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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Of my libido has created a horny monster, just when I have no way of doing anything to satisfy it. Going from a relationship with lots of regular sex to singlesville has been tough, but I'd just about come to terms with it. Then I have a meet and Boom! My toys haven't seen so much action in years.
Why does having sex make you want more sex? Why don't you remain sated for a good month to give you
time to arrange something? If I stop wanking will my libido decline to a more maneagable level?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I could fuck on n off all day n still need to wank... I assumed I was broken!  "
Do you think you could stop though? How many days do you think it takes for the urge to fap disappears altogether? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I could fuck on n off all day n still need to wank... I assumed I was broken!
Do you think you could stop though? How many days do you think it takes for the urge to fap disappears altogether? "
I wouldn't worry. You've clearly been getting some really good sex after some time off. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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I have found masturbating leaves me wanting sex. Having sex leaves me wanting more sex. If I am not going to get any (or going through a period of celibacy*) then I try not to touch myself at all.
*It took about a year before all craving went.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have found masturbating leaves me wanting sex. Having sex leaves me wanting more sex. If I am not going to get any (or going through a period of celibacy*) then I try not to touch myself at all.
*It took about a year before all craving went.
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OK, will sit on hands.
Or not! *places hands on table instead* |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It's a bloody nuisance isn't it? I've spent the past couple of months feeling like an insatiable succubus. I feel sated for a day or so after sex and then it's bam. Back. Again. Wanking is kind of like taking the edge off. For a hour or so.
You should probably start indulging in really filthy chats with your friends, wanking with them and see if that helps alleviate some of your libido... it'll definitely work.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's a bloody nuisance isn't it? I've spent the past couple of months feeling like an insatiable succubus. I feel sated for a day or so after sex and then it's bam. Back. Again. Wanking is kind of like taking the edge off. For a hour or so.
You should probably start indulging in really filthy chats with your friends, wanking with them and see if that helps alleviate some of your libido... it'll definitely work.
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Is that a promise? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"It's a bloody nuisance isn't it? I've spent the past couple of months feeling like an insatiable succubus. I feel sated for a day or so after sex and then it's bam. Back. Again. Wanking is kind of like taking the edge off. For a hour or so.
You should probably start indulging in really filthy chats with your friends, wanking with them and see if that helps alleviate some of your libido... it'll definitely work.
Is that a promise? "
Yes, yes it is. Actually, it's a guarantee. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"If any of your beautiful women need a hand, please do let one of us gents local to you help you out. "
Therein lies the dilemma with this: bad sex is worse than no sex. It fills you with anticipation of sex, gets those juices flowing and then you have the disappointing crash that leaves the craving with no satiation.
I'm not saying you're bad at sex but unknown is a risky endeavour.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If any of your beautiful women need a hand, please do let one of us gents local to you help you out.
Therein lies the dilemma with this: bad sex is worse than no sex. It fills you with anticipation of sex, gets those juices flowing and then you have the disappointing crash that leaves the craving with no satiation.
I'm not saying you're bad at sex but unknown is a risky endeavour.
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Exactly. I'd rather masturbate than act impulsively and end up with a last minute bad shag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm the same, the more I have the more I want. I find masturbating isn't satisfying enough to make a difference (unless I'm being watched and watching  ).
I have no idea how to stop the cravings though, sorry! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm the same, the more I have the more I want. I find masturbating isn't satisfying enough to make a difference (unless I'm being watched and watching ).
I have no idea how to stop the cravings though, sorry! "
No worries, I appreciate the effort *reaches for dildo yet again* |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If any of your beautiful women need a hand, please do let one of us gents local to you help you out.
Therein lies the dilemma with this: bad sex is worse than no sex. It fills you with anticipation of sex, gets those juices flowing and then you have the disappointing crash that leaves the craving with no satiation.
I'm not saying you're bad at sex but unknown is a risky endeavour.
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That’s why I like to play down expectations and tell them, look this isn’t going to be good as you think, there’s a good chance I won’t be able to get it up and if I do there’s no guarantee it will last. And if you’re thinking well he might be a repeat cummer, well I’ve got news lady that isn’t going to happen either, I’m usually out of action for a good week after I’ve blown my beans. But they are sometimes pleasantly suprised with my honed finger blasting skills.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If any of your beautiful women need a hand, please do let one of us gents local to you help you out.
Therein lies the dilemma with this: bad sex is worse than no sex. It fills you with anticipation of sex, gets those juices flowing and then you have the disappointing crash that leaves the craving with no satiation.
I'm not saying you're bad at sex but unknown is a risky endeavour.
That’s why I like to play down expectations and tell them, look this isn’t going to be good as you think, there’s a good chance I won’t be able to get it up and if I do there’s no guarantee it will last. And if you’re thinking well he might be a repeat cummer, well I’ve got news lady that isn’t going to happen either, I’m usually out of action for a good week after I’ve blown my beans. But they are sometimes pleasantly suprised with my honed finger blasting skills.
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That's good to know if ever I'm in Devon and the urge for a finger blast suddenly takes me. Much appreciated. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"If any of your beautiful women need a hand, please do let one of us gents local to you help you out.
Therein lies the dilemma with this: bad sex is worse than no sex. It fills you with anticipation of sex, gets those juices flowing and then you have the disappointing crash that leaves the craving with no satiation.
I'm not saying you're bad at sex but unknown is a risky endeavour.
That’s why I like to play down expectations and tell them, look this isn’t going to be good as you think, there’s a good chance I won’t be able to get it up and if I do there’s no guarantee it will last. And if you’re thinking well he might be a repeat cummer, well I’ve got news lady that isn’t going to happen either, I’m usually out of action for a good week after I’ve blown my beans. But they are sometimes pleasantly suprised with my honed finger blasting skills.
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It's one of the reasons I don't do spontaneous meets. I'd rather meet with low expectations, and no desperate craving, and be pleasantly surprised.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I could fuck on n off all day n still need to wank... I assumed I was broken!
Do you think you could stop though? How many days do you think it takes for the urge to fap disappears altogether? "
I dunno, it hasn't gone yet lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of my libido has created a horny monster, just when I have no way of doing anything to satisfy it. Going from a relationship with lots of regular sex to singlesville has been tough, but I'd just about come to terms with it. Then I have a meet and Boom! My toys haven't seen so much action in years.
Why does having sex make you want more sex? Why don't you remain sated for a good month to give you
time to arrange something? If I stop wanking will my libido decline to a more maneagable level?
Answers on a postcard "
If you struggling with lack of real sex I’m always willing to help a damsel in distress xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Of my libido has created a horny monster, just when I have no way of doing anything to satisfy it. Going from a relationship with lots of regular sex to singlesville has been tough, but I'd just about come to terms with it. Then I have a meet and Boom! My toys haven't seen so much action in years.
Why does having sex make you want more sex? Why don't you remain sated for a good month to give you
time to arrange something? If I stop wanking will my libido decline to a more maneagable level?
Answers on a postcard
If you struggling with lack of real sex I’m always willing to help a damsel in distress xx "
I think you've missed the point.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I could fuck on n off all day n still need to wank... I assumed I was broken!
Do you think you could stop though? How many days do you think it takes for the urge to fap disappears altogether? "
Well its been about 19 years and counting for me so ill let you know if the urge ever goes :p |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If any of your beautiful women need a hand, please do let one of us gents local to you help you out.
Therein lies the dilemma with this: bad sex is worse than no sex. It fills you with anticipation of sex, gets those juices flowing and then you have the disappointing crash that leaves the craving with no satiation.
I'm not saying you're bad at sex but unknown is a risky endeavour.
That’s why I like to play down expectations and tell them, look this isn’t going to be good as you think, there’s a good chance I won’t be able to get it up and if I do there’s no guarantee it will last. And if you’re thinking well he might be a repeat cummer, well I’ve got news lady that isn’t going to happen either, I’m usually out of action for a good week after I’ve blown my beans. But they are sometimes pleasantly suprised with my honed finger blasting skills.
That's good to know if ever I'm in Devon and the urge for a finger blast suddenly takes me. Much appreciated. "
My fingerblasting skills bring all the women to my yard. That and it’s a lovely yard, the daffodils are in full bloom already. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a bloody nuisance isn't it? I've spent the past couple of months feeling like an insatiable succubus. I feel sated for a day or so after sex and then it's bam. Back. Again. Wanking is kind of like taking the edge off. For a hour or so.
You should probably start indulging in really filthy chats with your friends, wanking with them and see if that helps alleviate some of your libido... it'll definitely work.
Is that a promise?
Yes, yes it is. Actually, it's a guarantee. "
. I've heard having an audience helps  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I could fuck on n off all day n still need to wank... I assumed I was broken!
Do you think you could stop though? How many days do you think it takes for the urge to fap disappears altogether? "
Well its been about 19 years and counting for me so ill let you know if the urge ever goes :p |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's a bloody nuisance isn't it? I've spent the past couple of months feeling like an insatiable succubus. I feel sated for a day or so after sex and then it's bam. Back. Again. Wanking is kind of like taking the edge off. For a hour or so.
You should probably start indulging in really filthy chats with your friends, wanking with them and see if that helps alleviate some of your libido... it'll definitely work.
Is that a promise?
Yes, yes it is. Actually, it's a guarantee.
. I've heard having an audience helps "
Tickets on sale tomorrow at 8:00am. |
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Bad sex being worse than no sex is a bit like the messages women here get. Loads of bad ones aren’t worth a damn, it’s only the awesome ones that are worth it.
You just need to find the bloke who’s worth it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I recently went 3 weeks without wanking probably the longest I had gone for years and the last I have sex was in February,
Watching some good TV series kept my mind of it"
.do you not jist cum in your sleep after a few days |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If any of your beautiful women need a hand, please do let one of us gents local to you help you out.
Therein lies the dilemma with this: bad sex is worse than no sex. It fills you with anticipation of sex, gets those juices flowing and then you have the disappointing crash that leaves the craving with no satiation.
I'm not saying you're bad at sex but unknown is a risky endeavour.
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Im a good shag so I’m told so nw, but yes I agree sex with a stranger is a risky unknown, sex is always better with someone you’ve built up a connection with and already know you are attracted to |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I recently went 3 weeks without wanking probably the longest I had gone for years and the last I have sex was in February,
Watching some good TV series kept my mind of it
.do you not jist cum in your sleep after a few days"
But you're asleep so it's not a problem, for me anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I recently went 3 weeks without wanking probably the longest I had gone for years and the last I have sex was in February,
Watching some good TV series kept my mind of it
.do you not jist cum in your sleep after a few days
But you're asleep so it's not a problem, for me anyway "
Yeah for me i have to change the sheets |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Of my libido has created a horny monster, just when I have no way of doing anything to satisfy it. Going from a relationship with lots of regular sex to singlesville has been tough, but I'd just about come to terms with it. Then I have a meet and Boom! My toys haven't seen so much action in years.
Why does having sex make you want more sex? Why don't you remain sated for a good month to give you
time to arrange something? If I stop wanking will my libido decline to a more maneagable level?
Answers on a postcard
If you struggling with lack of real sex I’m always willing to help a damsel in distress xx
I think you've missed the point.... "
Just trying to be helpful my dear xx |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
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If you stop wanking and your libido dies do you need to start wanking a week before a meet to ensure the furnace is firing correctly?  "
Not in my experience. Just thinking about the potential of having sex again was enough for it to yawn, stretch and say, Feed me.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"BUT!
If you stop wanking and your libido dies do you need to start wanking a week before a meet to ensure the furnace is firing correctly?
Not in my experience. Just thinking about the potential of having sex again was enough for it to yawn, stretch and say, Feed me.
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That's very reassuring |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a bloody nuisance isn't it? I've spent the past couple of months feeling like an insatiable succubus. I feel sated for a day or so after sex and then it's bam. Back. Again. Wanking is kind of like taking the edge off. For a hour or so.
You should probably start indulging in really filthy chats with your friends, wanking with them and see if that helps alleviate some of your libido... it'll definitely work.
Is that a promise?
Yes, yes it is. Actually, it's a guarantee. "
Brap, brap, brap!!!! Wanking with friends..... I think this should be a thing, especially if it's guaranteed, what a trio we would be!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's a bloody nuisance isn't it? I've spent the past couple of months feeling like an insatiable succubus. I feel sated for a day or so after sex and then it's bam. Back. Again. Wanking is kind of like taking the edge off. For a hour or so.
You should probably start indulging in really filthy chats with your friends, wanking with them and see if that helps alleviate some of your libido... it'll definitely work.
Is that a promise?
Yes, yes it is. Actually, it's a guarantee.
Brap, brap, brap!!!! Wanking with friends..... I think this should be a thing, especially if it's guaranteed, what a trio we would be!!!! "
Definitely! I'll bring snacks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a bloody nuisance isn't it? I've spent the past couple of months feeling like an insatiable succubus. I feel sated for a day or so after sex and then it's bam. Back. Again. Wanking is kind of like taking the edge off. For a hour or so.
You should probably start indulging in really filthy chats with your friends, wanking with them and see if that helps alleviate some of your libido... it'll definitely work.
Is that a promise?
Yes, yes it is. Actually, it's a guarantee.
Brap, brap, brap!!!! Wanking with friends..... I think this should be a thing, especially if it's guaranteed, what a trio we would be!!!!
Definitely! I'll bring snacks "
Do we get to eat them off body parts? |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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I broke my Doxy, my back up wand but my new Doxy has just arrived - there is a god!
Yep, sex makes you want more. Wanking makes you want more. I’m not sure I should even be sparing the time to type this.
Laters. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Go to the gym, that reduces the need to have sex/masturbate."
Really? I hate the gym because I get bored. I have a very active job so exercise isn't the issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Go to the gym, that reduces the need to have sex/masturbate.
Really? I hate the gym because I get bored. I have a very active job so exercise isn't the issue. "
Yup, a good workout can completely take the horn away, plus you'll feel great after due to rush of endorphins |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Go to the gym, that reduces the need to have sex/masturbate.
Really? I hate the gym because I get bored. I have a very active job so exercise isn't the issue.
Yup, a good workout can completely take the horn away, plus you'll feel great after due to rush of endorphins"
I've never been able to achieve that endorphin rush, and I used to workout 3 times a week  Apparently it's a lot harder for women to feel it than men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Go to the gym, that reduces the need to have sex/masturbate.
Really? I hate the gym because I get bored. I have a very active job so exercise isn't the issue.
Yup, a good workout can completely take the horn away, plus you'll feel great after due to rush of endorphins
I've never been able to achieve that endorphin rush, and I used to workout 3 times a week Apparently it's a lot harder for women to feel it than men. "
It's all about intensity. And the 'best/max' is usually a lot fruther than what we do/think we can do at the gym. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Go to the gym, that reduces the need to have sex/masturbate.
Really? I hate the gym because I get bored. I have a very active job so exercise isn't the issue. "
Jim serves me my McDonald's breakfast and I visit him twice a week.... does that count? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Go to the gym, that reduces the need to have sex/masturbate.
I find wanking reduces the need to go to the gym. "
It's a vice versa kind of thing. Same hormones are being used up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go to the gym, that reduces the need to have sex/masturbate.
Really i find the exact oposite.
After the gym i could break a bed"
I’m like that after I’ve been to Greggs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"BUT!
If you stop wanking and your libido dies do you need to start wanking a week before a meet to ensure the furnace is firing correctly?
Not in my experience. Just thinking about the potential of having sex again was enough for it to yawn, stretch and say, Feed me.
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This is me. Dead in between but absolutely on fire right before  the cravings will linger for days afterwards that make me wiggle a bit, until hibernation mode kicks in again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If any of your beautiful women need a hand, please do let one of us gents local to you help you out.
Therein lies the dilemma with this: bad sex is worse than no sex. It fills you with anticipation of sex, gets those juices flowing and then you have the disappointing crash that leaves the craving with no satiation.
I'm not saying you're bad at sex but unknown is a risky endeavour.
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exactly this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've tried 'not Wanking' But it makes things worse.
Shagging someone I fancy usually scratches the itch for a bit, carnal and emotional satisfaction.
But that's not always an option most weeknights round 'ere (or most weekends if I'm honest). So I need to be a 'Wanking Ghengis', to stop becoming 'A wanker Ghengis'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Go to the gym, that reduces the need to have sex/masturbate.
Really i find the exact oposite.
After the gym i could break a bed"
Stop using the elliptical while browsing Instagram models then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Go to the gym, that reduces the need to have sex/masturbate.
Really i find the exact oposite.
After the gym i could break a bed
Stop using the elliptical while browsing Instagram models then "
Ugh cardio ia for people who havent accepted the inevitable heart attack |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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My libido mojo left me after being on here after about a year especially since September last year. I'm sure less equals less so after a while you dont bother at all. Cardio exercise helps and I'm a cardio freak so made of that what you will..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jesus Christ if doughnut had any more wanks or has any more sex I think his dick will fall off! We’ve been at it like rabbits the last month and that’s even with meets thrown in for him!
Danish x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Good sex is a drug like any other.
It hits your pleasure zone thingy in the right places as does sugar, alcohol, drugs etc ...
Pleasure zone thingy being the correct terminology obvs
I can't stop eating, drinking and lady wanking at the moment.
I need a good fuck before my head falls of and I die!
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"Good sex is a drug like any other.
It hits your pleasure zone thingy in the right places as does sugar, alcohol, drugs etc ...
Pleasure zone thingy being the correct terminology obvs
I can't stop eating, drinking and lady wanking at the moment.
I need a good fuck before my head falls of and I die!
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Pleasure zone thingy might be the dopamine hit you’re getting. There’s a really good podcast by Mae Martin about it where she talks about addictions.
I think it’s only classed as an addiction if you know it will cause harm but you do it anyway, so alcohol and smoking are pretty straightforward, I think orgasms aren’t an addiction unless you’re having them instead of doing other stuff.
Not instead of doing the cleaning, that clearly doesn’t count |
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