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Soooooooo ladies,Wtf!!

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So ladies,you're looking at a few guys profiles and bam!!!

He fits it, he's hot, his profile is articulate,he fits yor bill, sooooo you send him a message hi babe shall we hook up sometime, then the dreaded message you get back,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Eh?

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"So ladies,you're looking at a few guys profiles and bam!!!

He fits it, he's hot, his profile is articulate,he fits yor bill, sooooo you send him a message hi babe shall we hook up sometime, then the dreaded message you get back, "

Us girls probably wouldn’t send such a tacky message in the first place!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you a bot?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Not my finest thread,hope someone got the gist

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By *ewrocksWoman over a year ago

button moon

I'm a bit lost

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm a bit lost

Broccoli hair, I'm in love

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The woman doesnt get a message back, blocked or they say they're not interested...... I somewhat get it ... But it could of been worded differently, it is confusing a little.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Probably a polite rejection.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Probably a polite rejection."
wouldn't surprise me at all.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I've only ever sent 1 first message.

He Viewed my profile

He fabbed a pic, I checked out his profile... Oooh hello

I fabbed back.

He winked, I winked back

He repeatedly Viewed me several times a day for couple more days, fabbed every pic within minutes of posting

I sent a message, I got blocked

OMFG... Men, you have my sympathies.

Ive never sent a first message since, my poor fragile ego can't cope.. Urmm whatever!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've only ever sent 1 first message.

He Viewed my profile

He fabbed a pic, I checked out his profile... Oooh hello

I fabbed back.

He winked, I winked back

He repeatedly Viewed me several times a day for couple more days, fabbed every pic within minutes of posting

I sent a message, I got blocked

OMFG... Men, you have my sympathies.

Ive never sent a first message since, my poor fragile ego can't cope.. Urmm whatever! "
you must of scared him somehow

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I once got a polite not for me thanks, no offence.

None was taken and so this is how I also politely decline unwanted advances.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I once got a polite not for me thanks, no offence.

None was taken and so this is how I also politely decline unwanted advances. "
i don't see why anyone would say no really .. oh well that's a shame

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I once got a polite not for me thanks, no offence.

None was taken and so this is how I also politely decline unwanted advances. i don't see why anyone would say no really .. oh well that's a shame

I just wasn't for him, no harm done x

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"I once got a polite not for me thanks, no offence.

None was taken and so this is how I also politely decline unwanted advances. "

Yep, I got the 'not my type' sort of message once too, I wished him well and we went on our merry way, no offence intended nor taken.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I see you're moving to Newcastle yay! You're now a Geordie.. do you know your Geordie language?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have experienced that years ago when I was single. I didn’t take offence the one thing I would say is if you have taken the time to reply then surely a simple reply saying thanks but not what I looking forward wouldn’t go amiss at least everyone knows where they stand don’t you think?

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By *adylydfordWoman over a year ago

altinkum

I had a few no thanks and a few no replies but i know how fussy i am myself. I dont worry about it, im not everyones cup of tea!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I send quite a few first messages but not about hooking up, more something about their profile, status update or photos.

I don't expect a reply so if I get one it's nice, sometimes the conversation moves on to meeting but if it doesn't then its nice to have chatted.

If I really fancy them & it's no reply or the chat fizzles out then yes it can be a bit disappointing but we can't be for everyone.

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