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Am I the only guy that doesn't enjoy a bj
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They just don't do it for me but it seems pretty much every guy does enjoy them."
I don't think you're alone!
I much prefer getting a handjob/penetrative sex rather than a blowjob
I'm always concerned about my dick getting caught on teeth |
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" And it also depends a great deal in the skill of the person giving you the BJ. It can vary a great deal!"
^ this. Had some awesome ones and some absolute shockers over the years. It definitely helps if the giver enjoys giving and doesn't treat it like a chore. |
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I’ve never really enjoyed fellatio. Never got anything out of it outside of a 69 (where it’s the other end that gets me going). Only one I’ve ever enjoyed was on one of the ultra rare dominant phases and was less fellatio, more irrumatio. |
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I'm sort of the same. I get the most pleasure from being with a woman that is really horny and enjoying herself, which usually translates into me preferring to be the giver rather than the receiver.
That said, if a woman I was with loved sucking cock, and audibly and visibly enjoyed it, that would turn me on A LOT. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any particular reason why?
I know I struggled to cross over the Rainbow Bridge from BJs for a long time. Then one day I found myself suddenly able to. Think it was a case of just relaxing and going with the flow.
However, I find that after a long period of sexy time and "Edging", BJs can be too sensitive. As such, I find they are not enjoyable at that point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d much rather go down on a woman than have them do it to me.. always get more from it, always have. I mean, it’s nice and it’s nice to watch, but it’s not exactly toe-curlingly amazing. |
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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago
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Loads of blokes don’t like it.
Some coz they’ve only had crap ones.
Some coz they can’t relax and can’t cum
Some don’t like the feeling.
Loads of other reasons. If it doesn’t bother you don’t worry. If you want to change it. You need to know what it is that you’re not currently liking about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They just don't do it for me but it seems pretty much every guy does enjoy them."
I have never found anyone that was any good at them, this goes for both genders. It’s ok if I have something else to do at the time: like reading a book, or 69. |
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"Any particular reason why?
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I just find them a turn off and usually go flaccid during.
It doesn't bother me, I was just wondering really.
It's good to know that no matter how weird you are, there's always somebody else out there equally as weird
I wonder how many of the guys casting "love em" votes are cut - I'm uncut (I can't be bothered to go checking lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Any particular reason why?
I just find them a turn off and usually go flaccid during.
It doesn't bother me, I was just wondering really.
It's good to know that no matter how weird you are, there's always somebody else out there equally as weird
I wonder how many of the guys casting "love em" votes are cut - I'm uncut (I can't be bothered to go checking lol) "
Surely being uncut should heighten the pleasure? |
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I wonder how many of the guys casting "love em" votes are cut - I'm uncut (I can't be bothered to go checking lol) "
Cut here. Not sure that it has any bearing on my enjoyment of a BJ; that is pretty much entirely down to technique. One thing I'm not a huge fan of is hand-jobs though, again, unless the giver has good technique they can seem rushed, mechanical and either too hard or not hard enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have never found anything I don't enjoy doing provided the is a connection between you. If the passion is flowing, then I find everything amazing. If no passion, then everything is just bound to be less appealing. |
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As someone who really loves them(receiving ye smartarses).. I’m pretty curious.. in general if a guy says he doesn’t like them, it’s down to the person giving, so is it just the one person you dislike with how they give it?
Is it the general sensation you dislike?
Or going by one of your previous answers is it you just think your cock shouldn’t be in a women’s mouth and maybe you think it’s degrading?
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