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over a year ago
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I originally came on here as I thought it would be easier to find the time within a busy schedule to connect and find what I was looking for compared to real life...
Now starting to quickly realise it's a lot easier and the sex is a lot more enjoyable when meeting new potential partners in the real world. Thoughts?
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"I originally came on here as I thought it would be easier to find the time within a busy schedule to connect and find what I was looking for compared to real life...
Now starting to quickly realise it's a lot easier and the sex is a lot more enjoyable when meeting new potential partners in the real world. Thoughts?
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Agreed. But then, this isn't tinder. |
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"I originally came on here as I thought it would be easier to find the time within a busy schedule to connect and find what I was looking for compared to real life...
Now starting to quickly realise it's a lot easier and the sex is a lot more enjoyable when meeting new potential partners in the real world. Thoughts?
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Also agree.
I can't be arsed to go out to pubs/bars every weekend though anymore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I originally came on here as I thought it would be easier to find the time within a busy schedule to connect and find what I was looking for compared to real life...
Now starting to quickly realise it's a lot easier and the sex is a lot more enjoyable when meeting new potential partners in the real world. Thoughts?
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Excellent. No need to waste your time on here. I love these epiphany moments!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I originally came on here as I thought it would be easier to find the time within a busy schedule to connect and find what I was looking for compared to real life...
Now starting to quickly realise it's a lot easier and the sex is a lot more enjoyable when meeting new potential partners in the real world. Thoughts?
Agreed. But then, this isn't tinder. "
Haha, would you say tinder is better or worse? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone is about to point out your veris are cam, so hard for you to say the sex isn't as enjoyable....
Be grateful it was me who said it
Yes agree it's much hard to get... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I originally came on here as I thought it would be easier to find the time within a busy schedule to connect and find what I was looking for compared to real life...
Now starting to quickly realise it's a lot easier and the sex is a lot more enjoyable when meeting new potential partners in the real world. Thoughts?
Excellent. No need to waste your time on here. I love these epiphany moments! "
Ah yes, thanks for the support.. but then why are we still here? haha 
Is it arrogant to think I don't need to be on here because I meet a lot more attractive women in real life? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Someone is about to point out your veris are cam, so hard for you to say the sex isn't as enjoyable....
Be grateful it was me who said it
Yes agree it's much hard to get... "
Ah yes, this is a point.. have had a couple of meets but users left the site. The catch 22 of veris seems to be another thing that makes it difficult, although I can understand the situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I originally came on here as I thought it would be easier to find the time within a busy schedule to connect and find what I was looking for compared to real life...
Now starting to quickly realise it's a lot easier and the sex is a lot more enjoyable when meeting new potential partners in the real world. Thoughts?
Excellent. No need to waste your time on here. I love these epiphany moments!
Ah yes, thanks for the support.. but then why are we still here? haha
Is it arrogant to think I don't need to be on here because I meet a lot more attractive women in real life? "
No not arrogant. But I don't understand why you'd bother on here *shrugs* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tinder is infinitely better for single guys
This site simply allows one to express ones sexuality a bit more - knowing that meets are mainly about the sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can't find what I need in real life or on other sites. It's hard enough here sometimes, but with patience and lots of chats I've met some incredible people. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I originally came on here as I thought it would be easier to find the time within a busy schedule to connect and find what I was looking for compared to real life...
Now starting to quickly realise it's a lot easier and the sex is a lot more enjoyable when meeting new potential partners in the real world. Thoughts?
Excellent. No need to waste your time on here. I love these epiphany moments!
Ah yes, thanks for the support.. but then why are we still here? haha
Is it arrogant to think I don't need to be on here because I meet a lot more attractive women in real life?
No not arrogant. But I don't understand why you'd bother on here *shrugs*"
Hmm I think it's the idea of what could be around the corner. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I can't find what I need in real life or on other sites. It's hard enough here sometimes, but with patience and lots of chats I've met some incredible people. "
Interesting.. guess we're just hard to please  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can't find what I need in real life or on other sites. It's hard enough here sometimes, but with patience and lots of chats I've met some incredible people.
Interesting.. guess we're just hard to please "
If you know what you want it's no big deal.. I'd much rather wait for something special than fill time.. I know when I see it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've given up on meeting anyone on here, I just browse the forums, there are some entertaining threads among the usual 'been on here an hour, why aren't I up to my eyeballs in pussy?' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have had some fun times on here but meeting Holly and it turning into a relationship is far more than i ever expected.
She is an absolute gem in every way possible and I doubt I would of found someone like Holly who is adorable and as naughty as she is in the real world.
It’s a case of fantasy becoming reality for both of us and we couldn’t be happier  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can't find what I need in real life or on other sites. It's hard enough here sometimes, but with patience and lots of chats I've met some incredible people.
Interesting.. guess we're just hard to please
If you know what you want it's no big deal.. I'd much rather wait for something special than fill time.. I know when I see it."
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By (user no longer on site)
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So the women of Fab are basically shit shag's compared to women in "the real world'? I'm pretty sure I live on the same planet as you or do I live in a different world or planet? What the fuck is the" Real World"?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I can't find what I need in real life or on other sites. It's hard enough here sometimes, but with patience and lots of chats I've met some incredible people.
Interesting.. guess we're just hard to please
If you know what you want it's no big deal.. I'd much rather wait for something special than fill time.. I know when I see it."
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"I originally came on here as I thought it would be easier to find the time within a busy schedule to connect and find what I was looking for compared to real life...
Now starting to quickly realise it's a lot easier and the sex is a lot more enjoyable when meeting new potential partners in the real world. Thoughts?
Agreed. But then, this isn't tinder.
Haha, would you say tinder is better or worse?"
No idea to be honest. Im a swinger, so i wouldn't use a hook up site like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have had the best sex in my life from here. Back when I was single meeting men I found the sex lacking. This way round you get to sample the sex first. My 2 best ever most compatible fucks have been from fab...and I'm close to both of them still although one I'm only friends with now. the other I get to enjoy regularly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Wherever you search it always comes with its positives and pitfalls. It's what works best for the person. Like a bar, club or a dating site, Fab is a tool to be used. Use it how you will and it has varying results for all. Some people prefer this and it works well for them. As for me? I'll search until I find that person that gels with me, then we will decide where to go from there. Everybody deserves a shot at being happy but it doesn't really matter where that shot comes from. If it works enjoy. Enjoy life you only get one  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So the women of Fab are basically shit shag's compared to women in "the real world'? I'm pretty sure I live on the same planet as you or do I live in a different world or planet? What the fuck is the" Real World"?? "
Nope not at all.. not meant to be a personal comment aimed at any women/woman on here. More about the way it works and the difference between fab and the 'traditional' way of chatting with someone face to face in a pub or club.
What is the Real World? Good question! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Wherever you search it always comes with its positives and pitfalls. It's what works best for the person. Like a bar, club or a dating site, Fab is a tool to be used. Use it how you will and it has varying results for all. Some people prefer this and it works well for them. As for me? I'll search until I find that person that gels with me, then we will decide where to go from there. Everybody deserves a shot at being happy but it doesn't really matter where that shot comes from. If it works enjoy. Enjoy life you only get one "
Fair play, hard to disagree with this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't find what I need in real life or on other sites. It's hard enough here sometimes, but with patience and lots of chats I've met some incredible people.
Interesting.. guess we're just hard to please "
I’m hard to please but flit between here and other sites. The odd gem pops up. At least with here, I don’t have to approach the kinky/swinging lifestyle conversation that I’m into. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have had some fun times on here but meeting Holly and it turning into a relationship is far more than i ever expected.
She is an absolute gem in every way possible and I doubt I would of found someone like Holly who is adorable and as naughty as she is in the real world.
It’s a case of fantasy becoming reality for both of us and we couldn’t be happier "
Wicked! Glad you have found happiness and best of luck to you. Interesting to hear the different stories |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have had the best sex in my life from here. Back when I was single meeting men I found the sex lacking. This way round you get to sample the sex first. My 2 best ever most compatible fucks have been from fab...and I'm close to both of them still although one I'm only friends with now. the other I get to enjoy regularly"
Lovely.. nice to hear of people having good experiences |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I can't find what I need in real life or on other sites. It's hard enough here sometimes, but with patience and lots of chats I've met some incredible people.
Interesting.. guess we're just hard to please
I’m hard to please but flit between here and other sites. The odd gem pops up. At least with here, I don’t have to approach the kinky/swinging lifestyle conversation that I’m into. "
Yeah I suppose it's more direct and clear in that sense. What other sites out of interest? Obviously you are not obliged to share if you'd rather not |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So the women of Fab are basically shit shag's compared to women in "the real world'? I'm pretty sure I live on the same planet as you or do I live in a different world or planet? What the fuck is the" Real World"?? "
Calm down lassie. I didn't hear OP say that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can't find what I need in real life or on other sites. It's hard enough here sometimes, but with patience and lots of chats I've met some incredible people.
Interesting.. guess we're just hard to please
I’m hard to please but flit between here and other sites. The odd gem pops up. At least with here, I don’t have to approach the kinky/swinging lifestyle conversation that I’m into.
Yeah I suppose it's more direct and clear in that sense. What other sites out of interest? Obviously you are not obliged to share if you'd rather not "
Messaged you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So the women of Fab are basically shit shag's compared to women in "the real world'? I'm pretty sure I live on the same planet as you or do I live in a different world or planet? What the fuck is the" Real World"?? "
I don’t think he said that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I can't find what I need in real life or on other sites. It's hard enough here sometimes, but with patience and lots of chats I've met some incredible people.
Interesting.. guess we're just hard to please
I’m hard to please but flit between here and other sites. The odd gem pops up. At least with here, I don’t have to approach the kinky/swinging lifestyle conversation that I’m into.
Yeah I suppose it's more direct and clear in that sense. What other sites out of interest? Obviously you are not obliged to share if you'd rather not
Messaged you. "
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why have you stayed?
Good question... haven't worked out my answer yet "
I've stayed because I enjoy the forums, the frank and open approach to things sexual. Also, despite never meeting them, I chat to some interesting ladies.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Far easier to meet ladies in the real world.."
This is why I don't understand why singles looking for other singles bother. They always end up moaning that the site doesn't work. What a surprise. It really isn't designed for that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Far easier to meet ladies in the real world..
This is why I don't understand why singles looking for other singles bother. They always end up moaning that the site doesn't work. What a surprise. It really isn't designed for that. "
I suppose it's a good place to be open and exposed to new ideas about sexuality |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"I originally came on here as I thought it would be easier to find the time within a busy schedule to connect and find what I was looking for compared to real life...
Now starting to quickly realise it's a lot easier and the sex is a lot more enjoyable when meeting new potential partners in the real world. Thoughts?
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Here is okay, there’s so many more people outside of here though...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I originally came on here as I thought it would be easier to find the time within a busy schedule to connect and find what I was looking for compared to real life...
Now starting to quickly realise it's a lot easier and the sex is a lot more enjoyable when meeting new potential partners in the real world. Thoughts?
Here is okay, there’s so many more people outside of here though... "
Hmmm yes that's true... numbers of people on here vs. people not on here is a massive gap |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Far easier to meet ladies in the real world..
This is why I don't understand why singles looking for other singles bother. They always end up moaning that the site doesn't work. What a surprise. It really isn't designed for that.
I suppose it's a good place to be open and exposed to new ideas about sexuality"
Why can't that be done "in the real world"? I met hubby in the real world. We developed our "kinks" over time. Seems everyone's in a rush to have everything now. But some things are just better when they've matured. So I think many are looking for something they won't find. Not immediately anyway. Just my 2 cents. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Far easier to meet ladies in the real world..
This is why I don't understand why singles looking for other singles bother. They always end up moaning that the site doesn't work. What a surprise. It really isn't designed for that.
I suppose it's a good place to be open and exposed to new ideas about sexuality
Why can't that be done "in the real world"? I met hubby in the real world. We developed our "kinks" over time. Seems everyone's in a rush to have everything now. But some things are just better when they've matured. So I think many are looking for something they won't find. Not immediately anyway. Just my 2 cents. "
True. It definitely can be done in the real world and is important... but maybe finding a site like this shows people there's no shame in it and helps build confidence to approach those conversations in the real world |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So the women of Fab are basically shit shag's compared to women in "the real world'? I'm pretty sure I live on the same planet as you or do I live in a different world or planet? What the fuck is the" Real World"??
Calm down lassie. I didn't hear OP say that. "
He said "sex is a lot more enjoyable when meeting new potential partners in the real world". So what does it mean, Lassie? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So the women of Fab are basically shit shag's compared to women in "the real world'? I'm pretty sure I live on the same planet as you or do I live in a different world or planet? What the fuck is the" Real World"??
Calm down lassie. I didn't hear OP say that.
He said "sex is a lot more enjoyable when meeting new potential partners in the real world". So what does it mean, Lassie? "
It means exactly that. Not that women of fab are shit shags. Just in real life it's more enjoyable. Thought that was clear enough. Lassie. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So the women of Fab are basically shit shag's compared to women in "the real world'? I'm pretty sure I live on the same planet as you or do I live in a different world or planet? What the fuck is the" Real World"??
Calm down lassie. I didn't hear OP say that.
He said "sex is a lot more enjoyable when meeting new potential partners in the real world". So what does it mean, Lassie? "
I meant the dynamic of meeting people in the real world seems to lead to more exciting sex in my experience. No insults intended |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So the women of Fab are basically shit shag's compared to women in "the real world'? I'm pretty sure I live on the same planet as you or do I live in a different world or planet? What the fuck is the" Real World"??
Calm down lassie. I didn't hear OP say that.
He said "sex is a lot more enjoyable when meeting new potential partners in the real world". So what does it mean, Lassie?
I meant the dynamic of meeting people in the real world seems to lead to more exciting sex in my experience. No insults intended"
Think he means the build up. Wanting it, but not knowing if you will get it. Making your best moves on a date or in a bar. Get a kiss and prey you can go a bit further. |
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"I originally came on here as I thought it would be easier to find the time within a busy schedule to connect and find what I was looking for compared to real life...
Now starting to quickly realise it's a lot easier and the sex is a lot more enjoyable when meeting new potential partners in the real world. Thoughts?
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Yes you're not wrong, but I think you need to have a certain mindset to be on here. |
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"So the women of Fab are basically shit shag's compared to women in "the real world'? I'm pretty sure I live on the same planet as you or do I live in a different world or planet? What the fuck is the" Real World"??
Calm down lassie. I didn't hear OP say that.
He said "sex is a lot more enjoyable when meeting new potential partners in the real world". So what does it mean, Lassie?
I meant the dynamic of meeting people in the real world seems to lead to more exciting sex in my experience. No insults intended"
OP you’re digging a big hole and upsetting certain lassies.....not a good move  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So the women of Fab are basically shit shag's compared to women in "the real world'? I'm pretty sure I live on the same planet as you or do I live in a different world or planet? What the fuck is the" Real World"??
Calm down lassie. I didn't hear OP say that.
He said "sex is a lot more enjoyable when meeting new potential partners in the real world". So what does it mean, Lassie?
I meant the dynamic of meeting people in the real world seems to lead to more exciting sex in my experience. No insults intended"
I know what you mean. It can be more satisfying when it’s not on a plate sometimes. |
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