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By *arlo82 OP Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

.....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel.

Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little?

I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Holy fuck! Having checked your profile that's fine with me if I lived that distance away, you are smokin' hot lady!

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By *orwegian BlueMan over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Absolutely no issues with travel..

I drove 70 miles to meet a lady for lunch, but then i like her loads and she is definitely worth it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel.

Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little?

I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone

Holy shite, I would walk on 50 miles of broken glass barefoot to meet you xx. Please move to Northern Ireland lol xx

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By *arlo82 OP Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Absolutely no issues with travel..

I drove 70 miles to meet a lady for lunch, but then i like her loads and she is definitely worth it. "

I'm going 140 miles on Sunday for dinner! Beyond baffling me now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone has their own preference but 10 and 26 miles doesn't seem that far to me. S x

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By *arlo82 OP Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Holy fuck! Having checked your profile that's fine with me if I lived that distance away, you are smokin' hot lady!"

Awww bless you! Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Was it Richard from The Undateables, both times?

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By *arlo82 OP Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel.

Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little?

I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone

Holy shite, I would walk on 50 miles of broken glass barefoot to meet you xx. Please move to Northern Ireland lol xx"

Having done fire walking I wouldn't advise walking on broken glass! I've never been to Northern Ireland I'm afraid xx

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By *arlo82 OP Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Was it Richard from The Undateables, both times?"

Ha I think I need to take myself on that show

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel.

Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little?

I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone

I dont drive but i am happy to travel an hour for the right meet

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By *arlo82 OP Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Everyone has their own preference but 10 and 26 miles doesn't seem that far to me. S x"

Of course we all do... I just think it's a bit of a joke. They were more than happy for me to travel just can't extend the same courtesy

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By *dam1971Man over a year ago

Bedford

I don’t think it’s the distance, it’s the people. For some, next door would be too far, don’t blame yourself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Was it Richard from The Undateables, both times?

Ha I think I need to take myself on that show"

Just make sure you're within a 7 mile radius of him when you do. And don't be in "Fucking Kent"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Often we read of guys/women/couples driving a certain distance to meet someone,only to be messed about at the last minute.

Perhaps these guys don't feel you are as fully committed to meeting as you say you are.

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By *he Mac LassWoman over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I always think distance isn’t a massive deal if you really want to meet someone. If they whinged over 25 miles I’d not want to make the effort either.

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By *arlo82 OP Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Was it Richard from The Undateables, both times?

Ha I think I need to take myself on that show

Just make sure you're within a 7 mile radius of him when you do. And don't be in "Fucking Kent"

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By *arlo82 OP Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Often we read of guys/women/couples driving a certain distance to meet someone,only to be messed about at the last minute.

Perhaps these guys don't feel you are as fully committed to meeting as you say you are.

Excuse me? They've met me before however it's always been me doing all the legwork and travelling.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Come to norwich haha

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By *arlo82 OP Couple over a year ago

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"I always think distance isn’t a massive deal if you really want to meet someone. If they whinged over 25 miles I’d not want to make the effort either. "

Distance really isn't. Most folk travel an hour for work

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel.

Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little?

I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone

It's their problem not yours, pair of planks

I'm in London, distance would not be an issue

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Often we read of guys/women/couples driving a certain distance to meet someone,only to be messed about at the last minute.

Perhaps these guys don't feel you are as fully committed to meeting as you say you are.

Excuse me? They've met me before however it's always been me doing all the legwork and travelling. "

Wasn't having a pop at you,just offering a possible explanation

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

26 miles is nothing . We have a limit of 40 just to out the wannabes ....but we’d travel further if there was an attraction

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By *layfulCouple86Couple over a year ago

Lancashire

".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel.

Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little?

I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone

We've driven two hours in the past, some people expect a good meet to be on their doorstep.

To be honest if 10 miles is too much effort then I'm not sure we'd want to see their effort in the bedroom either.

Also, wow OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No that’s not far

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel.

Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little?

I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone

10 miles is about max distance. 26 miles is way too far

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Jesus christ, I've ran further than that!

My girlfriend lives 300 miles away from me and she's worth every single one!

I can't help but think that there's something in the water in your neck of the woods

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

10 miles is far for me, as I can't drive any more.

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

I don’t think either is too far to travel. As you say dependant on personal circumstances it could be an issue but generally I think 26 miles is not a big deal.

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By *arlo82 OP Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel.

Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little?

I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone

10 miles is about max distance. 26 miles is way too far"

Must be a north east thing

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By *arlo82 OP Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Jesus christ, I've ran further than that!

My girlfriend lives 300 miles away from me and she's worth every single one!

I can't help but think that there's something in the water in your neck of the woods"

I think there is! And aye I've ran further. Beggars belief.

Oh well I'll stick to road trips and sex maybe 10 times a year

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By *inkipleasure4uCouple over a year ago

Farnborough

"I don’t think it’s the distance, it’s the people. For some, next door would be too far, don’t blame yourself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Too right, if your not on my doorstep, naked, with wine... then it’s just too much like hard work! Haha

10 miles being too far = doesn’t drive/probably still lives with his mum.

26 can be like an hours drive, that would depend for me..

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Maybe i'd travel 10 miles as that is only about 30 mins in my car.

No way would I travel 10 miles for a stranger if it was public transport.

I'd do 26 in my car for someone I knew well and if the set up was a good day. For a stranger...... never.

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By *arlo82 OP Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Too right, if your not on my doorstep, naked, with wine... then it’s just too much like hard work! Haha

10 miles being too far = doesn’t drive/probably still lives with his mum.

26 can be like an hours drive, that would depend for me.. "

I think if it's good sex then does it matter??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You don’t necessarily know that though. That’s the ‘depends’ bit really...

Otherwise, yeah!

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By *ydnNancyCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel.

Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little?

I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone

If it’s too far for them then that’s their choice?

It wouldn’t be for us, because 10-26 miles in a car isn’t exactly a road trip but to each their own etc

Nancy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I really liked someone I wouldn't care about the distance. Obviously it would take a bit of extra planning and patience if they were 2 or more hours away, but it could be worth the wait.

As for what I'd consider local, I'd be happy with driving up to an hour.

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By *arlo82 OP Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

"You don’t necessarily know that though. That’s the ‘depends’ bit really...

Otherwise, yeah! "

Haha of course good sex dependant.... my argument is i travel to them... They won't return the favour. I just give in round the north east tbf. More luck everywhere else

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By *hill44Man over a year ago

hinckley

No problem traveling for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You don’t necessarily know that though. That’s the ‘depends’ bit really...

Otherwise, yeah!

Haha of course good sex dependant.... my argument is i travel to them... They won't return the favour. I just give in round the north east tbf. More luck everywhere else"

Yeah, that’s a fair argument.. it’s up to people if they’ll travel, but you’re a bit of a nobber if you let other people travel and won’t themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't drive so by public transport I would have to either know and like him already or be pretty confident that he was going to turn up

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By *istress CockneyWoman over a year ago

LONDON

If you have travelled to them but unwilling to do likewise get em gone!

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By *arlo82 OP Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

"If you have travelled to them but unwilling to do likewise get em gone!"

That is my feeling! Not worth my time or effort

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have to drive that far for a carton of milk

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel.

Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little?

I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone

They obviously aren’t the right ones for you.

If you really want to meet someone you will put the travel time in

Don’t let it get you down, gorgeous lady

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That’s really not far at all. I have to use public transport and have traveled much farther than that x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I travelled 321 miles each way for my last meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel.

Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little?

I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone

They obviously aren’t the right ones for you.

If you really want to meet someone you will put the travel time in

Don’t let it get you down, gorgeous lady

With several hundred veris , I’m sure she’ll cope lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its been 1 hour since the op said she's just going to forget about it.

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By *arlo82 OP Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel.

Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little?

I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone

They obviously aren’t the right ones for you.

If you really want to meet someone you will put the travel time in

Don’t let it get you down, gorgeous lady

With several hundred veris , I’m sure she’ll cope lol"

If you paid attention you'd see social veris as I host weekly at a club and 2 of the largest socials in the UK!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you have travelled to them but unwilling to do likewise get em gone!

That is my feeling! Not worth my time or effort "

Thats my feeling too

Men that expect me to make all the effort?

History

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel.

Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little?

I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone

They obviously aren’t the right ones for you.

If you really want to meet someone you will put the travel time in

Don’t let it get you down, gorgeous lady

With several hundred veris , I’m sure she’ll cope lol

If you paid attention you'd see social veris as I host weekly at a club and 2 of the largest socials in the UK! "

Well yes of course I noticed. Looked at your pics etc. Are you telling me u find it hard to get a meet?

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By *arlo82 OP Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel.

Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little?

I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone

They obviously aren’t the right ones for you.

If you really want to meet someone you will put the travel time in

Don’t let it get you down, gorgeous lady

With several hundred veris , I’m sure she’ll cope lol

If you paid attention you'd see social veris as I host weekly at a club and 2 of the largest socials in the UK!

Well yes of course I noticed. Looked at your pics etc. Are you telling me u find it hard to get a meet?"

It's damn near impossible. I travel to Manchester/Blackpool/Liverpool because no one meets round here. Not had 1 this year.. Think I had 2 last year. If it wasn't for my excursions I would just wank myself into oblivion.

Does also say on my profile.. north east most sexless ever

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel.

Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little?

I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone

They obviously aren’t the right ones for you.

If you really want to meet someone you will put the travel time in

Don’t let it get you down, gorgeous lady

With several hundred veris , I’m sure she’ll cope lol

If you paid attention you'd see social veris as I host weekly at a club and 2 of the largest socials in the UK!

Well yes of course I noticed. Looked at your pics etc. Are you telling me u find it hard to get a meet?

Does also say on my profile.. north east most sexless ever"

You'll get dozens of offers now.

They'll all expect you to go to them though

Naturally

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel.

Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little?

I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone

They obviously aren’t the right ones for you.

If you really want to meet someone you will put the travel time in

Don’t let it get you down, gorgeous lady

With several hundred veris , I’m sure she’ll cope lol

If you paid attention you'd see social veris as I host weekly at a club and 2 of the largest socials in the UK!

Well yes of course I noticed. Looked at your pics etc. Are you telling me u find it hard to get a meet?

Does also say on my profile.. north east most sexless ever"

Don’t get it sorry. A woman like you?. Fuck, even I get more meets lol ‘. Have 5 days free soon and tempted to travel and hopeless over here

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By *arlo82 OP Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel.

Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little?

I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone

They obviously aren’t the right ones for you.

If you really want to meet someone you will put the travel time in

Don’t let it get you down, gorgeous lady

With several hundred veris , I’m sure she’ll cope lol

If you paid attention you'd see social veris as I host weekly at a club and 2 of the largest socials in the UK!

Well yes of course I noticed. Looked at your pics etc. Are you telling me u find it hard to get a meet?

Does also say on my profile.. north east most sexless ever

You'll get dozens of offers now.

They'll all expect you to go to them though

Naturally"

Hahaa never do lovely. I'm honest about how shit it is here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't drive so I'm limited to metros

it's something I need to get out the way this year because I'm missing out on loads of jobs because I can't drive yet.... Real shitter though could of been on a £28 per hour job that was going but I needed a driver license

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel.

Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little?

I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone

I’ve had this too. I don’t even drive but have no problem travelling for someone special.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I drove 96 miles a day for work

what's wrong with some people hahaha

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By *arlo82 OP Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

"I don't drive so I'm limited to metros

Aww no way! Get it sorted! The pennies are there to be made

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't drive so I'm limited to metros

Aww no way! Get it sorted! The pennies are there to be made "
you're not wrong, as soon as the boat goes back in the water and is ready I could get the driving out the way...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel.

Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little?

I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone

If you click with the person then surely distance shouldn't be a problem at all ... all I can say is more fool them !!

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

I don't drive so it can be problem for me. I recently met someone who was far from me. I got a lift there and a train back in the morning which took an hour. It was a bit of a mission to say the least. But sooo worth it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i dont think they had any intention of wanting to meet there seems to be a new (ok not so new) breed of men on here that seem to want to play games and grind some women down so that the feel good when they log off leaving the woman to feel a little put out ... i just block everytime im not here to play there silly games

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Often we read of guys/women/couples driving a certain distance to meet someone,only to be messed about at the last minute.

Perhaps these guys don't feel you are as fully committed to meeting as you say you are.

Excuse me? They've met me before however it's always been me doing all the legwork and travelling. "

I dont think you get to use the "excuse me?" Outrage comment when your dripfeeding info on if youve met before etx

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By *exy studMan over a year ago

Derby

Your as fit as fuck and worth travelling for xx

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

I was dating a woman last year, we used to meet in the middle (happened to be Birmingham) then weekends away in London and Brighton.all quite a distance, but she was certainly worth it. As been said on here several times, if that person is worth it you'd travel, I've no doubt you've had a few offers this afternoon

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If it was new people I'd say they may be using distance as an excuse rather than saying they don't fancy you. It's less hurtful.

If you've already met them and driven to them, yes they're taking the piss. Up to you if you meet them again but I wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most I've travelled for someone was 45 minutes on a metro and 3 different buses taking 2 hours to get there ... Never again though I'd rather drive when I learn to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I personally wouldn't travel more than 10 miles.

That's only because I live at home with a conservative family, which will raise questions if I'm leaving to meet late at night and taking the car with me.

Also I don't want to risk traveling far and the person saying no last minute. I've seen lots of posts about no shows so I can't justify the travel.

The only exception I'll make is for people I've met before, but that would still require planning ahead

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If they can't drive (or be arsed to), they probs can't fuck (or be arsed to) either.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If it was new people I'd say they may be using distance as an excuse rather than saying they don't fancy you. It's less hurtful.

If you've already met them and driven to them, yes they're taking the piss. Up to you if you meet them again but I wouldn't. "

Really? Nearly 2 hours of traveling plus the meet time could be out of the scope of most peoples free time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If they can't drive (or be arsed to), they probs can't fuck (or be arsed to) either.....

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By *inkysexpotMan over a year ago

leeds

Erm.....ok.....that's no distance at all!! I drive about 10 miles to work and public transport wouldn't be a problem either....I just like to drive

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If it was new people I'd say they may be using distance as an excuse rather than saying they don't fancy you. It's less hurtful.

If you've already met them and driven to them, yes they're taking the piss. Up to you if you meet them again but I wouldn't.

Really? Nearly 2 hours of traveling plus the meet time could be out of the scope of most peoples free time.

So I'd let them meet someone else. My free time is just as important as theirs.

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

I ike a relaxed unhurried meet a drink and flirt. Teasing with a taste of what's to come. So a couple of hours is nothing really. I don't want a wham bam thank you mam meet. So if a person hasn't got time for a real experience I'd rather not play.

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By *uciyassMan over a year ago

sheffield

Unfortunately my bus pass gives me limited travel and with my weak bladder I find it easier to stay put on my couch

I will however go open the door to let the ladies in but from past experience o find that even s chore so I’ve installed s buzzer

Having said all that I’ve only met one person at considerable distance but unfortunately I was very flatulent that day so no sexi time Shame really as she was a bit of s hottie and had lovely boots

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer local meets as I use public transport and prefer to meet in the evening.

I don't like the thought of someone travelling too far to meet me in case they're dissappointed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel.

Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little?

I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone

They obviously aren’t the right ones for you.

If you really want to meet someone you will put the travel time in

Don’t let it get you down, gorgeous lady

With several hundred veris , I’m sure she’ll cope lol

If you paid attention you'd see social veris as I host weekly at a club and 2 of the largest socials in the UK!

Well yes of course I noticed. Looked at your pics etc. Are you telling me u find it hard to get a meet?

Does also say on my profile.. north east most sexless ever"

Is it really that bad? It never used to be that tough... even for me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel.

Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little?

I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone

They obviously aren’t the right ones for you.

If you really want to meet someone you will put the travel time in

Don’t let it get you down, gorgeous lady

With several hundred veris , I’m sure she’ll cope lol

If you paid attention you'd see social veris as I host weekly at a club and 2 of the largest socials in the UK!

Well yes of course I noticed. Looked at your pics etc. Are you telling me u find it hard to get a meet?

Does also say on my profile.. north east most sexless ever

Is it really that bad? It never used to be that tough... even for me! "

I think men under-estimate how hard it can be for attractive, high-profile (eg club-going, social-organising) women such as the OP to find reliable men to meet. So many will be intimidated

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

I do drive, my maximum is 40 minutes away-ish.

Any further than that takes planning and commitment, I've done it, but usually to meet forum people who I think I'll get along with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Really not that far at all OP, surely an hours drive, tops?

Well worth it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I went to wales 11 hour round trip for acoffee a burger a natter and to flash my tits at grannys who passed

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I couldn't be assed to walk down the rd right now just for sex.

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By *arlo82 OP Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel.

Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little?

I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone

They obviously aren’t the right ones for you.

If you really want to meet someone you will put the travel time in

Don’t let it get you down, gorgeous lady

With several hundred veris , I’m sure she’ll cope lol

If you paid attention you'd see social veris as I host weekly at a club and 2 of the largest socials in the UK!

Well yes of course I noticed. Looked at your pics etc. Are you telling me u find it hard to get a meet?

Does also say on my profile.. north east most sexless ever

Is it really that bad? It never used to be that tough... even for me!

I think men under-estimate how hard it can be for attractive, high-profile (eg club-going, social-organising) women such as the OP to find reliable men to meet. So many will be intimidated"

In a nutshell! But thanks for the compliment too. It's so difficult and I don't know anyway round it as I love doing events but would love a strong enough character to be my fwb

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By *ippy68Man over a year ago

Weymouth

What is wrong with these guys? I would be there in a heartbeat at either of those distances and further! You are way too good for them xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me up to 30 miles is reasonable. I guess it depends how much they want to meet. 10 miles is easy on public transport as long as there’s a bus service.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

".....I know its relative etc and dependant on whether people drive or public transport......BUT 10 miles and 26 miles is the distance the last 2 men have said is too far to travel.

Is it just me or is this taking the piss a little?

I am happy to drive hour easily or further to meet someone

I don’t drive but will use public transport to meet, I’ve travelled over an hour to a neutral place.

If the person is worth it you / they travel, I’ve got someone coming from Wales for a meet, will be our first time, but know we will get on from the chat we’ve already had

But some think if your not around the corner or a 10 min drive / travel it’s not worth... we’ll they aren’t worth the effort either !

Don’t let it get you down hun

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