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over a year ago
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So I was just wondering who openly admits they are bi to family and friends since realising from fab they are in fact bi, and who keeps it locked away with the other secrets. If a woman came onto you in a club would you bite or is it solely for swinging clubs? I’m just curious there really isn’t a right or wrong answer, same with men really? Would you go to a gay bar?
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I've been out as bisexual for a really long time now. I'm out to my family and friends and I make no attempts to hide it. It's not just a fab thing for me but it is weird being authentically bi on a site where it seems to be an experiment for the vast majority of people I've come across. |
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Family don’t know I am bi, friends do and my two eldest sons are aware, I’m quite open with them about that kind of thing, my family would be upset and wouldn’t understand that dynamic and my sister would probably never speak to me again, she has learning difficulties and it’s not something she understands.
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"I've been out as bisexual for a really long time now. I'm out to my family and friends and I make no attempts to hide it. It's not just a fab thing for me but it is weird being authentically bi on a site where it seems to be an experiment for the vast majority of people I've come across. "
That’s amazing you’re true to yourself and them! You see I’ve always known but didn’t “try it out” really till here but know I know for sure. I think since I’ve been married 6 years they would want to know how I know so clearly:s |
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"Family don’t know I am bi, friends do and my two eldest sons are aware, I’m quite open with them about that kind of thing, my family would be upset and wouldn’t understand that dynamic and my sister would probably never speak to me again, she has learning difficulties and it’s not something she understands.
Danish x"
You see that’s where this sort have popped into my head, my daughter is dabbling and feeling unsure about it and part of me wants to tell her so she knows it’s ok and you can still have the fair tail well you’re own story. I’ve obviously told her it’s ok but couldn’t bring myself to tell her. That’s great they know you must have such a close bond, yes I get that with the family, it’s 2019 but still we’re not there yet |
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"Family don’t know I am bi, friends do and my two eldest sons are aware, I’m quite open with them about that kind of thing, my family would be upset and wouldn’t understand that dynamic and my sister would probably never speak to me again, she has learning difficulties and it’s not something she understands.
Danish x
You see that’s where this sort have popped into my head, my daughter is dabbling and feeling unsure about it and part of me wants to tell her so she knows it’s ok and you can still have the fair tail well you’re own story. I’ve obviously told her it’s ok but couldn’t bring myself to tell her. That’s great they know you must have such a close bond, yes I get that with the family, it’s 2019 but still we’re not there yet "
How old is she? My sons are open with me about their sex life, sometimes I wince a little when they tell me things (nothing weird!) but I’m glad they feel they can chat to me and ask questions, I’ve always said they can come to me if they need advice x |
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"So I was just wondering who openly admits they are bi to family and friends since realising from fab they are in fact bi, and who keeps it locked away with the other secrets. If a woman came onto you in a club would you bite or is it solely for swinging clubs? I’m just curious there really isn’t a right or wrong answer, same with men really? Would you go to a gay bar?
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We were very prolific swingers for eight years and my wife played with over a hundred women one on one in that time and countless others in group scenarios . I always wondered if she was always bi , and asked her one night as we drove home after a meet . She answered by saying she isn’t bi , has never been bi , but just does it because it’s fun and that she knows I like to see it too . She would class herself as bi playful I guess .
As for telling family and friends , neither of us ever felt any of our family or friends needed to know what we did and who we did it with . None of them knew we were swingers and that’s how we liked it . |
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"Family don’t know I am bi, friends do and my two eldest sons are aware, I’m quite open with them about that kind of thing, my family would be upset and wouldn’t understand that dynamic and my sister would probably never speak to me again, she has learning difficulties and it’s not something she understands.
Danish x
You see that’s where this sort have popped into my head, my daughter is dabbling and feeling unsure about it and part of me wants to tell her so she knows it’s ok and you can still have the fair tail well you’re own story. I’ve obviously told her it’s ok but couldn’t bring myself to tell her. That’s great they know you must have such a close bond, yes I get that with the family, it’s 2019 but still we’re not there yet
How old is she? My sons are open with me about their sex life, sometimes I wince a little when they tell me things (nothing weird!) but I’m glad they feel they can chat to me and ask questions, I’ve always said they can come to me if they need advice x"
She’s 15 nearly 16, haha again nothing serious but the idea of her doing anything is bad enough!! It’s a horrible transition I wasn’t quite ready for, remembering what we all got up too at those ages :s
Yes!!! I think it’s so important having a real mum like that they can talk to, sex is a huge part of most people’s lives it should definitely be talked about. Good for you  I’ll get there  xx |
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"So I was just wondering who openly admits they are bi to family and friends since realising from fab they are in fact bi, and who keeps it locked away with the other secrets. If a woman came onto you in a club would you bite or is it solely for swinging clubs? I’m just curious there really isn’t a right or wrong answer, same with men really? Would you go to a gay bar?
We were very prolific swingers for eight years and my wife played with over a hundred women one on one in that time and countless others in group scenarios . I always wondered if she was always bi , and asked her one night as we drove home after a meet . She answered by saying she isn’t bi , has never been bi , but just does it because it’s fun and that she knows I like to see it too . She would class herself as bi playful I guess .
As for telling family and friends , neither of us ever felt any of our family or friends needed to know what we did and who we did it with . None of them knew we were swingers and that’s how we liked it . "
I’ve heard similar quite a bit, it’s really interesting isn’t it. To me you are gay, bi or straight but there are so many different levels and all just right for each individual, I would probably never be in a relationship with a woman so am I fully bi I don’t know, I would probably meet them outside of fab though |
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