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Nobody said it would be easy....but
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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.....Come on!!
Anyone else finding it difficult and frustrating to get even a whiff of a message/meet.
Not sure why and definitely open to some help. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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".....Come on!!
Anyone else finding it difficult and frustrating to get even a whiff of a message/meet.
Not sure why and definitely open to some help. x"
Perhaps its cos you are too tiny |
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".....Come on!!
Anyone else finding it difficult and frustrating to get even a whiff of a message/meet.
Not sure why and definitely open to some help. x"
Maybe they think you're married? My first thought. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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".....Come on!!
Anyone else finding it difficult and frustrating to get even a whiff of a message/meet.
Not sure why and definitely open to some help. x
Perhaps its cos you are too tiny"
Maybe you’re right  
Can a 6’ bald, tattood builder be too tiny? Hope not! x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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".....Come on!!
Anyone else finding it difficult and frustrating to get even a whiff of a message/meet.
Not sure why and definitely open to some help. x
Maybe they think you're married? My first thought."
I’m not. But what made you think that? Be good to know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else finding it difficult and frustrating to get even awhiff of a message/meet. "
No.
"Not sure why and definitely open to some help. x"
Stop trying.
It sounds counterintuitive, but the ladies can smell "desperation" like a bad aftershave.
Just go with the flow, ensure you are selective in who you message and avoid the subject of meeting for as long as possible.
The fact you have messaged in the first place is often a clue that you are interested in meeting at some point. It is a marathon, not a sprint.
Also, assess what you want from Fab. If it is just one off's whenever you are horny, put it in your profile and you'll find women who want that. If it is something more long term, be patient. The right women will wait for you as long as you are willing to wait for them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It is difficult for single men. The traditional advice is to go to clubs and organised socials.
Sometimes joining in the forums in a positive way can help too.
Good luck "
Thank you. Planning to go to the club in Chorley soon with a female friend. Really looking forward to it. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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".....Come on!!
Anyone else finding it difficult and frustrating to get even a whiff of a message/meet.
Not sure why and definitely open to some help. x"
maybe it's your location Tony, it's a difficult one to judge ,it could be the way you message ,who you message ,keep it polite with the target profile in mind eventually you will get success |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyone else finding it difficult and frustrating to get even awhiff of a message/meet.
No.
Not sure why and definitely open to some help. x
Stop trying.
It sounds counterintuitive, but the ladies can smell "desperation" like a bad aftershave.
Just go with the flow, ensure you are selective in who you message and avoid the subject of meeting for as long as possible.
The fact you have messaged in the first place is often a clue that you are interested in meeting at some point. It is a marathon, not a sprint.
Also, assess what you want from Fab. If it is just one off's whenever you are horny, put it in your profile and you'll find women who want that. If it is something more long term, be patient. The right women will wait for you as long as you are willing to wait for them."
Good advice. Thank you.
I do tend to be selective with who I message though. And I am aware of how difficult it is for single men on here.
I’ll just keep plodding along on the marathon.  |
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"It is difficult for single men. The traditional advice is to go to clubs and organised socials.
Sometimes joining in the forums in a positive way can help too.
Good luck "
I would say
It's very difficult for undesirable men , those who statistically just do not tick the metaphoric boxes of most women
I'd suggest desirable men have few problems beyond sadly having to reject women they are uninterested in |
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".....Come on!!
Anyone else finding it difficult and frustrating to get even a whiff of a message/meet.
Not sure why and definitely open to some help. x"
Age lack of pictures you can't accommodate and an average profile doesn't really make you that appealing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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".....Come on!!
Anyone else finding it difficult and frustrating to get even a whiff of a message/meet.
Not sure why and definitely open to some help. xmaybe it's your location Tony, it's a difficult one to judge ,it could be the way you message ,who you message ,keep it polite with the target profile in mind eventually you will get success "
Thank you.
I read all profiles and write appropriate and polite messages. I’ll just keep at it for a while longer.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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".....Come on!!
Anyone else finding it difficult and frustrating to get even a whiff of a message/meet.
Not sure why and definitely open to some help. x
Age lack of pictures you cn't accommodate and an average profile doesn't really make you that appealing. "
Obviously age is relative. Can’t change that. Pics I can sort so thank you. I thought my profile was ok and to the point so shows what I know.
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It is difficult for single men. The traditional advice is to go to clubs and organised socials.
Sometimes joining in the forums in a positive way can help too.
Good luck
I would say
It's very difficult for undesirable men , those who statistically just do not tick the metaphoric boxes of most women
I'd suggest desirable men have few problems beyond sadly having to reject women they are uninterested in "
That makes me feel better  |
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