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By *ibblingnewt OP   Woman  over a year ago

by the sea

Anyone get messages like this ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yep and ones telling me they're gonna tell my husband.

Pretty pathetic morons if you ask me.

No place for people like that on here.

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By *lceeWoman  over a year ago

Leeds

Yep. Then they try to tell me how they think they know me.

Really weird way to strike up a conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yup... Only freaks me out if they aren't willing to show me their face

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By *ibblingnewt OP   Woman  over a year ago

by the sea


"Yep and ones telling me they're gonna tell my husband.

Pretty pathetic morons if you ask me.

No place for people like that on here. "

They are creepy as hell

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yep and ones telling me they're gonna tell my husband.

Pretty pathetic morons if you ask me.

No place for people like that on here. "

That's shit... Proper wankers

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone get messages like this ?

"

Your puss in boots

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By *ibblingnewt OP   Woman  over a year ago

by the sea


"Yep. Then they try to tell me how they think they know me.

Really weird way to strike up a conversation."

Desperate idiots cones to mind

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By *appytrailmanMan  over a year ago

Manchester

Yep had one this week off someone who was adamant I'd met her, I've never seen her in my life before!

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By *ibblingnewt OP   Woman  over a year ago

by the sea


"Yup... Only freaks me out if they aren't willing to show me their face "

Yep I got that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes, really dislike this approach, creepy as fuck!

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By *ibblingnewt OP   Woman  over a year ago

by the sea


"Yep had one this week off someone who was adamant I'd met her, I've never seen her in my life before! "

Blimey, didn’t expect a fella to get this

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yep

Hate that

Especially when they won’t tell you. I tell them they have one opportunity to tell me or I block them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Never had that issue. If your happy to show your face pics in public on here....

Why would it freak you out ? .. Just saying. Like

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By *ibblingnewt OP   Woman  over a year ago

by the sea


"Never had that issue. If your happy to show your face pics in public on here....

Why would it freak you out ? .. Just saying. Like "

If the guy said ohh I know you it’s Mildred isn’t it, George here how’s you?

That’s actually fine

But I know you, secrets safe with me from a blank profile is creepy as hell

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By *ibblingnewt OP   Woman  over a year ago

by the sea


"Yep

Hate that

Especially when they won’t tell you. I tell them they have one opportunity to tell me or I block them "

He didn’t say, he just wrote a name ... not mine

Blocked

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone get messages like this ?

"

No thank god haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yep

Hate that

Especially when they won’t tell you. I tell them they have one opportunity to tell me or I block them

He didn’t say, he just wrote a name ... not mine

Blocked "

Just as bad!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never had that issue. If your happy to show your face pics in public on here....

Why would it freak you out ? .. Just saying. Like

If the guy said ohh I know you it’s Mildred isn’t it, George here how’s you?

That’s actually fine

But I know you, secrets safe with me from a blank profile is creepy as hell"

Ahhhh .. now I see what you mean. That would probably freak me out too...

My eyebrows get me blocked lol ... So definite block for a blank profile. Me thinks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

That's one I'm yet to experience thankfully.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes, I've had it once. Freaked me out a bit.

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By *ibblingnewt OP   Woman  over a year ago

by the sea


"Yes, I've had it once. Freaked me out a bit. "

It certainly freaked me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Once had someone message me on Facebook asking me to change my settings on here - so they could message me. Found that uncomfortable tbh

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By *ibblingnewt OP   Woman  over a year ago

by the sea


"Never had that issue. If your happy to show your face pics in public on here....

Why would it freak you out ? .. Just saying. Like

If the guy said ohh I know you it’s Mildred isn’t it, George here how’s you?

That’s actually fine

But I know you, secrets safe with me from a blank profile is creepy as hell

Ahhhh .. now I see what you mean. That would probably freak me out too...

My eyebrows get me blocked lol ... So definite block for a blank profile. Me thinks "

Those are some eyebrows!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have only had it when I have declined to meet. 'Anyway I know who you are, next time I see you in town, I'm going to out you in public' type stuff.

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By *ibblingnewt OP   Woman  over a year ago

by the sea


"Once had someone message me on Facebook asking me to change my settings on here - so they could message me. Found that uncomfortable tbh

"

Ok that’s desperation on a different level!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes I got a phone call at work last week saying they'd seen me on fab then hung up before I could reply, to be fair they sounded like they were shaking like a shitting dog so I couldn't help but feel sorry for the little cockwomble

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never had that issue. If your happy to show your face pics in public on here....

Why would it freak you out ? .. Just saying. Like

If the guy said ohh I know you it’s Mildred isn’t it, George here how’s you?

That’s actually fine

But I know you, secrets safe with me from a blank profile is creepy as hell

Ahhhh .. now I see what you mean. That would probably freak me out too...

My eyebrows get me blocked lol ... So definite block for a blank profile. Me thinks

Those are some eyebrows! "

I was just blessed in the wrong areas lol ...

Thanks if that was a compliment

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By *ibblingnewt OP   Woman  over a year ago

by the sea


"I have only had it when I have declined to meet. 'Anyway I know who you are, next time I see you in town, I'm going to out you in public' type stuff."

What a shit

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By *ames_dieselMan  over a year ago

London

It is weird to take that approach no doubt about it.

Taking it to one next possible step then...Has anyone actually had messages from someone who did actually know them?!

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By *ibblingnewt OP   Woman  over a year ago

by the sea


"Yes I got a phone call at work last week saying they'd seen me on fab then hung up before I could reply, to be fair they sounded like they were shaking like a shitting dog so I couldn't help but feel sorry for the little cockwomble "

Did you ever find out who it was ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have only had it when I have declined to meet. 'Anyway I know who you are, next time I see you in town, I'm going to out you in public' type stuff.

What a shit "

That's why, like many others, I list a town I don't live in. If they say next time I see you in The Jester pub or something not in my town, I am pretty sure they are bluffing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have only had it when I have declined to meet. 'Anyway I know who you are, next time I see you in town, I'm going to out you in public' type stuff.

What a shit

That's why, like many others, I list a town I don't live in. If they say next time I see you in The Jester pub or something not in my town, I am pretty sure they are bluffing "

That's so clever

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

To think how dreamy it would be yo live in a world where we didn't have to hide anything...

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By *ibblingnewt OP   Woman  over a year ago

by the sea


"I have only had it when I have declined to meet. 'Anyway I know who you are, next time I see you in town, I'm going to out you in public' type stuff.

What a shit

That's why, like many others, I list a town I don't live in. If they say next time I see you in The Jester pub or something not in my town, I am pretty sure they are bluffing "

Good idea thank you

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By *ibblingnewt OP   Woman  over a year ago

by the sea


"To think how dreamy it would be yo live in a world where we didn't have to hide anything... "

That’s a very dreamy world I’d like to live in

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By *adylydfordWoman  over a year ago

altinkum

Only had 1 like this, i just let them know nobody knows me... even i dont know me. Im a total contradiction of myself in one confusing ball of a scorpio and water dog mix that it would be impossible!....

They never messaged again! Maybe they thought i was nutnuts!

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By *oppet22TV/TS  over a year ago

huddersfield

Yes had a few on here that know me lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have only had it when I have declined to meet. 'Anyway I know who you are, next time I see you in town, I'm going to out you in public' type stuff.

What a shit

That's why, like many others, I list a town I don't live in. If they say next time I see you in The Jester pub or something not in my town, I am pretty sure they are bluffing

Good idea thank you "

Now thats got me thinking most the women on here have false locations on their profiles ... The cynic in me just awoke lol

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By *ust chilled out meMan  over a year ago

Peterborough

I have to say I haven't although I did have a woman tell me to have a fab day once as she walked past me with a smile on her face never did find out who she was lol

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By *rinthiaMan  over a year ago

dundee


"Only had 1 like this, i just let them know nobody knows me... even i dont know me. Im a total contradiction of myself in one confusing ball of a scorpio and water dog mix that it would be impossible!....

They never messaged again! Maybe they thought i was nutnuts! "

Yep that would do it

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By *r loveslickinMan  over a year ago

Deeside

Sort of ... when first joined it was wife ( now exwife) of work colleague she had single profile etc wouldn't say who she was .. I sussed out when she posted on here and Facebook about her upcoming birthday ... today this day I've never mentioned it to either

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have only had it when I have declined to meet. 'Anyway I know who you are, next time I see you in town, I'm going to out you in public' type stuff.

What a shit

That's why, like many others, I list a town I don't live in. If they say next time I see you in The Jester pub or something not in my town, I am pretty sure they are bluffing

Good idea thank you

Now thats got me thinking most the women on here have false locations on their profiles ... The cynic in me just awoke lol "

It has happened more than once, hence the location deceit. In all fairness, most people put a different town.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I got a message from someone that knows me from work, he said what r u doing on here and when i went to reply he had blocked me, whats the point in that ?? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yeah then they think because they do there guaranteed a shag no mate! your definitely not what I’m looking for get over it eww

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not yet but it wouldn't bother me. My cock is massive don't care who sees it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I got a message from someone that knows me from work, he said what r u doing on here and when i went to reply he had blocked me, whats the point in that ?? Lol"

I suspect to unnerve you. Letting you know he knew who you were, hoping you would be worried someone could reveal you were on a sex site and feeling smug

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By *andR510Couple  over a year ago

St Neots/Wisbech

Does sound a bit stalky, probably the sort of people who never meet and just wank over the pics.

We're pretty public anyway, so good luck to anyone who sends us those messages.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Had a few guys message me with "hey stranger. Long time no speak".

Or a guy claim to of met me in his local Spoons pub. Lol no. He wouldn't let it go. Insisting I was this woman he kept seeing in there. I told him to go and say hi to her next time he thinks he spots me! That poor woman, whoever she is lol.

I knew full well I have never met them and never spoken.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have only had it when I have declined to meet. 'Anyway I know who you are, next time I see you in town, I'm going to out you in public' type stuff.

What a shit

That's why, like many others, I list a town I don't live in. If they say next time I see you in The Jester pub or something not in my town, I am pretty sure they are bluffing

Good idea thank you

Now thats got me thinking most the women on here have false locations on their profiles ... The cynic in me just awoke lol "

I have a different town on my profile. Good too after a guy wouldn't accept no thanks. He claimed he's coming to my town, going to find me, stalk me, beat me, throw acid in my face and r*pe me.

Hmm the weirdo can try but he'll never find me due to me not even living there. Us single ladies need to do everything we can to take care of ourselves on this site. There are plenty of good guys on this site but some absolute wrong'uns.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have only had it when I have declined to meet. 'Anyway I know who you are, next time I see you in town, I'm going to out you in public' type stuff.

What a shit

That's why, like many others, I list a town I don't live in. If they say next time I see you in The Jester pub or something not in my town, I am pretty sure they are bluffing

Good idea thank you

Now thats got me thinking most the women on here have false locations on their profiles ... The cynic in me just awoke lol

I have a different town on my profile. Good too after a guy wouldn't accept no thanks. He claimed he's coming to my town, going to find me, stalk me, beat me, throw acid in my face and r*pe me.

Hmm the weirdo can try but he'll never find me due to me not even living there. Us single ladies need to do everything we can to take care of ourselves on this site. There are plenty of good guys on this site but some absolute wrong'uns."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never had that issue. If your happy to show your face pics in public on here....

Why would it freak you out ? .. Just saying. Like

If the guy said ohh I know you it’s Mildred isn’t it, George here how’s you?

That’s actually fine

But I know you, secrets safe with me from a blank profile is creepy as hell"

of course it's a blank profile, they're just trolls and are only here to annoy people and wind them up. Wasters and cowards.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes, apparently I’ve seen this guy around where I live and smiled at him so he thought I wanted more. Creeped me out when he said he was sitting in his car at the top of my road. I have no idea who he is x

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By *ibblingnewt OP   Woman  over a year ago

by the sea


"Yes, apparently I’ve seen this guy around where I live and smiled at him so he thought I wanted more. Creeped me out when he said he was sitting in his car at the top of my road. I have no idea who he is x "

That’s quite scary

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By *winger212Woman  over a year ago

Live in spain

Yes but I have asked if they know me too tell me. That's hot

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not yet they would join my extencive block list

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By *carlettxWoman  over a year ago

Essex

I get recognised a lot (hair kinda gives me away) so I get loads of messages like that

Some I have to say do creep me out a bit

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes. I ask them to prove it. They never do.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Had a guy accuse me of hurting his friend in my home town turned out he didn't even have a friend in my town

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By *ablo minibar123Woman  over a year ago

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Had a guy track me down on social media and message me to say he knows me and seen me on here and knows what pub I go to, sadly in this case it is all true.

So now I have to avoid the pub whenever I know he will be down there, thinking if him and the fact that he thought that behaviour is acceptable makes my skin crawl.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Had a guy track me down on social media and message me to say he knows me and seen me on here and knows what pub I go to, sadly in this case it is all true.

So now I have to avoid the pub whenever I know he will be down there, thinking if him and the fact that he thought that behaviour is acceptable makes my skin crawl."

again some creepy guy fucks it up for all us normal guys

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Had a guy track me down on social media and message me to say he knows me and seen me on here and knows what pub I go to, sadly in this case it is all true.

So now I have to avoid the pub whenever I know he will be down there, thinking if him and the fact that he thought that behaviour is acceptable makes my skin crawl.again some creepy guy fucks it up for all us normal guys"

No. Some creepy guy has ruined things for his target, not men.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Had a guy track me down on social media and message me to say he knows me and seen me on here and knows what pub I go to, sadly in this case it is all true.

So now I have to avoid the pub whenever I know he will be down there, thinking if him and the fact that he thought that behaviour is acceptable makes my skin crawl.again some creepy guy fucks it up for all us normal guys

No. Some creepy guy has ruined things for his target, not men. "

but now she will be wondering if every guy she speaks to is him if she doesn't already know him

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By *ablo minibar123Woman  over a year ago

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"Had a guy track me down on social media and message me to say he knows me and seen me on here and knows what pub I go to, sadly in this case it is all true.

So now I have to avoid the pub whenever I know he will be down there, thinking if him and the fact that he thought that behaviour is acceptable makes my skin crawl.again some creepy guy fucks it up for all us normal guys

No. Some creepy guy has ruined things for his target, not men. but now she will be wondering if every guy she speaks to is him if she doesn't already know him"

Oh I know him, and I'm sure he classes himself as a normal guy. The creepy guys never know they are creepy.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Had a guy track me down on social media and message me to say he knows me and seen me on here and knows what pub I go to, sadly in this case it is all true.

So now I have to avoid the pub whenever I know he will be down there, thinking if him and the fact that he thought that behaviour is acceptable makes my skin crawl.again some creepy guy fucks it up for all us normal guys

No. Some creepy guy has ruined things for his target, not men. but now she will be wondering if every guy she speaks to is him if she doesn't already know him"

Because having people exercising caution around you is much worse than stalking.

Caution is sensible ffs.

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By *inkysexpotMan  over a year ago

leeds

I'd sooner send a 'how's you' message than a 'I know you'

Nothing more creepier not only on here but dating sites too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I giggle as i get those ....

when ur hubby goes to work i can come round.

Hubby mmmm whats one of those . Aaahh and block

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No, no one knows me, I’m invisible

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'd sooner send a 'how's you' message than a 'I know you'

Nothing more creepier not only on here but dating sites too"

If I came across anyone I knew here, I'd quietly block them and get on with life.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone get messages like this ?

"

Thankfully no and if I did I wouldn't respond... Seems a little creepy

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Yes, they guess where they think I might live and say they've seen me there. Nobody's been right yet.

Or you get the ones that say "oh we've met before" like I wouldn't remember.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Had a guy track me down on social media and message me to say he knows me and seen me on here and knows what pub I go to, sadly in this case it is all true.

So now I have to avoid the pub whenever I know he will be down there, thinking if him and the fact that he thought that behaviour is acceptable makes my skin crawl.again some creepy guy fucks it up for all us normal guys

No. Some creepy guy has ruined things for his target, not men. but now she will be wondering if every guy she speaks to is him if she doesn't already know him

Because having people exercising caution around you is much worse than stalking.

Caution is sensible ffs. "

didn't say she didn't need to be cautious FFS bit if she didn't know him she would always have that niggle in her head is this him is he in the bar watching me that kind of thing I meant

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Had a guy track me down on social media and message me to say he knows me and seen me on here and knows what pub I go to, sadly in this case it is all true.

So now I have to avoid the pub whenever I know he will be down there, thinking if him and the fact that he thought that behaviour is acceptable makes my skin crawl.again some creepy guy fucks it up for all us normal guys

No. Some creepy guy has ruined things for his target, not men. but now she will be wondering if every guy she speaks to is him if she doesn't already know him

Because having people exercising caution around you is much worse than stalking.

Caution is sensible ffs. didn't say she didn't need to be cautious FFS bit if she didn't know him she would always have that niggle in her head is this him is he in the bar watching me that kind of thing I meant"

Yes, and the fear for her is much worse than the irritation for you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Had a guy track me down on social media and message me to say he knows me and seen me on here and knows what pub I go to, sadly in this case it is all true.

So now I have to avoid the pub whenever I know he will be down there, thinking if him and the fact that he thought that behaviour is acceptable makes my skin crawl.again some creepy guy fucks it up for all us normal guys

No. Some creepy guy has ruined things for his target, not men. but now she will be wondering if every guy she speaks to is him if she doesn't already know him

Oh I know him, and I'm sure he classes himself as a normal guy. The creepy guys never know they are creepy."

it's the quiet ones u always find the guy I had stalk me with messages toon an educated guess as to where I lived as it's half way between Hull and Scunthorpe and one of the bigger villages bit didn't know any of the ladies I had met locally just gleaned odd bit of info off my veris

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yeah, bloody woman

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Had a guy track me down on social media and message me to say he knows me and seen me on here and knows what pub I go to, sadly in this case it is all true.

So now I have to avoid the pub whenever I know he will be down there, thinking if him and the fact that he thought that behaviour is acceptable makes my skin crawl.again some creepy guy fucks it up for all us normal guys

No. Some creepy guy has ruined things for his target, not men. but now she will be wondering if every guy she speaks to is him if she doesn't already know him

Because having people exercising caution around you is much worse than stalking.

Caution is sensible ffs. didn't say she didn't need to be cautious FFS bit if she didn't know him she would always have that niggle in her head is this him is he in the bar watching me that kind of thing I meant

Yes, and the fear for her is much worse than the irritation for you. "

true but if I was meeting her I'd let her pick a place very public to meet and where she could exit in any direction at any time as my priority on all my meets is the lady feels safe in her surroundings and safe meeting me but I'd guess that would be the case with most normal guys on here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Any way it's creepy when someone claims to know u but even creepier when they find u on social media

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By *acavityMan  over a year ago

Redditch


"Anyone get messages like this ?

"

I got it as a response to my initial message. I eventually found out who it was (she worked in same building)

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By *entleman JayMan  over a year ago

Wakefield

I guess it can be quite scary for women especially.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I guess it can be quite scary for women especially. "

Bloody terrifying.

Side note: initial notes asking where I live/ work/ hang out/ work out etc are on the same spectrum as this. I'm not sure why anyone expects a positive, truthful answer!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just had a message on WhatsApp from a prostitute who got my number off a site called tagged apparently I'm 67 and from manchester

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By *ibblingnewt OP   Woman  over a year ago

by the sea


"I'd sooner send a 'how's you' message than a 'I know you'

Nothing more creepier not only on here but dating sites too

If I came across anyone I knew here, I'd quietly block them and get on with life. "

That’s what id do too

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By *ibblingnewt OP   Woman  over a year ago

by the sea


"Any way it's creepy when someone claims to know u but even creepier when they find u on social media "

Yes stalker minds

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Any way it's creepy when someone claims to know u but even creepier when they find u on social media

Yes stalker minds"

If I inadvertently found a swinger on social media, I'd block.

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By *ibblingnewt OP   Woman  over a year ago

by the sea


"Had a guy track me down on social media and message me to say he knows me and seen me on here and knows what pub I go to, sadly in this case it is all true.

So now I have to avoid the pub whenever I know he will be down there, thinking if him and the fact that he thought that behaviour is acceptable makes my skin crawl."

Hope you don’t bump into him

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

had one telling me what I was wearing whilst watching countdown

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By *ibblingnewt OP   Woman  over a year ago

by the sea


" had one telling me what I was wearing whilst watching countdown"

Was she right?

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By *ablo minibar123Woman  over a year ago

.

Oh i see him on a regular basis but i think that he understands that my death stare means come near me at your peril!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Oh i see him on a regular basis but i think that he understands that my death stare means come near me at your peril!!"
have you logged all contact he has made so u can show police

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We had someone message us accusing me(the wife) of cheating on my husband by being on here. Completely confused as I'm on here with my husband of 16 years! This bloke was convinced I was someone else xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We had someone message us accusing me(the wife) of cheating on my husband by being on here. Completely confused as I'm on here with my husband of 16 years! This bloke was convinced I was someone else xx"
could of been worse he could of said he'd fucked your husband lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've recognised a woman from my area on here but not for one minute would I let on that I know who she is, it's her business not mine. Bang out of order people threatening to out someone if you ask me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We had someone message us accusing me(the wife) of cheating on my husband by being on here. Completely confused as I'm on here with my husband of 16 years! This bloke was convinced I was someone else xxcould of been worse he could of said he'd fucked your husband lol"

Haha this is very true xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I feel left out now, I want to be recognised!

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By *ibblingnewt OP   Woman  over a year ago

by the sea


"Oh i see him on a regular basis but i think that he understands that my death stare means come near me at your peril!!"

Love giving the evil eye!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hello stranger, how have you been?

Stranger danger, stranger danger.

Yeah, I've had plenty reckoning they know me, apparently I've played with a few at clubs I've never been to. I wanna know who my doppelganger is.

P

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

SANTA....!!!!!

(just me then.... )

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By *ibblingnewt OP   Woman  over a year ago

by the sea


"Hello stranger, how have you been?

Stranger danger, stranger danger.

Yeah, I've had plenty reckoning they know me, apparently I've played with a few at clubs I've never been to. I wanna know who my doppelganger is.

P"

Even worse when it’s someone saying they have played with you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

By the waggling of your head.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone get messages like this ?

"

We got one months ago which said I saw you both in the supermarket but was too shy to say hi!

I replied good because I would have totally ignored you as this side of life doesn’t need to turn up in the middle aisle of Aldi lol

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By *carlettxWoman  over a year ago

Essex


"Hello stranger, how have you been?

Stranger danger, stranger danger.

Yeah, I've had plenty reckoning they know me, apparently I've played with a few at clubs I've never been to. I wanna know who my doppelganger is.

P"

Haha omg I get those ! There’s one persistent one that swears I met him in a club up north that I have never ever stepped foot in lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello stranger, how have you been?

Stranger danger, stranger danger.

Yeah, I've had plenty reckoning they know me, apparently I've played with a few at clubs I've never been to. I wanna know who my doppelganger is.

P

Haha omg I get those ! There’s one persistent one that swears I met him in a club up north that I have never ever stepped foot in lol "

It makes me exhale breaths of confusion and my own sanity

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By *oney to the beeWoman  over a year ago

Manchester


"Anyone get messages like this ?

"

Yep usually by bullshitters I block and warn friends off scammers like this.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’ve had a couple. Normally from picture less profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes I have and ones that say didn't we go to the same school.

I usually just ignore them

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yes, I get these messages. I send ones back saying I know one of their family members. They soon scuttle back under their stone.

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By *cented flowerWoman  over a year ago

Some where over the rainbow!

Yes I've had a few like this usually from someone with no profile pic and when questioned they become abusive. Block button!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"Anyone get messages like this ?

"

Yes and just ignore them

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By *ream3.14159Man  over a year ago

Here & there


"Anyone get messages like this ?

"

Never had one of those, but if I did I'll tell them they owe me £20 I'm sure they will deny knowing me after.

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By *ibblingnewt OP   Woman  over a year ago

by the sea


"Anyone get messages like this ?

Never had one of those, but if I did I'll tell them they owe me £20 I'm sure they will deny knowing me after."

Ooh a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes, quite a few. I've even had one message saying just my real name and nothing else. That was creepy as fuck...

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Anyone get messages like this ?

Never had one of those, but if I did I'll tell them they owe me £20 I'm sure they will deny knowing me after."

I'm sure if I did that I'd get reported for solicitation

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