence virtually a nun for the last year! But as I often say.. I'd rather have a cup of tea than pointless shags.
. Yep. Was thinking of becoming a nun. Are they allowed toys? "
Ha ha doubtful..  I'd crave meat too much as soon as I put that frock on.. |
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"Definitely. I’m very clear from the start about what I want. So much so they need to sign a contract
Ha ha that sounds like a great idea! I use extra sarcasm until they run away or turn the tables.. my contract would be hilarious...
Me too. Not many “get” me to be fair. Never mind. I’m quite honest I think I scare them off
Contract eh? love that idea
*makes list "
Only works if theres clear consequences to breaking contracts and those are stuck to |
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"Definitely. I’m very clear from the start about what I want. So much so they need to sign a contract
Ha ha that sounds like a great idea! I use extra sarcasm until they run away or turn the tables.. my contract would be hilarious...
Me too. Not many “get” me to be fair. Never mind. I’m quite honest I think I scare them off
Contract eh? love that idea
*makes list
Only works if theres clear consequences to breaking contracts and those are stuck to "
What if you don't care about consequence though!?!  |
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"Definitely. I’m very clear from the start about what I want. So much so they need to sign a contract
Ha ha that sounds like a great idea! I use extra sarcasm until they run away or turn the tables.. my contract would be hilarious...
Me too. Not many “get” me to be fair. Never mind. I’m quite honest I think I scare them off
Contract eh? love that idea
*makes list
Only works if theres clear consequences to breaking contracts and those are stuck to
What if you don't care about consequence though!?! "
Then it should be consequences a person does care about and then you need to adjust the contract to acquiesce to changing situations? |
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"Definitely. I’m very clear from the start about what I want. So much so they need to sign a contract
Ha ha that sounds like a great idea! I use extra sarcasm until they run away or turn the tables.. my contract would be hilarious...
Me too. Not many “get” me to be fair. Never mind. I’m quite honest I think I scare them off
Contract eh? love that idea
Haha. Mr Grey styleeee
oh bejesus! But I dont think you're that scary lol just a touch intimidatey but I know a few people who have nothing but lovely things to say about you "
Aww thanks. im not intimidating. Im really not. lm probably a bit too straight talking for my own good lol and I have a rather large barrier in front of me equipped with a mahoosive bullshit radar. |
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"Definitely. I’m very clear from the start about what I want. So much so they need to sign a contract
Ha ha that sounds like a great idea! I use extra sarcasm until they run away or turn the tables.. my contract would be hilarious...
Me too. Not many “get” me to be fair. Never mind. I’m quite honest I think I scare them off
Well better to scare some off... and then have an amazing time with those who get you?
Totally agree... hence virtually a nun for the last year! But as I often say.. I'd rather have a cup of tea than pointless shags.
. Yep. Was thinking of becoming a nun. Are they allowed toys?
Ha ha doubtful.. I'd crave meat too much as soon as I put that frock on.. "
Yeah. On second thoughts..... |
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"Definitely. I’m very clear from the start about what I want. So much so they need to sign a contract
Ha ha that sounds like a great idea! I use extra sarcasm until they run away or turn the tables.. my contract would be hilarious...
Me too. Not many “get” me to be fair. Never mind. I’m quite honest I think I scare them off
Contract eh? love that idea
*makes list
Only works if theres clear consequences to breaking contracts and those are stuck to
What if you don't care about consequence though!?!
Then it should be consequences a person does care about and then you need to adjust the contract to acquiesce to changing situations? "
Ha ha but what if you can't find a suitable consequence? Some people are harder than others to punish... |
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"Definitely. I’m very clear from the start about what I want. So much so they need to sign a contract
Ha ha that sounds like a great idea! I use extra sarcasm until they run away or turn the tables.. my contract would be hilarious...
Me too. Not many “get” me to be fair. Never mind. I’m quite honest I think I scare them off
Contract eh? love that idea
Haha. Mr Grey styleeee
oh bejesus! But I dont think you're that scary lol just a touch intimidatey but I know a few people who have nothing but lovely things to say about you
Aww thanks. im not intimidating. Im really not. lm probably a bit too straight talking for my own good lol and I have a rather large barrier in front of me equipped with a mahoosive bullshit radar. "
The greatest piece of equipment needed in life my dear especially during certain explorations straight talking is great! It's why I like threads like these like reading differing _iewpoints to mine |
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"Definitely. I’m very clear from the start about what I want. So much so they need to sign a contract
Ha ha that sounds like a great idea! I use extra sarcasm until they run away or turn the tables.. my contract would be hilarious...
Me too. Not many “get” me to be fair. Never mind. I’m quite honest I think I scare them off
Well better to scare some off... and then have an amazing time with those who get you?
Totally agree... hence virtually a nun for the last year! But as I often say.. I'd rather have a cup of tea than pointless shags.
. Yep. Was thinking of becoming a nun. Are they allowed toys?
Ha ha doubtful.. I'd crave meat too much as soon as I put that frock on..
Yeah. On second thoughts....."
Pervy hermit will do for now until I get enticed out of my cave.. |
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"Definitely. I’m very clear from the start about what I want. So much so they need to sign a contract
Ha ha that sounds like a great idea! I use extra sarcasm until they run away or turn the tables.. my contract would be hilarious...
Me too. Not many “get” me to be fair. Never mind. I’m quite honest I think I scare them off
Contract eh? love that idea
*makes list
Only works if theres clear consequences to breaking contracts and those are stuck to
What if you don't care about consequence though!?!
Then it should be consequences a person does care about and then you need to adjust the contract to acquiesce to changing situations?
Ha ha but what if you can't find a suitable consequence? Some people are harder than others to punish..."
I can always find my way to a suitable consequence or two! I expect to be held to the same standard though, no double standards here |
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"Definitely. I’m very clear from the start about what I want. So much so they need to sign a contract
Ha ha that sounds like a great idea! I use extra sarcasm until they run away or turn the tables.. my contract would be hilarious...
Me too. Not many “get” me to be fair. Never mind. I’m quite honest I think I scare them off
Contract eh? love that idea
*makes list
Only works if theres clear consequences to breaking contracts and those are stuck to
What if you don't care about consequence though!?!
Then it should be consequences a person does care about and then you need to adjust the contract to acquiesce to changing situations?
Ha ha but what if you can't find a suitable consequence? Some people are harder than others to punish...
I can always find my way to a suitable consequence or two! I expect to be held to the same standard though, no double standards here "
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"Definitely. I’m very clear from the start about what I want. So much so they need to sign a contract
Ha ha that sounds like a great idea! I use extra sarcasm until they run away or turn the tables.. my contract would be hilarious...
Me too. Not many “get” me to be fair. Never mind. I’m quite honest I think I scare them off
Contract eh? love that idea
Haha. Mr Grey styleeee
oh bejesus! But I dont think you're that scary lol just a touch intimidatey but I know a few people who have nothing but lovely things to say about you
Aww thanks. im not intimidating. Im really not. lm probably a bit too straight talking for my own good lol and I have a rather large barrier in front of me equipped with a mahoosive bullshit radar.
The greatest piece of equipment needed in life my dear especially during certain explorations straight talking is great! It's why I like threads like these like reading differing _iewpoints to mine "
Definitely. I loves me a good debate I do .
You’re a nice chap, I’ve thought that before. I don’t much like people at the moment but you’re alright you are |
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"Definitely. I’m very clear from the start about what I want. So much so they need to sign a contract
Ha ha that sounds like a great idea! I use extra sarcasm until they run away or turn the tables.. my contract would be hilarious...
Me too. Not many “get” me to be fair. Never mind. I’m quite honest I think I scare them off
Contract eh? love that idea
Haha. Mr Grey styleeee
oh bejesus! But I dont think you're that scary lol just a touch intimidatey but I know a few people who have nothing but lovely things to say about you
Aww thanks. im not intimidating. Im really not. lm probably a bit too straight talking for my own good lol and I have a rather large barrier in front of me equipped with a mahoosive bullshit radar.
The greatest piece of equipment needed in life my dear especially during certain explorations straight talking is great! It's why I like threads like these like reading differing _iewpoints to mine
Definitely. I loves me a good debate I do .
You’re a nice chap, I’ve thought that before. I don’t much like people at the moment but you’re alright you are "
You strike me as a top quality lady your good self! You have a sense of adventure and love exciting discourse my pleasure to interact finally and I'll take that as a great compliment! I'm smiling a lot today, like a non-grumpy Carebear! Need to get my grumpy on again lol raise my Fab shields so to speak |
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"Definitely. I’m very clear from the start about what I want. So much so they need to sign a contract
Ha ha that sounds like a great idea! I use extra sarcasm until they run away or turn the tables.. my contract would be hilarious...
Me too. Not many “get” me to be fair. Never mind. I’m quite honest I think I scare them off
Contract eh? love that idea
Haha. Mr Grey styleeee
oh bejesus! But I dont think you're that scary lol just a touch intimidatey but I know a few people who have nothing but lovely things to say about you
Aww thanks. im not intimidating. Im really not. lm probably a bit too straight talking for my own good lol and I have a rather large barrier in front of me equipped with a mahoosive bullshit radar.
The greatest piece of equipment needed in life my dear especially during certain explorations straight talking is great! It's why I like threads like these like reading differing _iewpoints to mine
Definitely. I loves me a good debate I do .
You’re a nice chap, I’ve thought that before. I don’t much like people at the moment but you’re alright you are
You strike me as a top quality lady your good self! You have a sense of adventure and love exciting discourse my pleasure to interact finally and I'll take that as a great compliment! I'm smiling a lot today, like a non-grumpy Carebear! Need to get my grumpy on again lol raise my Fab shields so to speak "
Oh mine will be back soon no doubt! |
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"I know what I want.
I don't think it exists on here 
I'm beginning to think that may be the case too"
You'd be surprised what you sometimes find when you stop looking.. |
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"I know what I want.
I don't think it exists on here
I'm beginning to think that may be the case too
You'd be surprised what you sometimes find when you stop looking.. "
Great, now I have Bono stuck in my head warbling his shit! |
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"I know what I want.
I don't think it exists on here
I'm beginning to think that may be the case too
You'd be surprised what you sometimes find when you stop looking.. "
True. I did just when I’d pretty much given up x |
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"I know what I want.
I don't think it exists on here
I'm beginning to think that may be the case too
You'd be surprised what you sometimes find when you stop looking..
True. I did just when I’d pretty much given up x"
I didn’t even think I would ever meet...but you never know what gems you might find... even down here in oz |
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My profile sums up what I'm looking for pretty well and I think im pretty clear about it whilst messaging as well. I like to make I'm intentions clear and hope the other person is on a similar wavelength about things. Although sometimes I my way of making my intentions clear doesn't translate that well to the receiver. |
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"I know what I want.
I don't think it exists on here
I'm beginning to think that may be the case too
You'd be surprised what you sometimes find when you stop looking..
Great, now I have Bono stuck in my head warbling his shit! "
Sing it princess!! |
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"My profile sums up what I'm looking for pretty well and I think im pretty clear about it whilst messaging as well. I like to make I'm intentions clear and hope the other person is on a similar wavelength about things. Although sometimes I my way of making my intentions clear doesn't translate that well to the receiver. "
I think that's often the case when trying to communicate online.. I have no idea how you don't have a queue of ladies at your door! |
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"I think I've been as clear as I can.
Just a shame some people don't read it first"
This is perhaps the greatest problem. You could put that you're looking to shag zebras whilst dressed in a lion suit with Tight Fit's The Lion Sleeps Tonight playing on repeat ... some would never know this as they just see pictures and message regardless... in my opinion of course |
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"My profile sums up what I'm looking for pretty well and I think im pretty clear about it whilst messaging as well. I like to make I'm intentions clear and hope the other person is on a similar wavelength about things. Although sometimes I my way of making my intentions clear doesn't translate that well to the receiver.
I think that's often the case when trying to communicate online.. I have no idea how you don't have a queue of ladies at your door! "
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"My profile sums up what I'm looking for pretty well and I think im pretty clear about it whilst messaging as well. I like to make I'm intentions clear and hope the other person is on a similar wavelength about things. Although sometimes I my way of making my intentions clear doesn't translate that well to the receiver.
I think that's often the case when trying to communicate online.. I have no idea how you don't have a queue of ladies at your door! "
Yeah, definitely easier in person.
Lol they all just get stuck in traffic think, that's what I'm telling myself anyway.  |
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"My profile sums up what I'm looking for pretty well and I think im pretty clear about it whilst messaging as well. I like to make I'm intentions clear and hope the other person is on a similar wavelength about things. Although sometimes I my way of making my intentions clear doesn't translate that well to the receiver.
I think that's often the case when trying to communicate online.. I have no idea how you don't have a queue of ladies at your door!
I think Alice scares them away "
If she does, we need to have some stern words. |
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"My profile sums up what I'm looking for pretty well and I think im pretty clear about it whilst messaging as well. I like to make I'm intentions clear and hope the other person is on a similar wavelength about things. Although sometimes I my way of making my intentions clear doesn't translate that well to the receiver.
I think that's often the case when trying to communicate online.. I have no idea how you don't have a queue of ladies at your door!
Yeah, definitely easier in person.
Lol they all just get stuck in traffic think, that's what I'm telling myself anyway. "
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"My profile sums up what I'm looking for pretty well and I think im pretty clear about it whilst messaging as well. I like to make I'm intentions clear and hope the other person is on a similar wavelength about things. Although sometimes I my way of making my intentions clear doesn't translate that well to the receiver.
I think that's often the case when trying to communicate online.. I have no idea how you don't have a queue of ladies at your door!
Yeah, definitely easier in person.
Lol they all just get stuck in traffic think, that's what I'm telling myself anyway. "
I blame the m25. |
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I had no clue when i joined i suppose i just wanted to have fun and break from routine
Then my wants grew i discovered new things now i feel i know what i want and she is mine so im a happy chappy |
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"I had no clue when i joined i suppose i just wanted to have fun and break from routine
Then my wants grew i discovered new things now i feel i know what i want and she is mine so im a happy chappy "
You never mentioned you had a lady.. |
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"I had no clue when i joined i suppose i just wanted to have fun and break from routine
Then my wants grew i discovered new things now i feel i know what i want and she is mine so im a happy chappy
You never mentioned you had a lady.. "
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"I had no clue when i joined i suppose i just wanted to have fun and break from routine
Then my wants grew i discovered new things now i feel i know what i want and she is mine so im a happy chappy
You never mentioned you had a lady.. "
did i not well as iv said many times i like to keep my hands close to her chest oh wait i mean cards i think never mind i like my way best |
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"I had no clue when i joined i suppose i just wanted to have fun and break from routine
Then my wants grew i discovered new things now i feel i know what i want and she is mine so im a happy chappy
You never mentioned you had a lady.. did i not well as iv said many times i like to keep my hands close to her chest oh wait i mean cards i think never mind i like my way best "
Discretion is your middle finger... I like your style. See you at the lamppost later |
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"I had no clue when i joined i suppose i just wanted to have fun and break from routine
Then my wants grew i discovered new things now i feel i know what i want and she is mine so im a happy chappy
You never mentioned you had a lady.. did i not well as iv said many times i like to keep my hands close to her chest oh wait i mean cards i think never mind i like my way best
Discretion is your middle finger... I like your style. See you at the lamppost later "
you may do if im not on line tho tell sally i said hi |
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"I had no clue when i joined i suppose i just wanted to have fun and break from routine
Then my wants grew i discovered new things now i feel i know what i want and she is mine so im a happy chappy
You never mentioned you had a lady.. did i not well as iv said many times i like to keep my hands close to her chest oh wait i mean cards i think never mind i like my way best
Discretion is your middle finger... I like your style. See you at the lamppost later you may do if im not on line tho tell sally i said hi "
Of course I'll keep your post damp in your absence |
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"I had no clue when i joined i suppose i just wanted to have fun and break from routine
Then my wants grew i discovered new things now i feel i know what i want and she is mine so im a happy chappy
You never mentioned you had a lady.. did i not well as iv said many times i like to keep my hands close to her chest oh wait i mean cards i think never mind i like my way best
Discretion is your middle finger... I like your style. See you at the lamppost later you may do if im not on line tho tell sally i said hi "
Hold the phone.........you have a lady? Wtf! |
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"My profile sums up what I'm looking for pretty well and I think im pretty clear about it whilst messaging as well. I like to make I'm intentions clear and hope the other person is on a similar wavelength about things. Although sometimes I my way of making my intentions clear doesn't translate that well to the receiver.
I think that's often the case when trying to communicate online.. I have no idea how you don't have a queue of ladies at your door!
Yeah, definitely easier in person.
Lol they all just get stuck in traffic think, that's what I'm telling myself anyway.
I blame the m25."
And the A406, spoiling all my fun. |
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"I had no clue when i joined i suppose i just wanted to have fun and break from routine
Then my wants grew i discovered new things now i feel i know what i want and she is mine so im a happy chappy
You never mentioned you had a lady.. did i not well as iv said many times i like to keep my hands close to her chest oh wait i mean cards i think never mind i like my way best
Discretion is your middle finger... I like your style. See you at the lamppost later you may do if im not on line tho tell sally i said hi
Of course I'll keep your post damp in your absence "
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"My profile sums up what I'm looking for pretty well and I think im pretty clear about it whilst messaging as well. I like to make I'm intentions clear and hope the other person is on a similar wavelength about things. Although sometimes I my way of making my intentions clear doesn't translate that well to the receiver.
I think that's often the case when trying to communicate online.. I have no idea how you don't have a queue of ladies at your door!
Yeah, definitely easier in person.
Lol they all just get stuck in traffic think, that's what I'm telling myself anyway.
I blame the m25.
And the A406, spoiling all my fun. "
Ah.. I've blotted the a406 from my memory!!! |
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"I had no clue when i joined i suppose i just wanted to have fun and break from routine
Then my wants grew i discovered new things now i feel i know what i want and she is mine so im a happy chappy
You never mentioned you had a lady.. did i not well as iv said many times i like to keep my hands close to her chest oh wait i mean cards i think never mind i like my way best
Discretion is your middle finger... I like your style. See you at the lamppost later you may do if im not on line tho tell sally i said hi
Hold the phone.........you have a lady? Wtf! "
i am thats why im online |
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"I now want tims to hurry up so its thursday so i can say this in person and do many naughty things and create more orgasms "
Fucking hell is there a countdown running?!?! |
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"I now want tims to hurry up so its thursday so i can say this in person and do many naughty things and create more orgasms
Fucking hell is there a countdown running?!?!"
4 more sleeps |
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"I now want tims to hurry up so its thursday so i can say this in person and do many naughty things and create more orgasms
Fucking hell is there a countdown running?!?!4 more sleeps"
Ha ha I'm on 5. Unless he postpones me again... |
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"I now want tims to hurry up so its thursday so i can say this in person and do many naughty things and create more orgasms
Fucking hell is there a countdown running?!?!4 more sleeps
Ha ha I'm on 5. Unless he postpones me again... "
Im not the only counter then hahaha |
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"I now want tims to hurry up so its thursday so i can say this in person and do many naughty things and create more orgasms
Fucking hell is there a countdown running?!?!4 more sleeps
Ha ha I'm on 5. Unless he postpones me again...
Im not the only counter then hahaha "
I prefer to call myself psycho |
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"I now want tims to hurry up so its thursday so i can say this in person and do many naughty things and create more orgasms
Fucking hell is there a countdown running?!?!4 more sleeps"
No hours or minutes?
I always include them for H
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"I now want tims to hurry up so its thursday so i can say this in person and do many naughty things and create more orgasms
Fucking hell is there a countdown running?!?!4 more sleeps
Ha ha I'm on 5. Unless he postpones me again...
Im not the only counter then hahaha
I prefer to call myself psycho "
we call u that too |
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"I now want tims to hurry up so its thursday so i can say this in person and do many naughty things and create more orgasms
Fucking hell is there a countdown running?!?!4 more sleeps
Ha ha I'm on 5. Unless he postpones me again...
Im not the only counter then hahaha
I prefer to call myself psycho we call u that too "
Boddingtons, fish head, psycho... it has a ring to it... |
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"I now want tims to hurry up so its thursday so i can say this in person and do many naughty things and create more orgasms
Fucking hell is there a countdown running?!?!4 more sleeps
Ha ha I'm on 5. Unless he postpones me again...
Im not the only counter then hahaha
I prefer to call myself psycho we call u that too
Boddingtons, fish head, psycho... it has a ring to it... "
like a brand of sweets made by willy wonka |
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"I now want tims to hurry up so its thursday so i can say this in person and do many naughty things and create more orgasms
Fucking hell is there a countdown running?!?!4 more sleeps
Ha ha I'm on 5. Unless he postpones me again...
Im not the only counter then hahaha
I prefer to call myself psycho we call u that too
Boddingtons, fish head, psycho... it has a ring to it... like a brand of sweets made by willy wonka "
Proper twisted sweets |
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"Yeah, I'm a really acquired taste.
I'm quite open about what I want but I'm working it out as I go along so not that open.
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It's hard to be completely open when you'll know it when you see it!! |
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"Definitely. I’m very clear from the start about what I want. So much so they need to sign a contract
Ha ha that sounds like a great idea! I use extra sarcasm until they run away or turn the tables.. my contract would be hilarious...
Me too. Not many “get” me to be fair. Never mind. I’m quite honest I think I scare them off
Well better to scare some off... and then have an amazing time with those who get you?
Totally agree... hence virtually a nun for the last year! But as I often say.. I'd rather have a cup of tea than pointless shags.
. Yep. Was thinking of becoming a nun. Are they allowed toys? "
A Rosary? |
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"I think my profile (long as it is ) defines who I am, what I’m looking for and what’s not acceptable.
I still get messages from those who think it’s worth a try ha ha "
Ha ha it's inevitable on here isn't it?! Pesky chancers. I had enough and filtered up to 99 year olds. It's been bliss |
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I would say our profile is extremely clear about what what Inwant and I'm not backwards in coming forwards to get it in person either.
However, the vast majority of messages we receive are from absolute chancers who would know they're not for us if they'd bothered to read our profile. Th8s includes the same people messaging days/weeks apart with same spiel, despite being told no thanks.
It's incredibly frustrating and along with being fussy, is why we've only had the one meet. |
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Hi OP. I do pretty much, yes but sometimes I have an urge for something different. I love curvy Brunettes and 9/10 times that would be my preference but sometimes a blonde/ red head might tickle my fancy |
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Does it count if you have put in your profile what we are not looking for as in meets?
We have also made it clear that we are here for to chat to friends and have a laugh on the forums.
We still get people asking to meet though but that’s not a surprise.
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"Does it count if you have put in your profile what we are not looking for as in meets?
We have also made it clear that we are here for to chat to friends and have a laugh on the forums.
We still get people asking to meet though but that’s not a surprise.
LJ"
54 messages today from men when it states I’m not meeting men |
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"Does it count if you have put in your profile what we are not looking for as in meets?
We have also made it clear that we are here for to chat to friends and have a laugh on the forums.
We still get people asking to meet though but that’s not a surprise.
LJ
54 messages today from men when it states I’m not meeting men "
Why don’t you block men ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would say our profile is extremely clear about what what Inwant and I'm not backwards in coming forwards to get it in person either.
However, the vast majority of messages we receive are from absolute chancers who would know they're not for us if they'd bothered to read our profile. Th8s includes the same people messaging days/weeks apart with same spiel, despite being told no thanks.
It's incredibly frustrating and along with being fussy, is why we've only had the one meet."
It's definately frustrating.. I was the same when I was open to meeting.. only met 5 people in 3 1/2 years and 2 of those never went past social.. it's hard work if you need some kind of connection. |
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"Does it count if you have put in your profile what we are not looking for as in meets?
We have also made it clear that we are here for to chat to friends and have a laugh on the forums.
We still get people asking to meet though but that’s not a surprise.
LJ"
Totally! I used to get tonnes of meet now chancers and submissives that I had no interest in. Led me to filter up completely. |
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"Does it count if you have put in your profile what we are not looking for as in meets?
We have also made it clear that we are here for to chat to friends and have a laugh on the forums.
We still get people asking to meet though but that’s not a surprise.
LJ
54 messages today from men when it states I’m not meeting men
Why don’t you block men ? "
I don’t want to. I get messages from forum people which I don’t mind. I’m not bothered by it I just bulk delete at the end of the day. Was just saying |
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"Hi OP. I do pretty much, yes but sometimes I have an urge for something different. I love curvy Brunettes and 9/10 times that would be my preference but sometimes a blonde/ red head might tickle my fancy "
Ha ha sounds like skimming a menu! |
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"Does it count if you have put in your profile what we are not looking for as in meets?
We have also made it clear that we are here for to chat to friends and have a laugh on the forums.
We still get people asking to meet though but that’s not a surprise.
LJ
54 messages today from men when it states I’m not meeting men "
It’s been said that many only look at the photos and don’t bother reading profiles.
We have not had anywhere near as many as that but I think the fact i have an ice axe in some of my photos may have put some off!!
LJ |
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"Does it count if you have put in your profile what we are not looking for as in meets?
We have also made it clear that we are here for to chat to friends and have a laugh on the forums.
We still get people asking to meet though but that’s not a surprise.
LJ
54 messages today from men when it states I’m not meeting men
It’s been said that many only look at the photos and don’t bother reading profiles.
We have not had anywhere near as many as that but I think the fact i have an ice axe in some of my photos may have put some off!!
LJ"
Ha ha cunning plan!! Sounds like someone I know too.. |
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"Hi OP. I do pretty much, yes but sometimes I have an urge for something different. I love curvy Brunettes and 9/10 times that would be my preference but sometimes a blonde/ red head might tickle my fancy
Ha ha sounds like skimming a menu! "
Oh yeah, it does actually. I'm much more of a slow burner tbh. |
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"Hi op!
Yes - I know exactly what I want!
Will I ever get the holy grail on here? - who knows? But in the meantime I’m having a hell of a lot of fun and making great friends along the way! "
Ha ha well one persons holy grail is another persons nightmare so I have much faith it's possible! As long as it's fun that's all that matters |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I had never eaten avocado until last week....
Other than that I'm an open book but it takes a while to get into me...."
Think I'm written in Latin... |
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"I know what I want.
I don't think it exists on here
I'm beginning to think that may be the case too
You'd be surprised what you sometimes find when you stop looking..
True. I did just when I’d pretty much given up x"
Is that me? It is, isn't it |
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"Does it count if you have put in your profile what we are not looking for as in meets?
We have also made it clear that we are here for to chat to friends and have a laugh on the forums.
We still get people asking to meet though but that’s not a surprise.
LJ
54 messages today from men when it states I’m not meeting men "
If men are on your 'looking for' list you show up on searches... as looking for men. |
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"Does it count if you have put in your profile what we are not looking for as in meets?
We have also made it clear that we are here for to chat to friends and have a laugh on the forums.
We still get people asking to meet though but that’s not a surprise.
LJ
54 messages today from men when it states I’m not meeting men
If men are on your 'looking for' list you show up on searches... as looking for men. "
Ah right! Didn’t think to change that bit. Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does it count if you have put in your profile what we are not looking for as in meets?
We have also made it clear that we are here for to chat to friends and have a laugh on the forums.
We still get people asking to meet though but that’s not a surprise.
LJ
54 messages today from men when it states I’m not meeting men
If men are on your 'looking for' list you show up on searches... as looking for men.
Ah right! Didn’t think to change that bit. Thanks "
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