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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
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We've had an awful lot of threads about the type of people that were attracted to (or not, as the case may be) but turning it on its head, do you ever find that a certain type of person is attracted to you?
I'm not specifically talking about fab but in reality also, do you find that you tend to attract certain personality types or a specific demographic?
Obviously on here the results will be massively skewed by the "any holes a goal" brigade. |
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Our filters mean nobody under 40 can contact us but many younger fab our pictures. In real life nobody approaches women of my age although they look.
Fab and real life are very different for a woman in her 60s |
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I don't think there's a discernible pattern.
Those who feel the need to stop me in the street and inform me of my physical characteristics (I have an unusual physical feature that many find attractive) tend to be mid 20s to mid 40s, white male, conventionally attractive. |
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"So, I meant to continue to say. Nowadays I have no idea what type of man is attractedvto me. Looking back through my rose tinted varifocals it seems that when I was younger there were many types  "
Rose tinted varifocals |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I've not noticed a specific "type" across the people who have wanted to meet from here - likewise thinking back over my various relationships I can't say there's been a specific "type" either - but then I'm just an average bloke with a fairly easygoing attitude when it comes to meeting people and don't have a particular "type" myself, so maybe one begets the other. |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
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"Our filters mean nobody under 40 can contact us but many younger fab our pictures. In real life nobody approaches women of my age although they look.
Fab and real life are very different for a woman in her 60s"
I did forget to factor in the effect of filters on the results, I guess that will have a huge effect. |
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"Generally older men who want to look after me. (I don't need looked after).
On here it's a bit of a mix although I tend to filter out the younger ones.
Sugar daddies are real?! "
Yes. Yes they are. And often only take block for an answer.  |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
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"I've not noticed a specific "type" across the people who have wanted to meet from here - likewise thinking back over my various relationships I can't say there's been a specific "type" either - but then I'm just an average bloke with a fairly easygoing attitude when it comes to meeting people and don't have a particular "type" myself, so maybe one begets the other."
You've kind of touched on the secondary aspect of my ongoing musing on this subject, as to whether there is something about a person beyond their physicality that appeals to the demographic that they're attracting. |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Generally older men who want to look after me. (I don't need looked after).
On here it's a bit of a mix although I tend to filter out the younger ones.
Sugar daddies are real?!
Yes. Yes they are. And often only take block for an answer. "
Persistence is one thing, insistence is another, neither are great |
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"Generally older men who want to look after me. (I don't need looked after).
On here it's a bit of a mix although I tend to filter out the younger ones.
Sugar daddies are real?!
Yes. Yes they are. And often only take block for an answer.
Persistence is one thing, insistence is another, neither are great"
I don't know what I'm missing! Etc. I don't care. I don't want it, even if it's the best thing in the world. So no. And block. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've had an awful lot of threads about the type of people that were attracted to (or not, as the case may be) but turning it on its head, do you ever find that a certain type of person is attracted to you?
I'm not specifically talking about fab but in reality also, do you find that you tend to attract certain personality types or a specific demographic?
Obviously on here the results will be massively skewed by the "any holes a goal" brigade. "
Generally straight women and gay men go for me, hope this helps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've had an awful lot of threads about the type of people that were attracted to (or not, as the case may be) but turning it on its head, do you ever find that a certain type of person is attracted to you?
I'm not specifically talking about fab but in reality also, do you find that you tend to attract certain personality types or a specific demographic?
Obviously on here the results will be massively skewed by the "any holes a goal" brigade.
Generally straight women and gay men go for me, hope this helps. "
It’s the opposite for me Tame  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I’m out in a pub, I’m more interested in talking to friends and looking at potential bannisters I can slide down. I’ll chat to anyone and am drawn to men who smile, I get smiled at in the supermarket quite a lot but I think that’s because I’m mumbling to myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m the thinking woman’s crumpet, generally attract very intelligent and beautiful women with good taste. I find the opposite type to this don’t message me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've had an awful lot of threads about the type of people that were attracted to (or not, as the case may be) but turning it on its head, do you ever find that a certain type of person is attracted to you?
I'm not specifically talking about fab but in reality also, do you find that you tend to attract certain personality types or a specific demographic?
Obviously on here the results will be massively skewed by the "any holes a goal" brigade. "
Lately it seems like there's exactly one type of person who's attracted to me - the type that live in my head. |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
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"We appear to attract people with creepy pictures and who obviously haven't read the profile. "
This is kind of what I meant by the "any hole" brigade. If we include those then I'd be including the faceless men of mid-forties. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get all ages I allow through my filters mail me on here.
They have been all races and many nationalities .
They have been geezers, city men, hipsters, gentlemen and jokers.
Profession wise they have been in the medical profession, in building, finance, sportsmen, pilots, servicemen and many more professions.
I don't really talk about music so I can't help you there.
In short, I attract the types of men who want sex. |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"We've had an awful lot of threads about the type of people that were attracted to (or not, as the case may be) but turning it on its head, do you ever find that a certain type of person is attracted to you?
I'm not specifically talking about fab but in reality also, do you find that you tend to attract certain personality types or a specific demographic?
Obviously on here the results will be massively skewed by the "any holes a goal" brigade.
Generally straight women and gay men go for me, hope this helps. "
As always, your input is invaluable. I'll get off the edge of my seat now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've had an awful lot of threads about the type of people that were attracted to (or not, as the case may be) but turning it on its head, do you ever find that a certain type of person is attracted to you?
I'm not specifically talking about fab but in reality also, do you find that you tend to attract certain personality types or a specific demographic?
Obviously on here the results will be massively skewed by the "any holes a goal" brigade.
Generally straight women and gay men go for me, hope this helps.
As always, your input is invaluable. I'll get off the edge of my seat now "
You’re very welcome, i bring balance to the forums, Where there is light I bring shade and where there is shade I bring light. |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"We've had an awful lot of threads about the type of people that were attracted to (or not, as the case may be) but turning it on its head, do you ever find that a certain type of person is attracted to you?
I'm not specifically talking about fab but in reality also, do you find that you tend to attract certain personality types or a specific demographic?
Obviously on here the results will be massively skewed by the "any holes a goal" brigade.
Generally straight women and gay men go for me, hope this helps.
As always, your input is invaluable. I'll get off the edge of my seat now
You’re very welcome, i bring balance to the forums, Where there is light I bring shade and where there is shade I bring light. "
That's exactly how I see you, the fulcrum through which we find balance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've had an awful lot of threads about the type of people that were attracted to (or not, as the case may be) but turning it on its head, do you ever find that a certain type of person is attracted to you?
I'm not specifically talking about fab but in reality also, do you find that you tend to attract certain personality types or a specific demographic?
Obviously on here the results will be massively skewed by the "any holes a goal" brigade.
Generally straight women and gay men go for me, hope this helps.
As always, your input is invaluable. I'll get off the edge of my seat now
You’re very welcome, i bring balance to the forums, Where there is light I bring shade and where there is shade I bring light.
That's exactly how I see you, the fulcrum through which we find balance. "
Fulcrum, is that what Han Solo flew ? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I've not noticed a specific "type" across the people who have wanted to meet from here - likewise thinking back over my various relationships I can't say there's been a specific "type" either - but then I'm just an average bloke with a fairly easygoing attitude when it comes to meeting people and don't have a particular "type" myself, so maybe one begets the other.
You've kind of touched on the secondary aspect of my ongoing musing on this subject, as to whether there is something about a person beyond their physicality that appeals to the demographic that they're attracting. "
I know for me there is - know it's a cliché but personality (and with that connection and chemistry) count just as much as physicality - there are lots of examples of people I can think of that are physically attractive whose characters I find unappealing.
To use a celebrity example - Amanda Holden I can see is physically attractive but her character I dislike intensely and therefore overall I have no attraction to her whatsoever.
So there's a "type" in personality too - how you define that type is not quite so easy though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Broken, emotionally unavailable men with commitment issues. On here and in real life.
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IRL these are the types who seem to like me.
On here there is no pattern whatsoever. |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I’m the thinking woman’s crumpet, generally attract very intelligent and beautiful women with good taste. I find the opposite type to this don’t message me. "
Smoothly done.
Ladies and gentlemen, that's how it's done.
*applauds* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I tend to attract people with an uncanny resemblance to Phil Mitchell 
Ta Tequila.  "
But you don't flood my inbox with your nakedness....I'd like it very much if you did  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m the thinking woman’s crumpet, generally attract very intelligent and beautiful women with good taste. I find the opposite type to this don’t message me.
Smoothly done.
Ladies and gentlemen, that's how it's done.
*applauds*"
Can you see what I’ve done there, now they have a dilemma ?! |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
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"single blokes tend to get it tough an tarred with the same brush on here there are some of us gooduns left lol"
Not what this thread is about fella but thanks for the public service announcement. I'll put you down as 'pro single guys'. |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
London |
"Men who complete cryptic crosswords.
I like colouring in.
In fairness, she didn't specify how they complete them...
In my experience very few people actually check the answers. "
I’ll be more exact then. Complete correctly. |
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"single blokes tend to get it tough an tarred with the same brush on here there are some of us gooduns left lol
Not what this thread is about fella but thanks for the public service announcement. I'll put you down as 'pro single guys'. "
*snort* |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Men who complete cryptic crosswords.
I like colouring in.
In fairness, she didn't specify how they complete them...
In my experience very few people actually check the answers.
I’ll be more exact then. Complete correctly."
*hides the newspapers* |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"Men who complete cryptic crosswords.
I like colouring in.
In fairness, she didn't specify how they complete them...
In my experience very few people actually check the answers.
I’ll be more exact then. Complete correctly.
*hides the newspapers*"
S’alright! You’re not attracted to me either! Stop worrying! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men who complete cryptic crosswords.
I like colouring in.
Which is why you’re not attracted to me "
Not actually true, I just wanted to warn you I’d colour in your crosswords. |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
London |
"Men who complete cryptic crosswords.
I like colouring in.
Which is why you’re not attracted to me
Not actually true, I just wanted to warn you I’d colour in your crosswords. "
But I don’t have any. It’s not me that can do them. But I appreciate the warning. |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I've not noticed a specific "type" across the people who have wanted to meet from here - likewise thinking back over my various relationships I can't say there's been a specific "type" either - but then I'm just an average bloke with a fairly easygoing attitude when it comes to meeting people and don't have a particular "type" myself, so maybe one begets the other.
You've kind of touched on the secondary aspect of my ongoing musing on this subject, as to whether there is something about a person beyond their physicality that appeals to the demographic that they're attracting.
I know for me there is - know it's a cliché but personality (and with that connection and chemistry) count just as much as physicality - there are lots of examples of people I can think of that are physically attractive whose characters I find unappealing.
To use a celebrity example - Amanda Holden I can see is physically attractive but her character I dislike intensely and therefore overall I have no attraction to her whatsoever.
So there's a "type" in personality too - how you define that type is not quite so easy though."
I agree with you on that front too. I was thinking more in specifics of whether there is something in a specific persons personality that attracts a specific type of person or 'look'. For example Rubi posted that she seems to attract sugar daddies or Lady V, the broken commitment-phobes. Whether there's something about us that attracts that 'type'...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes girls with quirky funny humour which always worked out well
Is it that you attract them or that you're attracted to them? "
both which is why it always worked out i also tend to attract girls who can multiple orgasm too which is also a nice bonus as i like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've had an awful lot of threads about the type of people that were attracted to (or not, as the case may be) but turning it on its head, do you ever find that a certain type of person is attracted to you?
I'm not specifically talking about fab but in reality also, do you find that you tend to attract certain personality types or a specific demographic?
Obviously on here the results will be massively skewed by the "any holes a goal" brigade. "
Men, and women with mental health issues predominantly. It never rains but it pours |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"We've had an awful lot of threads about the type of people that were attracted to (or not, as the case may be) but turning it on its head, do you ever find that a certain type of person is attracted to you?
I'm not specifically talking about fab but in reality also, do you find that you tend to attract certain personality types or a specific demographic?
Obviously on here the results will be massively skewed by the "any holes a goal" brigade.
Men, and women with mental health issues predominantly. It never rains but it pours "
Interesting choice of phrasing there... Care to elaborate? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men who complete cryptic crosswords.
I like colouring in.
Which is why you’re not attracted to me
Not actually true, I just wanted to warn you I’d colour in your crosswords.
But I don’t have any. It’s not me that can do them. But I appreciate the warning."
You’re very welcome. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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On here I haven't attracted anyone. Trapped a few but not attracted them.
In the real world, rather bizarrely, I attract ladies a lot younger than myself. No idea why..... |
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"We've had an awful lot of threads about the type of people that were attracted to (or not, as the case may be) but turning it on its head, do you ever find that a certain type of person is attracted to you?
I'm not specifically talking about fab but in reality also, do you find that you tend to attract certain personality types or a specific demographic?
Obviously on here the results will be massively skewed by the "any holes a goal" brigade.
Men, and women with mental health issues predominantly. It never rains but it pours
Interesting choice of phrasing there... Care to elaborate? "
Once you break one daisy off the chain, you happen to find the next to be the very same. I allow too many people into my life though, I guess I must have a Florence nightingale type personality.
As for the men, they’re usually single men that are much older, (never aware of their preference for men) I tend to imagine people are just being nice, until they try and suck my cock. They may have seen some of my videos/watched my cam before....
I guess that’s the scary part of doing porn, whilst looking like a 16yo. (Disclaimer: I was aged 18 and above for all of my performances) |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I've not noticed a specific "type" across the people who have wanted to meet from here - likewise thinking back over my various relationships I can't say there's been a specific "type" either - but then I'm just an average bloke with a fairly easygoing attitude when it comes to meeting people and don't have a particular "type" myself, so maybe one begets the other.
You've kind of touched on the secondary aspect of my ongoing musing on this subject, as to whether there is something about a person beyond their physicality that appeals to the demographic that they're attracting.
I know for me there is - know it's a cliché but personality (and with that connection and chemistry) count just as much as physicality - there are lots of examples of people I can think of that are physically attractive whose characters I find unappealing.
To use a celebrity example - Amanda Holden I can see is physically attractive but her character I dislike intensely and therefore overall I have no attraction to her whatsoever.
So there's a "type" in personality too - how you define that type is not quite so easy though.
I agree with you on that front too. I was thinking more in specifics of whether there is something in a specific persons personality that attracts a specific type of person or 'look'. For example Rubi posted that she seems to attract sugar daddies or Lady V, the broken commitment-phobes. Whether there's something about us that attracts that 'type'...
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And that's what I was referring to when I said the "type" isn't quite so easily defined (at least not for me) when it comes to personality - it just "is" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On here I haven't attracted anyone. Trapped a few but not attracted them.
In the real world, rather bizarrely, I attract ladies a lot younger than myself. No idea why....."
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Women - not one type.
Men - I tend to attract older men. Probably because of my youthful exuberance. Or maybe because I am attracted to them? I don't know.
Whoever is inspiring your threads is bloody brilliant though, it's really made me think. |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
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"Women - not one type.
Men - I tend to attract older men. Probably because of my youthful exuberance. Or maybe because I am attracted to them? I don't know.
Whoever is inspiring your threads is bloody brilliant though, it's really made me think."
Thanks, it's entirely all my own work, mine... My own.
Any similarity to any conversation is entirely coincidental |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"Women - not one type.
Men - I tend to attract older men. Probably because of my youthful exuberance. Or maybe because I am attracted to them? I don't know.
Whoever is inspiring your threads is bloody brilliant though, it's really made me think.
Thanks, it's entirely all my own work, mine... My own.
Any similarity to any conversation is entirely coincidental "
For a second there I though Meli was being nice to you, then I realised she was bragging that you’ve plagiarised her idea. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Women - not one type.
Men - I tend to attract older men. Probably because of my youthful exuberance. Or maybe because I am attracted to them? I don't know.
Whoever is inspiring your threads is bloody brilliant though, it's really made me think.
Thanks, it's entirely all my own work, mine... My own.
Any similarity to any conversation is entirely coincidental
For a second there I though Meli was being nice to you, then I realised she was bragging that you’ve plagiarised her idea. "
Oi! I was being nice to him. He can't plagiarise our conversation. |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"Women - not one type.
Men - I tend to attract older men. Probably because of my youthful exuberance. Or maybe because I am attracted to them? I don't know.
Whoever is inspiring your threads is bloody brilliant though, it's really made me think.
Thanks, it's entirely all my own work, mine... My own.
Any similarity to any conversation is entirely coincidental
For a second there I though Meli was being nice to you, then I realised she was bragging that you’ve plagiarised her idea.
Oi! I was being nice to him. He can't plagiarise our conversation. "
Ahh so you haven’t spoken about it then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Generally because they like me but for different reasons. I don’t get much random interest at all.
They are all very different and I really like that"
Thought a little more about this and it’s probably something to do with how I express myself when I’m not behaving like a tit |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I tend to attract no one but that fine it proves a point in the end i not full British anyway have fun all whats not being full british have to do with it"
nothing just telling it like it is that all sadly no one here believe it being honest |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
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"I tend to attract no one but that fine it proves a point in the end i not full British anyway have fun all whats not being full british have to do with it nothing just telling it like it is that all sadly no one here believe it being honest"
You're not making much sense, would you like to have another go at it? You're not really telling it like it is, it sounds more like a touch of self vilification. |
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"I tend to attract no one but that fine it proves a point in the end i not full British anyway have fun all whats not being full british have to do with it nothing just telling it like it is that all sadly no one here believe it being honest"
That still doesn’t make any sense. Are you saying nobody will meet you because you’re not British? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to attract a large proportion of submissive men both here and real life.. but I need a dominant personality to balance my sarcasm so that dynamic doesn't work for me. |
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To be honest I don’t attract much I don’t get much messages or nothing at all but I do have to say I do get a kind of look on the tube or could just be me where is like “hmm intriguing” that kind of look if you know what I mean. What I do have to say is I do tend to go for a profile which is kind of unusual it’s like I am myself. I’m a kind of person you have to warm to, get to know. this is not a RACE thing. I am the minority I am a British born Chinese so I am not everybody’s cup of tea that is a fact. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I wouldn't go as far as saying women I attract per se, as I'm generally incapable of detecting a casual flirtation or a stronger interest unless they spell it out.
However, the people I tend to chat with and get on well with span the generations and demographics across fab. There is no particular type. The only common thread I could go with is that they are intrigued by me as a person rather than attracted to my physicality.
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