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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you a leader or a follower in life?
Are you the same sexually? "
I do my own thing. Some follow some dont. It's their choice. I just be myself and adhere to the ethical compass I have developed over the years. Saying that though people always seem to look to me for guidance and support  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I don't really see sex as one being the follower and the other the leader. It's more a mutual exploration with different dynamic/energy exchanges depending on the second.
As far as life goes, I'm both and neither.
What about you Op?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A bit of both, depending on the situation. Cop out answer  "
I'd say the same but don't think it's a cop out answer. It shows there are some things worth stepping up a taking the lead whereas other things don't interest me as much to put the energy into leading. Also it's good sometimes as a leader to step back and watch and follow. Can be a good learning time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id honestly say im more a lone rogue agent my way or the highway kind of guy"
That works given you have your own horse too! lone gunslinger throwing hilarious barbs and decimating comments all through Fabs |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I’m a free spirit. I dislike being bossed around and any whiff of someone trying to bend me to their will and i’m off.
Sexually i prefer a man who is assertive and takes the lead, but i do not like being “dominated”. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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I'm neither really, pretty much a go with the flow, I am what I am, take me or leave me kind of guy.
That said I have a submissive side which I guess in some respects makes me a follower of sorts, but as that side is very particular about who it shows itself to, my first answer is probably the most accurate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This proper pickled my brain this morning when I thought about it.. I actually think the fact I'm switch transfers to most elements of my life..
I'm generally a leader, in that I manage very large venues and teams, but I always preferred being a number 2 rather than 1 so I had someone to turn to for support.
Same with men.. I'm a quiet but dominant personality that needs someone stronger to bounce off..
yet day to day I'm fiercely independent and do my own thing and am neither leading or following anyone or anything.. |
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"Are you a leader or a follower in life?
Are you the same sexually? "
I try to do my own thing, cut my own furrow. A wise person once told me, be neither a follower nor a leader be but motivate everyone around you to be their absolute best. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the situation and my mood. I'm probably a bit too independant and unsociable to be classed as a follower or a leader. In bed the possibilities are numerous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm kind of like an outdoor cat. I'm pretty apathetic to what's happening around me but people have just accepted that I'm there.
Ooh you're back!"
I am. So are you. Hi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm kind of like an outdoor cat. I'm pretty apathetic to what's happening around me but people have just accepted that I'm there.
You’ve got to stop shitting in my garden though."
Pfft no |
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"I'm kind of like an outdoor cat. I'm pretty apathetic to what's happening around me but people have just accepted that I'm there.
Ooh you're back!
I am. So are you. Hi. "
Yeah,got to be done hasn't it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dance to the beat of my own drum, granted the drum is in my head and no one else has a clue what's going on but hey ho!
Sexually I'm fluid, I can lead or be led at the drop of a hat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dance to the beat of my own drum, granted the drum is in my head and no one else has a clue what's going on but hey ho!
Sexually I'm fluid, I can lead or be led at the drop of a hat."
Please, don't drop hats. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dance to the beat of my own drum, granted the drum is in my head and no one else has a clue what's going on but hey ho!
Sexually I'm fluid, I can lead or be led at the drop of a hat.
Please, don't drop hats. "
But I like to see you bend over to pick them up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dance to the beat of my own drum, granted the drum is in my head and no one else has a clue what's going on but hey ho!
Sexually I'm fluid, I can lead or be led at the drop of a hat.
Please, don't drop hats.
But I like to see you bend over to pick them up "
Tartlet x |
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Professionally, I do my own thing, so I have clients rather than bosses. When I am hiring others or responsible for a team I am a good manager and motivator.
Sexually - well, it takes two to tango. Implying there's a leader and follower to me suggests one side 'wants it' more than the other. If you have to 'lead' someone into sex it would imply a certain reluctance on their part, no? Or am I putting a negative spin on it? |
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