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By *an_Lexa OP Couple
over a year ago
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Continuing the theme on types
What is it about older women that really truly attracts you?
Is it honestly just an ideology you’ve created in your head.
It’s surely not experience and confidence. A younger woman can have bother those things.
When you are looking, are you looking for someone who looks older, is that what appeals? I do ask this because when asked in the forums most women pipe up with how they actually look younger than they are, so would that put you off?
Are you looking for a motherly experience?
I’m honestly intrigued |
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over a year ago
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When I am attracted to someone from look, personality and attitude, age gap become irrelevant. Having said that it does not mean I want to physical with her, I would enjoy his/her company and meet regularly, in relation any kind off frequency of mind has to match to share the thoughts. (-+10 for physical relation I think it is fair and acceptable for me, beyond this just kink/fetish and I hate this. |
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I don't go looking for older women myself, but the ones I've met have had their shit together which is more appealing that some of the younger women who were melters. This is not always the case though as you would expect, every woman is different and variety is the spice of life  |
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By *an_Lexa OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I don't go looking for older women myself, but the ones I've met have had their shit together which is more appealing that some of the younger women who were melters. This is not always the case though as you would expect, every woman is different and variety is the spice of life "
I can definitely understand the appeal of thinking you have someone who can keep their shit together.
But sadly I don’t think age is always a guarantee on that from talking with male friends. |
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"I don't go looking for older women myself, but the ones I've met have had their shit together which is more appealing that some of the younger women who were melters. This is not always the case though as you would expect, every woman is different and variety is the spice of life
I can definitely understand the appeal of thinking you have someone who can keep their shit together.
But sadly I don’t think age is always a guarantee on that from talking with male friends."
It all depends on the person
We’ve met some fab young guys and some great people our age but as a rule if we have to put age filters on here we put our ideal preferences .
In real life then attraction happens without filters
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"I don't go looking for older women myself, but the ones I've met have had their shit together which is more appealing that some of the younger women who were melters. This is not always the case though as you would expect, every woman is different and variety is the spice of life
I can definitely understand the appeal of thinking you have someone who can keep their shit together.
But sadly I don’t think age is always a guarantee on that from talking with male friends."
Agreed, everyone is different and there are no set rules as to how age might define your actions. Plus the melters I met I would likely go with again, it's hard to pass up on a tight ass and firm breasts  |
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"I don't go looking for older women myself, but the ones I've met have had their shit together which is more appealing that some of the younger women who were melters. This is not always the case though as you would expect, every woman is different and variety is the spice of life
I can definitely understand the appeal of thinking you have someone who can keep their shit together.
But sadly I don’t think age is always a guarantee on that from talking with male friends.
Agreed, everyone is different and there are no set rules as to how age might define your actions. Plus the melters I met I would likely go with again, it's hard to pass up on a tight ass and firm breasts "
Lol plenty of older people are firmer than many of the younger ones 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't go looking for older women myself, but the ones I've met have had their shit together which is more appealing that some of the younger women who were melters. This is not always the case though as you would expect, every woman is different and variety is the spice of life
I can definitely understand the appeal of thinking you have someone who can keep their shit together.
But sadly I don’t think age is always a guarantee on that from talking with male friends.
Agreed, everyone is different and there are no set rules as to how age might define your actions. Plus the melters I met I would likely go with again, it's hard to pass up on a tight ass and firm breasts
Lol plenty of older people are firmer than many of the younger ones
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As soon as I hit post message I realised how what I had written must have sounded lol doh! The younger girls that have went with had tight asses and firm breasts is all I meant. I'm certain there are plenty of older ladies in fantastic shape, I need only look around this site to see that  |
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In my experience older ladies tend to be more comfortable in their own skin and this is evident in the bedroom. Not all are but a large majority accept what they are and flaunt it with confidence which is very sexy.
Younger women, I would say below 35 often hold themselves to the ideals portrayed in magazines and other media. Believing that stretch marks and cellulite and other normal things make them unnatractive. This can also be evident as I have met women who won't fully undress or have to turn lights right down etc. Again not all do but a large proportion do.
I find this very sad. Of those who I met who wouldn't undress or were very wary about doing so, when they did they looked bloody awesome to me.
Lumps, bumps, stretch marks, scars, freckles, moles are all part of being normal and what make each person unique.
If everyone was flawless it would actually be quite boring.
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By (user no longer on site)
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The taboo of age differences.
Having them act younger than their age with nerves and desire.
They generally appear more attractive and confident to me.
Bored of women my own age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't go looking for older women myself, but the ones I've met have had their shit together which is more appealing that some of the younger women who were melters. This is not always the case though as you would expect, every woman is different and variety is the spice of life
I can definitely understand the appeal of thinking you have someone who can keep their shit together.
But sadly I don’t think age is always a guarantee on that from talking with male friends.
Agreed, everyone is different and there are no set rules as to how age might define your actions. Plus the melters I met I would likely go with again, it's hard to pass up on a tight ass and firm breasts
Lol plenty of older people are firmer than many of the younger ones
As soon as I hit post message I realised how what I had written must have sounded lol doh! The younger girls that have went with had tight asses and firm breasts is all I meant. I'm certain there are plenty of older ladies in fantastic shape, I need only look around this site to see that "
If that's important to you then great. I'm not tight and I'm in crap shape but I'm still desired by a very attractive, and in shape , younger man/men.
I'm looking forward to sex into my twilight years  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The taboo of age differences.
Having them act younger than their age with nerves and desire.
They generally appear more attractive and confident to me.
Bored of women my own age. "
May I ask why you want and older woman to act younger?
I've often thought I can be a bit childish at times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't go looking for older women myself, but the ones I've met have had their shit together which is more appealing that some of the younger women who were melters. This is not always the case though as you would expect, every woman is different and variety is the spice of life
I can definitely understand the appeal of thinking you have someone who can keep their shit together.
But sadly I don’t think age is always a guarantee on that from talking with male friends.
Agreed, everyone is different and there are no set rules as to how age might define your actions. Plus the melters I met I would likely go with again, it's hard to pass up on a tight ass and firm breasts
Lol plenty of older people are firmer than many of the younger ones
As soon as I hit post message I realised how what I had written must have sounded lol doh! The younger girls that have went with had tight asses and firm breasts is all I meant. I'm certain there are plenty of older ladies in fantastic shape, I need only look around this site to see that
If that's important to you then great. I'm not tight and I'm in crap shape but I'm still desired by a very attractive, and in shape , younger man/men.
I'm looking forward to sex into my twilight years "
A woman in good shape is nice, a woman I'm attracted to is what's important to me. Body shape isn't the be all and end all for me, if you are confident your skin then I find that appealing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't specifically look for older women. I just tend to attract women older than me. "
I find I prefer the conversations with younger men-with a few exceptions.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The taboo of age differences.
Having them act younger than their age with nerves and desire.
They generally appear more attractive and confident to me.
Bored of women my own age.
May I ask why you want and older woman to act younger?
I've often thought I can be a bit childish at times."
I don’t ‘want’ them to act younger per se. I just think that, there’s something magical when they get nervous and giddy at the same time. It’s joyful to bring others joy. I feel that women my own age try and mask their feelings: which leads to everything feeling staged.
I think that everyone is rather childish when allowed to be their true selves - and why shouldn’t we be, life is short. |
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"I don't go looking for older women myself, but the ones I've met have had their shit together which is more appealing that some of the younger women who were melters. This is not always the case though as you would expect, every woman is different and variety is the spice of life
I can definitely understand the appeal of thinking you have someone who can keep their shit together.
But sadly I don’t think age is always a guarantee on that from talking with male friends.
Agreed, everyone is different and there are no set rules as to how age might define your actions. Plus the melters I met I would likely go with again, it's hard to pass up on a tight ass and firm breasts
Lol plenty of older people are firmer than many of the younger ones
As soon as I hit post message I realised how what I had written must have sounded lol doh! The younger girls that have went with had tight asses and firm breasts is all I meant. I'm certain there are plenty of older ladies in fantastic shape, I need only look around this site to see that
If that's important to you then great. I'm not tight and I'm in crap shape but I'm still desired by a very attractive, and in shape , younger man/men.
I'm looking forward to sex into my twilight years "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't specifically look for older women. I just tend to attract women older than me.
I find I prefer the conversations with younger men-with a few exceptions.
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I've never noticed much difference in conversation between ages. Literature seems to be the make or break for me. |
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By *an_Lexa OP Couple
over a year ago
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"In my experience older ladies tend to be more comfortable in their own skin and this is evident in the bedroom. Not all are but a large majority accept what they are and flaunt it with confidence which is very sexy.
Younger women, I would say below 35 often hold themselves to the ideals portrayed in magazines and other media. Believing that stretch marks and cellulite and other normal things make them unnatractive. This can also be evident as I have met women who won't fully undress or have to turn lights right down etc. Again not all do but a large proportion do.
I find this very sad. Of those who I met who wouldn't undress or were very wary about doing so, when they did they looked bloody awesome to me.
Lumps, bumps, stretch marks, scars, freckles, moles are all part of being normal and what make each person unique.
If everyone was flawless it would actually be quite boring.
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Well if that comes through for many others then that’s a real understandable trait. It’s something I’m a huge advocate of. You get what you get and you bloody well like it coz I do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m not looking for the motherly experience Lex. I’m looking for a the bloody well amazing sex experience! 
Oh yeah! So how much older you looking for?
Asking for a friend  "
Tell your friend 5-10 years is perfect |
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By *an_Lexa OP Couple
over a year ago
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"The taboo of age differences.
Having them act younger than their age with nerves and desire.
They generally appear more attractive and confident to me.
Bored of women my own age.
May I ask why you want and older woman to act younger?
I've often thought I can be a bit childish at times.
I don’t ‘want’ them to act younger per se. I just think that, there’s something magical when they get nervous and giddy at the same time. It’s joyful to bring others joy. I feel that women my own age try and mask their feelings: which leads to everything feeling staged.
I think that everyone is rather childish when allowed to be their true selves - and why shouldn’t we be, life is short. "
No I think I get what you mean, it’s back to similar to what Mr Monkey was saying about being true to yourself.
I can be incredibly giddy and excitable. I’m like a child on Christmas Eve and tend not to hold back. Why bother, you only have one life, live every moment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's not a preference to go looking for an older woman it's just personally I'm able to interact much better with women older than myself and my experiences have always been much better xx |
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"I don't specifically look for older women. I just tend to attract women older than me.
That’s maybe your boyish charms and them wanting to mother you "
I’d hate to mother anyone lol
My thoughts are always far from maternal |
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By *an_Lexa OP Couple
over a year ago
Sunderland |
"I’m not looking for the motherly experience Lex. I’m looking for a the bloody well amazing sex experience!
Oh yeah! So how much older you looking for?
Asking for a friend
Tell your friend 5-10 years is perfect "
I’ll pass that on. Information that will be well received. Sounds rather perfect to me too actually |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't specifically look for older women. I just tend to attract women older than me.
That’s maybe your boyish charms and them wanting to mother you
I’d hate to mother anyone lol
My thoughts are always far from maternal "
I'm more than glad your thoughts are not maternal... I'd be worried otherwise xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For me it's simply that i'm not interested in dating anyone right now, and despite the gorgeous figures I see here, i've never slept with anyone outside my own age range.
Also Sleeping with someone who knows what they like and dont like seems like fun, I find girls my own age wont really communicate that well in bed and would rather just sit there and have bad sex than be open about it if you're not doing it for them.
Plus no doubt I can be shown a thing or two
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m not looking for the motherly experience Lex. I’m looking for a the bloody well amazing sex experience!
Oh yeah! So how much older you looking for?
Asking for a friend
Tell your friend 5-10 years is perfect
I’ll pass that on. Information that will be well received. Sounds rather perfect to me too actually "
Ooft - I just read that as bloody amazing sex with Lexa and her friend !!! Where do I sign up?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't specifically look for older women. I just tend to attract women older than me.
That’s maybe your boyish charms and them wanting to mother you "
I hope not... |
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By *an_Lexa OP Couple
over a year ago
Sunderland |
"I’m not looking for the motherly experience Lex. I’m looking for a the bloody well amazing sex experience!
Oh yeah! So how much older you looking for?
Asking for a friend
Tell your friend 5-10 years is perfect
I’ll pass that on. Information that will be well received. Sounds rather perfect to me too actually
Ooft - I just read that as bloody amazing sex with Lexa and her friend !!! Where do I sign up? "
Ooh quick where do I find a willing friend.
Fuck no I mean I’ll tell my friend you have impure thoughts. Tut tut bad man |
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By *an_Lexa OP Couple
over a year ago
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"For me it's simply that i'm not interested in dating anyone right now, and despite the gorgeous figures I see here, i've never slept with anyone outside my own age range.
Also Sleeping with someone who knows what they like and dont like seems like fun, I find girls my own age wont really communicate that well in bed and would rather just sit there and have bad sex than be open about it if you're not doing it for them.
Plus no doubt I can be shown a thing or two
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Now you’re making it sound that you’re a crap shag. Seriously not selling yourself saying girls would rather put up with bad sex so I want an older woman to tell me where I’m going wrong |
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"For me it's simply that i'm not interested in dating anyone right now, and despite the gorgeous figures I see here, i've never slept with anyone outside my own age range.
Also Sleeping with someone who knows what they like and dont like seems like fun, I find girls my own age wont really communicate that well in bed and would rather just sit there and have bad sex than be open about it if you're not doing it for them.
Plus no doubt I can be shown a thing or two
Now you’re making it sound that you’re a crap shag. Seriously not selling yourself saying girls would rather put up with bad sex so I want an older woman to tell me where I’m going wrong "
Well that's one way to interpret what I said I suppose.
I was simply meaning that when you don't immediately have chemistry with someone I find that younger women aren't as willing to discuss it, want the guy to do all the work/don't chip in.
I've had hookups from another website before and they basically all amounted to "Ok let me lay here, go to work".
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By *an_Lexa OP Couple
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"For me it's simply that i'm not interested in dating anyone right now, and despite the gorgeous figures I see here, i've never slept with anyone outside my own age range.
Also Sleeping with someone who knows what they like and dont like seems like fun, I find girls my own age wont really communicate that well in bed and would rather just sit there and have bad sex than be open about it if you're not doing it for them.
Plus no doubt I can be shown a thing or two
Now you’re making it sound that you’re a crap shag. Seriously not selling yourself saying girls would rather put up with bad sex so I want an older woman to tell me where I’m going wrong
Well that's one way to interpret what I said I suppose.
I was simply meaning that when you don't immediately have chemistry with someone I find that younger women aren't as willing to discuss it, want the guy to do all the work/don't chip in.
I've had hookups from another website before and they basically all amounted to "Ok let me lay here, go to work".
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Now that my dear I think comes down to communication before you meet. You’d know she was gonna be like that and therefore you’d be making a choice to still go ahead probably based purely on physicality’s. Not that I’m saying there’s anything wrong with that but well, you have to accept it. Don’t rush things, find out. Or accept the consequences of your actions
But sounds like you’ve decided you want to try something different, doesn’t mean it has to be an older woman, just means you have to be patient and not such an eager young pup |
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"I’m not looking for the motherly experience Lex. I’m looking for a the bloody well amazing sex experience!
Oh yeah! So how much older you looking for?
Asking for a friend
Tell your friend 5-10 years is perfect
I’ll pass that on. Information that will be well received. Sounds rather perfect to me too actually
Ooft - I just read that as bloody amazing sex with Lexa and her friend !!! Where do I sign up?
Ooh quick where do I find a willing friend.
Fuck no I mean I’ll tell my friend you have impure thoughts. Tut tut bad man "
Moi - impure? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me it's simply that i'm not interested in dating anyone right now, and despite the gorgeous figures I see here, i've never slept with anyone outside my own age range.
Also Sleeping with someone who knows what they like and dont like seems like fun, I find girls my own age wont really communicate that well in bed and would rather just sit there and have bad sex than be open about it if you're not doing it for them.
Plus no doubt I can be shown a thing or two
Now you’re making it sound that you’re a crap shag. Seriously not selling yourself saying girls would rather put up with bad sex so I want an older woman to tell me where I’m going wrong
Well that's one way to interpret what I said I suppose.
I was simply meaning that when you don't immediately have chemistry with someone I find that younger women aren't as willing to discuss it, want the guy to do all the work/don't chip in.
I've had hookups from another website before and they basically all amounted to "Ok let me lay here, go to work".
Now that my dear I think comes down to communication before you meet. You’d know she was gonna be like that and therefore you’d be making a choice to still go ahead probably based purely on physicality’s. Not that I’m saying there’s anything wrong with that but well, you have to accept it. Don’t rush things, find out. Or accept the consequences of your actions
But sounds like you’ve decided you want to try something different, doesn’t mean it has to be an older woman, just means you have to be patient and not such an eager young pup "
Well i'm sorry to say your baseless assumptions are completely off. It wasn't true in either case that "I knew they'd be like that" at all. They were very different in person than online.
I'm not a complete novice at this, despite what you seem to be making out |
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By *an_Lexa OP Couple
over a year ago
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"For me it's simply that i'm not interested in dating anyone right now, and despite the gorgeous figures I see here, i've never slept with anyone outside my own age range.
Also Sleeping with someone who knows what they like and dont like seems like fun, I find girls my own age wont really communicate that well in bed and would rather just sit there and have bad sex than be open about it if you're not doing it for them.
Plus no doubt I can be shown a thing or two
Now you’re making it sound that you’re a crap shag. Seriously not selling yourself saying girls would rather put up with bad sex so I want an older woman to tell me where I’m going wrong
Well that's one way to interpret what I said I suppose.
I was simply meaning that when you don't immediately have chemistry with someone I find that younger women aren't as willing to discuss it, want the guy to do all the work/don't chip in.
I've had hookups from another website before and they basically all amounted to "Ok let me lay here, go to work".
Now that my dear I think comes down to communication before you meet. You’d know she was gonna be like that and therefore you’d be making a choice to still go ahead probably based purely on physicality’s. Not that I’m saying there’s anything wrong with that but well, you have to accept it. Don’t rush things, find out. Or accept the consequences of your actions
But sounds like you’ve decided you want to try something different, doesn’t mean it has to be an older woman, just means you have to be patient and not such an eager young pup
Well i'm sorry to say your baseless assumptions are completely off. It wasn't true in either case that "I knew they'd be like that" at all. They were very different in person than online.
I'm not a complete novice at this, despite what you seem to be making out "
Ah nevermind. Maybe you were just a crap shag then |
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By *an_Lexa OP Couple
over a year ago
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"You can have a good conversation with them and they make you food if you are hungry after a shag "
That’s a keeper there, can you give me her name. Fucked if I get up and cook food. I’ll bring cake but I ain’t cooking |
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By *an_Lexa OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I’m not looking for the motherly experience Lex. I’m looking for a the bloody well amazing sex experience!
Oh yeah! So how much older you looking for?
Asking for a friend
Tell your friend 5-10 years is perfect
I’ll pass that on. Information that will be well received. Sounds rather perfect to me too actually
Ooft - I just read that as bloody amazing sex with Lexa and her friend !!! Where do I sign up?
Ooh quick where do I find a willing friend.
Fuck no I mean I’ll tell my friend you have impure thoughts. Tut tut bad man
Moi - impure? "
Hah! You telling me you’re not?
Maybe we need to work on that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m not looking for the motherly experience Lex. I’m looking for a the bloody well amazing sex experience!
Oh yeah! So how much older you looking for?
Asking for a friend
Tell your friend 5-10 years is perfect
I’ll pass that on. Information that will be well received. Sounds rather perfect to me too actually
Ooft - I just read that as bloody amazing sex with Lexa and her friend !!! Where do I sign up?
Ooh quick where do I find a willing friend.
Fuck no I mean I’ll tell my friend you have impure thoughts. Tut tut bad man
Moi - impure?
Hah! You telling me you’re not?
Maybe we need to work on that "
Yeah let’s |
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By *an_Lexa OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I’m not looking for the motherly experience Lex. I’m looking for a the bloody well amazing sex experience!
Oh yeah! So how much older you looking for?
Asking for a friend
Tell your friend 5-10 years is perfect
I’ll pass that on. Information that will be well received. Sounds rather perfect to me too actually
Ooft - I just read that as bloody amazing sex with Lexa and her friend !!! Where do I sign up?
Ooh quick where do I find a willing friend.
Fuck no I mean I’ll tell my friend you have impure thoughts. Tut tut bad man
Moi - impure?
Hah! You telling me you’re not?
Maybe we need to work on that
Yeah let’s "
Well I do have one or two impure thoughts that might surprise you |
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