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Are you a good judge of character?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think I am but can sometimes be a bit gullible, luckily D usually picks up on things I don’t, I like to take people as I find them and expect people to do the same with me ! Can you tell if you like people straight away or do you reserve judgement until you know them a bit better? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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There are some people I warm to immediately and have an instinctive feeling about that we'll get on - others it might take me a while to completely get to know and warm to them, although I am pretty much an open book to anyone myself and have an "I am what I am, take me or leave me" approach in that respect. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There are some people I warm to immediately and have an instinctive feeling about that we'll get on - others it might take me a while to completely get to know and warm to them, although I am pretty much an open book to anyone myself and have an "I am what I am, take me or leave me" approach in that respect."
I’m the same when it comes to myself, if people don’t like me as I am then that’s there problem, that’s not to say I don’t like to make a good first impression but certainly wouldn’t put on any ‘fronts’ to make people like me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I make snap judgements, as most people do I would imagine. I am however happy to be proved wrong, and will give people another chance to make an impression. I know myself I can quite awkward the first time meeting, so have it in mind that others might be. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"There are some people I warm to immediately and have an instinctive feeling about that we'll get on - others it might take me a while to completely get to know and warm to them, although I am pretty much an open book to anyone myself and have an "I am what I am, take me or leave me" approach in that respect.
I’m the same when it comes to myself, if people don’t like me as I am then that’s there problem, that’s not to say I don’t like to make a good first impression but certainly wouldn’t put on any ‘fronts’ to make people like me x"
Actually the flip side of my opening statement is there are people I can take an immediate dislike to too - which can happen just as easily as taking a liking to them - whichever way it goes, I'm rarely wrong, although have had my mind changed on occasion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am in real life, but i've got it completely wrong with a few people on here...I guess that's what happens when I listen to my genitals instead of my gut  "
Ye same, I think you can tell a lot from looking in peoples eyes , which you can’t do online , they say the eyes are the windows to the soul  |
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"I am in real life, but i've got it completely wrong with a few people on here...I guess that's what happens when I listen to my genitals instead of my gut
Ye same, I think you can tell a lot from looking in peoples eyes , which you can’t do online , they say the eyes are the windows to the soul "
Absolutely, the eyes and body language can tell you an awful lot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. I didn't used to be, I was brought up to see the best in people but I've since learned to listen to my gut feeling, it rarely steers me wrong."
So much this
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I am in real life, but i've got it completely wrong with a few people on here...I guess that's what happens when I listen to my genitals instead of my gut "
Yep this. Your instinct is always right. Why the hell did I do that I ask myself alot. Actions speak louder than words. |
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It's always a bit hit and miss. I have a relatively good gut instinct and I like to keep an open mind, but I'm pretty unforgiving and go for 'one strike you're out' unless it's a blurred line then I tentatively turn a blind eye.... til the next time... then YOU'RE OUT! |
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I don't think you can judge character immediately. Of course we all form a first impression and often that sticks.
People sometimes change their mind about both of us once they know us better, on first impression we're quite difficult to guage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having just completed my annual diversity, equality and incusivity training I will say yes.
Everybody gets the same baseline if being a dick. Unless proven otherwise."
U sound like the same training i had lol |
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