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One line messages

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Being a part of the swinging scene for almost a year now, I sometime wonder why most couples and women claim to hate one line messages and all the stuff about cock pics, etc.

Been a member of a few clubs and it sometimes break my heart when I see folks who claim to be all hyped and not interested in cock pics and one line messages, just hide in corners and sit in couches not talking or chatting with anyone in the club.

FOLKS, WHO ARE WE KIDDING AND WHY SHOW OFF WHEN ALL THIS IS A SOCIAL COMMUNITY AND NOT A TINDER DATE.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How do you know that the people not interacting with others are the ones who say they hate cock pics and one liners?

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By *irginieWoman over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Finding it hard to have a view because I’m not entirely sure what it is you’re shouting about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because on here they can be what they want and type how they want.

If someone calls them out they can go into hiding.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's either later than my mind is telling me or I'm just confused.

I'm struggling to see the link between one liners, and interactions in a club environment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Seen and met a few on the scene hence my view, please.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Finding it hard to have a view because I’m not entirely sure what it is you’re shouting about.

V x "

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By *stellaWoman over a year ago

London

"Being a part of the swinging scene for almost a year now, I sometime wonder why most couples and women claim to hate one line messages and all the stuff about cock pics, etc.

FOLKS, WHO ARE WE KIDDING AND WHY SHOW OFF WHEN ALL THIS IS A SOCIAL COMMUNITY AND NOT A TINDER DATE.

VIEWS WELCOME BELOW, PLEASE.

I HATE ONE LINE MESSAGES AND COCK PICS, AND BEING JUDGED. And most of all I hate shouty capital letter typing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just a view, Miss. Not a shout. Just wondering why many complain about one line messages from single men especially. I know ladies and couples who send one line messages as well and yet none of these men complain about it.

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Why let it worry you at all OP? Surely better to worry about those whose criteria meet yours and you theirs, than fret about those that don't?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Good point. Easier to voice our views behind screens than in person. Noted.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Good point. Easier to voice our views behind screens than in person. Noted. "

I think your post would be better explained in person tbh because I’m confused

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Just a view, Miss. Not a shout. Just wondering why many complain about one line messages from single men especially. I know ladies and couples who send one line messages as well and yet none of these men complain about it. "

Not sure anyone 'complains' about one line messages as such, more about the content of them - either way as I said why pet it bother you if you're not matched?

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By *irginieWoman over a year ago

Near Marlborough

What on earth has that got to do with people who go to clubs? I don’t complain about one line messages or send them so can’t comment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

One line messages most claim they hate and want real conversation. Yet, when in the club when people can have easy and real conversation they go into hiding and not tend to socialise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Noted.

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By *stellaWoman over a year ago

London

Press reply + quote to whichever post you’re responding to OP, makes it easier for us to track.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Complainers shout louder than the offenders and with more lines usually imho....

....i rarely type more than a line or two to anyone, friends or randoms, otherwise you lose focus...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

True bro. I guess it shouldn't bother me. Just felt like voicing out my thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

no worries. A video call can be arranged.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Good point.

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By *stellaWoman over a year ago

London

no worries. A video call can be arranged. "

Press reply + quote to whichever post you’re responding to OP, makes it easier for us to track.

Like I just did here, to show you...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Will do.

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By *irginieWoman over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"One line messages most claim they hate and want real conversation. Yet, when in the club when people can have easy and real conversation they go into hiding and not tend to socialise. "

I can’t see how the two are related.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Complainers shout louder than the offenders and with more lines usually imho....

....i rarely type more than a line or two to anyone, friends or randoms, otherwise you lose focus... "

Noted bro.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"One line messages most claim they hate and want real conversation. Yet, when in the club when people can have easy and real conversation they go into hiding and not tend to socialise.

I can’t see how the two are related.

V x "

No bother. Most single men on the site will get what I'm trying to say.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I are confused still about you people.......

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

No idea what your point is, truth be told, but as a single female, all lazy 1 line messages and only have a cock on show is ignored by me, leaves me hassle free, so I am happy enough, though I would prefer they made some effort, otherwise, they are not discerning in what they are looking for, so can fuck off as far as I am concerned

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By *irginieWoman over a year ago

Near Marlborough

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No idea what your point is, truth be told, but as a single female, all lazy 1 line messages and only have a cock on show is ignored by me, leaves me hassle free, so I am happy enough, though I would prefer they made some effort, otherwise, they are not discerning in what they are looking for, so can fuck off as far as I am concerned

Hahahaha. OK. Noted.

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By *irginieWoman over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"One line messages most claim they hate and want real conversation. Yet, when in the club when people can have easy and real conversation they go into hiding and not tend to socialise.

I can’t see how the two are related.

V x

No bother. Most single men on the site will get what I'm trying to say. "

Yes I am a mere woman. I’ll get back to my crochet and soap operas this conversation is way too intellectual for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bitches be like doing their knitting and drinking coffee with vodka.... Smh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bitches be like doing their knitting and drinking coffee with vodka.... Smh "

I'm kitten, before you all kick my nuts inside out.....

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By *heffmMan over a year ago

sheffield

a one line message can be very long if you aren't good at punctuation

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"a one line message can be very long if you aren't good at punctuation "

I'm not

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

I'll write a relevant message when contacting someone..if it's more than one sentence so be it .. I'll include extra full stops to confuse them .....

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"Being a part of the swinging scene for almost a year now, I sometime wonder why most couples and women claim to hate one line messages and all the stuff about cock pics, etc.

FOLKS, WHO ARE WE KIDDING AND WHY SHOW OFF WHEN ALL THIS IS A SOCIAL COMMUNITY AND NOT A TINDER DATE.

VIEWS WELCOME BELOW, PLEASE.

People hiding and sitting in corners at clubs? I have been to two clubs and only seen pairs of people sat on sofas away from the bar as they are probably getting to know each other to maybe progress to a play room!

I don’t understand your concerns OP.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I hate cock pics and one liners.

But I can assure you, you won't find me hiding in any corner in a club.

I'll be the one kicking my heels up on the dance, being a total social butterfly and indulging in the odd orgy

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By *ulldog_71Man over a year ago

Sedgefield

"Being a part of the swinging scene for almost a year now, I sometime wonder why most couples and women claim to hate one line messages and all the stuff about cock pics, etc.

FOLKS, WHO ARE WE KIDDING AND WHY SHOW OFF WHEN ALL THIS IS A SOCIAL COMMUNITY AND NOT A TINDER DATE.

VIEWS WELCOME BELOW, PLEASE.

Just to clarify mate, how do you know that the people who don't like one liners and cock pics are the same people sat in the corners at clubs?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Someone people are just so shy just needs the right person to set them free some people just need time that’s all.. in a club I feel so shy but have to throw myself out there but years ago was a wall flower but wanted to be confident just need a boost.. some people just need a little gentle nudge xxx

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