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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have no issue with this at all.
What makes me curious is this
If a lady wants this it’s listed on a profile very abruptly and like a demand
If a lady chooses “ no black or Asian “
It’s apologetic
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One is asking for something specific and one is politely declining something specific.
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I read this OP as the women who wanted BBC only doesn’t want black men - I’m sleepy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"One is asking for something specific and one is politely declining something specific.
I read this OP as the women who wanted BBC only doesn’t want black men - I’m sleepy "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People feel compelled to apologise for not finding (insert colour here) people sexually attractive because they are worried about being seen as racist. I don't see a problem with it, if you're a racist be a racist, I don't have to listen to your shit or hang out with you, it is when you drive it underground is when it causes problems and surfaces as something more sinister. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"People feel compelled to apologise for not finding (insert colour here) people sexually attractive because they are worried about being seen as racist. I don't see a problem with it, if you're a racist be a racist, I don't have to listen to your shit or hang out with you, it is when you drive it underground is when it causes problems and surfaces as something more sinister."
What? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People feel compelled to apologise for not finding (insert colour here) people sexually attractive because they are worried about being seen as racist. I don't see a problem with it, if you're a racist be a racist, I don't have to listen to your shit or hang out with you, it is when you drive it underground is when it causes problems and surfaces as something more sinister.
What?"
I was generalising not calling you a racist OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People feel compelled to apologise for not finding (insert colour here) people sexually attractive because they are worried about being seen as racist. I don't see a problem with it, if you're a racist be a racist, I don't have to listen to your shit or hang out with you, it is when you drive it underground is when it causes problems and surfaces as something more sinister.
What?
I was generalising not calling you a racist OP."
It is a slightly confusing post. Are you saying someone that isnt attracted to one or more certain race is racist because of that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One is telling everyone else where to go and the other is saying not this way. Just think of them as 2 different traffic cops! " Or 2 people closing a door, one is closing it a bit faster than the other..end result both doors closed .. by reading the profile you can know whether to go too close to the door or risk getting your nose almost sheared off!
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"People feel compelled to apologise for not finding (insert colour here) people sexually attractive because they are worried about being seen as racist. I don't see a problem with it, if you're a racist be a racist, I don't have to listen to your shit or hang out with you, it is when you drive it underground is when it causes problems and surfaces as something more sinister.
What?
I was generalising not calling you a racist OP.
It is a slightly confusing post. Are you saying someone that isnt attracted to one or more certain race is racist because of that?"
Nope
Don’t try and find something that isn’t there
Forumite style
It’s just a question |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One is telling everyone else where to go and the other is saying not this way. Just think of them as 2 different traffic cops! Or 2 people closing a door, one is closing it a bit faster than the other..end result both doors closed .. by reading the profile you can know whether to go too close to the door or risk getting your nose almost sheared off!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People feel compelled to apologise for not finding (insert colour here) people sexually attractive because they are worried about being seen as racist. I don't see a problem with it, if you're a racist be a racist, I don't have to listen to your shit or hang out with you, it is when you drive it underground is when it causes problems and surfaces as something more sinister.
What?
I was generalising not calling you a racist OP.
It is a slightly confusing post. Are you saying someone that isnt attracted to one or more certain race is racist because of that?
Nope
Don’t try and find something that isn’t there
Forumite style
It’s just a question "
I was asking Dam sorry. Your OP was quite clear |
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"One is telling everyone else where to go and the other is saying not this way. Just think of them as 2 different traffic cops! Or 2 people closing a door, one is closing it a bit faster than the other..end result both doors closed .. by reading the profile you can know whether to go too close to the door or risk getting your nose almost sheared off!
" G'Morning Kaitlyn. |
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"One is telling everyone else where to go and the other is saying not this way. Just think of them as 2 different traffic cops! Or 2 people closing a door, one is closing it a bit faster than the other..end result both doors closed .. by reading the profile you can know whether to go too close to the door or risk getting your nose almost sheared off!
G'Morning Kaitlyn."
You made me forget my hangover for a few seconds |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some people over the years may have suffered for their choices so they are not prepared to take any more flak for them hence the sometimes abruptness. They seek no dialogue with people contrary to their choices.
Others due to the climate created by the issue of racism are just being thoughtful. |
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"One is telling everyone else where to go and the other is saying not this way. Just think of them as 2 different traffic cops! Or 2 people closing a door, one is closing it a bit faster than the other..end result both doors closed .. by reading the profile you can know whether to go too close to the door or risk getting your nose almost sheared off!
G'Morning Kaitlyn.
You made me forget my hangover for a few seconds " Sounds like a good night was had by all!
Speedy recovery! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People feel compelled to apologise for not finding (insert colour here) people sexually attractive because they are worried about being seen as racist. I don't see a problem with it, if you're a racist be a racist, I don't have to listen to your shit or hang out with you, it is when you drive it underground is when it causes problems and surfaces as something more sinister.
What?
I was generalising not calling you a racist OP.
It is a slightly confusing post. Are you saying someone that isnt attracted to one or more certain race is racist because of that?"
For some that is true, for others it is just a preference. You'll never really know one way or the other. |
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"People feel compelled to apologise for not finding (insert colour here) people sexually attractive because they are worried about being seen as racist. I don't see a problem with it, if you're a racist be a racist, I don't have to listen to your shit or hang out with you, it is when you drive it underground is when it causes problems and surfaces as something more sinister." |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People feel compelled to apologise for not finding (insert colour here) people sexually attractive because they are worried about being seen as racist. I don't see a problem with it, if you're a racist be a racist, I don't have to listen to your shit or hang out with you, it is when you drive it underground is when it causes problems and surfaces as something more sinister. " You have taken people at face value, then by the rest of your post kind of put people in doubt of your earlier statement? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People feel compelled to apologise for not finding (insert colour here) people sexually attractive because they are worried about being seen as racist. I don't see a problem with it, if you're a racist be a racist, I don't have to listen to your shit or hang out with you, it is when you drive it underground is when it causes problems and surfaces as something more sinister.
What?
I was generalising not calling you a racist OP.
It is a slightly confusing post. Are you saying someone that isnt attracted to one or more certain race is racist because of that?
For some that is true, for others it is just a preference. You'll never really know one way or the other."
Fair enough thanks for the clarification. It was probably just the way I read it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People feel compelled to apologise for not finding (insert colour here) people sexually attractive because they are worried about being seen as racist. I don't see a problem with it, if you're a racist be a racist, I don't have to listen to your shit or hang out with you, it is when you drive it underground is when it causes problems and surfaces as something more sinister.
What?
I was generalising not calling you a racist OP.
It is a slightly confusing post. Are you saying someone that isnt attracted to one or more certain race is racist because of that?
For some that is true, for others it is just a preference. You'll never really know one way or the other.
Fair enough thanks for the clarification. It was probably just the way I read it"
More like the way I wrote it, given some of the responses. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people do legitimately find fetishising race to be somewhat offensive. "
You might be shocked at what some black men have said to me during sex, regarding their colour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some people do legitimately find fetishising race to be somewhat offensive.
You might be shocked at what some black men have said to me during sex, regarding their colour."
Probably the cringe worthy stuff you would expect to hear in a typical interracial porn movie. |
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