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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
Just seen mine after he reached out needing some support. He commented that I’m on fire and seem so calm, content and in charge - I felt an overwhelming love for him, and happiness that we were mates and in a good place.
Is this closure?! 
How do ya feel about yours? |
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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago
Stafford |
"Let's put it this way - if I passed her house and it was on fire, I'd have to think twice about dialling 999  "
I wouldn't have to think twice I'd keep walking to grab a bag of marshmallows from the shop. (he was a sadistic twisted piece of work) and it would be karma. |
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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"Let's put it this way - if I passed her house and it was on fire, I'd have to think twice about dialling 999
I wouldn't have to think twice I'd keep walking to grab a bag of marshmallows from the shop. (he was a sadistic twisted piece of work) and it would be karma. "
He sounds a cuntbag! |
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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago
Stafford |
"Let's put it this way - if I passed her house and it was on fire, I'd have to think twice about dialling 999
I wouldn't have to think twice I'd keep walking to grab a bag of marshmallows from the shop. (he was a sadistic twisted piece of work) and it would be karma.
He sounds a cuntbag!"
He really was. But I'm much happier now  |
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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"Ex husband? We get on great. Most recent ex? He's still in a bad place and it's uncomfortable. "
Endings are funny old things.
I felt this real sense of care that he’s okay but really at no cost to me. Just genuine affection and he seemed to reflect it back despite having a difficult life thing happening. I feel quite uplifted in a way I’ve never before (it’s always hurt a bit or cost me a bit before). |
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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"Let's put it this way - if I passed her house and it was on fire, I'd have to think twice about dialling 999
I wouldn't have to think twice I'd keep walking to grab a bag of marshmallows from the shop. (he was a sadistic twisted piece of work) and it would be karma.
He sounds a cuntbag!
He really was. But I'm much happier now "
Hurrah!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ex husband? We get on great. Most recent ex? He's still in a bad place and it's uncomfortable.
Endings are funny old things.
I felt this real sense of care that he’s okay but really at no cost to me. Just genuine affection and he seemed to reflect it back despite having a difficult life thing happening. I feel quite uplifted in a way I’ve never before (it’s always hurt a bit or cost me a bit before). "
I really hope to get to this place with him. It'll be sad if its unattainable, but it is what it is. |
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ex husband no feelings either way its like it didnt happen. The guy i was with before jay ended up dying a couple of years ago. I didnt know for a year and found out by accident. It was strange because he had text me about every 6 months for 12 years and then the text stopped and i thought he had eventually moved on but no he died. Also supertwat who i lived with died. Im like the grim reaper |
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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"Ex husband? We get on great. Most recent ex? He's still in a bad place and it's uncomfortable.
Endings are funny old things.
I felt this real sense of care that he’s okay but really at no cost to me. Just genuine affection and he seemed to reflect it back despite having a difficult life thing happening. I feel quite uplifted in a way I’ve never before (it’s always hurt a bit or cost me a bit before).
I really hope to get to this place with him. It'll be sad if its unattainable, but it is what it is. "
I wish that for you. X |
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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"ex husband no feelings either way its like it didnt happen. The guy i was with before jay ended up dying a couple of years ago. I didnt know for a year and found out by accident. It was strange because he had text me about every 6 months for 12 years and then the text stopped and i thought he had eventually moved on but no he died. Also supertwat who i lived with died. Im like the grim reaper"
You’re a lovely grim reaper then! Lucky devils they were! Hope you’re well, DS xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ex husband? We get on great. Most recent ex? He's still in a bad place and it's uncomfortable.
Endings are funny old things.
I felt this real sense of care that he’s okay but really at no cost to me. Just genuine affection and he seemed to reflect it back despite having a difficult life thing happening. I feel quite uplifted in a way I’ve never before (it’s always hurt a bit or cost me a bit before).
I really hope to get to this place with him. It'll be sad if its unattainable, but it is what it is.
I wish that for you. X"
Thank you |
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"ex husband no feelings either way its like it didnt happen. The guy i was with before jay ended up dying a couple of years ago. I didnt know for a year and found out by accident. It was strange because he had text me about every 6 months for 12 years and then the text stopped and i thought he had eventually moved on but no he died. Also supertwat who i lived with died. Im like the grim reaper
You’re a lovely grim reaper then! Lucky devils they were! Hope you’re well, DS xx"
yes im fine glad to here you are |
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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"ex husband no feelings either way its like it didnt happen. The guy i was with before jay ended up dying a couple of years ago. I didnt know for a year and found out by accident. It was strange because he had text me about every 6 months for 12 years and then the text stopped and i thought he had eventually moved on but no he died. Also supertwat who i lived with died. Im like the grim reaper
You’re a lovely grim reaper then! Lucky devils they were! Hope you’re well, DS xxyes im fine glad to here you are"
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How many exes are we counting? First wife, remarried, we're still friends. Second wife, remarried, we're still good friends. Guess I'm a better friend than a husband. Several ex lady friends, serious or otherwise, still good friends. Guess that clinches it and why I'm here...…. Who's looking for a friend? |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Just seen mine after he reached out needing some support. He commented that I’m on fire and seem so calm, content and in charge - I felt an overwhelming love for him, and happiness that we were mates and in a good place.
Is this closure?!
How do ya feel about yours?"
We often see my ex and his partner, recently been to his mum's funeral and the family were very welcoming to us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm friends with a couple of my exes..we are close and have a lovely friendship. My husband gets along with them Too.
My ex husband on the other hand.... He deserves everything that gets thrown at him... Twice over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve only got one ex and that’s my ex husband, he is truly one of my best friends and Doughnuts, he is our biggest supporter and still my go to guy if I need some advice (rare). We still go to the pub and hangout with him and our friends, I’m really close to his girlfriend too.
It’s been fantastic for our sons to see their mum and dad still getting on, we were friends for 9 years before we got married so there isn’t any reason why we wouldn’t after.
If we didn’t have kids together I don’t know if this answer would be different of course but if we didn’t have kids together I don’t think we would have been married for so long, while we didn’t stay together for their sake, we definitely tried harder.
Danish x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I don't feel anything for any ex to be honest. It say hello if I bumped into them but id not stop for a chat. I don't hate though. Hating some ex only causes the person who hates pain, so I just move on and i never look back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Finally spoke to mine again today and the result was a truly amicable conversation. One I thought was never ever going to happen. Seem to be on much better terms now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let's put it this way - if I passed her house and it was on fire, I'd have to think twice about dialling 999
I wouldn't have to think twice I'd keep walking to grab a bag of marshmallows from the shop. (he was a sadistic twisted piece of work) and it would be karma. "
I'd come back with some petrol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He has a fantastic relationship with his ex.
They've grown to become friends, with her partner too.
She has a horrible, controlling, manipulate ex.
So many rotten tales abut the rotten man. |
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