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over a year ago
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I like to think it’s better if we both cum , if I’m first to I go down with my tongue to make sure she does , if she is first I have to keep going to be sure I do and she quite likes it then because I can really speed it up and go nice and hard at it x |
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over a year ago
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"No. I prefer men not to cum so that they're ready to go again when I climb on.  "
I quite like your philosophy there hun xx ,
We tend to do the girl on top first then when she’s ready she get into missionary position to go to the time we’ve body cum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seeing and feeling a woman orgasm is unbelievably sexy, so I definitely prefer it. "
I agree , feeling her tense up around my cock when it inside her feels so good and if I cum at the same time ,or almost it’s so so good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cumming isn't the best bit tbh.....
Which bit do you prefer, cleaning up after ? "
Nah, don't you dare laugh, but I like the initial penetration, and just being connected, I'm weird like that...... |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Cumming isn't the best bit tbh.....
Which bit do you prefer, cleaning up after ?
Nah, don't you dare laugh, but I like the initial penetration, and just being connected, I'm weird like that...... "
My sort of weird.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hubby doesn’t come sometimes ..it used to really effect me, like I wasn’t good enough to get him excited enough. Turned out it was some meds he was on and that was a side effect. I learned to embrace it as it meant I could get a good hard seeing to and come maybe half a dozen times before I had to shout enough. It has never bothered him, he gets a kick out of just making me come. Didn’t beleive hi when he said he doesn’t need to, to enjoy it. But I guess there must be some truth in it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes we all focus on the orgasm and miss the bit which we crave. The getting there. I can happily play for hours on the edge and feel more satisfied then a quick 20 mins romp. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cumming isn't the best bit tbh.....
Which bit do you prefer, cleaning up after ?
Nah, don't you dare laugh, but I like the initial penetration, and just being connected, I'm weird like that......
My sort of weird. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind so much if I don't cum but alike them to. Especially with a guy because it's like an end point.
I haven't been with anyone who struggles to cum though, I guess it wouldn't be a big deal if I knew in advance as long as they enjoyed it in other ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not bothered if I cum (mr) long as I’m getting mrs off that’s what counts and that gets me off knowing she’s satisfied and enjoying what I’m giving her. |
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"Can sex still be 'good' if the person you are with gets pleasure, but doesn't cum?
Is it important that the person you are sleeping with orgasm's?
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When Domme fucks me I have lots of orgasms ... I don’t cum .... I never ‘finish’ |
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over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 09/04/19 22:15:32]
I was just about to agree with this and you removed it
With what? 
Nobody will ever know now!  "
I'll l just have to guess and assume..... |
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"[Removed by poster at 09/04/19 22:15:32]
I was just about to agree with this and you removed it
With what?
Nobody will ever know now!
I'll l just have to guess and assume..... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s important for the person I’m with to orgasms as this is turn for me knowing that I have flicked there switch so to speak . As for me coming , I can come watching watching the news so it’s not as important . |
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"Cumming isn't the best bit tbh.....
Which bit do you prefer, cleaning up after ?
Nah, don't you dare laugh, but I like the initial penetration, and just being connected, I'm weird like that...... "
I totally agree with this. That first moment of penetration makes me feel like I've died and gone to heaven  |
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"[Removed by poster at 09/04/19 22:15:32]
I was just about to agree with this and you removed it "
I realised I answered the wrong question - talking about my own orgasms rather than other people's! :D
But yes, pressure to orgasm makes it much less likely to happen. Sex is about far more than just climax! |
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"Cumming isn't the best bit tbh.....
Which bit do you prefer, cleaning up after ?
Nah, don't you dare laugh, but I like the initial penetration, and just being connected, I'm weird like that......
I totally agree with this. That first moment of penetration makes me feel like I've died and gone to heaven "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It pisses me off no end that no one can make me cum"
This is why I don’t do one offs. Unless I know someone really well and I’m totally comfortable with them it’s not gonna happen! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I struggle due to meds. Probably 50/50 as to whether I do or not. Other factors such as tiredness have an effect too.
Doesn't bother me for the most part, can still have great sex.
I've slept with women who can't cum, again great sex.
It's not the be all and end all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never cum from penetration. And unless someone spends time giving me oral or using their fingers on my clit then I don't cum at all.
Occasionally it bothers me but a vast majority of the time it doesn't.
I prefer my partner to tell me if they have difficulty cumming so I don't feel I've done something wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It can still be good, but not if it happens repeatedly with the same partner. I would prefer it if we both had orgasms but I'd still appreciate and enjoy the sex if it didn't happen on occasion. |
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